Foreign Affairs › Re: Hundreds Of Fearful Africans Bused To Safe Location In Durban (Emotional Video) by Smartguyboy(m): 10:52am On May 23 |
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Romance › Re: “He Started Making Moves At Me.” – Lady Recounts Awkward Moment With Male Friend by Smartguyboy(m): 11:04pm On May 22 |
Hold story We have seen this story before here This one is just making the video |
Travel › Re: Nigerian Businessman Sold Everything And Left The Country (Before & After) by Smartguyboy(m): 3:10pm On May 22 |
justwise: He just took a shower and changed clothes, nothing much changed Even with AI still look the same . |
Romance › Re: I’m 31, she is 27. Visited 3 times with heavy pre-intimacy but no sex yet. by Smartguyboy(m): 12:32am On May 22 |
heartbraker: Good day house,
I want to drop a situation here and get some objective feedback from guys who understand the dating terrain down here.
I’m a 31-year-old guy, and I’ve been seeing a 27-year-old lady I met through a mutual friend. She has visited my apartment three times now, and the vibe when we are together is completely solid. There is clear physical attraction, extreme comfort, and high intimacy (cuddling, intense kissing, heavy pre-intimacy/touching, etc.).
However, things haven't progressed to actual sex yet. On my end, I don't believe in forcing issues, pressuring a woman, or making a guest feel uncomfortable in my space. But frankly, I don't feel convenient hosting her a fourth time just to do the same routine without making full contact. I want to ensure I'm not entering the "nice guy" box or getting friend-zoned while acting all sweet and hospitable.
She breaks communication silences to reach out and doesn't ask me for financial maintenance, so she seems genuine, but the sexual progression is just stalling.
I want to ask the elders and experienced guys on the forum:
At her age (27) and mine (31), with the green lights for pre-intimacy 100% active over three visits, what is usually responsible for this final delay?
How do you handle the final progression naturally on the next visit without looking desperate, forcing it, or letting yourself get locked into the nice guy box?
How do you differentiate a woman who just prefers a slow, respectful pace from one who lacks full sexual interest?
I want to look at this with a brutal real-world lens so I know whether to hold the line with warmth or just calmly pivot my focus elsewhere.
Let me know your thoughts, house. Have you guys discussed about sex before and is she enjoy sex and how she want it ? Answer me and I will tell you want to do . |
Crime › Re: Police Officer, Newton Isokpehi, Threatens To Shoot Anyone Recording Him On Duty by Smartguyboy(m): 4:35pm On May 21 |
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Politics › Re: Fubara Withdraws From APC Governorship Primary by Smartguyboy(m): 12:55am On May 21 |
What a shame A seating governor is as useless as nobody . |
Career › Re: Is Remote Job Hunting Becoming Too Exhausting? by Smartguyboy(m): 7:33pm On May 20*. Modified: 11:30pm On May 20 |
Oluwadare316: Really What advice can u give a graduate that wants to learn data analytics in 2026. No harm in trying It didn’t work for mr A doesn’t mean it won’t work for mr B. That my guy his sister have a remote job back then that pays $7 per hour . |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: 2025: Arsenal Are Premier League Champions by Smartguyboy(m): 12:42am On May 20 |
deanoffaculty: Which one be cheating again na? All these Chelsea and Man U fans don come again.
Join us in the celebration.... don't start spreading EBOLAtic comments in this thread. All follow Any way na way Congratulations 🎊🎉🍾🎈 Una don try sha
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: 2025: Arsenal Are Premier League Champions by Smartguyboy(m): 9:56pm On May 19 |
After 22 years of waiting and cheating CONGRATULATIONS 🎉🎊🎈🍾 |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Putin Lands In China For 2 Days Visit (Video) by Smartguyboy(m): 7:31pm On May 19 |
The evil USA will never allow any country to rise like China again that why they will do everything possible to make sure Nigeria keep electing useless leaders.
Check out nah from a PHD holder to a Waec holder from waec holder to someone without any academic background in Nigeria . |
Car Talk › Re: Avalon Vs Camry — Which Would You Pick? by Smartguyboy(m): 9:49am On May 19 |
zoedew: Those bumpers like fish mouth is exactly what puts me off the Avalon asides the low ground clearance. On Nigerian roads they scratch the ground and pull of. Not all Nigeria roads are bad nah and you can left it little bit. I did not lift mine because uyo have one of the best roads. |
Romance › Re: Sleeping With Another Man’s Wife Is Not Enjoyment… It Is A Spiritual Trap by Smartguyboy(m): 2:30am On May 19 |
autoez: Some men think sleeping with another man’s wife is flexing. They feel it proves they are “sharp”, rich or attractive. But spiritually, that act is one of the fastest ways to invite destruction into your life.
You don’t know the covenant holding that marriage together. You don’t know the prayers that man has prayed over his home. You don’t know the sacrifices, tears and spiritual battles attached to that woman. Yet because of temporary pleasure, you enter what does not belong to you.
A lot of people are carrying problems today that did not start from them. Strange setbacks, sudden failures, loss of peace, unexplained sickness, depression, constant bad luck, financial dryness and disgrace. Some battles are spiritually connected to adultery.
You cannot be sleeping peacefully with another man’s wife while the husband is crying, praying or dying inside. Life does not work that way. Even if nobody catches you physically, spiritually something follows that act.
Nowadays social media makes nonsense look normal. People clap for immorality and call it “cruise”. But there are things you do that stain your destiny quietly. Not every punishment is immediate. Some come later when life matters most.
A married woman is not a trophy. She is somebody’s covenant partner. Touching what belongs to another man because of lust can open doors you may never be able to close easily.
Young men should fear this thing. Not every woman that smiles at you is meant for you. Self-control can save a man from years of regret.
This Chike trending story should be a warning to people moving recklessly in secret. Temporary enjoyment can lead to permanent damage. If this rubbish is true then pastors and politicians won’t make it with such nonsense .
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Car Talk › Re: Avalon Vs Camry — Which Would You Pick? by Smartguyboy(m): 11:01pm On May 18 |
Mountbatten: This isn't true. 2018 has: - Better ride comfort - Refresh infotainment - More quiet cabin - Softer suspension Actually I meant the exterior. 2013-2018 there is a huge gap . |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Guardiola to leave Man City at the end of the season. New Manager named by Smartguyboy(m): 9:41pm On May 18*. Modified: 10:53pm On May 18 |
Best coach in the world 🌎 Nobody come close.
If you want to win trophies his the man for the job, just keep your money . |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Trump Says He’s Postponing Scheduled Attack Of Iran Tomorrow by Smartguyboy(m): 9:39pm On May 18 |
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Car Talk › Re: Avalon Vs Camry — Which Would You Pick? by Smartguyboy(m): 9:34pm On May 18 |
Mcslize: But somebody is saying up there that Avalon too dey get gear problem. Is that true? Maybe his talking of 1990s and early 2000s Avalon. |
Car Talk › Re: Avalon Vs Camry — Which Would You Pick? by Smartguyboy(m): 9:30pm On May 18 |
Idaytesj29: If you have money to buy these cars, fuelling cannot be your problem. Buy Avalon and thank me later.
Don't listen to Nigerians with their fuel economy mentality lol I still don’t understand why people who want to buy big cars 2010 above will be thinking of fuel ⛽️. Why not buy Camry 2000 and enjoy low fuel consumption. |
Car Talk › Re: Avalon Vs Camry — Which Would You Pick? by Smartguyboy(m): 9:14pm On May 18 |
Camry 2019 and you are thinking of resale value. Only the rich can afford that baba . 2019 cars are not for poor or middle man class oh .
You will sell the Avalon 2017 faster than that 2019 Camry .
From my experience with Avalon from 2013-18 is the same just the front bumper .
1st picture is 2013-15 have the same bumper . 2nd picture is 2016-18 have the same bumper .
You can actually buy 2013 limited and change the bumper to 2018 nobody will notice the year unless you tell them. Or you can just add little money and go for the 2019 with different bumper entirely.
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Romance › Re: What Did She Do That Made You Realize She Wouldn't Qualify As Future Wife? by Smartguyboy(m): 2:58am On May 17 |
Her ex posting her nudes online when she broke up with him. Can’t imagine seeing my wife nude online . |
Politics › Re: Trump Shares Video Of Nigerian Pastor Dachomo Calling On Him To Save Christians by Smartguyboy(m): 2:56am On May 17 |
Nobody told this usele$$ religion lunatic that the people his praying too are the number one world sponsoring of terrorist around the world ?
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Travel › Re: Is Leaving Nigeria For Europe Really Better Than Staying Back To Build Something by Smartguyboy(m): 11:51am On May 15 |
99% poor Nigerians will tell you japa is the only way but in reality over 90% Nigerians abroad are not doing very only less than 10% are doing well which many from the 10% are politicians children and few well educated people, the rest are struggling that was the reason I did not travel when I had the opportunity then because I was making a lot of money here in Nigeria but now I might think about it though.
Many of them are into content creators because that the only thing that pays well now if not nothing is happening here .
Only the rich people can afford to travel during Christmas many people can’t afford to travel some same can’t afford to come to Nigeria now . |
Christianity Etc › Re: God Opened My Eyes And I Saw Huge Cobwebs All Over My apartment by Smartguyboy(m): 4:37pm On May 14 |
Religion lunatics 😝
Is your enemy Dangote or poorer that you ? |
Romance › Re: She Chose Her Hotel Job Over Her Relationship by Smartguyboy(m): 2:14pm On May 14 |
Thewrath: They no Dey carry that hotel work play,imagine choosing hotel salary job over a a supermarket your finance (that is about going to see your people) wants to open for you…
It’s just the promiscuity in her speaking,nothing else.. There are jobs,associations,groups that couples and intending couples DO NOT BELONG TO! Not all shop is super market oh Can he invest 30-50 million to open standard super market? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Donald Trump’s Logistics Convoy In China by Smartguyboy(m): 10:40am On May 14 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Tehran Official Says 80% Of War-damaged Areas Repaired In The Capital by Smartguyboy(m): 9:39pm On May 13 |
Angelfrost: The Embarrassment of a Whole World Power by a mere Middle Eastern Nation!
Anyone who has been living isolated from news since last year, and comes back to civilisation to hear this would never believe it.
Two strong war-mongering nations getting properly resisted by a single lesser equipped nation. You forgot to mention UAE and Saudi Arabia joined the war too to attack Iran 🇮🇷. |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: How Saudi Arabia, UAE ‘secretly Attacked Iran’ During Gulf War Despite Denials by Smartguyboy(m): 12:03pm On May 13 |
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Education › Re: Meet Daniella Owoeye: The Girl Who Emerged Overall Best In JAMB 2026 With 372/40 by Smartguyboy(m): 8:00pm On May 12 |
This time around someone from west score 372 . Jamb not having any glitches again if someone from the East score that score they will be glitched. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia And Iran Use Caspian Sea Trade Route To Aid Tehran’s Drone Program by Smartguyboy(m): 4:14pm On May 12 |
Northernblood8: If they born Russia well, let them pass strait of Hormouz Olodo they pass USA blockade to send oil and food to Cuba 🇨🇺 . USA don’t have power to stop Russia if they want to do anything , the only power they have is sanctions because of the financial system them control and dollars 💵. The United States doesn’t have “magic power” to sanction countries—it has built financial, economic, and geopolitical leverage over decades that gives it enormous influence. Think of sanctions as a tool, and the U.S. happens to control many of the systems that global trade depends on. Here’s how that works in simple terms: 1. Control of the global financial system 💰 The biggest reason is the dominance of the U.S. dollar. • Most international trade (oil, goods, etc.) is priced in dollars • Banks around the world use U.S. financial systems to settle transactions • If the U.S. cuts a country off, that country struggles to trade globally The U.S. can tell its banks—and even foreign banks—“don’t do business with this country or you lose access to us.” 2. Influence over global payment networks 🌍 A key system here is SWIFT. • SWIFT connects thousands of banks worldwide • It enables cross-border money transfers • When a country is removed (like Iran or Russia in some cases), it’s like being cut off from the global financial internet Even though SWIFT isn’t American-owned, U.S. pressure heavily influences decisions.
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Career › Re: Is Remote Job Hunting Becoming Too Exhausting? by Smartguyboy(m): 9:47am On May 12 |
The pay is getting lower and people are still doing it, that how my friend working $1 per hour and his happy about it with so much stress, you will work 8 hours straight you can’t do anything else for that 8 hours.
God forbid that the reason I gave up on data analytics. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Trump Calls Iran Response To US Proposal To End War 'totally Unacceptable' by Smartguyboy(m): 8:30am On May 11 |
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