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Africa, africa!!!

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Girlwhocares:
Please help me, I'm loosing my sanity everyday!
I'm scared to open up to friends and families because of what they will think or how disappointed or bad I will make them feel, also I'm afraid people will be judgemental about my actions.

I'm not physically and emotional connected with my husband which is affecting our marriage and my well-being, we live as co-tenant, we hardly have any conversation, we do things differently, we share different rooms, no sex for the past 3 years! Even during courtship and the fist two years of marriage I can account for days we were intimate.

Things are fallen out of place everyday, we have a child together who will be 4yrs and the thought of having another child has not crossed my mind.

I get irritated at everything, I hardly show appreciation towards him even if it means he has done his best, which later i will find myself guilty and try to make up but the spark and connection isn't just there.

Most times, I have a non-challant attitude towards him and everything he does to make me happy.

I feel lonely, bored and incomplete even when I'm 90% sure my husband loves me and always ready to make me happy.

I feel awkward communicating my feelings and thoughts to him because I know I might flare up with anger even when he hasn't done or said anything to warrant it.

Please I have come to this faceless forum to pour out my mind, my heart is heavy, I need someone to talk to, I'm afraid my personal intention of walking out this marriage even when my husband hasn't done anything to deserve this might backfire and has its negative effect on our child.

I honestly don't need anyone to insult me please as I'm going through a lot. All i need is mature married wo(men) opinions

Thank you for your time.

Listen to NG INFO 99.3

Monday - Friday, from 11pm to 4am. He's a certified marriage counsellor. He'll help out am certain.

Wow!!!

leofab:
This man I love

Che of Africa!!!

Efewestern:
Show some respect bro, Thomas isn't your regular African Politician.

An average African man do not read nor abide by rules.

panafrican:
Three years ago ( in 2016)

Proudly Sankarist!!!

Justice must be served, sooner or later!

panafrican:
Whenever you travel to Montreal Canada for a along or short stay, manage to attend a meeting of a Pan - Africanist group called G.R.I.L.A
They've been working for decades to bring president Sankara's killers to justice.
Read more
http://www.grila.org/index_grila.php?gri=acc&lang=en

Really?? Does it have to take decades? The murderer is Blaise Compaoré they just don't have the might to hold him accountable.

@Lalasticlala

@Mynd44

@OAM4J

@osystein

@HumbledbYGrace

@mukina2

Let's get this to front page, Biko!

alfasexy:
Fulani people sef.

See im big nose.

Like seriously? Do you even read?

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Let our brother live his life, stop associating him with nonentities.

koyen:
CC: LALASTICLACLA Everyone needs to Learn from this True Life Story.

True story... Pai you dere!

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Ma'am, going through your post and replies. It's glaring that you're very confused.

Take your time and decide on what you really what.

You can decide for yourself, cuz a man you claim to love left you and marry another person, you were not lost oooh, you were in a relationship with him.

That only shows how confused the both of you are. You don't want to be a second wife, I bet you, there's absolutely no Joy in that.

Forget him and MOVE ON!!!!!

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Love last forever?

Love is never enof, it takes more than love to make a relationship or marriage works, a wise man see beyond that word.