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Webmasters › Re: 3d Icons For Site Design by smartsoft(m): 10:59pm On May 23, 2006
Woa ! Really cool ones oooo Damn !
Career › Re: NIIT: Are They Worth It? by smartsoft(m): 10:50pm On May 23, 2006
the little you could get from there should be N100thousand ! or there about
Webmasters › Re: Can One De-register A Domain Name? by smartsoft(m): 7:49pm On May 23, 2006
Ya depends on the Panel !
Business › Re: Where To Print Scratch Cards In Nigeria? by smartsoft(m): 7:46pm On May 23, 2006
layi where u dey i never see you for a while now wetin dey happen ?
Career › Re: NIIT: Are They Worth It? by smartsoft(m): 7:44pm On May 23, 2006
Nobody is talking about LAGOS CITY COMPUTER COLLEGE what do you feel about that school huh
Career › Re: NIIT: Are They Worth It? by smartsoft(m): 7:43pm On May 23, 2006
awwwwwwwwwww IMS Obakrawn ikeja hummm really good have gone there for details, and i really like what they are doing, though nice one ! well equipt lab, but don't know about now oo !
Webmasters › Re: Can One De-register A Domain Name? by smartsoft(m): 2:01pm On May 23, 2006
Well i know you can delete domains you register that same day or the next day,

1. Domainpeople.com
2. register.com
3. yahoo.com
4. Planetdomain
5. Aplus.net( I'm not sure about this Company, but they do such things like that which i know of before
6. namecheap
7. hostway

This are list of Domain registra that does that !
Business › Re: Where To Print Scratch Cards In Nigeria? by smartsoft(m): 1:59pm On May 23, 2006
With the little exprience i had Well i will have to say how we archive our goal, We only generate the pins from the code and you get it out and take it to the company for printing it on the scrash Card, all you got to do is. design you cards for yourself and generate alot of pins, another way is to manually do it your self by entering the pins to the Database from you Admin Area and insert them in to the DB,Then you take does pins of yours to Company.

The thing is you can create this card yourself, Hit me back
Career › Re: NIIT: Are They Worth It? by smartsoft(m): 3:55pm On May 21, 2006
Well ma friend Did Maxmedia and till now his unable to do some stuff on it,  his just putting himself through on what he has learnt so far because according to him he knows computers real well,  but the fact still remains the same,  Only the name and the certificate and notting more.
Webmasters › Visual Basic Download by smartsoft(op): 7:31pm On May 18, 2006
Please does any one knows where i can download Visual Basic from, i just need to download it and zip it and send it to someone please any idea ??
TV/Movies › Re: I Want To Become An Actress by smartsoft(m): 10:50pm On May 15, 2006
If she is still intrested, she can mail me to uc.smartsoft@gmail.com and i would hook her up with someone.
Romance › Re: Open/secret Relationship Which Do You Prefer ? by smartsoft(op): 10:28pm On May 15, 2006
Abi sade ?? I feel you
Romance › Re: Open/secret Relationship Which Do You Prefer ? by smartsoft(op): 3:31pm On May 14, 2006
curiousNja:
Source: http://iasos.com/metaphys/3d-4d/

While on the topic, here are a few other dimensions to examine a relationship on.

SECRECY
Witholding information from my partner & from myself.
With secrecy, my partner never gets to know who I truly am. Keeps me separated from the greater portion of myself. HONESTY + OPENNESS
Total honesty with my partner. With honesty, my partner gets to know who I truly am. Honesty means being 100% who I truly am.
I do not withold a comment or information just to avoid hurting my partner, or to control the relationship.
I can never really know or predict what will hurt another or how they will react to my honesty.
Therefore, I should stop assuming responsibility for the other person's emotions, growth, & reactions to my honest non-manipulative communications.

CONDITIONAL LOVE I will love you, only so long as you fulfill my needs and expectations. I will withdraw my love, if you do not satisfy me.
UNCONDITIONAL LOVE Even if you don't fulfill my needs and expectations, I will still love you. I love you for who you are without trying to change you.

EXPECTATION
I want, expect, and try to get my partner to fulfill my expectations and needs. I use my partner to satisfy my needs.
NO EXPECTATIONS I trust and have no expectations from my partner. I enjoy my partner, but without expectations.

MANIPULATION
I use obvious or hidden manipulation so that my needs will be met, and so that I can remain protected from my own fears. I only see my partner as who I need them to be, not who they really are. ALLOWINGNESS
I allow my partner to be who they need to be. Only then can I see who they truly are.

THE NEED TO CONTROL
I do not trust that everything that occurs is for my highest good. Therefore, I need to control and shape the relationship, so that it will take the form I wish it to be. I feel like I "own" my partner. ABSOLUTE TRUST
I trust that everything that occurs is for my highest good. Therefore, I have no desire or need to control my partner.

RELATIONSHIP takes Precedence to PERSONAL GROWTH

PERSONAL GROWTH takes Precedence to RELATIONSHIP.

DEPENDENCY I depend on and need someone outside of myself in order to be happy.

SELF-SUFFICIENCY
I recognize that I, and only I, am the creator of my own reality. Therefore, only I, am the generator of my own Happiness.
LESS TIME with me is not good. My partner spending LESS TIME with me is fine. If I truly love myself unconditionally, then the time spent with myself is equal in value to the time spent with my partner. I love myself as much as I love my partner. Therefore, the time I spend alone is just as enjoyable as the time spent with my partner. Therefore, it's okay if I spend less time with my partner.

ENDING A RELATIONSHIP creates PAIN & LOSS.
ENDING A RELATIONSHIP does not create PAIN & LOSS.
In realizing that this relationship is no longer serving us, we choose to harmoniously end it. We recognize that the relationship is going in different directions, and so we allow it to end, without any hard feelings. Only with love.

FEELING CONNECTED to SIGNIFICANT OTHERS.
Even if my partner is far away, or even if I haven't seen my partner for a long time, I still feel very connected to them.

ANGER AT ANOTHER (Externalized anger) I am angry at my partner for not meeting my needs!
ANGER AT MYSELF (Internalized anger) I am angry at myself for creating a reality that I do not prefer.

FEELING RESPONSIBLE for the NEEDS of my PARTNER
My partner is seeking to have their needs met externally by me, but a person's needs can never really be met by anyone else, so they are bound to eventually get angry at me, for not fulfilling their needs.

BEING RESPONSIBLE for what I would like to GIVE to My PARTNER & our RELATIONSHIP
I am pure in my intention in my relationship. I am 100% who I truly am with my partner. I am responsible for what, in my integrity, I would like to give to our relationship.
Nice one there !
Romance › Re: Open/secret Relationship Which Do You Prefer ? by smartsoft(op): 7:01pm On May 13, 2006
awwwwwwwww ! @blue thast not what i meant ooo, what i really mean by this open/secret relationship,

for instance everybody knows well that you are dating a guy/lady including your mum and your dad everybody who cares to know, knows well you are dating someone .

While the secret one is well you don't want your mum/dad to know you going out with someone, or you don't want anyone in your neighbourhood to get the feel of what is going on,

Now this days you find out that 12 yrs girls said they are dating, to me thats a secret relationship, because nobody knows they are even dating.

so to your on point of view, what do you think about open/secret relationship. ? good or bad ? at least if anyone could say something, i'm sure you helping someone out there.

Let me start by saying i'm into Open relationship. so You nko ? And again what do you think about it huh

Thanks
Romance › Re: What Is Love And What Is Lust? by smartsoft(m): 12:19pm On May 13, 2006
hummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Romance › Re: To Marry My Girlfriend He's Offering Me 2 Million Naira! by smartsoft(m): 12:16pm On May 13, 2006
yah ! thats was a good advice and if you collect that money, that means you can sell your children, shocked
Romance › Open/secret Relationship Which Do You Prefer ? by smartsoft(op): 12:13pm On May 13, 2006
what do you think about having a open relationship and secret relationship ?


1. What do you think about open relationship and secret relationship
2. which type of relationship you into.(open/secret)
3 And why do you think, that type of relationship is best for you.

abeg make u na know form paparasi here ooo just talk as e bi u.
Art, Graphics & Video › Re: How To Create A Logo by smartsoft(m): 8:48am On May 13, 2006
You need to know Photoshop or Firworks or better still CorelDraw just learn anyone, then there you go
Webmasters › Re: Possible Web Seminar by smartsoft(m): 9:32pm On May 12, 2006
well nice idea, i would be there to support you in anyway !
Music/Radio › Re: Does Kennis Music Have A Website? by smartsoft(m): 9:23pm On May 12, 2006
Well don't be susprise thier server has been Suspended, i taught they own thier server for themselves huh

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