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DimplesLikeWow:
dinner yesterday

saaphiere:
My opinion my business. How does that concern you?
I guess the photo of Tiwa rocking towel is giving him mental disorder.

Nothing hurt a man more than seeing his ex doing good and being more successful than him.

ukaface:
I want a beach wedding too

pocohantas:
If all you said is true, permit me to say, your fiancee is not a smart human. She asked how you have been coping before she came? Well, now she is there, she should make herself useful!!

Sometime ago I was having a chat with my friend. He claims to be a strong defender of the patriarchy, but I still consider him one of the most rational Nigerian men. Anyway, he asked me a question;

Him: Is it bad if I EXPECT my wife to cook for me?

Me: NO, I can’t think of any reason that should be bad. I really do hope this answer isn’t because it is an easy thing for me, but heck NO!

Him: Does it make me chauvinist, misogynistic, wicked, entitled?

Me: Lol, Noooooo

I can’t remember everything we discussed, but he said something that struck. He said, what some people call gender roles is more of ACCOUNTABILITY. Someone has to be RESPONSIBLE for something, anything and everything.

I think it is okay to have REALISTIC expectations and even in offices, we have KPIs (the organization's EXPECTATIONS of us). We try hard to meet these expectations, but when it comes to marriage, we sharpen our mouths like a beak and start whining. Yet we wonder why marriages are failing. Why everyone is single but has so much opinion on relationships/marriages- #selflove generation.

These things spur us to be better and as long as they are done with love, respect and mutual interest/understanding, I would never see any wrong in them.

Marry/date people that have sense. Your fiancee doesn’t seem to be one.

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titi4fola:
Wow!! .. it's worth stolen

Abbeytherabbit:
Car-shama dupe

seanwilliam:
what's her price

sapphiere:
We're getting there. Nigeria would be great again.
Thank you air force. Please deal with those criminals very well. roll them in the mud too.

Nickelodeon93:
i am thick and sweet in the middle.. I am a single mother.. 08033412660 call me

eddyline:
bro, Bauchi state is one of the safest states in the country. you really have nothing to fear. those stories you hear in the news about the north are not really so.

NafeesaAA:
Marshall Cave. Man made cave in Yankari game reserve

chriskosherbal:
But sincerely this guy is damn good with his hacking skills ..US can really make use of this your skills bro..