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xtervaganza:
I'm still right. Your friends won't ignore your messages if you're rich. Nobody ignores money.


Nobody has time for senseless and valueless talk. Your friends ignoring your messages can only mean one thing; you're of no value to them.

Empiree:
I'm not talking about time they have. I mean they do not have the capacity financial wise. Be sincere, nobody just wants to say "hello" from back home without demanding something. This is a fact. It is very rare for someone in Nigeria to just wanna greet you or see how your are doing. America or Europe without asking for financial favor

Volkswagen90:
u can't do that to ur Nigeria friends , creat account for ur friend in Nigeria let them pick something too

SeekHim:
A-Acknowledge the fact that you are a sinner and that you cannot save yourself. Psalms 51: 5
B- Believe that it is only Jesus that can save you. Romans 10:10, Acts 4: 12
C- Confess your sins, repent from them and be converted (Never go back to them). Romans 10: 9. Call upon Jesus to forgive you and be saved today (Romans 10:13).

Follow these steps now please! Tomorrow may be too late! Death may come, Rapture may take place before you act! Don't delay!!!

46arcadez:
They did not ignore you, they are trying to find their feet and maybe you are demanding much from them.
Until you trave out.....

PartnerusIsBack:
Would you be friends with me please? I am not seeking for monetary incentive or anything. DM if you are cool. Thank you.

Excel419:
Baba u're likely to do same if you travel. Most times you wouldn't like to read and reply a simple "Hi" from someone you know because you already assumed you will get billed as usual

Lexusgs430:
When you too port, let's see who you would remember.........

bammydhele:
Still don't get why its anyway; but I would have just love one of those in diaspora to really answer that.... The koko be say, we in Naija should hustle,,, once u were seen on media that you are doing well, they will have reason to reply or check on you

Blackmann001:
I laff very very hard..when someone says ppl abadon good friends cuz one gats to huzle while one is abroad.....

Lemme ask,which set of ppl huzles more on legit Nigerians abroad or Nigerians in Nigeria.....

Guy ppl don't sleep we don't go for outings,beaches, friends gatherings or even party...till specific period in the year..and someone says its cuz they realized they GATS huzle in their nu environment...

I laff!.... Ppl abroad trying to form "focused"... Nonsense!

Empiree:
Don't take his post personal. Your friends are going through shit in US beyond their imaginary America pre-travel.

In another word, they are now facing reality abroad.

Mo ja e si ni ooo


Ire oooo

kingsolomonjnr01:
This is all about personality.
I stay in ph. My bestie of 2017 just travelled to Lagos last year.
Guess what?
He have stop talking to me neither does he reply my chat.
Just Ordinary Lagos oh.

it's just personality... Nothing much.

womenareapes:
shut up!

we know you are looking for visa and how to get ya miserable arss outa this country hence the checking on them

go check on your Nigeria friends.

EgunMogaji2:
Though not your intention but he’s expecting the conversation to turn to begibegi at any moment. As hundreds of conversations before yours.

My suggestion is to just be yourself. Say hello to him when you feel like it. Him not responding is not your issue.

Are you religious and post Jesus stuff all the time? Do you post happy new month all the time? Do you share chain emails such as like this post and share to three people or you’ll die? I can tell you that I don’t take anyone like that seriously too.

On another note, maybe it’s age but I’m looking for all my old friends and coworkers. Some need to get rewarded, those whose parents always fed us and gave small small changes back then.

Nooil:
I had three friends, and they didn't ignore me. One even called to inform me on the day he graduated from his master's program.

I think it's best you give them space when they travel to settle down and then they can contact you or you contact them months later. Have some pride.

xtervaganza:
it's because you're broke or should I say you don't have enough money.



If you have money you won't even have time for them. And you know one thing about money? Nobody ignores money

panama789:
What kind of friends do you keep?..Who do u call your friend?...When u can answer those questions u will knw that what u have asked is senseless

womenareapes:
because you are a gold digger!

so that you will be tasking them and be saying "anything for the girls"

we guys know that you black piece of shiit are professional beggers

once we travel abroad you piece of trash will automatically think in ya fish brain that this guy will be something successful, hence the excessive chatting and using manipulating skills to talked the guy believing that you are a nice woman who keep in touch!

bittch we know that ain't gonna work hence we cut connection with useless shewolf pretending to be friend.

YOU CAN'T BE A FRIEND TO A BLACK WOMAN.

domino4211:
Could be because of your bad grammar..
If I have a friend who speaks or types like you do,I will stop replying them too..

IFEOLUWAKRIZ:
Unemployment is everywhere. We still have Harvard's and Cambridge's graduates rotting away in unemployment.

Sweetness4:
This topic reminds me of my secondary classmate that travelled out. We were good friends. 3years later he was added to our class whatsApp group chat. I commented and said hey it's been a while ooo. He asked of my name, I told him. He said he can't remember me. I was really embarrassed. Just 3years ooo. I started describing how we always gist and how we were encouraging ourselves during waec. (Shalayeing things) Lmao he said "i don't know who you are ooo". I was shocked.
Omo that was the last time we spoke.
I will travel out one day too. e be things ooo��

Youonlyliveonce:
Best Line For a Lady you see on the street

You: Hi
Lady: [Frowns] Hi
You: I can Swear I have seen you before
[That will get her attention to look at you well]
Lady: I don't think so
You: Well you look like the Angel I saw in my dream last night
Lady: [Smiles]
You: My name is bla bla by the way, what's yours
Lady: Bla Bla
You: well that name definitely fits an angel, do you mind if I have your number you never can tell I might be your future husband
Lady: i dont give out my number bla bla [or if you are cute she might give you easily at this stage]
You: don't worry I promise not to disturb you just to keep in touch that's all.

If this doesn't work come and shoot me tho your confidence is the Major player, just have in mind she can't slap you or do anything worst case scenario she refuses.

Cheers!

otipoju:
First of all...the time difference. Some of my very stupid friends will be chatting or calling me at 2 am after I have explained severally that Nigeria is most times five hours ahead of me and it's best we talk on the weekends.

Secondly... the mindset, the western world is not a laid back environment..you are constantly on your feet working to pay your bills and thinking of taking advantage of the next opportunity so you dont get left behind . "Abeg sir"no dey there if you fail to pay on the due date, you get a penalty fee which you must pay. If you dont they disconnect the service. End of story.

Compare this to Nigeria where men can chill every evening after work with beer or soccer and party every weekend until maybe 3 months to pay the annual rent then you begin hustle the money to pay rent..and can owe nepa for 9 months sef. If dem cut light you tap from your neighbour.

Thirdly most Nigerians just want to beg for money. Some if you dare give them once...dem no get shame na to dey carry problem come every month or three months. No self respect...when you compare that mindset with that of the west where everyone is self dependent you'll understand why.

I have a relative who will be sending me prayer and happy new month messages. Every 3 month he will always have one problem or project that needs support.

Recently I decided to borrow him money instead of the usual give. 3 weeks turned into three months. Na so so excuse every month. Not paid back one kobo.

Last week he sent proposal of a business plan with a voice note that he needs my support. Meanwhile there is a group that we are both on that he does not know that I am on as well that where he was suggesting to them that they contribute money for independence day party.

I just shook my head and blocked his number.

Petyprincess:
Actually those that stopped talking after traveling out were never your real friends!!
I could remember last two years my friend was traveling to Canada i actually thought he was gonna stopped talking to me nd as someone who is crushing on me but he surprised me
He told me when is flight is moving,countries his flight will be connecting nd told me to put him in prayers that he should land safely,he was so transparent with me from the day he started his visa application to when he finished his degree,from applying to work permit etc,everything literally with unlimited pictures,struggles,reality that your normal friends wnt tell you!!

I have couple of friends living in abroad that i dnt talk to because we were not so close when they were living in Nigeria,they know they can't even deceive me like gullible Nigerians that think life there is bed of roses.

Some of my friends wnt let my status rest because of their abroad based friends,you will be seeing something like "my Toronto baby" "please bring me something from Dubai o" etc

If they stopped talking to you,you should ignore them also!! you ignore me i ignore you simple!!

Obinnau:
I am in Nigeria, I haven't traveled. But I have received the same treatment from friends that have traveled. One way to look at it is to put yourself in the shoes if people outside the country.
A lot of people will usually use the guise of checking up on them to 'bill' them. Also there is a reason why they went to the abroad in the first place and it's usually overwhelming to adjust to the new place and still keep up with others.
What I would advice you to do is to leave them a voice message or call directly if you can afford it. Well... That's the way I handle my own business

SocialJustice:
Wait until you leave. No need to assume or worry your mind now.

Obinnau:
Don't judge them until you leave.
Abroad no be the same as Naija. Too much responsibilities and no time for flimsy exchange of chats

stanisbaratheon:
The man is probably dead already. See how they're rushing him out of the neighborhood to avoid backlash.

OBYNOWEST12:
Hello Guys , I want to ask a question.

How much will it cost to move a corpse from US to Nigeria..

Pimpmaride:
U r deaf.. I know