Jannuxajj:

I will try but the truth be say woman no dey my mind but konji one kill man

Then go and hook up with a hooker and pay

You just conquered a great fear, try again next time as we can't stop loving again

Nopanties:
All these people saying "never give up" is he pursuing a Nobel prize abi Balon d'or

lol

U tink we were all born wit it?
My guy suffer for that pvssy
Hahahahaha

Blackmoran:
welcome to the game, well done am proud of you, you don't have anything to be ashamed of first of all you have express yourself instead of you keeping mute and later on your bed your turn to imaginary screen writer.. secondly don't see it as a lost but rather the other way round. .. thirdly you will get more confidence by approaching girls, but let me warn you let say in a day you are to approach 10 girls the likelihood that 8 to 9 will turn you down is normal, when you asking a girl out don't be emotional about it just see it has having fun

Your head dey dere

2cribz:
Dullard. Dnt go n make money .all these stupid sfonjas dat litter everywhere with vagabond bastard children. Me stress myself over naija girls. Ogun kill them thr. Blow and on to the next. They aint worth it. They are all egocentric gold diggers with self entitlement. On road,off road,in lounge,malls,name it.

u dey para gan

Don't approach many girls and become a serial toaster!

You can have ordinary conversations with ladies without asking them out. That will get you comfortable in the company of the opposite sex and fix your anxiety..

However when it comes to asking for a relationship, avoid toasting many ladies at once because it will become an addiction and turn you into a womaniser eventually..

Just have normal conversations with the intention of making friends and then out of the friends you have made, you'll eventually find one who will be ready to have a relationship with you and when you find her, let it be for the purpose of marriage and not to have casual sex..

Jannuxajj:

Mmmm that's a good start

Guy, that shit happened to me recently..

Jannuxajj:

Hahaha you no mean am

am 25 but never chyked a gal e dey pain me

Op, 90% of ladies now no dey after grammer. Once u are loaded and dresses fine, they will smell u and come after you.

If any woman see you dress smart and with cash, in a mall, their body language will tell you who they are. Most girls will start shaking like rat wey chop indocide when dey see u with cash. Na pocket be sense. Be loaded.

Youonlyliveonce:


Best Line For a Lady you see on the street

You: Hi
Lady: [Frowns] Hi
You: I can Swear I have seen you before
[That will get her attention to look at you well]
Lady: I don't think so
You: Well you look like the Angel I saw in my dream last night
Lady: [Smiles]
You: My name is bla bla by the way, what's yours
Lady: Bla Bla
You: well that name definitely fits an angel, do you mind if I have your number you never can tell I might be your future husband
Lady: i dont give out my number bla bla [or if you are cute she might give you easily at this stage]
You: don't worry I promise not to disturb you just to keep in touch that's all.

If this doesn't work come and shoot me tho your confidence is the Major player, just have in mind she can't slap you or do anything worst case scenario she refuses.

Cheers!

Couple with that alluring smile

Youonlyliveonce:


Best Line For a Lady you see on the street

You: Hi
Lady: [Frowns] Hi
You: I can Swear I have seen you before
[That will get her attention to look at you well]
Lady: I don't think so
You: Well you look like the Angel I saw in my dream last night
Lady: [Smiles]
You: My name is bla bla by the way, what's yours
Lady: Bla Bla
You: well that name definitely fits an angel, do you mind if I have your number you never can tell I might be your future husband
Lady: i dont give out my number bla bla [or if you are cute she might give you easily at this stage]
You: don't worry I promise not to disturb you just to keep in touch that's all.

If this doesn't work come and shoot me tho your confidence is the Major player, just have in mind she can't slap you or do anything worst case scenario she refuses.

Cheers!

Guy you're a certified jonzing man smh!

Creeza:
No green light no approach. A basic rule which you failed.

anyways, next time dont stop ladies on the road. Go somewhere cool, maybe a spa, an eatery or a get together with friends. Dont rush, stop thinking about the game and become the fu*king trophy! Sooner or later, a lady will spot you and you dont want to look depressed or out of place when she does. Work on you. become comfortable in your own skin.

And if you must stop a lady on the road, dont do it the first time you see her. One, it will create awkwardness, two, make you no go carry mami water enter house.

If na konji dae hold you, then a relationship is definately not what you want, try the ALLEN AVENUE girls. Your hood babes will be difficult to smash except you can assure them you wont "kiss and tell"

But mind you, they will tell their female friends if you prove reliable in keeping your little secret. Learn this and ladies will flock to you from all corners. And may GOD have mercy on your sceptic soul.

I agree

Tonymegabush1:
There are many ways to get a lady's attention I once saw a lady pressing her phone as if she was waiting for som1, I walked towards her I ask if it was me she is waiting for, she smiled and said no, I just asked a question which she answered next was her number which she gave,

Their is always a clue around when you meet a lady just find one

bad guy

YoungLionken:
It's a good start.

Try again next time...

Hahahahaha, make una no kill person here with laugh oooo

How are you sure that the one you approached or you will approach is not a gold digger? There's a popular idealogy here that says choose a girl that chooses you.

Jannuxajj:

My job has bleeped me up socially. I find it hard to interact with people na so so code and debugging dey my head

Forget d code n debugging

Me I do code
Is just DAT u r shy

Necksonnel:
Maybe you're broke. If you're loaded the confidence will come from nowhere. This is me. When am broke I lose this confidence to approach some girls but when am loaded, I fit approach you no mata how big you are if you turn me down i see am as your loss

cruise man
You just make me remember one of my Niggaa those years

Unicorno:


If you are a programmer it means you are a lone learner, download double your dating by David de Angel(just like 90 pages but powerful),you should already know this but I would still tell you... Anything you are not good at can be learnt and mastered.

thank so much

If go to pdfdrive will I find it

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Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching.

I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone.

It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me.

I'm Happy for you cos you're honest with yourself. Now go out there and start talking more to both male and female..engage in conversations, read more books to widen your approach to life And listen to good speakers.

At last, you'll be fine

Peace

Okay. Keep it up.

Parablesonmarble:
I pray you get to meet someone nice before you become proficient at the job. Once your kind become good, they go gaga, toying with every woman in sight.

That is how ladies abi girls unknowingly push so many guys into becoming playboys.


The harder it becomes for the guy to get a girl that meets his taste, the more daring he becomes, and the more perfect and confident he becomes in wooing just any girl, and by then, ladies will start to admire and fall for him faster which will lead him into the playboy lifestyle of hit and run, which has become a societal syndrome today.


Dear ladies, you should understand that it's not easy for a stranger to admire you and also develop the courage to walk up to you to express his feelings for you, even if you are not interested in him for any reason, try and be nice not for your own self alone, but for other ladies that guy would meet, and for the guy you would love that will meet you someday who must have passed through bad experience with another girl he tried to woo some time ago.


This thing is a cycle, be nice to your chikers, unless they approached you in a rude or arrogant way, if not, there is no reason to be stupid or snubby or foolish towards strangers admiring you, it's a good thing that strangers admire you abi you want evil spirits alone to de admire you ni

Creeza:
No green light no approach. A basic rule which you failed.

anyways, next time dont stop ladies on the road. Go somewhere cool, maybe a spa, an eatery or a get together with friends. Dont rush, stop thinking about the game and become the fu*king trophy! Sooner or later, a lady will spot you and you dont want to look depressed or out of place when she does. Work on you. become comfortable in your own skin.

And if you must stop a lady on the road, dont do it the first time you see her. One, it will create awkwardness, two, make you no go carry mami water enter house.

If na konji dae hold you, then a relationship is definately not what you want, try the ALLEN AVENUE girls. Your hood babes will be difficult to smash except you can assure them you wont "kiss and tell"

But mind you, they will tell their female friends if you prove reliable in keeping your little secret. Learn this and ladies will flock to you from all corners. And may GOD have mercy on your sceptic soul.

That basic rules seems to me the most important of them all...

You have to size up a girl before you ask her...every successful gamer knows this ... With experience you'll learn to spot girls your type from observation...

And I don't get how people find it comfortable flagging down a stranger on a busy road and try and ask them out

You don't have to be disappointed, you really tried.... Just keep it up, but make sure you're genuine not that you want to play game or deceive someone's pikin

Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching.

I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone.

It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me.

Jannuxajj:

Wow it really exposed how weak I was with women

A good start...is a marathon not a sprint,so don't be in a hesitate to win her attention.

So you have never approached a woman before and you expected to score the first time?

Dont be like me, I dont waste time with women, I prefer the gold diggers, cos I prefer to focus on money and women who love money will always figure out how to toast me.

Any woman who doesnt like money shouldnt come to me.

Necksonnel:
Maybe you're broke. If you're loaded the confidence will come from nowhere. This is me. When am broke I lose this confidence to approach some girls but when am loaded, I fit approach you no mata how big you are if you turn me down i see am as your loss

another point.


When a financially buoyant guy approaches a lady and she says no, most times the guy will feel pity for the lady cos he knows that the lady just missed some bags of goodies, that's why woke buoyant guys rarely get upset when a lady turn them down, because they know that as Miss A says no to him, Miss B, d, f, r, q, p, Z, X, c,v, etc are praying for someone like him to come their way, so he only laughs at Miss A for her loss, especially if he had good plans for her.


Single ladies really need lots of prayers and spiritual guidance to open their eyes to see when their destiny helper is coming their way in the form of a stranger toaster

[quote author=Jannuxajj post=93431761]I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching.

I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone.

It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me.[let me help you bruh. Next time you see a lady walking down the street like that just use these lines. How are you doing pretty, hope you are enjoying your day? I know you haven't see me your entire life but I want to offer you a bottle of cold anything that you like. Say because you look stressed out. At least to let you know that there is sb out there who is ready to do anything for you because they simply admire you and will be ready to turn this into a relationship that will turn out to sth big and cherishable] Nb; some of these you have to say based on her previous reactions.

TimeTraveler369:
So you have never approached a woman before and you expected to score the first time?

Dont be like me, I dont waste time with women, I prefer the gold diggers, cos I prefer to focus on money and women who love money will always figure out how to toast me.

Any woman who doesnt like money shouldnt come to me.

I love this. The mindset of extremely successful guys.


And I always tell guys, there is nothing bad in a girl loving you because of your money or cars or house or whatever you have, to me I see nothing bad in it, money is made to be spent on things that give us joy.


At least the girl you approached, you liked her because of something too, could be her big ass, her legs, her height, her boobs, her shaky shaky body and all that, so guys should learn not to complain that ladies love them cos of money cos it feels good to have nri umu nnunu na acho

Jannuxajj:
I am an introvert that is into programming and I work for companies from home. I became tired of all the gold diggers I was attracting because I discovered they are only looking for sponsors so for the first time I made up my mind to start approaching.

I saw a young lady walking towards me so I decided to start with her. I greeted her and immediately she answered I didn't know what to say next thing I said was are you coming from the gym and she said no and looked at me somehow only for me to stammer and then ask for her name she just ignored me and was pressing her phone.

It bad to be sitting indoors everyday I swear loneliness dey kill me.

Programming is supposed to make you Smart, not Stupid!
The problem with most people like you is that you dont Socialise!
Go to the Church on Sunday, go to your Local Football field, go buy your groceries yourself at a Shop or Public Market, take walks in the Park, enter Public transport, go to the nearest Higher Institution around you in the Evenings, Join a Volunteer group, buy some "palliatives" and distribute to strangers.... you will meet ladies and just make FRIENDS FIRST.

Stop being MUMMY'S PUPPET.
I will slap you next time you Stammer

smiliyB:
You don't have to be disappointed, you really tried.... Just keep it up, but make sure you're genuine not that you want to play game or deceive someone's pikin

99% of the time, what pushes a man to approach a girl is sex appeal, him wan chook him prick inside her ocean, along the line, he may change course if the lady proves to offer more than sex or sex appeal.



But bear it in mind, whenever a guy approaches you, he had already fvcked you in his mind, it's not a crime, that's how men are naturally wired even though many will lie and disagree to appear holy