We gather dey, God forbid😅

KingMack:
iffa hear

Eiya pele 🤗, two things are she was messing with you by being vindictive or she has a man who stalks her.Then she got a little space she wanted to flirt/talk to someone else other than her man then the stalker bobo has found his way to her house or their house, saw your calls seized her phone too.

Fineman2:
So I met this lady 2 weeks ago in school, she came for her project work.

She showed a lot of interest during our conversation which made me to collect her number, thereafter we continued chatting on WhatsApp and calling


She later said she will be coming to school and I told her to let me know so that I will meet her in school because I live very close to our school, infact I invited her to my place but she later postponed it and said she won't be coming again and said I should visit her instead.

I wasn't prepared for such outing that day so I told her to wait till Sunday and she agreed, we continued chatting on WhatsApp till yesterday Sunday morning, she called me early in the morning to inquire if I will still visit her and I said yes, she said by 12pm because she will first go to church.

When it was 11:30, I called her and she asked if I had left home and I told her very soon, she now said I should call her once I get to a particular location and give the phone to bike man so that she will give us the direction to her place.

I left home 12:10 pm, got to the location, negotiated with okada man, called her number but she didn't pick, I called the second time, she didn't answer so I thought maybe she wasn't with her phone.

I waited for her to call back but she didn't, after waiting for awhile without reaching her, I told the bike man to carry another passenger.

The last time I called her, she switched off her phone, I returned back to my house.

She hasn't called to offer any explanation after 20 hours and I'm just surprised.

Here is my question for ladies on this forum, is what she did okay? What do you think made her to behave that way?

I'm not the type that run after ladies up and down, I hardly do such thing, I've avoided women for most part of my life and such ugly experience will surely affect the way I relate with them anywhere I find myself

Hahahhahaha jealousy😅😅

fman:
love Kee u there!!!!
This early morning, u don dey fall...
Have you said your prayers?


Modified:
I forgot that you are jobless

Honestly😅 but then it's a case of Legendary. Chidi Mokeme is a veteran actor na him be one of those mentoring zubby

DMerciful:
Chidi Mokeme finish work for that mini series. Made zubi look like a learner

Every healing starts from within you just as the mess was created from inside of you. The therapy will do a wonder but first be your own therapist. Speak to yourself that your marriage will not be the way the devil has created the fear of it in your mind. Say to yourself you will have the best partner, kids and your marriage will blossom day by day. Who said you can't have all of the things you're scared of giving up for marriage in marriage? That's not true. Marriage isn't a prison or cage. Remember in the presence of God there is liberty. Say to yourself your marriage will blossom in love and freedom of expressing yourself everyday and speak to God to make your partner align in unison or better still let God give you a partner who would align in unison. Remember God is the giver of everything that's beautiful and good (Matthew 7:11). Don't let the devil rob you off your testimony with all those fears coz that's his enterprise of destruction. Shalom😇

EriMma1:


Will it change anything? Ive grown so thick in this mindset. Marriage Is now like intrusion or even insurrection in my life or maybe how I now see it.

Kai omo the lady is selfish and wicked. This isn't love whether your brother is AA, As or SS, the freedom of choice and to choose was denied him, although he has a blame to take for not making sure everything was accurate by running another test when he had time. Who wan marry gats get time to follow up all through the preparation journey. Various of desires/motives are driving men and women to want to get into different things these days including marriage. In matters for the future proper management is required, like these are serious matters. But then a spade is a spade e no fit be hoe. The lady is SELF$SH period.....

weslay:

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This is a sad one. I pray the Child is AS.

Na wa o.. this betrayal is deep. That means she can fake anything/cover up any evil in the future. You people shouldn't make him to stay in the marriage if he says he wants to divorce.
He can still be responsible for the child regardless.

Deeprooted:
After getting the job,he was posted to one northern state where he met the lady from the south west.

In less than 6 months, he told me someone wanted to say Hi to me when he called. I heard a lady's voice. He later introduced her to me as his fiancee.

Long story short. We went for wedding and all.

At the point of delivery which the doctor insisted on her having CS due to her medical condition, my brother insisted the wife will deliver via push. It was then the doctor made known to my brother " oga you're talking as if you're not aware of your wife's health"

Omo!!! Na there my brother come say he no Sabi ooo. It was discovered she's indeed SS. I asked my brother before we went for all the marriage rites of they're compatible health wise an he answered affirmative.


After the discovery, my brother left the wife in the hospital but my dad and I insisted he gets back to her till after everything.

It was when was after the successful surgery my brother told me that his wife brought the test result from another lab, reason being that he was busy when they were supposed to go for the test together.

My brother's mind is made up on divorce.

What will you advise my brother to do?

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Na wa o.. this betrayal is deep. That means she can fake anything/cover up any evil in the future. You people shouldn't make him to stay in the marriage if he says he wants to divorce.
He can still be responsible for the child regardless.

Deeprooted:
After getting the job,he was posted to one northern state where he met the lady from the south west.

In less than 6 months, he told me someone wanted to say Hi to me when he called. I heard a lady's voice. He later introduced her to me as his fiancee.

Long story short. We went for wedding and all.

At the point of delivery which the doctor insisted on her having CS due to her medical condition, my brother insisted the wife will deliver via push. It was then the doctor made known to my brother " oga you're talking as if you're not aware of your wife's health"

Omo!!! Na there my brother come say he no Sabi ooo. It was discovered she's indeed SS. I asked my brother before we went for all the marriage rites of they're compatible health wise an he answered affirmative.


After the discovery, my brother left the wife in the hospital but my dad and I insisted he gets back to her till after everything.

It was when was after the successful surgery my brother told me that his wife brought the test result from another lab, reason being that he was busy when they were supposed to go for the test together.

My brother's mind is made up on divorce.

What will you advise my brother to do?