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Elantracey: Sorry o but ah dont see anythin touchin or powerful in dese pictures

cant believe you just said that.

O my God!

so touching. dint know when a tear dropped.

see those little children also...

I see nothing wrong cooking for the man you love.

I enjoy cooking for him, i dont even wait for him to ask.. I always make sure there is something to eat.( thanks to deep freezer)

Police talked to Obih’s boyfriend, who revealed that he’d texted and called her multiple times but never heard back. The last message he received from her was at 12:17 p.m. on Sunday, Nov. 17. When she failed to respond, he went to her apartment, saw her car in the parking lot and knocked on the door. Obih didn’t answer.





From the above statement, she had a boyfriend.
If she actually dated Klug, i doubt if her boyfriend would allow her share an apartment with him.

May her soul rest in peace.

Well, haters keep hating.
I strongly believe Ujay competed with other schools. so why the beaf?
If they dont carryout the project then we can call them names....but for now i see no reason why they should be insulted.

Proudly a josite.

Jman06: Proudly a Josite! I doff my hat to the greatest citadel of learning. Great Unijos!

Greatest Josite!

I am very happy to hear such of my school. I only pray the money will be used for its purpose.

tensor777: That is not the point. He is being sentenced to death for ARMED ROBBERY not for stealing and certainly not for the value of what he stole.

Ok.

obviously she doesnt have any records of their conversation.

well, its not too late to have at least two, she could also chat with him and save all they talked about.

thank God we have different social network. There are a lot of ways to set him up.....

she needs enough evidence to pin him down.

You guys should talk to the Landlord.

something similar happened to one of my uncles who recently moved into an apartment in ph.
few days after he had settled, PHCN brought bills accumulated by the previous occupant
after all said and done, the Landlord sorted it out with them.

Research has shown that Comet ISON is very close to Mercury,so its a bit far from earth. We just pray it doesnt get close to earth.

May her soul rest in peace.

After been recently robbed at my street, i feel no pity for any thief...armed or not.

They should all be punished for causing pain on people.

It could be that he wants to pay all the money after ur POP.

I served in Rivers State and we were paid a huge sum after our POP.

Had the experience twice.
First was a day to my birthday (last year).I was in a taxi on my way home from work,got home and realised my nokia E63 wasnt with me. I was so confused cos i couldnt explain how it happened.
The second one was this month. On my way to work, I noticed a car behind me moving as if it needs a push...before i could blink my hand bag was snatched from me...n i just bought a samsung S4 which was in the bag with other vital items(I.D card, driver's licence, etc)...i later went to the nearest police station to get an extract...the mumu people said "ah this boys them sef, na their time o".. i felt like giving the officer a slap. i was later told to go get an affidavit first,which i did. well, im over the phone now cos i got another.

I believe so much in communication. If i were you, I'd go to her ( that is if u love her that much) and have a long talk with her, ask her questions..... frm there you can make ur decision.

My partner can have access to my phone...he may want to browse,watch a movie or game....

But to scrutinize my phone? wel, i dont see a reason why he should.

nice one Spyder. May God bless the work of ur hands.
welcome to PH,enjoy my town.

THIS MESSAGE SERVES TO PROVE HOW
OUR MINDS CAN DO AMAZING THINGS!
IMPRESSIVE THINGS! IN THE
BEGINNING IT WAS HARD BUT NOW,
ON THIS LINE YOUR MIND IS READING IT AUTOMATICALLY WITHOUT EVEN
THINKING ABOUT IT. BE PROUD!
ONLY CERTAIN PEOPLE CAN READ THIS. PLEASE FORWARD IF YOU
CAN READ THIS

Wow! that woman doesnt sound normal to me.
How on earth can someone be proud of such?

I have two and he likes it.

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Will own one

mimicue: No [b]I don't [/b]that's why I'm seeking for advice

If u really dont want to, then my dear u have all the answers to ur question.

chunny01: Yes na, some girls like over load na y dem dey put silicon 4 d artificial ones

o boy, this one is horribly terrible o...

i no fit shout

chunny01: She is definitely some girls admirer

Admirer? for real? lol

Cant stop laughing

wel, its good to help the less privileged.. lol

I wonder how some people reason. After making all those unnecessary order,does it make her look better?

400k is a lot of money. Its very good to trust o but,verify.

It could be that the way she presented the agreement stuff was wat made him angry. Else, i see nothing wrong in wat she did,given the said amount.

They should have a long but matured discussion and come to an agreement. They are adults n im sure each knows wat is good for him/her.

you are welcome. Im glad someone learnt something from it. God bless u too.

Leopantro: thanks for sharing.

u r welcome

Seth Adam Smith and his wife, Kim been married a year and a half, and Seth just realized: marriage is not for him.



He realized it’s MUCH more than that. This is a recent entry from his blog. It’s well worth reading.

Marriage Isn’t For You


Having been married only a year and a half, I’ve recently come to the conclusion that marriage isn’t for me.

Now before you start making assumptions, keep reading.

I met my wife in high school when we were 15 years old. We were friends for ten years until…until we decided no longer wanted to be just friends. I strongly recommend that best friends fall in love. Good times will be had by all.

Nevertheless, falling in love with my best friend did not prevent me from having certain fears and anxieties about getting married. The nearer Kim and I approached the decision to marry, the more I was filled with a paralyzing fear. Was I ready? Was I making the right choice? Was Kim the right person to marry? Would she make me happy?

Then, one fateful night, I shared these thoughts and concerns with my dad.

Perhaps each of us have moments in our lives when it feels like time slows down or the air becomes still and everything around us seems to draw in, marking that moment as one we will never forget.

My dad giving his response to my concerns was such a moment for me. With a knowing smile he said, “Seth, you’re being totally selfish. So I’m going to make this really simple: marriage isn’t for you. You don’t marry to make yourself happy, you marry to make someone else happy. More than that, your marriage isn’t for yourself, you’re marrying for a family. Not just for the in-laws and all of that nonsense, but for your future children. Who do you want to help you raise them? Who do you want to influence them? Marriage isn’t for you. It’s not about you. Marriage is about the person you married.”

It was in that very moment that I knew that Kim was the right person person to marry. I realized that I wanted to make her happy; to see her smile every day, to make her laugh every day. I wanted to be a part of her family, and my family wanted her to be a part of ours. And thinking back on all the times I had seen her play with my nieces, I knew that she was the one with whom I wanted to build our own family.

My father’s advice was both shocking and revelatory. It went against the grain of today’s “Walmart philosophy”, which is if it doesn’t make you happy, you can take it back and get a new one.

No, a true marriage (and true love) is never about you. It’s about the person you love—their wants, their needs, their hopes, and their dreams. Selfishness demands, “What’s in it for me?”, while Love asks, “What can I give?”

Some time ago, my wife showed me what it means to love selflessly. For many months, my heart had been hardening with a mixture of fear and resentment. Then, after the pressure had built up to where neither of us could stand it, emotions erupted. I was callous. I was selfish.

But instead of matching my selfishness, Kim did something beyond wonderful—she showed an outpouring of love. Laying aside all of the pain and aguish I had caused her, she lovingly took me in her arms and soothed my soul.

I realized that I had forgotten my dad’s advice. While Kim’s side of the marriage had been to love me, my side of the marriage had become all about me. This awful realization brought me to tears, and I promised my wife that I would try to be better.

To all who are reading this article—married, almost married, single, or even the sworn bachelor or bachelorette—I want you to know that marriage isn’t for you. No true relationship of love is for you. Love is about the person you love.

And, paradoxically, the more you truly love that person, the more love you receive. And not just from your significant other, but from their friends and their family and thousands of others you never would have met had your love remained self-centered.

Truly, love and marriage isn’t for you. It’s for others.


Saw that and thought I should share.

I wonder why people derive pleasure in causing pain to others. she should be dealt with.