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CrimeRe: Police Arraign 47 Alleged Homosexuals In Lagos by Soler(m): 9:16pm On Nov 28, 2019
Awon gay grin

SportsRe: Photo Of Lionel Messi Receiving Yellow Card by Soler(m): 9:03pm On Nov 28, 2019
Refree: Guy you too day dribble people,warn yourself

Messi: No be me talk say make them no sabi naw grin
SportsRe: Anthony Joshua: 'I Want Everybody To Bow To Me When I Beat Andy Ruiz' by Soler(m): 9:12pm On Nov 22, 2019
Guy win first make naa
RomanceRe: How Do I Move On From My Ex by Soler(m): 9:02pm On Nov 22, 2019
Ehhn relationship analyst uote author=OladimejiRufai post=84268509]Beautiful OP grin

In this case, I have three things to share with you or I want you to consider or reason when making a choice.

The first is, I think in this case, it's a matter of what you wish for and how much capacity you have to withstand the downsides of what you desire.

- it's a matter of what you wish for because - the human heart was fashioned in such a way that it is always longing for what it likes. Although the human mind may influence the body to do something contrary to what the heart longs for because of some reasons but it's quite difficult to stop the heart from longing for that thing.

this is what played out in your life. Your mind thought that that guy wasn't good for you and you were influenced to walk away from his life. But what happens after that? even though your mind may be convinced the guy isn't good for You, your heart cannot stop yearning for the guy simply because you love him.

- then it's a matter of how much you can withstand the downsides sorrouding what you desire. This is simply because it will be FOOLISH for any human to go ahead to follow his desires if he is convinced that desire or wish will lead him to doom. So how much you can withstand the downsides must also be considered.

So what exactly do you wish for OP? for it is achieving what the heart wants that make the heart happy and settled and if the contrary happens, it causes the heart to be restless and sad. So who out of those guys do you WANT, that would cause you not to be longing for another person while with him and will cause your heart to be fulfilled, happy and settled and not the opposite?

Then secondly, I want you to understand that in life, there are times that, to do the right thing and to be safe and free from problems, one must give up on his/her heart desires. Because in life, it's not everything you want you get and in life, there are times you desire something but that thing is not GOOD for you.

So OP, think thoroughly about that ex of yours that you wish for? What is it gonna be like if you go back to him? What problems are you likely to experience, what's the degree of the likelihood and how much can you withstand his troubles? Think very deeply if going back to your ex will be good for you or bad? If it's bad, then you need no one to tell you that you must give up your love for him and cut off communication with him.

Then the third thing is, I want you to understand that there's nobody that cannot change. In this life, we were created and mandated to perform all that's righteous and right and refrain from all that's wrong. And we have also been created in such a fashion that we can achieve doing the right thing and giving up all bad character if we are determined to do and give it its due requirements.

So every human body can achieve righteousness if it's determined. every bad habit can be given up. This has happened in the lives of many people.

So I want you to understand that your ex can change cause there's no one that cannot change. But still, the likelihood of him changing must be put in consideration.

So your ex can be helped to change and he can change for good and if he does, that way, it will be a total win for you.

so these are the three things I want you to consider.

Remember I never suggested anyone of them for you. I only gave you three things you should consider and I want you to use your sense to do the right thing.

I repeat, USE YOUR SENSE!!!

bye bye!!![/quote]

PoliticsRe: Amaechi Says FG Willl Build $800 Million Seaport In Warri by Soler(m): 10:09am On Nov 22, 2019
A very good one from federal govt, this will ease the stress on the sea port at Apapa,Lagos.
SportsTuchel Unhappy With Neymar's Madrid Trip by Soler(op): 8:45am On Nov 22, 2019
PSG head coach Thomas Tuchel says he is unhappy about Neymar's decision to attend the Davis Cup in Madrid.

The Brazilian striker has been out of action with a hamstring injury since the start of October and made the trip to Spain during the recent international break as a guest of former Barcelona team-mate Gerard Pique.

It was a decision which disappointed Tuchel, who said: "What can I do? I'm not his father. I'm not the police. I'm the coach.

"As a coach, am I happy with this trip? No, not at all, it's clear. Is this the time to get mad? No, no, it's not the moment. He was very professional here for two weeks. He did more than the others."

He added that the Brazilian striker is in contention for a return when PSG host Lille in Paris on Friday evening.

"He has trained with the group, he has individual work. And if everything goes well, he can play tomorrow (Friday). We have to decide if he will start the game or be a substitute."

PoliticsRe: What Is President Buhari Telling Oshiomhole In This Picture With Lyon? by Soler(m): 8:55pm On Nov 20, 2019
Buhari said "Oshiomole abeg how many state we don win now? We must win every state so i go run for third term"
EducationRe: Mother Of Queens College Student Who Fixed Lashes Attacks School Security by Soler(m): 1:12pm On Nov 20, 2019
Parents are not taking education important as they should again. Why will a secondary school student go to school with eye lashes and you still have the guts to go and harass the school staffs angry
PoliticsRe: Ebenezer Babatope: Jonathan Will Regret Working For APC's Victory In Bayelsa by Soler(m): 6:42pm On Nov 19, 2019
One of the reason why we need the bill on hate speech
CrimeRe: Rape: Adedojah Bah Bags 3 Live Sentences Plus 76 Years by Soler(m): 8:14pm On Nov 14, 2019
Lmao this man alone can't serve his jail term. He needs three of his family members to complete it.
PoliticsRe: A Boy Sleeping On A Pile Of Dirt In The North. Photo Goes Viral by Soler(m): 8:05pm On Nov 14, 2019
While our leaders are sleeping in the best of places all over the world embarassed.. It will get to a time when the masses will have no option but to feed on the rich
PoliticsRe: Akeredolu Mounted A Billboard For Yahaya Bello In Kogi - Photo by Soler(m): 11:16pm On Nov 13, 2019
Like you cried after the general election
SportsRe: How Do I Stop Betting? by Soler(m): 11:08pm On Nov 13, 2019
Firstly, take away your mind from the fact that without bet you won't get big money or you want recover all the money you've lost and lastly get something to keep you busy.
CelebritiesRe: Zlatan Ibile Pleads With Funke Akindele To Feature Him In "Jenifa's Diary" by Soler(m): 10:59pm On Nov 13, 2019
[Lmao��quote author=Joshmodest post=83997115] He should beg Nickelodeon to put him on sponge Bob square pants ....
Jenifa diary , is a bit too high for his intellect !![/quote]

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