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Exgee:
Hi everyone!

Doctors, Pharmacists and other Medical experts in the House, please help me out. I can't seem to understand how my body system is reacting to lack of sex anymore.

I've abstained from sex for exactly four years now. I decided against going into any relationship with any lady since my last encounter with my ex. And I don't patronize hook-up girls because I can't imagine having sex with someone I don't have any atom of feelings for. I Also do not believe in sleeping with random girls, reason I stayed away from sex until I'm ready for marriage. Another major reason is that I don't use condoms during sex, so I've got to be careful with whoever I'm getting down with.

Some nights, I would have wet dreams, get up to the bathroom to wash myself. I don't masturbate. Last night I had a wet dream again as i slept and laid on my stomach(Sleeping posture), in the middle of the night, I noticed my d**k was rubbing the mattress thoroughly and I noticed something discomforting, when I noticed what was about to occur, I tried to quickly jump off the bed, but unfortunately, while in the process of jumping off, I ejaculated profusely & uncontrollably. My semen was very thick as I checked my boxers. I got up and went straight to bath before going back to bed. I was so angry about it.

Today, I'm now feeling pains in my scrotum and it's a bit swollen too. After I finished bathing this afternoon and was trying to dry my body, I noticed semen coming out but looking like pre-cum.
I need some advice on what to do, and how to go about this please.

The bible says we shouldn't indulge in Premarital sex cos it's a sin. You guys preach against Masturbation cos some see it as a devilish act. While others say it can cause erectile dysfunctional issues. So I don't know what to do. I'm just between the rock and the hard ground now.

Is there any Drugs I can take to inhibit the activities of these stubborn semen?
Again, how do Reverend fathers cope without sex throughout their Lives?
I need answers.

Your symptoms scrotal pain, swelling, semen discharge could be caused by a medical issue like an infection, inflammation or pressure from long-term abstinence—not just from not having sex.
Wet dreams and spontaneous ejaculation are normal, especially during long periods without sex or masturbation.There's no safe drug to stop semen production or ejaculation. Your body releases it naturally.Celibate men (like priests) also have urges and wet dreams—they manage it with discipline, spiritual focus, and support.You're not sinning or weak because of what your body is doing involuntarily.

DeepSight:
Nope. It also happens when he cant get the one he truly loves. He settles for another quite often.

What is now the difference?
Can you be forced to marry someone you loved before
If you are to marry someone you don't love then you are being forced to
Man up bro!

benydy:
Not just women both sex

The only way it will happen to a man is if he is forced to get married

TechBaron:
Inter Milan to win.

Inter Milan to keep a clean sheet!

Full time draw

Full time draw
But PSG would win at extra time or on penalties

Haydens:


So ordinary conference League cup that chelshit won they are using it to buga, very very pathetic of them!

If Frank lampard, didder drogba and the likes saw the future of what chelshit would look like they would preferred to play Enyimba F.C.

Maybe in the future if the win UNITY cup they'll add it as a part of their achievement in football maybe as the only European club that went to Africa to win unity cup.

RONALDO and Messi were even happy not to win even Europa because they're are aim at stellar performance, those are what we call the toppest of the top dog.

Some clubs will intentionally disqualify themselves from winning Europa because that's not what they are dreaming of how much more 2nd division conference League cup.

Maybe Chelsea is a 3rd class club.

Bro is writing PhD thesis in jealousy just because Chelsea added another European trophy to the cabinet, while his own club is still busy winning vibes and preseason shirts 😭.

You’re shouting ‘Chelshit’ like your club isn’t still begging for Carabao relevance 😭. Drogba and Lampard wey you mention — them lifted Champions League and still have more career trophies than your whole club history. Imagine using Enyimba FC to insult Chelsea — Enyimba sef go sue you for defamation 😭.

And you say Ronaldo and Messi were ‘happy’ not to win Europa? 😂 Bro, they were busy losing in it! Ronaldo didn’t even make it out of the group 💀. If stellar performance na your metric, your club dey orbit Pluto.

Chelsea = 3rd class club? Lmao. Yet still richer, more decorated, and more feared in Europe than your ‘Harvard FC’ of trophy analysis 🤡. Go and drink water, your hate is dehydrating you

AndroBlaze:
I am an Arsenal fan, making money is not everything.

However, Chelsea fans should know they are too big to be making so much noise about this kind of trophy, or did their shame leave with Abramovich?

Lmao Arsenal fans always talking like monks after fasting from trophies for a decade 😂. Bro said 'making money is not everything' like his club no just build stadium and forgot how to win silverware 😭.

And as for Chelsea being 'too big' — big enough to win the trophy, small enough for Arsenal to still be allergic to finals 😭. Your shame no leave with Wenger, it retired with him 💀. Focus on topping the Fair Play table, that's the only thing Arsenal dey win consistently 🤡

Nijaforward:
The fact some Chelsea fans doesn’t understand is football is about money and trophy but no big teams will ever prefer to play in the conference league than the champions league….all top European teams will swap winning the conference league to the semi finals of the champions lea because of the fact that Champions league is far more prestigious but the Chelsea fab will not want to hear the truth…they will prefer for Chelsea to win Nigeria premier league than to be in the Seminfinal of Eufa Champions league 😄😄😄😄

You typed a whole essay with broken English just to tell us you are allergic to trophies 💀💀. You really thinks reaching semi-final is better than actually WINNING something. That’s like saying you’d rather be best man at someone else’s wedding than groom at your own.

Also, who told you Chelsea fans prefer Nigeria Premier League? Abi na your village spirit whisper am for dream? 😭 Go and rest jare, even your analogy dey bench itself out of shame.
Conference League > Champions League semi if your cabinet is empty — ask your club if you’re confused. Don’t be forming philosopher with Fulham-level IQ. 😭💙

HEAVEN4444:
none is better. They are complementary to each other and not rivals or competitors. Bill gates is Scorpio and pisces. That's why he the godfather 😀

I have lunar pisces

HEAVEN4444:
pisces is great. They are full of wisdom. TPowerful wisdom.

Pisces or Scorpio,which one is better

Even the president is collapsed already

HEAVEN4444:
ahhhh very intelligent questions and the answer to both is YES

That's cool to hear
What can you say of pisces

HEAVEN4444:
lol strongest what ? The only house in the zodiac sign where the giants occur is Scorpio. It’s the only house represented by 3 spiritual entities and it has the royal star Antares so it’s a house of royalty. The three entities are the eagle phoenix and scorpion. No other house in the zodiac has that . When you are talking of stronghead though Taurus na hin carry trophy 😄😄😄😄. Nah am joking you know taurus is also a house of fallen royalty . It has the royal star aldebaran. Only 3 houses in the zodiac have royal stars. Scorpio has Antares Taurus has aldebaran and Leo has regulus

Will the fallen royalties return to Scorpio at the end of the day?
And also, is Leo also a house of fallen royalties

HEAVEN4444:
Taurus is everywhere. My mom is Taurus and my twin flame . Two strong women. Very strong lol

of course we are the strongest in the zodiac sign 💪

HEAVEN4444:
Hehe that's most women na after see finish enter

True.
Well i have a Taurus sister and am Taurus myself and we are actually the children trying in the family
Though my Taurus sister is very much financially stable.We fight as well though but I can see our energy matches well

HEAVEN4444:
haha so why you dey run now ? 😄😄😄😄

she is rude and selfish

HEAVEN4444:
lol yeah listen who get money to dey chase babe for this tinubu era ? But as per this babe when she tire to dey play games she would eventually leave you alone. Be like say you nack am like nackson

but truth be told she is good in bed

HEAVEN4444:
hmmm it's a good question bro lmao. Carry potmato japa go Canada. Not Toronto oooo, she can find you there. Enter Winnipeg or Sasquatchewa 🤣🤣🤣🤣

She no even get the resources to japa
Omo I no get time for any babe again
You see any fire sign people,fear them

HEAVEN4444:
hehe is she arrogant ? Or is she psycho ? I think she is psycho. If she was arrogant she would have moved on and blocked you. Arrogant people have some dignity. But yeah leos are great stalkers lol. She go stalk you till she devour you. Make you keep Cutlass under pillow oooo my guy Solo 😄😄😄😄

But seriously what can I do to stop her from that stalking because am afraid she might try anything funny though
You know these women and how dangerous they can be

Mariangeles:
Please permit me to laugh. Hahahahahaha

Lol honestly my friend was laughing as well.Am even afraid of her now because I think she is more experienced than I do.
Coming to dating older girls,I have been kind to drawn to them even from secondary school
The Scorpio lady is still cool with me though.We make video calls and we have settled before she travelled
I don't know what to do about that Leo lady

HEAVEN4444:
first of all dating older ladies is a spiritual taboo lol. It will stall your life. Look at macron ? France had Africa on lockdown, 14 African countries paying colonial taxes till macron came in with his older woman na that time all the African territories begin break out one by one. So older women na taboo but notwithstanding you say she is Leo so she is a predator which is why she is stalking you 😆😆

Omo I was so surprised when I found out she was the one and I can't tolerate those Leo traits she is starting to show up.I hate arrogant women
I don't even want any relationship again for now. And I really need to work on dating these older ladies but this younger girls of today don't have those decent qualities I want in a lady because most of them are something else these days

HEAVEN4444:
go ahead Chief

Am common to dating older ladies.First it was a Scorpio lady who was five years older but right now she is out of the country
Right now it's a Leo lady and this particular Leo one I have asked her out but her behavior is something else
She became rude and careless
Am scared of anything Leo at first but because she looks decent I decided to go for her
Well I broke up with her few days ago and she has been stalking me with a different social media accounts and reporting me here and there

HEAVEN4444:
Why Taurus men should avoid Taurus women in a relationship or marriage. So taurus are like the cosmic avengers. Their job is to put affliction on people carrying past life karma. So in essence they are like the nimrods and they are powered by the brightest star in the night sky Sirius. So this is a dark house hence why it houses the star alcyone. that star represents ' the fallen '. So these beings reincarnated into the Taurus constellation are repelled by 'fallen ' beings and their instincts when they encounter such beings is to attack and attack and attack. Like they can be very pugnacious in their attacks. And so Taurus men apart from being powered by Sirius are also powered by the plaeides while Taurus women apart from being powered by sirius are powered by aldebaran which makes the women stronger and more vicious than the men and so a taurus man and woman will be in a situation of constantly attacking each other till they eventually destroy each other and the woman will always win because she is being powered by a stronger star in aldebaran. and so it is very important for these two to stay away from each other. And its important you get these compatibility readings before getting a partner so you know what you are about to get yourself into. humans are more than the flesh. Humans are powered by electromagnetic energy from the sun and the stars. some of these entities are powered by say for example the demon star algol etc and so with this reading you know what you are getting yourself into so you dont end up being destroyed by getting with an incompatible person

I have something to share with you here

HEAVEN4444:
Chief we dey hang in there. Emile o corn wan kee somebody with high prices 😆😆😆😆

you are very funny 😂😂😂😂
I have something to share with you on that Taurus woman thread sha

HEAVEN4444:
😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆 Solo baba kilonshele now ?

I dey oo my oga
How your side

NewHe:
I wonder what will happen to them when they see their master, PO pledging loyalty to PBAT!

PO won't pledge loyalty to PBAT because that's the game.If PBAT pledges to PBAT now publicly, the game will not be sweet again.i hope you understand my point
Most people don't know that these politicians are just using the brains to play Ludo

HEAVEN4444:
Lapalapa

haa🙄

These things no they freak me honestly but congratulations to him

You can actually hide wealth when you decide to keep your cool without any fame and when people don't really know who you are
I am a very good example but I don't want to reveal too much
What I want you to know is what you will know

Growing up in Nigeria and later spending time in the United States has opened my eyes to the striking differences between the two countries—not just in terms of development, but in lifestyle, values, and day-to-day realities. Both countries have their strengths and weaknesses, and living in each one has taught me something different about life, people, and survival.


1. Let’s start with something every Nigerian knows too well which is NEPA (now PHCN). In Nigeria, power supply is unreliable. We depend heavily on generators, inverters, and candlelight. You might be in the middle of watching a movie or cooking, and boom—light goes off. In contrast, in the U.S., power rarely blinks. Electricity, water, internet, and even roads are taken for granted because they work almost all the time.

2. Surprisingly, both countries can be expensive.lt just depends on what you're earning. In Nigeria, even with a small income, you can still find a way to survive,buy food in small portions, cook with charcoal if gas finishes, and improvise a lot. But in America, life is more structured. Bills are steady and unavoidable—rent, insurance, taxes, and credit card payments. If you miss a bill, it affects your credit score, which is a big deal over there.

3. In Nigeria, we hustle with our blood and sweat. Many people work multiple jobs, do business on the side, or rely on “connections” to survive. In the U.S., people also work hard—sometimes two or three jobs—but there’s more structure. You know your salary, your pay date, and your rights as a worker. In Nigeria, people sometimes go months without pay, especially in government jobs. Yet we still show up because "e go better."

4. In the U.S., almost everything is digital—shopping, banking, ordering food, even seeing a doctor. You can do almost everything from your phone or laptop. Nigeria is catching up, but we still love cash, POS agents, and face-to-face bargaining in the market. But the good side? Nigeria has human connection. There’s always someone to talk to, someone willing to help. In the U.S., it can get lonely if you don’t know anyone.

5. Security in Nigeria depends on where you live. In some areas, armed robbery, kidnapping, or police harassment is common. Many Nigerians don’t trust the police. In the U.S., police presence is strong and sometimes overwhelming. However, for Black people, especially immigrants, police encounters can be nerve-wracking too. But generally, if you call 911 in the U.S., help arrives fast. In Nigeria, you might end up calling your neighbor or a vigilante instead.

6. Nigerian food is unmatched—jollof rice, egusi, suya, puff-puff… No contest. In America, the food is more diverse and fast-paced. People eat a lot of processed meals or takeout. Cooking every day is rare because of tight schedules. But one thing you’ll appreciate in America is hygiene—clean environments, food safety rules, and consistent water supply.

7. In Nigeria, everyone knows everyone. Your neighbor’s business is your business. Family is everything, and there’s always a sense of “we.” In America, people are more private. Everyone minds their own space. It’s nice when you want peace, but it can feel cold when you need emotional support.

Living in Nigeria teaches you resilience. You learn how to survive against all odds. Living in the U.S. teaches you structure, planning, and independence. Nigeria has heart. America has systems. In the end, I’m grateful for the lessons from both worlds. If Nigeria can get its act together in terms of infrastructure and leadership, it has the potential to be one of the best places to live.

So this are what I can see from my personal experience

So what should we do with this news now?

Hello fellow nairalanders, remember this thread I posted few days ago https://www.nairaland.com/8428017/just-broke-up-girlfriend
This lady has been reporting me to my friends and particularly my elder sister who liked her so well.My sister challenged me on why I would do that claiming she is a good girl.
She is always checking my status on Whatsapp and I had to block her
How can I keep her shut permanently