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HEAVEN4444:
king Solo baba. Eku ijoko Sir 🙌🙌😁😁

HEAVEN4444:
lol every man get some form of punishment. Nobody is perfect na 😏😏😄😄

Probably reason why we are here.Even if everything is going smoothly, It's either you lose a loved one to death or someone who loves you lose you
Life can be cruel

HEAVEN4444:
😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 is the wise man na. Same man in both text. Both of them love astrology too. That is their divinatory tool. So you are blessed with the spirit of Solomon Orunmila. Yes you are 😏😏😄😄

Yes I am

HEAVEN4444:
Hmmmmmmmmmm you know say a man and his wife na like 2 peas in a pod. The woman reflects his misdeeds and punishment from heaven, if you nack the man wife all his punishment has transferred unto you. The man is now free. Na you go carry the man punishment as inheritance

What if the man has no punishment

HEAVEN4444:
Who lied to you that the ancestors never heard about God ? They called him Olodumare. Mary is Osun. Devil is eshu. Solomon is Orunmila etc etc. white man just change the names

Solomon orunmila kee 👀

bigpicture001:
I read this piece early in the day but was very busy... I promise myself to come back and also advice u...

First, I want u to know that ladies are ladies ..like the same..only a few things differ from.person to person..

E.g, looks, carriage and class...

1.Looks: for looks it is usually natural and not by effort of most ladies..

2. Carriage: the way sh carry herself like her eloquence, dress sense, smell, commands respect and being vocal...

3. Class : is mostly about her level of education, level of income, and level of exposure...

Now come.to think of these..it is highly possible this ur said colleague has two of the three listed .I have not seen her looks, so can't tell..


Now come to relationship, I have dated and dated and come to know ladies alot. U see dat one day has chosen to like u naturally, plz stay with her..if sh meets ur candy...stop chasing after ppl dat will giv u headache..

Reasons..

1. Sh will make things easier for u

2. Sh will easily condescend to ur leadership

3. Sh will b totally helpful without reluctance in ur time.of need both physical , health wise and financial

4. Sh will later forgive u if u wronged her and genuinely apologize to her...

Guy ,stay with her and try to live only ladies who love u....not. Those u convince to love u..

Yes .it is true that when u date her, attention at the branch will b in u guyz and it may lead one of u to b transfered and in the time.of marriage one may lose the job...don't worry..

Her family that found her that job plus ur own connection will find her what next to do..good women are not to b let slip away..

Plz dnt dat stingy girls or difficult ladies all in the name of ego... relationship is not an FBI schemes or compensation for dominance in the house...

Plz dnt let that girl slip away

I have taught about this too be because only the girl that approached me in secondary school then, I shunned her off.I don't have the resources to look after a lady then but I felt sad for her.Growing up I begin to understand better about life and relationships and this particular lady has done it again emotionally (she is very emotional)
So I want to keep her.We have talked about our job and the thing is I can't work as an employer forever as I will also want to stand on my own.She is even assuring me that if anything happens to the job (God forbid) she has enough connections for a better job but am not relying on that as I have my own goals
Thanks for the advice sir

KillahPriest:
dominated how ? That only happens when you allow it to. Immediately handshake crosses the elbow, you cut it off and consistently cut that handshake by setting boundaries. Even Basiratu alagbo will try to dominate if you give her the chance talk less of this lady in your office and once they can control you, it's over. Stop any nonsense you see immediately and if it's what you can't condone or she repeatedly refuses to listen then, bounce. Tell her to carry her craze go front

PS,avoid office romance sha

The love is growing already and am kind of confused sef

Anijay1212:
Mr you are playing with fire.
And it seems you don't like your job anymore.
Please abort the mission because it will only end in premium tears. 🥺🥺🥺

Aborting this mission will be very hard because am growing into it already but I will apply common sense sha

essentialone:
You are extremely lucky to be in 2 trains that most guys have never ever experienced before.

1. To be liked or loved first, by a Lady.
2. To be asked out or told I love you, first by a Lady.

I have never ever experienced both. So, lucky you. At a time, I even kept aside 10million Naira for the first lady who would ever do so to me, whossai, no one even look my side.

But guess that is no longer possible.

But all the same, enjoy your experience. Many of us wished for it but never had it. Na only Oloshos naim dey approach us, if we Waka pass wrong places at wrong time. But as for other ladies, na we dey always do the approaching. Made me to conclude that most Nigerian ladies are either too shy, too naive, or too cowardly to approach guys and express their feelings without being promoted or approached first. They would rather go to Shiloh and other Churches and waste time praying for a particular guy to approach them, instead of walking up to the guy and be open about how they feel

Honestly I haven't experienced it too.This is my first time and the love is even growing because I never really like her I just admire her feminine energy and her backside lol

I think I need to get some parrots for my personal use

Brazino:
What's the rationale Behind our doctors telling patients not to eat for a few days after a surgery is been carried out on them?
If doctors in other parts of the World like In Europe, don't tell their patients so, then why is Nigeria's different?
Could it be due to Technology?

It is probably because of postoperative complications like temporary paralysis of the gut and leakage at the surgical site in the intestines
Well, the Nigerian approach is often based on outdated caution, lack of ERAS adoption, and limited resources for close monitoring. In contrast, Canada follows modern evidence showing that early eating is safe and beneficial for most surgeries

BrosG007:
If she brings more tasks, please complete everything without hesitation, lol.

Jokes apart....go ahead. You don't have anything to lose unless becoming boy boy..... certainly obviously she will be the one leading the relationship.

What if, you play reverse engineering. Don't say you will think about....say you want to focus more on your job. Beside workplace relationships get as he be. This doesn't seems like it will lead to something serious. But take the shoot with sense. This wan wey everybody don know...lol

Just make sure you chop... before closing

My fear is been dominated in the relationship in the future

Hello fellow nairalanders, trust your day is going well
There is this female colleague of mine at work who buys stuffs for or me time to time especially when I help her out with a task.So yesterday was her birthday and she did a party at her home and we attended the party.She told me she likes me and won't mind if I can be her lover.I like her to a point as well and another thing is she is from a rich home though am ahead of her in the banking system but I haven't experienced this before.No girl has shown me love like this before.Sometimes, when we go for lunch (because she likes going for lunch with me) she never allow me pay her bill.Sometimes she will even pay mine and my fellow male collegues have encouraged me to ask her out but I don't really fancy relationships at work before she made it clear to me yesterday and I am scared she is not trying to set me up sha because I have being applying some red pill energy around me of recent 😂
What would you advise me to do yo

Can only be one don

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HEAVEN4444:
Hmmm well journey well. It's the cycle of life. You return to your star constellation or galaxy. Go and await the next redeployment

What will his next reincarnation look like
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Prettygirl200:
Enter house go warm eba chop oga, Strict pill ni, strict tablet ko.

So if I am your brother you go advise me to dey mumu for women abi

lionshare:
Sad! The club needs to start monitoring these players beyond the football pitches—they should have some sort of official assistant whose job is to keep them in check always.

Official assistant wey never check himself go fit check another person ni

So like a week now,I have been applying the very strict red pill treatment around me but I noticed that, women don't like it but it's effective in a way that profited me.But I can really see the society has given power to these women in a way that manipulation is now in their gene, blood and everyday life.
Well, ain't stopping soon because I have a purpose to achieve on it.

HEAVEN4444:
What kind of request is this ? So even in death this man did not consider Nigeria his country. It's a very big problem. When two major tribes do not consider Nigeria their country, it's a huge problem. If two major tribes do not believe in a country, the country is dead. These guys will partake in activities to destroy the country. This is why the government budgets billions of dollars every year to send people to Saudi Arabian for hajj. That's why a major politician lives permanently there and only shows up during election season. That's why there is massive looting because these entities consider the country a foreign entity to plunder. Then we have the man who thinks the Lord lugard contraption is illegal. All these turncoats in our midst ? How can the country progress ?

You are on point 👍
Well said

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harsysky:
I can only believe you when I read your wife's comment. People only blame others but themselves. When the wife says her own, alot would be shocked that they even believed the one the husband wrote. When you hear from both parties, you can easily know who is at fault.

Listen to me.It takes a lot for a man to come to an online forum to discuss about his life challenges without any one asking him.

Peakdesign23:
Start by taking her out on a date, somewhere that is not too crowded and noisy, once in a month, she'll definitely love it.

I believe for you to get married you must have known your partner to some extent.Why marrying an introvert in the first place when you know you will not be able to cope with her
Isn't that dumb?

SapaProMax:
I believe like every simulation,there is always a next level. Hence the modern lingo Level Up.

I believe if you live well and die well, you will Level up so to speak but of you don't, at death, you'd reincarnate and live all over again with the limitations of being human. That's the real punishment

What of people that fake their real self to please people

SapaProMax:
Live well, die well.

Unluck next stage.

If not, reincarnate with absolutely no prior memory and try again.

Please explain this
I don't really understand it

logicalhumour:
I'd rather submit to my wife instead. As in do you know how privileged you are to have that beautiful woman as a wife? Even if she's ugly, do you know how many men will die to get all up in that puss? Bro....

I actually do my wife's laundry, solely take care of our children (I'm not sure if the first and last ones are for me, but I'm grateful she's with me).

I thank her literally every day and pray for her, and beg her not to leave me. I love her so much bros...

I earn more than her, but my whole salary I give to her so she won't get mad one day and leave me. Other woman find me very attractive as I'm what you'll call well-built and handsome, but I'll never look at them.

My woman is unique and different for every other woman. SHE CAN TAKE MY LIFE BROS...

Okay continue Washing her pants and bra
Them no dey tell person

Peakdesign23:
It's his choice but he shouldn't have brought it to public. Shameless man.

If he didn't bring it to the public how will you conclude he is a shameless man