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RomanceRe: Facebook Ad Expert Needed by Solzate(m): 3:10am On Feb 22, 2021
Cammama:
I have a small business desperately in need of clients, how many people can I reach via Facebook ads with a budget of 10k?

Please comment below if you have experience running Facebook ads
Contact me on whatsapp let me run ur add on a website,trust me you will definitely have massive turn up, depends on the product or service you are offering tho

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RomanceRe: Crushing On A Friend From Afar by Solzate(m): 10:52pm On Jan 16, 2021
stevemagnus2020:
hello guys,
how are you all doing today? please i need your advice concerning this very issue that has being bordering me recently.
there is this female friend of mine,we attend the same church and i know her through this church.
we have known each other for a while now,though just from afar. i.e.when we see at church,we just greet and communicate little and nothing more.
just of recent i notice i started developing feeling for her and i dont really know more about her.
i find it difficult telling her cos i dont really know much about her,most especially i dont know if she single or married and what her reaction will be if i tell her about this.she is cool and calm lady.she dress well and modest...guys what do you think of my intention? reasonable advice pls.
Simple just ask her out,she won't kill you.
Worst she can do is to reject,but I have a feeling she won't reject you.just have a positive mind set and ask her out.

And stop saying you want to study her first before asking her out, cause a sharp Guy can ask her out before you say Jack Robinson.
Ask her out tomorrow okay.
RomanceRe: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Solzate(m): 6:13pm On Jan 15, 2021
Serene123:
Please I will need your constructive opinion on this. Been battling with this thoughts for some time now.

I engaged my girl last year. Reason why I did engage her was because I saw her intent to be with me. I have seen her gave out her cash to help get somethings for our new apartment. She has even used her cash to buy some properties she wants in the house when we get married.
She has stood and defended me to her family on why she is getting married to me. She has really earned my trust and never regretted engaging her. She is one girl that every man will like to have as wife

In the course of our relationship months back, I noticed there is this guy that call her. I questioned and she said is just a friend. I have told her I am not comfortable with the call. Yes I have listened to the calls and it doesn't sound serious
On 25th Dec I place a call across to her phone and she wasn't picking. She later told me reason why she didn't pick.
While we were together I noticed she didn't pick cos she went out with the same guy I have been complaining about. I got to know via a pic.
She has insisted nothing serious is going on.
I was so angry and I needed to take her phone and check up something. We struggled with the phone and she injured her nails.. She is saying I am a woman beater and I have anger issue.
She started keeping to herself and phone and was bold to tell me that this action of mine has succeeded in killing the feelings she has for me.

She has asked for time to get her mental health back and for close to two weeks now we haven't been flowing well..

I have tried to talk to her so we fix this shit but she said she needs time.

I have decided to give her the time she needs while I focus on something else. Yes, I miss her

I won't lie, is emotional for me and someone is currently trying to fill her vacuum by being all nice. I am getting closer to her, but my heart still yearn for my fiance.

I don't know if I am doing the right thing by being close to another lady. I don't know if I should belivee her that she has lost feelings for me and move on.
I need your advise.

Sorry for the lengthy thread
My Man from what you wrote here it clearly indicates she's cheating on you,but let's not Rush into conclusions yet.
first things first don't let love blind your eyes or blind your sense of judgement.
Call your woman sit her down and tell her your mind let you guys settle .one of the best ways to win a battle is by keeping your enemies close (not saying she's your enemy ooo),
Now she believes you guys have settled,now make sure you try as much to monitor her every movement.
always check how many minutes she spends on a call with that guy.now make sure you give her no reason to suspect you are monitoring her,let her believe you are a fool.
With time you will get all the evidence you need..
Then it is Left you to take the best action you dim fit.

But if you ask her for reconciliation and she still decides she wants some time to think,my man just leave her alone let her think till eternity.

Now let's be realistic she's really cheating on you with that Guy,like that Guy is really banging her cuchi real good..most women in relationships nowadays tend to have backup guys just pray you not the backup guy.

My Man all road still leads down to her cheating on you, cause for her to put up this behavior she's getting real close to that other guy. Na person wey like person dey call steady..so just try your possible Best to move on with your life so when she finally decides to break-up you would gladly accept majestically.. but no long Cap you can equally break up now ..
I am sure that Guy just wants to play her and chop puna meat last last it Will end up in sweet tears for her just break up with her
RomanceRe: Pla Help..how Do I Boost My Self Esteem by Solzate(m): 9:20pm On Jan 08, 2021
Cashsteady:
ngl anytime I'm in the midst of my friends I don't feel shy to with girls but when it's just me alone I literally just get clueless and won't even know what to say
That's why I said get out of your comfort zone, try talking to girl when you are not with your friends.. let me tell you a secret, women are very easy going creatures, also if you want to talk to women go for the pretty ones, The ones that are beautiful go for them.just be free with your self
RomanceRe: Pla Help..how Do I Boost My Self Esteem by Solzate(m): 6:04pm On Jan 08, 2021
Try going out,get out of your comfort zone.
Visit malls, cinemas ,restaurant any where you can find girl's in ur area and just talk to them freely they won't kill you, trust me

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