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Hi SOULSEARCH, I tried sending the mail again. Hopefully you would see it this time. But my email addy is sonitadion@gmail.com would be expecting your message. Take care

Hello... I sent you a mail. Can you please respond. Just to talk. I feel you

I remember when I announced to 'friends' that I was getting married. Some of them dey vex, proper binu saying "why would u get married now? You are too young" and all those bullcrap. Now, 70percent of them are envying me. 29percent are angry I didn't invite them for my wedding (even after I don do my 1yr wedding anniversary). Some say dey wan still flex small (no problem). 1percent think they wouldn't be able to stand the stress of marriage wt school, (which is very understandable). Inside that 70percent, 50percent were bold enough to tell me dem go like marry now if dey see who will marry them,some say make introduce them to my husband frnds (god forbid lol).... That 29percent, dem go dey der dey vex, I go born 3children leave them, it's my first daughter that would be their chief bridesmaid when they are marrying at 40 - dey vex after dey don insult my decision finish.... So my dear, if ur guy is understanding, go for it. I wouldn't advice you to hold off on the child bearing till u finish school- make God bless you as he wan take bless you. Mk e no bi say after person don go the school finish, the person would be going from one crusade to another looking for "fruit of the womb".
Oh btw, I was the first of my classmates in uni that got married. After I did, 3 others followed so now, we many for class

ify84: u must be a very reasonable girl... all ur contributions are wonderful ...its even better to finish giving birth to children at 30-35... den look fresh for ur husband ever... he wont get time to look out...

My thots exactly. Have all my kids early and still look fresh. I started at 20, hopefully, by 26, I'm done having kids then I get to work on myself ... Ppl talking about marrying at 30/35 no know wetin be menopause

I'm wondering, as infant formula milk just expensive anyhow, isnt it okay to feed the baby with peak milk? I tried feeding my 9month old with loya milk in custard the other day, I was expecting some kinda reaction but she was very cool with it. I think it's more economical. 1kg sma follow on= N3500 and it would last for like 2wks, ie, 7k a month.... Peak same size, 1700 ... What do u guys think?

I was 20 and in 200L when I married last year and I'm enjoying every bit of it.I Have a baby now- I had someone helping me with her so it's not been difficult. my school is like 45mins drive from my home. It's not very easy having a baby in school but for me, I would say it's worth it. If not for this stupid strike wey keep me for house, I would have been preparing for final year. If you truly love ur man and he's a good guy and he's not the type that would stop you from going to school, my dear go for it oh and when you do, attach yourself to ppl that are married with babies in ur school so you would learn from them cos you need to prepare your mind. Ehn, make friends with your coursemates too, very very important lol. Goodluck

I was 20 and in 200L when I married last year and I'm enjoying every bit of it.I Have a baby now- I had someone helping me with her so it's not been difficult. my school is like 45mins drive from my home. It's not very easy having a baby in school but for me, I would say it's worth it. If not for this stupid strike wey keep me for house, I would have been preparing for final year. If you truly love ur man and he's a good guy and he's not the type that would stop you from going to school, my dear go for it oh and when you do, attach yourself to ppl that are married with babies in ur school so you would learn from them cos you need to prepare your mind. Goodluck

Ah shoes first... Then earrings next