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makavell7:
You people should be careful about all these fake and evil news you spread about! I watched Clarks interview on AriseTv from the start to finish and no where there was EK Clark calling for an extension of Buhari tenure.
What Clark said was that we must throw away the current 1999 constitution because its an evil document with a lot of things inserted there in favor of the devious nigerian elite and wicked political class. He then went further to reveal that do we know that under this 1999 constitution that provision were inserted there for extension of Buhari regime for 6months if the insecurity situation in the North continues before election .and if the condition persist the useless national assembly would be adding additional 6 months to eternity.

This was the concern Edwin Clark raised and he did not call for and extension of buharis government. Stop these fake and malicious reporting Pls!

Exactly! They're just twisting the man's statement! Someone that has even given up on this government now wants to extend his tenure, the man is tired sef

He did not say so! I watched the interview! They're just twisting his statement!!

It's a pity that many people won't learn! But the question is why hasn't any couple died during sex rump? It's always through adultry

Sars on the beat! The return of sars!

Etinosa1234:
Ohh thanks bro..
But it’s still enough for Aussie visa

Their spousal visa which is the most expensive is 8,000 dollars.. He can do Aussie visa

How can one process the spousal visa for Australia?

I can see my house from there!
This project started under Jonathan govt. You should have seen the speed at which this building was being constructed! The foundation was a sight to behold, very solid, the floors were quickly rushed too. All of a sudden a snail driver took over and work became so slow (one year one block.)
I don't think they will commission this project even after Buhari's govt because they are very comfortable in the rented office along sapele road because they won't be free money to share from the yearly rent...

Those people recording that incident are wicked! Why couldn't they push the man off his neck!
If it was in Nigeria those police guys for no go home in peace! I can bet my life on that

Not surprised, we saw this coming

Haba... Why na? Did he break any rule on the platform?
We need to know

Hi

Iampearly:
When did it become a crime for someone to be polite?
Personally, I feel she was just being that,polite. Atleast she didn't lie about having a boyfriend.
I would have done same not to hurt anyone's feelings.
You persuaded her to have sex with you on the 1st date or just to see her?
I feel the op is just insecure and really needs to grow up.

Wait ooo am I the only one that noticed the op didn't share his chat with her here but shared hers?
For any sane person, which I feel the op's girlfriend is, to reply that way when she obviously didn't do anything wrong shows that He must have said some horrible things to her.

How sure are we he hasn't done such and even worse to her for her to sound so upset.

Op got what he was looking for. He was probably tired of the relationship or is suffering from severe self esteem issues and wanted to pin the breakup on her.

Anyways, what do I know sef?

Iampearly

We had no issues whatsoever, we even spoke earlier in the day, guess I'll screen grab the chat if u guys want to see it

Ugmama:
Op I will advise you but before then answer my question?

If the table was turned, what would you do (reaction?) or say?

I will definitely turn down such advances when I know very well that I never met some one like that. A female friend of mine even called with a different number and tried playing such stunt on me on certain time, I had to be inquisitive that she opened up and revealed herself.
Now this issue may seem like I have trust issues but I never did, I only wanted to play a prank to spice things up but it backfired.
The reply is what stunned me and I decided not to respond, just let her be, if she comes back calling fine, if she doesn't, no problem...
I should feel disappointed because sounded so flirty like she was looking forward to seeing this person, that's why I had to just open up at that point, didn't want to go any further

Sunisonflex39:
OP come.. I had a thread like this here on nairaland,
I Bin never GET sense then.. I posted my matter here thinking nairalanders will sympathise with me.. for were? the bashing give me SENSE by force..




OP, don't worry, after we finish with you, you will GET sense by that force..

Hahahaha, bro the bashing dey clear my eyes like pass hypo

nsesam:
No matter what, you acted immatured and childish. Why can't you trust her and be happy with yourself Afterall she isn't your wife. What makes you think she didn't know its you even after hearing your voice? She told you she has a boyfriend right? The call was uncalled for

Yes, I know it was uncalled for, but I just got carried away with the prank and got burnt.. Just wanted to make fun of her like we used to. I've learnt my lesson and have to move on. I even expected her to block me but she hasn't, she's among the first to quickly check out my status. I'll just have to ignore her for now, guess the relationship will end from there

bimgo:
Are you faithful to her too?

Very faithful. But guess shit happens and this is just one of them. Too bad that I've learned the hardest and most embarrassing way. Funniest thing was we spoke not quite long and she's always the first to say I love you... That made me to be faithful and love her more. Guess I gave out my heart to the wrong person. If she ever loved me as she claimed then I wouldn't have gotten such horrible reply...
Life goes on bro

sunshine1974:
It is over, move on Bro!!! That girl doesn't give a fucck about you, no single respect.

Allah kawo good yanrinya for you

Amen! Lol

Roheemah04:
You be mumu man

Any girl here can fall for this sh*t!

She told you she has a boyfriend buh doesn't stay in town..
What more duyyu want?
She might just be friendly with the guyl!

If she had prank you with a beautiful and endowed friend of her ...to seduce you won't you fall for it too?

If truly you love her ..tell her you're wrong and don't play such prank on her again...

Forget negative comments here..

Wish you best of luck�

Thanks Roheemah04

Gofwane:
I hate guys like this OP. Always making hoes feel like they are tractors or caterpillars

Just imagine. Even after what happened, you are here asking us to tell you what to do. Please go and drink sniper and rid the world of one Mumu

Bro no bashing, it's just an experience I wished to share, nothing more, so why the insult. If u have nothing to say just ignore and move on

CIOSYLVA:
You spoilt everything...

You would have try to ask if u would sleep over her place and probably have sex with her... If she agrees then give it a little time and call her u are junction.. allow her to come outside looking for you..

Now u started what u can't finish.. no tangible evidence...

Very true, I was so quick to open up, I regretted coming up to early because right now it's like I have no evidence. But for she to say such things to me after all we've been through really got me, I was about calling but as I got those replies I just had to stay off. I was even expecting her to block me but she hasn't, guess I'll just ignore everything for now

Gadafii:
Leave her make she be bro, she was dating u but open to other guys that's what this means, but if a girl u have dated closed to a year couldn't detect ur voice even tho u faked it, then she never held u in high regards, sorry bro u was dating ur self


I don't think she was serious with you the way u are with her,if not she could have just said she knew it was u so she flowed well with you,but she doesn't even know ur faked voice to start with


Move on bro,u might be dodging a deadly 56mm sniper bullet

Hmm, and we were planning to see and spend the week together. It's a pity

[quote author=laiza post=85779375]2020 just started and you already took not only the biggest mumu of the year but of the decade too. Na ten years be decade oh, make you know say you fit no get competitor for the next 9 years and 14 days.

LOL, I reject that award abeg bro, but u won't blame me, emotions were running high. My judgment got over clouded at that moment

[quote author=LieDetector post=85778745]I'm not gonna ridicule you for your actions because I know the emotional energy you've invested to see your relationship come this far. I'll tell you the truth anyway. Wether you have a concrete evidence or not, it's obvious your girlfriend is open to meeting other guys. As a guy, if there's anything you need to develop in this relationship terrain, it is NEVER to trust any woman. Take all those love they profess to you with a pinch of salt. Never get emotionally entangled in any relationship so when shit hits the fan, you'd be able to dust yourself up without any scar. Dude, I know it's hard but forget about your babe. Channel this energy into something productive. Once she sees you no longer got her time, she'd call to tease you about this incident and shit but bro. Be a man. Never fall for those gimmicks. The goal is to make her leave you and move unto someone else. You deserve better bro.

Thanks. I know I was quick to conclude but getting such reaction just threw me off. Someone who professes love every now and then just spewed all those words one me. Means she never loved nor respected me at all

heffem:
Hey guys, the Op acted according to his level of understanding and he needs help/advice now and not some bashing pls..

Thanks, I was just carried away that she could fall for such silly joke, that's why I just opened up immediately and that's how I got the reply

Hi guys,
So I'll be very direct and summarize this as possible. But please bear with me if I get carried away...

I've been been dating my girlfriend for a year now and we are very serious and I'm even considering proposing to her, but we are not based in the same town.

So I called her with another number last night, she couldn't recognize my voice cause I sounded different, so I decided to play around cause we gist and make fun of each other a lot. So I acted like I was someone who got her number and is trying to toast her.

She asked who was speaking and I said Victor, that I got her number when I saw her in the bank, we were on the same queue, so I copied her number from her teller, she laughed and all, so after all the lines I poured out, she was just laughing and flowing along, so I asked if we could see that night, but she said it was late but I had to persuade her, so she agreed that I instead come to her place to see her. "This is someone she hasn't met before and she agreed for him to come see her at her place, in the night for that matter".

So I asked for her address and she gave out her real address, asked if she has a boyfriend and she said yes but we ain't in the same town.
I got upset and had to open up and ask why she's cheating on her guy? At this point she was mute and ended the call. I called back but she didn't answer anymore.

So I just dropped a message on WhatsApp that I was disappointed.

Her reply was devastating: she wrote;
"keep your disappointment in your pocket.
Don't even get me more angry.
Just do yourself a favor by not ever mentioning me in your mouth again.
Remove everything that has to do with me in your phone and life.
Rubbish.
No be only disappointment.
Grow up.
Comot for my front make I see road jor..."

I haven't replied her yet, don't even know what to say to her right now, thought about calling her but my brother told me not to, that I should just free her. Please guys what should I do?

Moderator please help me move this to front page...

Tables have turned

Now Ole is next to go...