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[/b] @ zimdrill, i was aluding to the earlier link posted by MzDarksin which shows some ugly homeless looking Jamaicans. I did see your vid about the benin chick, loooooooool. why was she quoting God and Invoking the holy spirit earlier on and then planing on killing some dude, then ended up giving BJ |
[/b] @ MZDARSKIN I watched ur video link, i don't mean to be judgmental, but y r Jamaicans so ugly and looks unkept?, be it the ones in NY-NJ-PA and Uk it's all the same YYYYYYYYY?.I would have easily mistook those pple in the video for social rejects, [b] |
[/b] @farxiya, konjo means beautiful in amharic, i typed that 'cause i wasn't sure if u r somali or abesha (ethiopia), what part of the U.S. r u? [b] |
[/b] @Op just let her be, ladies tends to learn from experience, you can advice her from now till thy kingdom come, it won't make any difference. He might be a dik-head and pooney chaser; but might not be a bad dude afterall. She's in a better shape to read btw the lines, I'm pretty sure she will figure sumthing out soon if he's deceptive or abusive. @ faxiya, r ya somali or abesha?, u look exactly like my ex, neways u r really konjo. [b] |
[/b] @OP, there's nothing wrong in having back-up plans in case the 1st jury is deadlocked. Remember, women r dangerous and can outwit you at any time once they find another dude with bigger kpekus and lots of dineros; so a back-up game-plan will cushion the effect of a contract termination and the after-shock, look at it this way: most women have at least 2 men in there lives at any given point of which they update from time-to-time. So if you are unlucky to be involved with such lady, you cannot afford a margin of error greater than +5 or -5. if another studs shows up on the scene, you will be discarded like a tampon, that being said; just have a back-up just to be safe, [b] |
[/b] @OP, I KNOW SOMEONE EXACTLY IN YOUR SITUATION COUPLE OF YEARS AGO, HE TOOK ADVICE SIMILAR TO BLAZAYS; AND HE'S PRESENTLY DIVORCED. LIKE SOME PPLE SAID, SUM THINGS U FIX, AND SOME YOU REPLACE. U'VE LOST YOUR WIFE YEARS AGO, YA'LL WERE JUST PLAYING ROOMMATES. THIS ADVICE MIGHT SEEM HARSH, BUT MY HUMBLE ADVICE FOR YOU IS TO GET A BACK-UP PLAN, AS IN FIND YOU A REAL WOMAN THAT WILL APPRECIATE AND RESPECT YOU. ONCE U'VE PUT THINGS IN ORDER, THEN PUT YOUR HOUSE ON THE MARKET FOR SALE IF U OWN IT OR DO NOT RENEW YOUR LEASE WHEN EXPIRED. MOTHER IN-LAWS R RESPONSIBLE FOR 48% OF DIVORCES IN SUB-SAHARA AFRICA AND I'M SORRY URS MIGHT BE HEADING THAT ROUTE. YOUR WIFE HAVE NO IOTA OF RESPECT FOR U FROM THE INCEPTION OF HER MOTHER MOVING IN, AND IT'S QUITE OBVIOUS THAT SHE THINKS THE GRASS IS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE. WITH HER MOTHER'S BACKING, SHE'S PUTTING HER PLAN TO WORK, AND YOU HAVE HELPED HER BY MOVING OUT, [b] |
[/b] @ OP IF THE HOUSEGIRL IN QUESTION LOOK ANYTHING LIKE KIM KADASHIAN, PLEASE SEND HER MY WAY, I NEED A HOUSEGIRL, [b] |
[/b]@ ladyjide, just gat bck in town after few months away, was on a project in NYC and the contract just ran out, i'm so glad to be outta NY tho, how's philly?, did the individual link u up yet?, it totally skipped my mind. hope u staying outta trouble, [b] |
[/b] @ tpia, U r always on point, you have a neutral and transparent analogy in most of your posts, keep it up. @ ladyjide, how r ya, long time. hope u r doing gud, @ OP your topic ought to be: "why do Some" not lots. you do have a slight point tho, I've seen coleagues with impressive educational and financial arsenal having problem either getting a man or keeping one, they mostly settle for anything called "M.A.N" once the clock start running out. and it's mostly due to the fact that they were very picky when they were in their prime in settling down. However; that does not indicate that most of them are in the same pool of cumbersome relationships or lack of it, [b] |
[/b] @ ileke-idi I usually don't support discrimination of any form, however; you are soooooo right on the "IBO" thing, i know a few folks married to ibos and it's nothing but diseaster on a large scale. YORUBA-HAUSA-SOUTH/SOUTh do get along fine, but ibo is a different story. again, im not a racist nor a tribalistic individual, but ileke-idi is on point on this issue, [b] |
[/b] @ OP THE GIRL WAS NEVER DESPOILED, SHE'S BEEN A VIRGIN SINCE SHE TURNED 16, SHE KNEW THE MUGU HUBBY TO BE WILL FIND OUT SOONER, SO SHE USED THE OLD TRICK IN THE BOOK, YOURS TRULLY HAS HELPED IN OPENING QUITE A FEW GIRLS LOCKER-ROOM AND SUPRISED TO SEE THE GIRLS FORMING VIRGIN FOR SOME NAIVE MAGA, THE DUDE SHOULD JUST DRILL HIS OWN PART AND LET GO OF HER. REMEMBER, A LovePeddler THAT GOT MARRIED IS ONLY ON A SHORT-TIME VACATION, ![]() @ MZDARSKIN, U KNOW SHE WAS JUST FRONTIN, SHE AINT NO VIRGIN, CAN'T BELIEVE U MIGHT FALL 4 THAT, [b] |
[/b] @ OP TELL HER YOU HAVE A SECRET WHICH IS KILLING U INSIDE, INVITE HER TO A ROMANTIC DINNER AND TELL HER : YOU ARE GAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY [b] |
[/b] @tpia, loool, yup $65k, her dad actually tendered $30k upfront, but that is not enough to compensate for jail, no amount of money is enough for one to languish in the federal penitentiary, you will also face rejection per employment and financial issue upon release from jail cause the record stays with you till you die. so it's not worth it. moreover, I'll prolly buy a hot car with the money anyways of which will be obselete in a few years, it might sound idiotic, but that's just me, [b] |
[/b] @ Op, $10k is nothing compared to the consequence of what you are contemplating. if you are in the right field, you can easily make $10K a month, so no biggie. However; if you really fancy the dude, why not go for it. I've been asked to do same thing for whole lots of ladies but refused, i've had someone offer $65k cash but turned it down, 'cause $65k won't make-up for 15 years in jail, it's a felony of which carry up ti 20 years in the penitentiary. I'm sure you won't look good in the orange jump-suite once caught. in addition, the dude might demand his matrimonial equitable asset that you have once you marry him cause it's a community property at that point. think twice. [b] |
[/b] @ OP, I'm not crazy about naija ladies per physical attributes and calm nature, However; few things I will give them props is: Higher ambition and education", i'm not quite sure of the ones in nigeria, but the ones in the U.S. are highly ambitious. There aren't many Universities that naija girls are not in the upper echelon of academic optimum. They impress me without an iota of dobt; Nigerian women make up a high percentage of highly educated black women be it pharmacy, medicine, engineering, accounting, check out the U.S. dept of commerce stats and u'll be suprise, also check the black congressional caucus's stats concerning foreign born top achieving immigrants. . So kindly reprase your title to "More ambitious Nigerian Men". [b] |
[/b] @ MzDarksin, U r welcome dearie, [b] |
[/b] seems 95% of the responders got the OP questions wrong. she categorically stated " Give 1 reason to love naija men" just give her one. @ OP 1 reason = Because Naija men are epitome of every characteristics any MAN on planet earth has both good and bad. ![]() Personally, I'm not crazy about naija girls neither, but won't generalize everyone. If at 31 yrs old, u still base ur attraction on nationality, then i rest my case, hopefully you won't come back and start a thread with " Where Are All The Good Naija Men". As shallow as the dude you indicated earlier might be, he's just one out of millions, so try and be open-minded and explore, but, ur natural clock is ticking tho, ![]() @ temmybaby, holla, and I will hook you up with a good naija man, better still will tell you where they are, [b] |
[/b] @ Mizdarkskin, I understand your point and it's quite unfortunate what we (men) put women through some times just because we r looking for the next exciement, next beautiful girl, how we can score more chicks, but there come a point where retrospection dawn in and the hardest of hearts will change, i know this cause i'm talking from experience. I broke a girl's heart a while ago, and it still hunt me till date; I wish i could turn the hands of time and make it right, but what is done is done; however i've done everything in my power to right the wrong with her. The good thing is that it mark a turning point in my life and change me for the better and I'm glad i did while i'm still in my youth rather than later, ![]() What ever u might have been through with men, just take it as a learning curve' remember there r still good men out there you just have to read between the lines and be observant to seperate the wolves from the sheeps, have a nice day and keep smilling. [b] |
[b][/b] @ the 2 talking heads, I'm not the type to exchange vulgar words over cyber, All i did was just gave a counter argument and different perspective for ya'll generalization. saying "Men are just useless" is like saying all akata's r morons and nitwits of which i beg to differ. You can declare a tree as bearer of bad fruits due to one fruit being bad is below human mental capacity. 1 bad fruit could be as a result of many factors including being contaminated by birds or insect, of which does not make every fruits on the tree bad. It's a notion of cause and effects: what causes the fruit to go bad?, rather than the bad fruit is an indication of the potency of every fruits on the tree/, human never seaze to amaize me. sumone sum it up earlier when he made mention of folks not knowing their father; a father figure contributes to how girls-ladies-women's perfecption of what men ought to be. example: A girl that only see her father every now and then in prison or uncle rayray being shot while dealing drugs or shamika being abused by leroy or her mother's 5th boyfriend that just got out of jail and does nothing but play Xbox all day will deffinitely shape the girl's rational of what men ought to be. so do the math talking heads, , [b][/b] |
[b][/b] @ mzdarskin, y r u mad @ men. No matter what a man did to you or lack of it should not make u hate men. The mistakes most women make is that they tend to have the notion that a man can change to suit what their idea of a good man is. The word "Good Man or Prince Charming" is relative. A man can be whom ever you want him to be as long as his agenda in on course, if a man want to get into you pant, he can even be a born-again if he knows that's what you like as long as the end justify the means, ![]() Tips: Once a man meets a girl, He already know what he wants with her, e.g sex, friendship, relationship or just plain happy-go-lucky As earlier indicated, we are what we attract sometimes. A man can only go so far as the woman allow her to go, the more the woman is willing to accept his bull-crap the more the man will push the envelope. In a nut shell, being mad @ men won't make all men disappear or solve the issue of men's infidelity or lack of it. Life has so many curves, and at every stage in life the word "Good Man" will change based on your perception or needs, @ Ox I bet your carolece only know about 50 or less Nigerian men, so she can not conclude on their character based on 50 men out of over 150 million, u dig?, [b][/b] |
[/b] @ OP, YOU ATTRACT WHAT YOU ARE, SIMPLE. ON THE OTHER HAND, THE DUDE WAS JUST A Arrow SHOW-OFF, I GUESS HE PERCEIVED THE GIRLS AT THE CONFERENCE R MONEY HUNGRY, SO HE FELT HE'LL USE IT TO HIS MORONIC ADVANTAGE, [b] [/b]@ CAROLECE, THERE'S NOTHING WRONG IN U USING MEN FOR SEX, GUESS WHAT?, THEY R USING YOU TOO WHILE YA'LL DIPPING EACH OTHER, IT TAKES 2 TO TANGO. AS PER UR NOT LIKING MEN, U CAN ALWAYS SWING BOTH WAYS AND HAVE BEST OF BOTH WORLD, PER UR FRIEND WITH THE NAIJA MAN ROOMIE, SHE'S OBVIOUSLY GETTING SUMTIN FROM THE DUDE SHE'S NOT TELLING U CAUSE SHE KNEW THAT YOU MIGHT WANT TO SAMPLE HIM ONCE SHE TELL U, HENCE SHE TELL U THE DUDE IS A NUISANCE, I MIGHT JUST CONSIDER HELPING CHANGE UR PERCEPTION ABOUT NAIJA MEN IF I HAVE TIME, [b] |
[/b] @ TjsKII U R SO PRETTY WITH NICE SMILES, KEEP IT UP [b] [/b] @ OP, IT'S NOT A BIG DEAL, ALL MEN HAVE WET DREAMS, U OUGHT TO BE CONCERN IF U'VE NEVER HAVE ANY, BUT IT'S PROLLY DUE TO UR THOUGHT PROCESS PRIOR TO GOING TO BED, BUT NO BIGGIE. AS FOR THE SPIRITUAL THINGY, THAT'S ALL BUNCH OF BALONEY. AFRICANS TENDS TO ATTRIBUTE AVERYTHING TO SPIRITUAL LINKAGE AND DON'T LET ANY PASTOR TELL U OF SOME BOGUS VISSION OR DELIVERANCE CRAP, THAT'S Y THE WHITE FOLKS R PROGRESSING WHILE AFRICANS R THERE BLAMING THE DEVIL FOR EVERYTHING, IT'S COMMON SENSE PPLE, GOOD LUCK.[b] |
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