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RomanceRe: What's The Problem With Nigerian Women Abroad? by SOPRANO(m): 6:02pm On Jun 16, 2011
[/b] @ Op,

   As much as i hate to agree with you, u r sooooooooooo right. They have this disgusting and annoying attitude as if you are trynna take them to the altar or accuse them of being a TALIBAN, lool. I don't find most of them attractive to begin with, so the attitude just compounded it. Infact, i get irritated by them especially when they squeeze their mouth and nasty face like rotten tomatoes, sheeeeesh. Not all naija girls tho. The ones born and raised here in the U.S. tends to be a lilttle better and devoid of the attitude,

@ Tpia

   I've always respected your opinion in almost every posts and I still do. You are one of the few Nlanders that are objective in their opinions. However; the poster has a good point on this issue. I have quite a number of naija and non-naija buddies that feel the same way. What happen to being pleasant to pple in general without thinking every dude that strike a conversation is trying to date them?, quite annoying,  undecided[b]
RomanceRe: Why Do Bachelors Avoids Financially Comfortable Spinsters.? by SOPRANO(m): 11:35pm On Jun 13, 2011
[/b] @ Ejdollars,

That's a big lie, that picture is of "Olivia" from G-UNIT. she also favor Siera. so don't be fooled. Now i'm doubting the authenticity of the op's story,

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RomanceRe: Why Do Bachelors Avoids Financially Comfortable Spinsters.? by SOPRANO(m): 7:52pm On Jun 13, 2011
[/b] @ upendo98,

 I thought as much how he/she personally attack u without provocation, kinda harsh. but don't give him/her the benefit of counterinsult. just ignore.

@ OP,

 If your friend's personal achievement is a deterant to attracting good suitors, then she ought not to be messing with them in the first place. such men has deeper self-esteem problem to start with, going forward, if she ever encounter such "boys" she should discard them like a used tampons.

She needs to hang-out where like-minded men on her level hang out, "you are what you attract", there's a whole world of possibilities out there, and she ought not to limit herself to "educated illitrates or uneducated illitrates" regardless of wealth. when u stated "traders" i initially thought you were alluding to "Wall Street" stock traders, upon further perusal clarify what u meant by traders, she's way too advance for such cavemen,

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RomanceRe: She Only Call On Me When She Needs Asistance. by SOPRANO(m): 7:21pm On Jun 08, 2011
[/b]

It's quite amaizing how folks can't see the obvious. 'She only call when she needs asistance" isn't that a vivid revelation that you r just a meal ticket? i wouldn't pay such girl attention even if her tongue came notarized, grin grin grin

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RomanceRe: But Seriously, What Do Guys Really Want? by SOPRANO(m): 5:40pm On Jun 07, 2011
[b][/b] @ OP:

you want to know the secret?

JUST BE YOURSELF

If a man loves you, all other things are secondary; he will go to the end of the world for you if required. As you've rightly stated, men r physical creature. we are instantly attracted to the physical attributes, but what comes afterwards will determine if we stay with you or keep it sexually platonic or just disappear totally. The vibes you give a man will determine what he wants with you, and if you stray from who you are just to please him; then u've made the greatest mistake ever. There will be a point where your true self will emerge, then it will be too late for him to adapt to the new you.

Immediately a man sees/meet a woman, He already knows what he want with her, either Casual S.ex, Friendship, or Relationship. However; in some exeptions, getting to know you might reveal something he never thought he likes in a woman.

with issue of men talking bad about women they've had s.ex with, i tagged those men "Grown-boys" with Juvenile Inferior libido Deliquency. if a grown-boy call a girl he had s.ex with a "LovePeddler", then he is a LovePeddler himself for sleeping with her to begin with.

so just be yourself, and a man that trully love you will take everything that comes with it, [b][/b]
RomanceRe: My Bf Got A Non Nigerian Preggy N Wnts Me As He's Wife! by SOPRANO(m): 5:18pm On Jun 07, 2011
[/b] @ OP: Good Nollywood Script, grin grin grin

But if this has any iota of truth to it, Then u r on a longgggggggg thing. shocked shocked shocked

I guarantee you he said the same thing to 2 other girls apart from you just to keep getting free punny while the Turkish woman give birth.

From a man's point of view: If a woman can stoop so low as to accepting a 2nd fiddle position knowing well that the man has a child on the way by another woman, then she has lost her self's worth. If i'm the man in question and i sold u that gibrish and u bought it shocked shocked, I will think twice 'cause that's a character deficit. I wouldn't want such a woman as my wife.

that being said, it's ur life, i believe u'll figure it out.

[b]
RomanceRe: Would You Dump Your Boyfriend If He Is Married To Someone Just For Papers? by SOPRANO(m): 12:45am On Jun 02, 2011
tea_baby1:
Thank you all sooo much I'm reading everything you guys tell me. I actually just told him that we can't be together anymore because of this situation , although , he begged I stood my ground and he has not called back since then. To answer your question, he asked to after getting my citizenship. Good looking out all of you I really do appreciate it. Now I'm single, but atleast safe. Now my next question is where can I find a good God fearing Christian besides church? Lol
[/b] @ tea_baby1,

now that Jack has hit the road and ain't coming back no more,

  I can hook u up wiv a buddy of mine (nice, smart, cute, street smart, yet God fearing), what part of U.S. r u?.  grin grin grin

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FamilyRe: My Husband's Attitude Will Make Me Kill Him One Day by SOPRANO(m): 7:01pm On May 23, 2011
[/b] @ LADYT - U kinda look familiar, wink

@ OP.

It takes two to tango, so i can't give an advice unless i know all the details thus give advise based on full info. However; being in a foreign land will take it's toll on you especially without any support base ( family, friends, co-workers) Just try and get a job or volunteer at NGO's, that will give you a new perspective and create a positive distraction. good luck.

[b]
Forum GamesRe: What's Bothering You Right Now? by SOPRANO(m): 10:21pm On May 19, 2011
[b][/b]

@ Gushis: u are welcome, just don't put all your hopes on him 'cause u can be good by urself. hope for the best and prepare for the worst. Good luck.

@ Odunu: Don't worry, I will add you as a relative so u can get yankee greencard, then your diesel issue will be over  grin grin

@ 10cirenoh:  Getting rid of your debt is simple: File BANKCRUPTCY

@ Yimiton: It's not really your money that your folks need, spend time with them and take them on a nice vacation within Africa (Obudu ranch, Accra, or on a safari in Mombasa) it's all about the fun memory.

@ Single and Lonely Folks: People are only attracted to you when you are positive minded, loving, and full of life. Better yourself both internally and externally, then you'll see how opposite gender will warm up to you. You can't give what you don't have. If you love yourself, then you can love others,

As for what's bothering me now?,  huh, NOTHINGGGG,    grin grin'Cause I have Jesus grin grin, oops, my bhad, i forgat that I wager $100 on chicago bulls against Miami Heat,  shocked now i'm bothered,   sad sad[b][/b]
Forum GamesRe: What's Bothering You Right Now? by SOPRANO(m): 6:04pm On May 18, 2011
[/b]

@ sweeti14,  Don't be depressed not dismayed. Adversity is a precursor of good things to come. Just know that it would have been worse than what it was. cheer up and look forward to the future, though you might not see it in the Natural, it's way better than what you imagine.  grin grin

@ Bettymafy, Just when you least expect, the accomodation shall come through, just be optimistic and do deligent search, it is well  grin grin

@ Ileke-idi, make sure you get me a thing or two while out shopping.  wink  [b]
Forum GamesRe: What's Bothering You Right Now? by SOPRANO(m): 3:49pm On May 18, 2011
[/b] What's Bothering Me RIGHT NOW?,  ILEKE-IDI ----ILEKE-IDI------ILEKE-IDI grin grin grin

@ GUSHIS,  DON'T WORRY; HE WILL WHEN HE REALIZE THAT YOU HAVE A SECRET ADMIRER  wink

Solutions To Ya'll Problems:
1) Uncertain Future: Take Care of the present, and The future will be Bright

2) Money Problem: Think Outside of the box, find a niche product or service pple need, It's not all about white colar jobs

3) Wife /Husband Problem: Singles are eager to get marry, The married can't wait to get divorce, Leave it to God to Pick your future spouse

4) School Problem: Take a time-out and re-callibrate. remember, a calm mind create best of ideas.

5) Travel Problem: Think twice before you leap, the grass might not be greener afterall
Best of All, Leave it To GOD to pave the way. He knew you before you were formed, and craft a plan for your life, so let Him execute his plan. do your best, be good, and be of good Courage, the sun will shine again, grin grin[b]
RomanceRe: Isn't This Just Cruel? by SOPRANO(m): 7:15pm On May 05, 2011
[/b] @ jackieugo

  now i think i i've seen u @ a party, 'neways i won't derail the thread as u earlier aluded to, catch u on the rebound then grin grin grin

@BABE.
 
that's some funny yorubah u equate that dude to, can't stop laffing grin grin grin grin, [b]
RomanceRe: Isn't This Just Cruel? by SOPRANO(m): 7:14pm On May 05, 2011
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RomanceRe: Isn't This Just Cruel? by SOPRANO(m): 6:46pm On May 05, 2011
[/b] @ Jackieugo

 Well said, we ought to blame it on MTN, GLO, ETISALAT that make it possible for the likes of macfarland to access to the internet, lol grin grin grin, anyways, u kinda look familiar, what part of houston r ya? [b]
RomanceRe: To Meet Or Not To Meet by SOPRANO(m): 4:48pm On May 05, 2011
[/b] @ OMOLOLA,

IF IT'S 190 U R TALKING ABOUT, DON'T GO, grin grin grin

WELL MEETING UR BF PARENT'S IT'S KINDA IFY IN A WAY, WHAT IF YOU DITCH THE GUY NEXT MONTH AND FINDOUT THAT HIS MOM WILL BE YOUR BOSS UPON GRADUATION?, OR
U MEET HIS FOLKS, AND THEY HATE YOUR GUTS AND THINK YOU R A SCUMBAG?, OR
YOU MEET HIS FOLKS AND FIND OUT THAT YOU HAVE DATED HIS DAD BEFORE?, OR
YOU MEET HIS FOLKS AND DISCOVER THAT HIS MOM USED TO SHAG YOUR NEXT DOOR NEIGHBOR?, OR
YOU MEET HIS FOLKS AND DISCOVER THAT HIS DAD WAS THE PROFESSOR THAT BUGS U FOR SEX IN EXCHANGE FOR GRADES?, OR
U MEET THEM AND THEY R DECENT PPLE AND ACTUALLY LIKE YOU BUT HIS YOUNGER SISTER RECOGNIZE YOU FROM A URGY PARTY THEY HAD ON CAMPUS?, OR
YOU MEET HIS FOLKS AND THEY HATE BLACK PPLE?, OR OR OR
YOU MEET HIS FOLKS AND THEY REALLY LIKE YOU AND VICE VERSER AND EVERYTHING IS ROSY HENCEFORTH?, WELL NOTIFY ME OF THE WEDDING DAY OK grin grin grin [b]
RomanceRe: Isn't This Just Cruel? by SOPRANO(m): 3:59pm On May 05, 2011
[/b] @ Amya

  DON'T BE PARTURBED ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE SAY, PPLE ALWAYS FIND A WAY OF BLAMING THE VICTIM NO MATTER WHAT THE ISSUE IS. BY RANTING ON FACEBOOK SHOWS HOW IMATURE AND JUVENILE THE DUDE IS. HOLD YOUR HEAD UP HIGH AND PAY NO MIND TO UTTER NONSENSE PEOPLE ARE COMMENTING ABOUT YOU, IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO. IT'S AMAIZING HOW PEOPLE MAKE JUDGMENT WITHOUT KNOWING YOU, JUST LET THEM BE. FORGET HIM LIKE A BAD HABIT AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE, I'M SURE YOU WILL FIND A RESPECTABLE MAN THAT WILL LOVE AND TREAT YOU LIKE WOMEN OUGHT TO BE TREATED, SO IT'S HIS LOSS, GOOD RIDANCE TO BAD RUBBISH.

TO ALL THE PPLE PASSING NEGATIVE JUDGMENT ON THE POSTER, I'M PRETTY SURE YA'LL ARE "SAINTS" THAT NEVER TRANSGRESS BEFORE, BUNCH OF WEIRDOS. INSTEAD OF FINDING WAYS TO ENCOURAGE HER TO MOVE ON AND LIVE POSITIVELY, YA'LL R HERE ACTING LIKE TYRANTS AND MORONS, AS COMPLICATED AS LIFE IS, JUDGING PEOPLE YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT IS EVEN MORE MYOPIC, [b]
RomanceRe: God is love by SOPRANO(m): 10:33pm On Apr 15, 2011
[/b]  GOT IN, LOOK AROUND shocked shocked, SHAKES HEAD AT POSTER, LOOK AROUND AGAIN, LMAO @ FSTRANGER AND NEKAI FIGHTS, LOOK AROUND AGAIN,  smiley WINK AT NEKAI AND WHISPER( holla @ ur boi)), WISH OP GOODLUCK IN HER EMOTIONAL BONDAGE, A GOAT BOUND TO BE LOST WILL NOT HEAR THE HUNTER"S WHISTLE, wink WINK AT NEKAI AGAIN, THEN STEP OUT, [b]
PoliticsRe: How GEJ Will Win On Saturday Foretold by SOPRANO(m): 9:58pm On Apr 15, 2011
[/b] grin grin ODUNNU PLEASE STAY OUT OF MY DREAMS,  grin grin grin grin[b]
RomanceRe: Anybody Dated A Rwandese Lady? by SOPRANO(m): 1:15pm On Apr 12, 2011
[/b] @ tpiah

u r one funny bloke, lool. i rebuke itaramwe, shocked, they r bunch of murderers. leave the bloke alone and let him date who ever he fancied,

@ gentle

it's just a way of exchanging pleasantries, like how are you, how's the family etc. example is:
Gentle: Muraho
Your girl: Yego
Gentle: Amakuruki
Your girl: imeza

just a lil tad of their language (kiyarwanda), hope u get the drift, [b]
RomanceRe: Anybody Dated A Rwandese Lady? by SOPRANO(m): 9:31pm On Apr 11, 2011
[b][/b]@ Op

  yes, a nigerian bloke actually married a tutsi girl about a year ago in boston, tho her family gave hell but she stood her ground. They are happily married today and her family later reconciled and accepted him. Since she grew up in Uganda, you have a better chance 'cause they are open minded and Ugandans generally likes Nigerians escecially if you are Yoruba (for some reason their perception is that Yorubas are the smartest Nigerians/africans). Anyways, just treat her right and don't waste time---> I hereby authorize you to marry her,  i'm sure she's a beautiful umukazi , grin grin grin.

Tell her "muraho, amakuruki".

Their men don't marry outsiders 'cause they are insecure, dumb and can't deal with independent minded women, so they'll rather crawl to their mountain village and impregnate some gullible village girl, lol. they have some silly cultural practice that allow men to kidnap any girl he wants, impregnate her and go ask for forgiveness a year later after impregnating the girl as long as he bring cow or goats, lol crazy culture indeed,  enjoy and be careful. cheers brother. [b][/b]
RomanceRe: Anybody Dated A Rwandese Lady? by SOPRANO(m): 8:13pm On Apr 11, 2011
[b][/b] @ OP

Rwandese Ladies (Tutsi):
   They are beautiful, tall, nice-hips, calm and sweet. However; they rarely marry outside their culture especially the Tutsis. Their culture is from the the stone age of which strictly forbid them from marrying outside their culture. Even the Tutsi's rarely marry from the Hutu tribe.(majority of the population) after the genocide. Occasionally you might have a few marrying white men, but it's solely for financial security purposes. The tutsi historically migrated from somalia and the Hutu from Bantu and bacongo. If you are currently dating one, just enjoy your time while it lasts; but make sure you have a back-up plan else you'll be left on the desert of lonelyville, lol. Overall, they seems to be good people.

Rwandese Men: Extremely violent and dumb, life means nothing to them. they are similar to boko-haram in terms of reasoning, they can kill without reasoning.

How do I know this?. I have lots of them as friends and messed with a few of them.

Again, just enjoy yourself while it last, unless you meet rwandese that grew up in Uganda, they seems a little open minded; but the family will still be an issue. a word is enough for the wise, good luck. [b][/b]
PropertiesRe: PLATINUM R E G A L ESTATE (near Isheri North) (With Pictures) by SOPRANO(m): 3:26pm On Mar 07, 2011
[/b] @ Dayo,

Can I get a plot for 2 mill if i'm buying 2 plots and paying outrightly without installment?[b]
RomanceRe: I Feel Like Accusing Her But I Dont Want To Spoil Her Day! by SOPRANO(m): 7:23pm On Feb 22, 2011
[/b] @ POSTER

"Bros. COLD" PRETTY MUCH GAVE YOU THE BEST ADVISE SO FAR,
IMO, SHE'S JUST KEEPING YOU AS A BACK UP PLAN IN CASE OF INCASITY, LOL grin grin. MOST NAIJA WOMEN ARE BUNCH OF OPPORTUNIST, OF WHICH I CAN'T BLAME THEM SOMEWHAT; THAT'S THE EFFECT OF POVERTY. LIKE "Bros. COLD" EARLIER SAID, MAY BE YOU AND THE STUPID GIRL ARE THE ONE CHEATING ON THE OTHER GUY. MOREOVER, LONG-DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP IS A WASTE OF TIME UNLESS THE WOMAN IS ORDAINED BY GOD TO BE WITH YOU. IT'S VERY EASY TO GET INTO A WOMAN'S V-JAY-JAY EVEN WHEN HER MAN LIVE 2 BLOCKS AWAY TALKLESS OF THOUSANDS OF MILES AWAY. JUST TAKE HEART AND FIND ONE BEAUTIFUL AKATA JARE, ALL THE BEST. grin grin[b]
PoliticsRe: Great/famous People From Your State! by SOPRANO(m): 3:02pm On Feb 18, 2011
[/b] SOMEONE FINALLY CREATE A THREAD FOR BIGGOTS TO PRACTICE THEIR TRADE, lol grin grin, THIS IS SAD. I PITTY NIGERIA,  cry[b]
RomanceRe: Would You Marry Him - Even Without A Good Job by SOPRANO(m): 10:06pm On Feb 14, 2011
[/b] @ aminalib,

spot on. It also baffles me, but that's the case here in the U.S, However; it actually makes no different in Nigeria, i know a couple of buddies that studied Political science in here in the U.S but went down to Nigeria and are both currently managing branches of commercial banks in Lagos. it's called connection, it's all about who you know, not what you know. [b]
RomanceRe: Would You Marry Him - Even Without A Good Job by SOPRANO(m): 6:11pm On Feb 14, 2011
[/b] lol, this just prove my point that most women marry men for "comfort and Financial Gains", like a friend always say, 90% of women has a price-tag.

@ OP
       
         It's a sad predicament indeed. You indicated that your buddy read sociology, If he's in Lagos, I can make a few calls if he does not mind working for the state govt in Alausa, Ikeja. I'm not promising anything, but some high echelon of the govt owes me a few favor. Things might turn up. All the best.[b]
BusinessRe: Home Business/start Up Business In Usa and abroad by SOPRANO(m): 2:41pm On Jan 26, 2011
[b][/b]

Business Ideas In U.S:

1) Franchise: (7-11, Mcdonalds, Subway, Panera Bread)- Most banks will loan you the franchise fee if you have a good proposal and location

2) Tow-Truck: Start-up cost is about $10k -$15K (you do not have to drive it, just set-up a lot, hire driver, and dispatch center which can be done from home) easy money and low bond-cost

3) Cleaning business: Low start up cost, look for office contracts-get bonded and hire spanish pple: you just have to monitor their performance and check for tardiness

4) Mentoring and tutoring: Lots of government grants especially if you cater to low-income families and minorities (hire smart high school kids (they preffer it than wrking at mickey D)for tutoring your clients; pay them $1 above minimum wage and they will want to work overtime,  grin grin

Note: Day Care is good, but watch out for law-suits, and their bond rate is higher.

Business Idea In Nigeria:

1) Hauling: by far the most profitable with less headaches: start with a truck, GPS or any tracking device to track your driver and u will smile to the bank  grin grin grin[b][/b]
RomanceRe: What Is The Most Attractive Non-physical Thing In A Guy? by SOPRANO(m): 5:29pm On Jan 12, 2011
[/b] @ freecocoa

y r you depicting my character in public ?, grin grin[b]
RomanceRe: When Hidden Defects Becomes exposed by SOPRANO(m): 5:18pm On Jan 12, 2011
[b][/b] @ Op that was mad-funny, lmaooooo.

Mine happened in 09. Was in Atlanta for a buddy's birthday, we all went to the club to hunt for new chics. it was all fun and I was drunk beyond repair since i knew i wasn't driving. the plan was to spread like a lion pride and gather in all the prey for human buffet afterwards, I saw this coke-bottle  tongue tongue shaped chic and her chest just gat me mesmerized, so i forgo the initial plan to bring all our loots to the VIP section. I remember getting into her car and could not remember a thing after that. The next morning, I woke up to a sound of "breakfast is ready" i opened my eyes and saw the chic  butt nak*d shocked shocked shocked : with one and half tities shocked shocked, before i could say anything, she said: "I know u r shocked, but i had an accident when i was 15, and the doc had to cut 75% of my left brea*st to avoid infections", i lost any cognant communition sound at that point, I wished there was Okada bikes in ATL that day for easy get-away, but there was none, so i played nice till she dropped me at by buddies, infact i always make sure i pat-down chics for missing titie*s afterwards, u'll think i'm a TSA agent looking for bin laden, [b][/b]
RomanceRe: Benin Girls by SOPRANO(m): 8:33pm On Jan 07, 2011
[/b] @ Mzdarksin

  kini problem e?, was just commenting on the folks in the vid, does not necessarily mean all jamaicans r like that, so don't kill the observer, i didn't make those pple act a fool; they chose to be that way, camera don't lie. "draw u out, i won't like it?, omo u r on a long thing; i don't trade blabs online 'cause it's not worth my time, shikena!![b]

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