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I must say that there r some "non-pretending ladies" out there tho. I know a couple of them.Hmmmmmmmmm, let's c:
SoReal
SOREAL
Soreal
soreal
SoooooooooooooREal

Why does this have to turn into a "she" vs "he" fight?
Big Shishi only said women are the worst pretenders, not Women are the only pretenders!!!!!!!!
For goodness sakes sistas, y don't we just admit that wen a chic wants to play, she does it WAYYYYYYY better than d guys can ever try to.
I am a girl and I am so sure about wt I am saying. WE will cry, scream, get upset, psych, swear and even appear hurt jst 2 cover up a lie. In that aspect we beat d guys hands down.
In every way a man can cheat, a woman can cheat better.
Bring it on girls, let's hear the "SoReal, pls speak 4 urself", No no no dat ain't in d least bit true, That's trash sista" , I know exactly wt ya'll r gonna say but that's wt confirms my sayings even better. We don't have 2 confess to being d Worst Pretenders on Nairaland!!!!!!!!!!!! That would let everything out in d open.

Funkybaby, u r such a wonderful person. U actually were good at ignoring all them haters on this forum. I can't imagine what equates dating a guy based in the Uk with gold digging. Sista, I am glad u had a wonderful time with him.
Lemme give u an advice, try not to get advice from people when it involves something as sensitive as this. most people will just advice u to do stuff they wouldnt do themselves.
Follow ur heart sista and b happy!!!

@ Vinna
Hey Sis, Dnt mean to sound nasty but if u r gonna post,then post 2 every1 and dnt bring up my name. If u r gonna bring up my name, then read my posts carefully. I never said his sending the email was a wonderful idea. I am not even judging that. All I spoke on was d content of d mail. I just said I ddnt see anythin wrong wit the qualities he enumerated. Feel me?

@Whitelexi
Are u in my head? U took those words outta my mouth. I was typing exactly the same stuff

Yeah sending it to random emails may be wack but I still don't think it is right to condemn just like that. He may be lying and all that quite all right. Note that, I am not askin any1 to actually reply his email and start up smthin with him but I just don't think calling him a loser and a joker and all that is aiight.
Moreover, I was talkin more to the peeps that were condemnin d contents of the mail and making it seem like there was a problem with a guy asking for the qualities he was asking for.

He Sure Is!!!!!!!!!!

Hey sistas,what is it with callin him a joker and a loser and bla,bla,bla. I really don't understand what it is with us humans (girls especially) that gives us d impression that someone is going to h8 u if u get real. What exactly is wrong with what the brother asked for? He may have come off really strong but then i dnt think therez anythin funny or silly bout what he wrote. What is wrong with worshiping your boyfriend. I guess d brother ddnt mean setting up an altar and bowing and  al that stuff. My man just has 2 worship me oh!!!!!!!!! n i can bet that u girls out there would absolutely melt if u dd meet a guy that told u he was ready 2 do all that is written in this mail for u. All he asked for is a girl to listen 2 him,show her undying love,fight for him and all that. Hey sistas, if u aint ready to do that for ur man then u aint ready 4 a rship.PERIOD . I am not perfect and I am not a marraige counsellor but that is it.
Meanwhile as for all u girls acting like he is asking for smthin that is out of d world, i am sure there r a couple of u that are ready 2 lick your man's feet or ass just 2 keep him and u come out here fronting like u can't be bothered. All the guy asked for is someone 2 make him happy and I am sure there r a couple of sistas that would be more than happy 2 do that. i wish he wrote his email. I am so sure that some of d chics who came up here dissing his mails.would have sent him a "PLS ADD ME" IM.  

Sis,
I can imagine how devastated you are right now, Please try not to do anything drastic. Time heals all wounds. I think the most important thing is prayers. U need to pray for strength. This is not just about the heartbreak. i can imagine how embarassed u must feel. Please try not to dwell on what people say.
Pray and ask God to give you the strength to make it through this period. Try doing something with yourself. Surround yourself with your loved ones and try to be as happy as you can.
I wish you all the best sister.

cabali:
personally i think ebuka is as dull as anyother in the house, there isnt anything about him. joseph and katung are cuter than he is. he doesnt do much in the house.

Ebuka is defintely NOT DULL . Do u even tune in2 Big Brother? Himself and Katung r d most interesting people in the house.
As for being cute.Katung is defintely not ccuter than Ebuka. Joe defintely is d cutest though 

Aiight then.
i guess a broda is allowed to have his own views

Whitelexi,dat stil dn't mean u shld generalise.
I know a couple of nigerian girls that are worth doing anything for and that would do exactly d same 4 their men.

Gridlock:
It is easier for a woman to abstain than the man. why? picture this: The guy is led-on by what he sees. his wife is becoming unattractive (her fault, notice that i didnt say "is becoming old", by not using makeup anymore, wearing only wrappa, growing bloated etc. If u want to keep your guy (to the married ones), be available, be attractive, be sexy, and make him realise he's important, he's kind, he's the bomb, etc., not just the father of your kids.

So when ur wife starts becomin unattractive, u get an excuse 2 cheat. 70% of nigerian men over 35 have fat tummy, horrible bodies n r terrible in bed.u cant even imagine how terrible it gets. Does dat give d woman an excuse 2 cheat also??

Men r unfaithful cos they dnt have self-control.DATS D SUMMARY.
there r beautiful wives n girlfriends, who cook good, never nag, twork it goood ,dress wonderfully n r so decent, yet their sorry-assed boyfriends stil cheat like mad.
NOW WT U GOTTA SAY BOUT DAT

Have u guys seen d video "HIPS DON"T LIE". I dnt know bout u, but beyonce, ciara, olivia, SoReal Combined and tripled can't, wont,dare not try that.
Shakira is a HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOT stepper.
Beyonce is good, ciara is better,shakira is DA BOMB.
Olivia?where dd that come frm. I twork it better than she does

Since I started this post, I think i shld write down wat i think,
moving it with ur man is a BIG BIG step n u need 2 consider a whole lotta factors. In my opinion, I think it's cooler 4 d guy 2 ask u 2 move in b4 u actually do. u also need 2 consider h close u both r 2 each other. I am ok with being a live-in if he is ok with it.
I am not gonna leave my hairbrush 2day and my thong 2morow and my shirt d next day n my weekend bag d next n , silently move in. Sistas u know what i am talkin bout

Wotz it wit all this advice??
Isn't it clear that this is jst some scam. Have u been to a cybercafe in this country lately. u really should walk in2 one n c wt dem guys do. Most of them don't even have jobs. All they do is sit around and wait to meet girls online they can lie to and milk dry.
Pls sista, tell him 2 BUZZ D HELL OUT

Whitelexi, h can u say that about Nigerian girls.
U've been meetin all dem wrong girls

If i were a man, I would save my girl, my girl,my girl and my girl again

I am so lovin this thread.
Please keep the posts comin

pearldrops:
was only passing by
l will talk write more on this topic
next l come on line

Can't wait,

Zahymaka:
I'd expect a responsible girl to play a little hard to get

So it's irresponsible girls dat dont play hard 2 get
dats new

Hey sis, dnt mean 2 sound negative,but u ve gotta b careful. Nigerian men on d net r full of lies, Pardon me "TRUTH TELLING" nigerian men.

Can't wait for 2day's eviction. I sincerely hope Ify and Francisca are nominated. Meawnhile please someone help me tell those housemates to leave joe, they keep buggin him because he is a gentleman n he isnt loud. I think that's what the house is all bout, peeps wit different styles. We don't expect everyone 2 b loud.
Well for all those who think joe is boring because he is too reserved , I'ld say he is jst a laid-back gentleman.
I'm being partial because I have a crush on him tho. Damn!!!!!!!!those lips, I could kiss them 4ever. D brother is cute as morris chestnut 
JOE please hola at me however,whenever and I will come running

Howdy all,
I met this guy bout 2 weeks ago. Therez this chemistry dat we both cant deny. He seems like a very nice person. He thinks we should work on a rship. this may sound silly but don't u think a girl needs 2 play hard 2 get for sometime? just so she doesnt seem desperate.
Comments PLSSSSSSSS

hiya,
Just thought to find out what you think bout a boy and his girl living together. Some people think it brings "C FINISH".
Please lemme know what u guys think

I don't think one year is too soon to get married

whitelexi:
When studying a woman, one yr is way too short because they can pretend so very well, kai!

A woman dat will pretend for 1 whole year, can pretend for 3 years. Trust me on dat