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FamilyRe: Married Men In The House Please Advice Me by spadar4u(m): 4:59pm On Jul 22, 2021
Bros if that family can afford her education they will not give her out yet. U are her gateway their gateways.
CareerRe: How I End Up Washing People's Poo As A Graduate With 2:1 by spadar4u(m): 4:03pm On Jun 26, 2021
Twista88:
Good evening sir.. I studied chemical engineering and I will be grateful sir if there's anyway you can assist me as I really need help.. I will be grateful sir.. Thank you ..
Quote him with ur email
BusinessRe: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 15 by spadar4u(m): 12:42pm On Jun 22, 2021
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BusinessRe: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 15 by spadar4u(m): 11:20am On Jun 22, 2021
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BusinessRe: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 15 by spadar4u(m): 7:41am On Jun 21, 2021
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CareerRe: Lagos Government To Prosecute Employer Who Assaulted Her Sales Girl (Pictures) by spadar4u(m): 11:05am On Jun 18, 2021
longetivity:
Some women can be very wicked
Some?
FamilyRe: Tired Of My Marriage by spadar4u(m): 10:35pm On Jun 13, 2021
Is she from Benue?
BusinessRe: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 15 by spadar4u(m): 5:07pm On Jun 12, 2021
ekwuemendinso:
Yes Sir.

Am honestly sorry.


People like you are the cause of Nigeria's problem. Nevertheless, I won't feel bad.

My bad, warm Regards
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BusinessRe: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 15 by spadar4u(m): 4:38pm On Jun 12, 2021
ekwuemendinso:
Your details pls?
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BusinessRe: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 15 by spadar4u(m): 4:36pm On Jun 12, 2021
ekwuemendinso:
Your details pls?
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BusinessRe: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 15 by spadar4u(m):
ekwuemendinso:
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BusinessRe: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 15 by spadar4u(m): 10:52am On Jun 11, 2021
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BusinessRe: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 15 by spadar4u(m): 11:30pm On Jun 07, 2021
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BusinessRe: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 15 by spadar4u(m): 10:01am On Jun 05, 2021
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BusinessRe: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 15 by spadar4u(m): 4:28pm On May 27, 2021
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FamilyRe: Meet Monica Okoye With 12 Children, 36 Grandchildren, 43 Great Grandchildren by spadar4u(m): 1:26pm On May 14, 2021
What of the sperm donor? No mention? Wicked peeps
FamilyRe: Meet Monica Okoye With 12 Children, 36 Grandchildren, 43 Great Grandchildren by spadar4u(m): 1:25pm On May 14, 2021
What of the sperm donor? No mention? Wicked peeps
FamilyRe: Meet Monica Okoye With 12 Children, 36 Grandchildren, 43 Great Grandchildren by spadar4u(m): 1:25pm On May 14, 2021
What of the sperm donor? No mention? Wicked peeps
FamilyRe: How Do I Instill Boldness And Confidence In My Daughters? by spadar4u(m): 5:28pm On Apr 30, 2021
As a kid I was a simp. Too afraid to get bruised but now am too afraid to engage in a fight cos I can drain a life in 20secs am working to break that record by 10sec. I evolved. Today am a Legend. I can kill in 5 sec
FamilyRe: How Do I Instill Boldness And Confidence In My Daughters? by spadar4u(m): 5:27pm On Apr 30, 2021
As a kid I was a simp. Too afraid to get bruised but now am too afraid to engage in a fight cos I can drain a life in 20secs am working to break that record by 10sec. I evolved. Today am a Legend. I can kill in 5 sec
RomanceRe: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by spadar4u(m): 10:40am On Apr 26, 2021
Single olosho. Close ur legs next time. Nobody is asking her why she dated a married man
RomanceRe: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by spadar4u(m): 10:24am On Apr 26, 2021
[quote author=TripleDdotcom post=101114233]For as long as humanity will not go through the PROPER means to navigate the affairs of their life, they will continue to fall in calamities as a consequence of them not going through the proper channel.

Now in your case, what's proper??

A man sees a woman he likes, they court each other, finding out about each other's qualities and see if they are fine with them.

They must ask each other important questions and know all what's vital to be known about their prospective partner.

If they are fine with each other, AND they are now ready for the next step, they now introduce the family members.

The family members, especially the elders, will use their wisdom to assess the candidate to see if there's something that their son or daughter could have missed from the candidate as a result of them being blinded by love or because of inexperience and naivety.

Another importance of introducing the family members is that it sets everything in motion with a serious impression and outlook.

for example, if a man toasts a woman and tells him he wants to marry her, they've courted and the woman likes him, if she tells him to come see her family, this will instill the impression of seriousness in him or will expose his intentions. If he has sinister motives in mind and isn't serious about marrying the girl, it'll reflect in the way he responds to that request.

Now if all the family members are involved and matters have been settled, they now marry each other. then they will feel at ease sharing their assets or possessions (sex, money, properties) with each other cause of the bond that has now binded them together.

That's the proper channel. But humanity will go through improper channels and rush things with themselves these days, giving out their possessions to people that have not proven to worth it yet and they will start crying when the consequences arrives.

This proper channel may not guarantee that there'll be no problems 100 percent of the time but its waaay more credible and safe than not doing it.

And the wisdom in what I've said reflects in your life already. Just for you to know I'm telling the truth.

You gave out yourself to your first man, had two children with him and now he's not ready to marry you. You have now become a single mother, striving to foot all the responsibilities all because you gave yourself and your intimate commitments away too early to someone who doesn't deserve it.

Let this serve as a lesson for you. Don't let love or emotions blind you. If you meet a man that's not showing any commitment to you and is asking things from you too early and is seeming to hide some vital information you should know from you, jilt him and Block him!!!

If you don't heed daddy's advice (meaning me) And you get hurt, don't come and cry to daddy (me) about it.

God guide and help you to do things properly

Fela
RomanceRe: I Told My Fiancé That He Can't Stay In My Duplex, He Changed by spadar4u(m): 10:23am On Apr 26, 2021
michlins:
If care isn't taken, it's same baby daddy still playing you.


You already have a child, cherish her and work hard to repay that loan. You have lots of things to occupy and keep you busy now
Fela
Christianity EtcRe: Ada Jesus' Mother Rejects Prophet Odumeje's N1 Million Gift To Ada Jesus (Video) by spadar4u(m): 1:45pm On Apr 19, 2021
ipobarethieves:
wink cool very good/sound mother NOT the gluttony ones.
With unsound child
Christianity EtcRe: Ada Jesus' Mother Rejects Prophet Odumeje's N1 Million Gift To Ada Jesus (Video) by spadar4u(m): 1:44pm On Apr 19, 2021
ipobarethieves:
wink cool very good/sound mother NOT the gluttony ones.
With unsound child
RomanceRe: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by spadar4u(m): 3:21pm On Apr 16, 2021
Rozcol:
jeon yaya jindadi
A sha yarinya arewa Che. Yaya azumi?
RomanceRe: The Ugly Side Of Being An Extremely Beautiful Lady (true Life Experience) by spadar4u(m): 3:19pm On Apr 16, 2021
Rozcol:
jeon yaya jindadi
A sha yarinya arewa Che. Yaya azumi?
CrimeRe: Wife Exposes Husband Who Looted Shoes During Katsina Market Inferno by spadar4u(m): 8:21am On Mar 25, 2021
Stealing is bad. Police are stealing the government are stealing the court are stealing. But did u know this man stole for his wife. It's women's shoe. But the tool call the cops. Marriage finish
Nairaland GeneralRe: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by spadar4u(m): 3:03pm On Feb 28, 2021
darealbabe:
Truth is relative. Facts require provable references. And Assumptions are unfounded statements. But only an immature mind assumes Assumptions to be Facts when they makes a post without any provable reference.

The females in your life don't need to know I exist. As long as you know your female folks (particularly your mother) are part of the women you described in your posts, that's sufficient for me. wink grin tongue I hope she doesn't know you hold such deranged views about her.

If I'm a loser, a fool, and idiotic, for standing up for your mother and the rest of the women around you, so be it.
U ain't got no mum.u are a product of prostitution
Nairaland GeneralRe: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by spadar4u(m): 2:53pm On Feb 28, 2021
Nairaland GeneralRe: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by spadar4u(m): 12:33pm On Feb 28, 2021
awulio:
Firstly I don’t need a man telling me how to live.... goodness gracious Nigerian men are really thrash. It’s because of rubbish write ups like this that I refuse to marry a Nigerian. Firstly my self worth is not based on my shape or my looks this is why y’all get tricked by girls because that’s what you focused on.... 2ndly I’m a proud feminist and will continue to be that, luckily the white guys i know love feminists it’s just Nigerian men that have issues with it. I don’t need to act feminine to get a man. I was raised to be strong and I can do things on my own. I pay my own bills, I do things for my self. Finishing up my masters in America. I’m not going to reduce myself and my achievements to please a man
Men are created strong not raised to be. But will descend low to a bitch

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