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[quote author=tpia. link=topic=385100.msg5359089#msg5359089 date=1264059033]the wild ones who dont care about your feelings. And who you dont find boring.



I was going by your statement here:[/quote]Sometimes I wonder why they are called "bad boys" but of course no woman in her right senses would want a man that doesn't care about her feelings and also a boring man.

MRbrownJAY:
@poster
if you are not ready then you are not ready.
are you saying that you are ready to marry anyone even if you have no interest in them just because they seem right?!

the same way you talk about god sending the right guy towards you is the same way that you should say that "when you are ready god will show you the way".
until then, keep on fukcing meeting guys and have fun!

PS: are you actually making a list with the most men that you can conquer so that you can decide at the end which is the best out of all of them to settle down with?

I like that statement in BOLD.  I'm not necessarily making a list. I'm sure there are still more guys I haven't yet met that would still meet me till I meet that person  that infact is everything I could ask for and I would be interested in spending my life with. I have been in a relationship that I was head over heels in love with and he would still come back but I don't want to wait for him.

[quote author=tpia. link=topic=385100.msg5359025#msg5359025 date=1264057487]I suspect you're only attracted to bad boys? [/quote]Pls what's your definition of a bad boy so I could give my answer.

After seeing a friend of mine get pregnant, she's not married still young like myself, I find myself too wanting to be pregnant too now.

P.S. I didn't say I'm going to get pregnant, I said I find myself wanting before the name calling

What is really wrong in that? Please seek genuine and respectable opinions.

No I'm VERY straight. Why?

I've met a lot of guys, the good, bad and ugly. There are about 3 of them that happen to be good, behavior and all but it happens I'm not interested in their deep commitment. I sometimes wonder, by me not being ready or interested in them, how do I know that one of them is who God sent to me or is it a crime I don't want any of them or interested?

P.S. I'm still a very young lady.

symbian03:
What a comparison, a whole country to just a city? Why not just compare UK TO CANADA?

lol I meant UK,

AngieFan:
If you're coming from Nigeria then Canada would be better besides we already have enough Nigerians in the UK

Hehehe one more Nigerian won't hurt, Why would Canada be better?

hadexman:
@ Poster, I will advice you try Canada. Life in the UK is far expensive and the immigration rules are very strict at the moment.

NordicRace:
You cannot live and work in the UK without Masters Degree.

Really?

[quote author=bk_baybe99 link=topic=379292.msg5295112#msg5295112 date=1263238544]Like comparing North America to Africa! Canada Is waaaay better!I think. Never been to London but heard its kinda wack out there[/quote]I've been to London before but never Canada and how is it wack?

jenibayo:
CANADA is de best.

How and why pls?

hehehehe my bad! I mean UK and its cities, I'm sure u understood what I meant

Which is better in terms of everything, life, fun and what it has to offer? Opinions needed pls,

Which is better in terms of everything, life, fun and what it has to offer? Opinions needed pls,

tammyswits:
Anyone can see that the person in question is not interested in the relationship, he/she has other commitments elsewhere but still wants to keep his/her current "sweetheart" just incase, it feels good to have someone who sucks up to you, does alot for the self esteem!

would have to agree with all

They say men mostly always need space, but how much space is enough.

It is best in person.

What do you do or can be said when your partner, you hardly even see him or her, not even calling a lot or text, yet still needs time to his/her self almost all the time. You want out but your partner still wants you. Is that a good relationship or one you could tolerate?

Got it! and sent the info. Thanks

My email add is on my profile, i need your advice on something. please signal here when u get this. thanks

Guys can u really love someone so much but hardly call or visit all the time? maybe sometimes 2 weeks or more. And also you'd rather txt rather than call ur girl, could that be love?

How did i solve the puzzle? i meant that if i am to pick one i enjoy being with and so used to, it would be my (ex) bf but looking at the long run, i know the other gentleman if i was to pick or anything in terms of being good would be better

I don't think there's any specific timing or time. It just happens though one should be able to differ from lust/infatuation, however, i love to go through hard times with whomever before i know if this is really true love.

Hello,

Ok I have this boyfriend(ex) who i love but these are his problems. He has cheated and i still feel he might cheat if we get married and i also have this guy whom i met, that is God fearing, a gentleman and seems like he would make a very good man but no connection or attraction as such. i would rather be with my ex/bf than him. i feel like i have to force myself to get attracted to him both physically, sexually and emotionally. Am i making a huge mistake?

Also this ex of mine happened to be much older, about 15 yrs older than i am, do you think if we eventually get married that such marriage would work?