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kokoye:

I see no problem asking your boyfriend / girlfriend for some financial assistance when you truly need it. It is not like you do it all the time.

I'm sure most people wouldnt mind asking their best friends for money when needed . . why not a boyfriend who can afford it?

pash:

@carlinks >> am not even talking abt the poster. Nice talk anyway but what is wrong wen you have enof and your GF needs help and you render it, 10k, 20k out of a good salary is nothing. think guys that said dey can help der GF need a better work.

sashaa:

Ezyra, she said there was a situation. Not that she expected him to take on her entire financial needs(i do not believe in that either!).

Thank you. Those people asking if he's my father, go get a job and all that talk, who said I don't have a job.

Seen the video too. She looked really nasty down there Some mosquito infested marks on her butt and close to the vjayjay were bumps, ewww. She should just go do something useful for herself.

Blank I do not ask my boyfriend for money. There was a desperate situation and I came to him for the first time and asked, not like i forced and that was his response.

Ok I recently wrote a post before about boyfriend telling the girl he's not a 100% her responsibility and doesn't really have much money. One of his friends did a baby shower and he's getting them a lawn mower. Do you know how much that cost? I'm not jealous or angry, it's good but when I had asked for little because of my situation then, it was something else.
Is there not any reason for me to feel somehow?

MRbrownJAY:

@poster
you make it sound like breaking up is such a bad thing? if there is no more chemistry then staying with someone is a waste of time. i am very easy to let go of people who dont make the efforts to keep the relationship going and interesting (or maybe i get tired of people easily) and will drop them like they are hot in a second.

also i dont believe in LDR and will prefer to break up and then get back together when we meet again rather than trying to make something out of nothing work from each side of the world.

some people believe that they have to stick with their partner no matter what they going through just because they have been together for a certain time or because of what they have "invested"in this relationship, nonsense!

It's not necessarily breaking up being a bad thing, it's about the other person being very good and not deserving such! What's the possibility the next person would be better or good or you might also fall out of love or vice versa?

Did you regret it? Even if the person was really good, but you just can't feel the spark there like in the beginning or fell you are falling out of love. Did you ever break up?

tpiah:

didnt the lady marry a black guy the other day?

That's Khloe, the bigger(fatter) sis!

Assuming you don't really have friends, partner as in boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband etc what do you when bored or free?

Come on guys what if the distance is far? which one?

Which would you attend if they both happen to fall on the same day?

SA Lady:

@Poster I suspect somebody must have took a piss in his Kellogs that morning and he decided to take it out on you. He doesnt sound like an unreasonable guy as he gives you the money whenever he can. My problem though, why is it an expecation on your side that a boyfriend should be responsible for your financial needs? Please dont be that girl.

@bigrod can you calm yourself down

Thanks darling. I am not his responsibility. That was the first time i asked because I was down at the moment and i asked him. he did not even say it in a cruel manner. if u read my post, you would see where i said I even pitied him for asking. I just came to ask other girls how they would react or feel. Please if you could read my post again.

CyberG:

Sounds like one of those USELESS leaches of a girlfriend I know! Go get a job and take care of yourself and NEVER ask him for money! People like you claim women liberation on one hand and then, when the shoe is on the other foot, the man SHOULD be responsible for YOU? Well, after you marry him, have his kids and be a GOOD wife and mother, then watch him do anything and everything for you but until then, get a life and don't be such a pest!

Where did i go wrong? So if you are in trouble or so, and you ask your girlfriend to help you, that's being a pest? Maybe you guys really need to read the post again, word for word, alphabet for alphabet before just saying anything that doesn't make sense or relate to my question.

d bigrod:

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thanks for this.but u need to  be ready for her insults.

gbam

@poster,
thnks for insulting me.its gud that u even know what 50 % is.that shows dat u will be good enough  for some buying and selling.why dont u engage in pure water or akara bizness.it will do your poor life a world of good.girls like u think dat u are doing d guy a favour by dating him.rubbish.u have  brain and pu**ssy.u use your p**ssy to f**uck but u dont wanna use your brain to work.lazy pig[/size]

I repeat again, you are just an IDI*OT! don't have time for wild useless animals that cannot be tamed.

Hey guys! Take it easy before jumping into conclusions. My question has already been answered. "No!" I was only asking the girls about their own feelings if their men say something like that. if you read, you would see where I said I asked only because I didn't have at that time and needed. What crime is it to ask?
I even wrote I pitied him because of his other responsibilities but another part was telling me, shouldn't you be also part of his responsibility as in knowing you are okay and that;s why i asked, and I've gotten the answer. "No". It's no big deal.

d bigrod:

[size=15pt]@poster,

who told u dat u are part of his responsibility.what rubbish!!!why dont u go work for your own money.since u can f*uck ,u can make money too    [/size]

You are an IDI*O*T! read before you spit out trash.

iice:

You are his responsibility if you are either married or a child.

Thanks Iice.

If you've never asked him for money, he gives you on his own but one day, you are broke and in need of money and you asked him. You know he takes care of his own family and money is tight on him but he has a very good, paying job. He replies that, he doesn't have enough at the moment, because of his other responsibilities and he tells you he cannot be 50-100% your responsibility, that he even has to pay his sister's fees.

Girls, how would you react to this? I even pitied him but another mind was telling me, you are his girl and you don't ask at all. You should be part of his responsibility.

luap:

My wife decided not to have children.  She admits she, one reason is that she said it might change her figure.  Another is that she said it would be hard for her to commit to a child.  Another she would be jealous.  We have considered adopting and we could send the child to a boarding school.  I told her we would be better off just giving to children through charity, she agrees.

I do not feel the need to have children either.  I have many nephews and nieces.

I can't believe this but I guess people are different. Why would a woman like me, with my womb decide not to have any kid at least before I die just because I don't want to lose my shape or jealousy but oh well!


To all, guess I was wrong, I thought it was a bad thing for a woman to decide not to have any kid because of trivial reasons unless of course health wise that could be risky. I also thought that women were made without any side effects as in health wise to have at least one kid to leave behind in the event of passing away.

I was watching on the tv when one of these women (celebrities) decided she was not going to have kids so as not to lose her shape then another saying she does not think she has to have kids.
As women, is it necessary and our duty to have at least a child?

@ Poster

I feel you, you are only being honest. Don't mind the other ones ranting racist and all. I feel jealous too at times when I see a black (Nigerian) dude with a white woman but that does not mean I hate white people or I'm racist.

How about mixed, Pineapple and orange juice mized together, I love that. If I am to pick, maybe pineapple, not exactly sure.

Yummmyy waiting for the feedback so I know. Was actually thinking of gala too but this airport , I feel you Fhemmy, I have that cravings too for gala

It depends on how you like it and where your location is. I know in the US, there's ready made pancake that all you need to do is add water and then fry it with small water but if you want to start from scratch, here's how I do mine

Get ordinary Flour (all purpose), mix it with eggs, milk sometimes nutmeg for taste but not necessary, sugar, all depends on your taste and water, if you like it thick or thin, you determine the quantity. Get my frying pan, put very small oil and spread round the frying pan, and then take a spoon and pour some of my mix in the pan. If i like it thick or thin, or very crusty at the edge or a little burnt, then I leave it to fry for a long time. Kapeeesh!

GboyegaD:

Hey ladies,

Most of U r only pretending that it doesn't matter because you are unfortunate not to have been married at 26. I can boldly tell you that most Naija ladies wants to marry before that age however, when they are unfortunate to still be single at that age they form all forms of excuses ranging from self independence to incompatibility etc. Whilst some have genuine reasons which is that they are yet to get the right person, some because of their myopic reasoning and selfishness have opted to make their husband their boyfriend thus, have missed the right man for them.

I quite agree with you!

It amazes me or I wonder what people actually mean when they say they divorce or break up due to "irreconcilable differences". I can understand cheating, not being compatible but what constitutes that irreconcilable difference that cannot be worked out or forgiven? Is it just the cheating classified as such?

Exactly! Don't understand what the poster is infering.

I personally do not believe that. If a man loves you and wants to be with you, whether sex or no sex, he would be with you.

YES YES YES YES YES YES It makes me feel and know that i am a woman and very attractive.

@Poster

Even as a woman, I disagree 'cos that would give him more room to do and do other desperate women out there. I doubt it really works all the time.

Liss:

I had this terrible crush on some guy back when I was in primary school, thought he was the cutest guy in the class, tallest, smartest and all,

I ended up leaving the school for another and forgot all about the guy. Until I recently saw him a few months ago! Waoh! I couldn't believe my eyes, he was not cute at all! he was just of average height now (considered short for a guy) and his hair was thinning in front! He didn't look good at all. I guess "life" had happened to him.
For the life of me, I wonder what must have made me have a have crush on him back then.

People, share your experiences of seeing guys/girls you had had crushes on while young and seeing them many years later. Did they remain their cute selves or they had changed so bad, you felt bad for them?

This got me laughing my a** out. I feel you on that. Some of the ones I've seen got me wondering what exactly did I see in them to fall for

How do you define and derive your happiness? What's your definition of your own happiness?