₦airaland Forum

1Sharon:
Date good women you would not hear

You are joking right, in the whole of Nigeria there's like 10 good women, about 9 are already married, the only one remaining is too old for dating.

This generation of ladies, you can't pick an apple without worms, there's always something wrong, you just have to eat everything with salt, preferably after removing the bad parts, but you should know, be prepared to taste some worms, it's inevitable.

immortalcrown:
You are the one who doesn't understand what we are discussing here. We are not talking about people who are willing to give sexual pleasure. We are talking about true lovers. By the way, why do you think of sex whenever true love is mentioned? Have you forgotten that your true lover can be your fellow man who has no sexual interest in you? Don't you know that a woman's true lover can be her fellow woman and no sexual intention in the relationship? The mistake you people make is that you think that sex is part of love. Someone who truly loves you may be unable to give you sex while someone who doesn't love you will be willing, capable and always available to give you sex.

I don't know who told most of the people in this world that a true lover must be a sexual partner. As a man, a woman can truly love you without having sexual feelings for you.[b] A married woman can have pure interest in a single guy and tries to establish him. But the mistake you people make is that whenever a woman in that position tries to help a single guy, his mind will quickly tell him that she has sexually interested in him. Even if his mind doesn't tell him that, the people around him will try to convince him that she is being nice to him because she is sexually interested in him. The same goes to women. Good spirited married man may want to help single girls that are suffering simply because those men understand that suffering makes the girls vulnerable to men that will abuse the girls. But for most girls in this situation, their mind will deceive them into believing that those men definitely have sexual interesting them. Even on this forum, I've come across a post where a young girl was complaining that a married man has been so nice and spending on her for many years but has not asked her out. This clearly shows that the girl believed that the man is helping her definitely because he has sexual interest in her. This generation is so misguided to an extent that so many people no longer believe that the world still has selfless individuals[/b].

A married woman has pure intent towards a single guy 😂😂😂😂

I hail oh🙌🙌🙌

Forget the generation, A married man helping a single lady but doesn't want anything to do with her, just pure love😂😂😂

I can see you are a helpless romantic, there's no such thing as pure love with humans, everything has a condition.

Some people love to help just to hear praises and have a good feeling about be called a good person, same person might not allow you progress organically because they want you around coming for favors and hearing you singing their praises.

Everything has a condition, it might not be sexual but a great percentage of it is sexual especially from the opposite sex.

A married man with siblings and family relations that needs help, ignore some of those of his family and shower a single lady with goodies and she feels it's pure love because he hasn't tried to sleep with her.🙄🙄🙄

immortalcrown:
You are the one who doesn't understand what we are discussing here. We are not talking about people who are willing to give sexual pleasure. We are talking about true lovers. By the way, why do you think of sex whenever true love is mentioned? Have you forgotten that your true lover can be your fellow man who has no sexual interest in you? Don't you know that a woman's true lover can be her fellow woman and no sexual intention in the relationship? The mistake you people make is that you think that sex is part of love. Someone who truly loves you maybe unable to give you sex while someone who doesn't love you will be willing, capable and always available to give you sex.

I don't know who told most of the people in this world that a true lover must be a sexual partner. As a man, a woman can truly love you without having sexual feelings for you. A married woman can have pure interest in a single guy and tries to establish him. But the mistake you people make is that whenever a woman in that position tries to help a single guy, his mind will quickly tell him that she has she sexually interested in him. Even if his mind doesn't tell him that, the people around him will try to convince him that she is being nice to him because she is sexually interested in him. The same goes to women. Good spirited married man may want to help single girls that are suffering simply because those men understand that suffering makes the girls vulnerable to men that will abuse the girls. But for most girls in this situation, their mind will deceive them into believing that those men definitely have sexual interesting them. Even on this forum, I've come across a post where a young girl was complaining that a married man has been so nice and spending on her for many years but has not asked her out. This clearly shows that the girl believed that the man is helping her definitely because he has sexual interest in her. This generation is so misguided to an extent that so many people no longer believe that the world still has selfless individuals.

Stop confusing yourself, I never mentioned sex, this discussion is about if true love can survive without money.

That said, love is physical, it's a physical attraction, you can pretend all you want, every one you love is based on a condition, a physical attribute that you find appealing, a connection that resonate with you.

The only being with Absolute Love is God, even parents love is conditional, they love you because you are their child and they feel this parental obligation to protect and love you.

If a guy tells you he loves you but he doesn't want to get anything physical related, my guy run oh, love is based on attraction, you can't love who you have never seen or heard.

Now to the crocks of the topic, A WOMAN'S LOVE IS CLOSELY RELATED TO WHAT SHE CAN GET, A MAN'S LOVE IS BASED ON WHAT HE SEES.

A woman can't love a man if the man can't be useful to her, it's very simple.

GboyegaD:
I like how we deceive ourselves so much as a people. So many people have been engaged in farming and their produce can't sustain their families let alone having extra for sales.

Why would I be bothered about farmers making their money when I make mine? Everyone would do what they find convenient and put food on their table however, closing the borders and worsening the inflation situation isn't the solution.

Why would you want the border open when you can find everything you want in the market 🙄🙄🙄

By the way, a kilo of cocoa is now over 10k Naira, I went to the village this December, the car I drive home has nothing on the cars they are now using, one of my family friends has his own house well furnished with SOLAR panels and big generator.

Be there and be lying to yourself they are not producing anything, someone told me he made 5 million from maize this year alone, he has plantain farms, made over 10 million from casava farms.

Just wait until Federal government pass the bill to add casava to floor, you will understand, just be lying to yourself.

immortalcrown:
I have true lovers who don't get money from me.

I think you don't understand what we are talking about.

Take for example a guy with his own place a car, enough food and money for himself and maybe even 2 more people if he has still considers himself poor.

Ladies will definitely be ready to sleep with him and stay with him in the hope that he picks them, he might not need to give them money, but the fact that they know he has it is sufficient for some, especially those playing the long game.

She just needs the assurance that you have it, and the hope that she'll become the main chick you spend on. Some ladies marry some guys with nothing and even lazy just because they see his family has money, ladies are very objective, it's guys that fall in love with a beautiful face and ASS.

Until you lose your job, with no family to help, no friends to help that you will know that there's nothing like true love.

GboyegaD:
Please, stop being silly. What local production are you talking about here? Or farmers can't sustain a quarter of the economy and until real industries farming is practiced, closing the borders will only worsen the inflation situation.

I knew that was your angle from your statement, you want REAL INDUSTRIES FARMING when it's not profitable, farmers are Nigerians too they deserve appreciation.

You are just pained because they get to make enough from their farm, and by the way more people are going into farming, and in 2 years that they might just be able to sustain the country in food production.

The only reason problem facing agriculture is storage, every crop is produced in excess but because there's no adequate storage it looks like a seasonal production.

immortalcrown:
No bad road will damage a new car to that extent unless you drive recklessly.

Forget story, no type of love can survive without money, no Nigerian woman will be with you without money.

Without money love doesn't exist, and by the way, there's nothing like true love, life without money is just pain and suffering.

immortalcrown:
YES

Let me use a road journey for the illustration.

True love is not just the car, it is a new car with good shock absorbes. Fake love is a very faulty car.

Financial status is the road condition. Poverty means a very bad road with potholes. Wealth means a standard tarred d road.

If the road is bad about the car is new, you will feel gallops but will manage to get to your destination. If the road is good and the car is new, the journey will be very smooth and you will get to your destination. The bad car has a very high tendency to stop you halfway when the road is bad. And as long as the car is bad, the journey will never be smooth even if the road is good.

True love survives without money because they love didn't start because of money and doesn't position itself to depend on money.

You forget, bad roads can render a new car into scraps, you need good road to get to your destination.

VirginOlosho:
Naira has no business appreciating if it won't reflect on the prices of goods. It can climb up to 2000 for all I care

Look at this one, seriously, same way some Nairalander were happy about the new naira note that was destroying the economy, Nigerians have this selfish blood that only care about themselves.

You are angry because farmers can earn a living, you expect the government to open border so farm produce can be cheap not minding the economy disadvantage or the effect on local production.

If you want to make money in agriculture, start your own farm, Nigeria has enough land, stop being lazy and bitter.🙄🙄

MrIcredible:

Correct man

I always love it when men speak out and express themselves.

A LOT OF FOOLỊSH MEN HAVE BEEN SENT TO JAIL AND GRAVE BECAUSE THEM PLAYED SENSELESS MATURITY AND COVERED UP EVIL DONE TO THEM BY WOMEN.

Even men will call it maturity, that is the reason many men are rushing into marriage, they have no idea what women are capable of, some men are even BEGGING THE LADY😂😂😂

Talk about starting a relationship with the devil with a kiss, like I always say, they will either learn or die, come to Edo State, so many LANDLADY they have used their men to mop the floor, and the worst part, nobody knows exactly what happened, she has even succeeded in convincing his children that he is such a bad man.

1Sharon:
Divorce is now to be celebrated? He couldn't keep his home like his fathers of old.

Ashewo dey his eye. He just wants to sleep around.

You mean by marrying another wife, and then another🙄🙄🙄

If he was poor now, you could say he was a lazy man, the wife has a right to leave him because he's poor, now that he is okay, he an Ashewo because he decided to leave a toxic woman.

tommy589:
Detty December no be for where Hisbah dey o

They said Lagos, at least read first, don't let your hatred and anger guide you.🙄🙄

tobby20:
This goat looks like one nairalander
Realityking

Very funny, na sell I wan sell, I no find trouble.

Still available

Location: Lagos
Price: 80k negotiable

Sp1ritHusband:
It is man-made 100% for the sole purpose of control and it has worked well in Africa.

Men like you and me wrote the Bible and Quoran for control as well. All the GO/GO/Imams and alfas are men like you and me, no big deal and nothing special about them, If you must go to churches, attend solely to improve your social life and nothing more.

Abrahamic religion is a form of mental bondage and colonization in a form I have never seen before and everything you know today is as a result of the repetitive indoctrination that you have absorbed from your environment, from childhood till now, and nothing more. Your family, the church or mosque, school, people around you .

Why do you think DLCM has multiple programs during the week? It is for the sole purpose of repetitive generational indoctrination. As a fact, most of the GO/Gs/s are having so much fun on earth here that they do not want to go to "heaven". The indoctrination is the same in the old soviet union and the Islamic religion.

I think the major issues with the church is they are not in touch with reality, by the time they are caught up, life have left them behind.

Fellowship should be about raising each other up, but the competition there is about leadership struggle. The preaching is more inclined to THE RICH WILL NOT MAKE THE KINGDOM OF GOD.

The story of the rich man and Lazarus is one of their most favored parable, they feel if they are poor, God will have mercy and heaven will be within reach, I once told one of their brothers, you will be surprised in you fortunate to make heaven, those who you expect won't make.

cr7lomo:
Nnpc under this yoruba Ronaldo government are bunch of thieves ... I got fuel in festac when I went to visit a relative for 1025 in an independent filling station...only for me to see fuel at 1065 at NNPc in lekki ikota area ... NNPC has never been more expensive than any filling station since inception over 15yrs ago ...

Don't lie NNPC is 1015 everywhere.

richard870:
Ambush pricing to discourage importation by marketers.....petrol price that shouldn't be more than 200 per litre.

If God says Nigeria will get better, it will effortlessly. For now, its simply business as usual with a different 'looting' model in the guise of subsidy removal.... what a pity!

Really, how did you come about this figure?

Bullfallo:
Lol. He is going to share bag of rice and peanuts to agbodorians

And?

Gbogbowa:
APC has ruin our Democracy,they are looking for means just to arrest Aside to prevent him from defending and recovering his mandate. What concern Aside with EDO vehicle. I feel like cursing this evil govt but Christian will not curse.we are getting there very soon

It's very simple, he should return the 21 vehicles, he can continue with his Court case, what is the relationship between cars and court case🙄🙄

placeofallure:
This sexuality spectrum thing is getting more complicated every day. When you think you've seen it all, another one will pop up. They're pushing the agenda, making it more popular, making it seem harmless and normal, making more people embrace it, especially children. You'd see it in cartoons, in children literature, graphics on their clothes etc.

I use to have a girlfriend in school. She's straight to the best of my knowledge, but if she wanna watch porn, she'd only watch gay sites. I don criticize tire!

The truth is it's already there, men just find other ways to express it, imagine a guy that demands ANAL- SEX from his girlfriend and only enjoy ANAL-

He is gay, the only reason he is with a woman is because of the society where he lives.

As a matter of fact, if your boyfriend engage in ANAL- SEX with you, HE IS GAY!

Faber:
To bleep the a*$ hole too sweet... normally ...

But I will never support to bleep the a*$ hole of a fellow man. But you see the a*$ hole of a woman if you never bleep am.. you are missing a lot.

No ecstasy reach am, except perhaps bjs :

That gurl that snatched ur guy/hubby no use any kanyamatta.. ur guy dey oil up her a*$ hole on a steady, so hanty stop making and move on

You are already gay, guys that enjoy penetrating the ass of a woman are gay, they are just warming up to it.

THERE'S NO DIFFERENCE.

zero8zero:
This is why Governor Sheriff was jittery and firing shots at Tinubu.

Tinubu knows how to get to everyone.

SmartPolician:
He did nothing. Permanent secretaries are people who are already working in civil service. He just promoted them.

He meant the name is Yoruba, but he left the surname.

Kobojunkie:
You are not making any sense! Make certain to take time to digest the response before you respond next time!🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

There's nothing to digest in that statement, it sounds like you didn't even read the Bible, no parable has a resemblance of what you said, maybe you made that up.

Like I said, make proper reference.

Kobojunkie:
🤣🤣🤣🤣 The convenient tales you lot tell...I always wonder how far deep the sewage tunnel you lot have to dip yourselves!

So, the parable of selling all of one's treasures in order to have the treasure of heaven along with several other commands such as instructing His followers not to give their treasures to the Pigs was also Jesus Christ testing "faith and commitment" of that one man you decided to point out conveniently? 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

Religion & confusion are two peas in a pod! 😏😏😏😏

Like I said, make the right reference, this statement is just concoction of maybe 5 Bible passages that doesn't relate.

Read the Bible and argue objectively.

Kobojunkie:
Does Jesus Christ of Israel, who instead proclaimed that anyone of Israel would need to sell everything one has to buy what He offers, know of this false campaign of yours? 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

Religion & confusion are two peas in a pod! 😏😏

At least make the right reference if you are going to be annoying.

Jesus told one man, he noticed the man bragging about obeying the law and commandments, Jesus was testing his faith and commitment, evidently lacking in both he declined.

Exousiang01:
Benue is not dealing with terrorism and the governor cannot with say that with a straight face.

Have you ever heard of a pin being stollen in the aftermath of attacks, have ever heard of kidnaps in the aftermath of these attacks, have you ever heard of a take over of a village and demand for tax...

They just go, kill and leave.
They don't take a penny or a grain of salt, they don't kidnap anybody.
It's started happening before the governor was born.

It's not terrorism sir.
The Tor Tiv, Ochidoma and Adirahu'Igede will always remain silent.
They know the truth and they are traditional rulers, it better to stay silent than speak the truth and offend the governor who has being lying....

This is not banditary or terrorism

Your definition of TERRORISM is not yet in the dictionary.

From your explanation, what is happening is inter-tribal war, not headsmen attacks, I find that hard to believe considering the information on the media and the numbers of people displaced.

If there's any truth to this, that means the elders and kings (including the people) have fundamental issues with themselves, the inability to resolve issues before it's degenerates into killing is to say the least disgraceful.

KEVIND:
Kudos to Tinubu but debt servicing is not the samea as debts repayment.
Make the report more comprehensive.

Maybe you should learn to read first.

thesicilian:
Personally I don't think 500k is enough to start this, except you remove the cost of shop rent and furnishings.

BTW, OP's question was, can 500k start this business? Yet people are suggesting their one business. Some that may even come online tomorrow to beg with different usernames are still insulting the business on top.

Because that business is crap, the profit from that monthly is not up to 30k, you want someone to sit down with that every month.

Except it is in an estate, most of those things are not necessities, and those with money will prefer Big shops where they can get everything at one.

just2endowed:
I think the police style is for those that will go into the bush and fight bandits and terrorist

I can see you are not a law enforcement personnel or understand how they work.

The present Nigeria police have jurisdiction everywhere and on everything, you see how efcc couldn't arrest YAYA BELLO because he was with the new governor, exactly, jurisdiction matters.

The army can't persecute anyone except one of their own, if they arrest any civilian they must hand him over to the police.

When the state police arrest headsmen, will they be the one persecuting or will they have to hand over to the police like Amoteku and all the other security agencies created by the state, if so, then nothing will change.

The present police force needs to be dismantled, they are redundant, lazy and corrupt.

Hellisreal70:
State Police is the answer

Not just creating state police, if you create state police, who will have jurisdiction, the present police is nothing to write home about, creating another that will most likely be under the first is going to be counter productive.

Exousiang01:
The governor knows the truth.
The traditional rulers know the truth.

Until they get to the root.
Nothing will change.

You will remember I said this when you hear of another round of killings

The truth of what? Are a JESUS CHRIST now, "THE TRUTH".

There's nothing like the truth, state the solution.

We have terrorist cell in almost every state, if you think it's state police, you are wrong, state police will be under the federal police and that will just add an extra layer of bureaucracy.

My solution.
The only way is to dismantle the present police structure, send everyone to their state of origin, they do proper checks and assign them as needed with no federal oversight.

Efcc can be upgraded to an investigation organization and empowered to hurt down cross state criminals.

My point is, the present police can't be incorporated, it has to be dismantled.