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Don't be fooled by a guys tears, it is a mere acting,

A man's heart is too deep for such silliness if he is a real man

Guys play act their tears

A man in most case have nothing to loose when relationship end

all the tears of a man is just artificial playacting

yaqq:
https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/news/general/kogi-govt-declares-public-holiday-over-buharis-return/210840.html

Hypocrisy. they never Prayed when He was 105 days away
Just so he can read it in the news that Kogi cares

Nigerian Rulers lying to themselves and Nigerian people

aminulive:
President Muhammadu Buhari has stated that he is in fine health and is only obeying the orders of his Doctors by remaining in London.

Buhari said that there was a tremendous improvement in his health and wishes to return home, "but I've learnt to obey my doctor's orders, rather than be the one issuing the orders. Here, the doctor is absolutely in charge."

The President spoke while receiving the presidential media team, and the Senior Special Assistant on Diaspora Matters, at Abuja House, London, on Saturday. Alhaji Lai Mohammed, Minister of Information and Culture, led the visiting team, accompanied by Mr Femi Adesina, Special Adviser on Media and Publicity; Mallam Garba Shehu, Senior Special Assistant on Media and Publicity, and Lauretta Onochie, Personal Assistant on Digital/Online Media.

Also, there was Mrs Abike Dabiri-Erewa, Senior Special Assistant on Diaspora Matters.When the team expressed delight at the much-improved health of the President, he retorted: "I feel I could go home, but the doctors are in charge. I've now learnt to obey orders, rather than be obeyed."

On how he felt hearing different conjectures about his health, an amused President Buhari said he followed events at home closely, lauding Nigerian television stations, and the media generally, for keeping him informed.

When told that prayers were going on fervently for him, not only in Nigeria, but all over Africa, and round the world, a delighted President said: "What we did in The Gambia early this year fetched us a lot of goodwill on the African continent. It gave us a lot of latitude. I thank all those who are praying. May God reward them."

President Buhari sent appreciation to all Nigerians, expressing hope that he would be with them soon.

http://politicsngr.com/2017/08/12/staying-london-doctors-buhari/

Nigerian "RULERS" they are not qualified to be called Leaders, leaders are loved, they leave enviable legacies

Its amazing how these people ignore the cries for freedom, they Lord it over the helpless masses and deceive even themselves in their

temporary status

Too sad, they all forget that Time mocks us all.

Where is Abacha?

Where is IBB? living but he lost his honor in his Pride

Where is Obasanjo? Struggling to be relevant almost conquered by his age

Where is Jonathan, Hunted by His mischievous misrule and he is scared even of his people in the creek for his failure to do right with Billion looted in his tenure

Where are all the many looters , David Mark, Deziani, Tompolo, Tafa Balogun, James Ibori, Igbenedion, and a host of others

they are locked up in their shame for the misdeed to the helpless people

Even Saraki has forgotten his own Father, and his toeing in his Line.

Time Mocks us all.

Life is short, Very short


Whatever a man sows, He shall surely reap. Even the children cannot escape the repercussions

Nigeria So sad

Sylverly:
I just realized that I feel this nervousness in me whenever the thought of getting married someday sets in. Having read through different stories about couples:both the happily married and those facing one or two challenges (knowing fully well that these people were once happy and believed that they were mean't for each other). Please I'm still at my early 20's. Will such feeling be outgrown someday

You are in your twenties and instead of thinking of how to succeed academically you are fantasizing about marriage
I wont say it is a bad thing?
It is not too early to think of a good future but climb the ladder from the first step

Now, about your fears, this is the solution to the fears
Accept Christ into your heart and God helps you get a good definition of a partner
If you are a Christian, truly born again, You will have a discernment not to marry a lady who have no God as guide in life
The only reasons people have marital issues is because Jesus is not at the central of their union
True Christian may have challenges in marriage but they have the word of God as a guide in solving thier issues

If you marry a woman or man who does not know Jesus and have no passion to obey the Bible
You have married a disaster
Trust me, they are many out there

babythug:
It's a common scenario in many homes. I suggest you find other things to occupy your own time too at least for a while.

The attention you're paying to the matter will likely make your man more fixated on using the phone.

As harsh as it sounds keep communication basic for now! Just ignore him he will come round eventually!

Apt. Very wise advice.

I feared marriage for so long and i stayed away from it because of the Temper of a woman, I had prayed to meet a christian for a wife, i thought i did, we met somehow and questions were asked. principle were discussed particularly those believed to keep friendship ongoing. four years into the marriage, it is a different story. reality has dawn on me. to cut a long story short, Pride and Rebellion is one description of one i once wrote a love letter in her honor. unwilling to be corrected. bitter and incorrigible. let me call her name Henrietha
The woman for whom i penned the love Poems below, have turned out to be the reason for my long abstinence from Marriage, the least of my trouble is a disgrace by Police and a court appearance . Today, i read the letter and broke down in tears.

My Dear Henrietta

At the passing of this short memory of our love memoir, I shall and
must demand from my bowels the precious cause for my enticement in
this worthy league of amity.
Counting by numbers, This day 22 June 2013, makes its marks as the
first month of our journey, a precious voyage of affections sealed by
an oath but long borne by love, the day we scorned the barrage of
distractions to bid farewell to loneliness, on this day a month ago,
we were absent from their disdain, we missed their mockery and ignored
their fears as we walked boldly backing the crowd to say YES to a long
meeting of mate because we found a reason to do so. A compelling
reason hinged on the deep feelings of our hearts, a yearning that grew
from the nocturnal conversations propping the long awaited happiness.
Once again in the Arena of scarce word, I shall assay to wield the
matter of my affectionate heart to You My Dear Henrietha

At the passing of this short memory of our love memoir, I shall and
must demand from my bowels the precious cause for my enticement in
this worthy league of amity.
Counting by numbers, This day 22 June 2013, makes its marks as the
first month of our journey, a precious voyage of affections sealed by
an oath but long borne by love, the day we scorned the barrage of
distractions to bid farewell to loneliness, on this day a month ago,
we were absent from their disdain, we missed their mockery and ignored
their fears as we walked boldly backing the crowd to say YES to a long
meeting of mate because we found a reason to do so. A compelling
reason hinged on the deep feelings of our hearts, a yearning that grew
from the nocturnal conversations propping the long awaited happiness.
Once again in the Arena of scarce word, I shall assay to wield the
matter of my affectionate heart to You BOYIN my Love, conjuring
indelible epitaph to convey the ceaseless fountain of my loveliness
From all the doubts and muse of the human thoughts, please spare my love,
I am again compelled by the zest and strength of Love to capture the
feelings of my heart in this union and to leave indelible insignia of
my warmth for you.
Let me start to say that yours was the most beautiful smile that ever
caught my fancy in the cope of mortals, the glance of it from the
airport was a powerful hook from which I shall never recover, and the
memories are still with me. The memories of it like a beam have
continued with me even in this long absence.
I found for a wife the chunkiest specie from the creative animus of
Nature and I shall be wanting in self respect to take this for
granted,
Also my Love, I found within your bowel an enthusiasm for life that is
infectious, a smile that melts a heart, and a gentleness that warms
the soul. The fire of it burns and it makes me want to be with you
forever
Seemingly Left alone to boredom after the oath; Constant thoughts of
you creep around my head; I am in regular muse of our rare union, all
the things we said and did, The smiles, the tete-a tete conversing,
The walks, the trips, and the freedom we expressed are like grease of
grace and believe me, I want more.
I have not a slightest doubt in your fidelity and boldly say You
are perfectly proportioned and beautiful, an intellectual, a
passionate breed , and as you have now become my adorable Jewel.
To all bystanders our love is an insoluble puzzle. The rarity, the
space and speed of love has been nurtured by our night-time
conversation and we are solaced by the resolute decision to be joined
first from our hearts before we were made public by oath one month ago
My Henrietha , you’re beautiful all through, a good masterpiece a gift
from Nature, with your hair gently set in their sockets like radiating
beam, your eyes also glimmering in the sun rays and bouncing with
attractions I can’t wait to see you again and feel that expression of
my new source of joy (God helping us) Come to think, my preferred
place is next to you.
Our story of Love is only beginning, Twill be tested by the wiles of
man’s weakness and can only flourish and strengthened by humility and
forgiveness this day is remarkable in our history and so must be our
Marriage every other day
Let us always Call to mind the Joy and foundation of this union, that
which we felt when no one was there, the which we celebrate and shall
do always as long as there is blood in our veins, that Joy for which
we scorned the scorners and mockers, the resoluteness that birthed our
celebration
May our Love be many, may it overcome the defaming of fault seekers as
we jointly build a home.
Accept my rich gift of True Love as I continue to give all of it to
the most deserving Henrietha of mine
my Love, conjuring
indelible epitaph to convey the ceaseless fountain of my loveliness
From all the doubts and muse of the human thoughts, please spare my love,
I am again compelled by the zest and strength of Love to capture the
feelings of my heart in this union and to leave indelible insignia of
my warmth for you.
Let me start to say that yours was the most beautiful smile that ever
caught my fancy in the cope of mortals, the glance of it from the
airport was a powerful hook from which I shall never recover, and the
memories are still with me. The memories of it like a beam have
continued with me even in this long absence.
I found for a wife the chunkiest specie from the creative animus of
Nature and I shall be wanting in self respect to take this for
granted,
Also my Love, I found within your bowel an enthusiasm for life that is
infectious, a smile that melts a heart, and a gentleness that warms
the soul. The fire of it burns and it makes me want to be with you
forever
Seemingly Left alone to boredom after the oath; Constant thoughts of
you creep around my head; I am in regular muse of our rare union, all
the things we said and did, The smiles, the tete-a tete conversing,
The walks, the trips, and the freedom we expressed are like grease of
grace and believe me, I want more.
I have not a slightest doubt in your fidelity and boldly say You
are perfectly proportioned and beautiful, an intellectual, a
passionate breed , and as you have now become my adorable Jewel.
To all bystanders our love is an insoluble puzzle. The rarity, the
space and speed of love has been nurtured by our night-time
conversation and we are solaced by the resolute decision to be joined
first from our hearts before we were made public by oath one month ago
My Henrietha , you’re beautiful all through, a good masterpiece a gift
from Nature, with your hair gently set in their sockets like radiating
beam, your eyes also glimmering in the sun rays and bouncing with
attractions I can’t wait to see you again and feel that expression of
my new source of joy (God helping us) Come to think, my preferred
place is next to you.
Our story of Love is only beginning, Twill be tested by the wiles of
man’s weakness and can only flourish and strengthened by humility and
forgiveness this day is remarkable in our history and so must be our
Marriage every other day
Let us always Call to mind the Joy and foundation of this union, that
which we felt when no one was there, the which we celebrate and shall
do always as long as there is blood in our veins, that Joy for which
we scorned the scorners and mockers, the resoluteness that birthed our
celebration
May our Love be many, may it overcome the defaming of fault seekers as
we jointly build a home.
Accept my rich gift of True Love as I continue to give all of it to
the most deserving Henrietha

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