Toks2008:


I guess it is that trust issue that usually breings the heartache. The bible says we should trusty no one even the one that lies in our bossom.
Micah 7:5 ►Do not trust a neighbor; put no confidence in a friend. Even with the woman who lies in your embrace guard the words of your lips.

Yes it is good to say "i trust him or her" but in the real sense i will never trsust any lady no matter how perefect she may seem to be.

This is the vest way to be on guard so that if any crazy thing happens,you are emotionally,psychologically,mentally and even physically prepared so you just shrug it off.

That is the way to go.

well,i have my own conviction but i will let go to avoid derailing this educative thread!



Goodnight mr Toks2008

Toks2008:


I totally second your standview but we must start learning to adjust to this fact.

look at this scenario..i have been with you for years and i have invested so much love ,time and resources then you got carried away for whatever reason and after you are found out you apologize.

Does it make sense for me to drive you out against all odds?

Except the man does not love the lady i guess it will make it easier for the guy but if you love a woman,you will certainly not want to send her out to the hands of one crazy slowpoke who will now calm down and really do her well..please does that make sense?

Who knows if the new woman you now bring home is even worse than a female dog.

An unrepentant adultress is very different from a strAyed one.

ok,i respect your stand and i really hope you will do as you just said if face with such!!




But then again,ask yourself,will you ever trust your wife again even after forgiving her? TRUST is very delicate,onces broken,it very hard to regain,what is marriage without trust?

evegran:



I don't wish that.
Fine. I give up.

You guys are too dumb to comprehend simple English. I rather paint my nails than reply faceless losers.

hello!


There are people you don't just reply on here because they are not worth it, ignore them girl,they are just losers!

Toks2008:


I am not married but if i am and my wife cheats on me and she is repentant i will forgive her for real.

What sense will it make for me to drive my wife away to another man's hands? and what is the likelihood that the next woman will be that chaste?
This is one fact many guys dont know.

As for the quoted verse please reead again and you will see my points.

talk is easy but i will advice you not to say now until you are face with such,it a hard decision and until you get to the river you wouldnt know how to cross it!


Forgiving a cheating partner is easier than forgetting a partner cheat and as long as such image stuck in the memory,things can never be same again!!!

Greene66:

Of course not. A man own the woman. The woman is his prop.

this is just crazy,a man own which woman??

@toks2008 are you married?if yes,will you forgive a cheating partner?


The bible said,divorce on the ground of infidelity is justified,stop misquoting the bible please!!

It will not change anything! Infact terrorist might even be breed in that same school.

I888:
I didn't just speak to lick ass or to blindly support jadekitana, I stayed in Benin for more than 10 years and I know what goes around.

Since you are quite good with insults, I will indulge you.

Next time you wanna talk be sure you sign your death warrant before you engage anyone.

I hope that ugly face in your DP isn't you because you just might pass off as a witch awaiting deliverance.

why can't you mind your business?you are only compounding matters.when two ladies are exchanging words,learn to stay out of it.to think they have reached an agreement.



Too much for being an asslicker!

Ironically,op might be dating a girl in one of those categories!

Sasuwa:
am in a relationship but and want to know my position.

i don't know your age but judging by your post i think you are still too young.no offence.

RaDaZaBaNa:
..i see that this are the only three guys she is following.. and am afraid they will be send pms to her.. what can i do to salvage the situation pls.. its getting out of hand

you are trying too hard!

dharay99:

pastor Mrs, is dt so?
0hk tel me more...

heheheheheh.no,i just feel like taking a break for a longggggggggg time.have had my own share of r/shps

TippyTop:
Fayose was probably asking the boy why he was not in school. Oshiomhole on the other hand bought pawpaw without qualms.

quite funny!

Sometimes i ask myself if nigeria is actually moving forward or backward!

Well,i don't envy those in relationships,i have seen it all and whenever i see a happy union all i do is pray that it last.

LORDSAMURAI:
what is this one posting? long mchewwwwwwwww as if u even brush ur teeth twice daily.

hope you passed though?

LORDSAMURAI:
hold it right there, mind u i dnt roll with local ladies, im talking abt those big posh babe dat claims to have swag, ladies like you but deep down u dnt even know how to kiss.

i have stayed long enough on nairaland to note that kids and the inexperienced ones make the loudest noise especially in issues partaining to relationships. I understand dear!

He ought to riot in jail abegi

LORDSAMURAI:
Like seriously i have been opportune to kiss ladies from the uk,usa,south africa, spain, ghana and nigeria, but what i discovered is that NIGERIAN ladies dont know how to kiss, 90% of them are boring and disgusting kissers, they dnt even know how to french kiss, they will just pack saliva into your mouth, which is very boring and disgusting, those guys that have kissed ladies from ghana,south africa and d rest of the world will confirm it to be truth, NIGERIA ladies needs to take a lecture on how to kiss. "fact" my opinion though. "cc lalasticlala and obinoscopy can even testify that im saying the truth.

excuse me,i think you are a noise maker.deep down you know the calibre of ladies you roll with are nothing to drive home about.



That awkward moment when a kid claim to be all knowing.,

Sorry but what do you expect us to do?

Some ladies are even more cute without makeup.

kinginvalhala4:

And why arent you sleeping at this unholy and ungodly time of the day when your fellow women who re responsible would either be sleeping or reading their books? Doesnt it shows you re currently at the front of "White House, Toyin Street, Ikeja" waiting for a customer that would come and take you home?

sorry,i know this is none of my business,but heyyy,you are trying too hard mr man.are you the only guy on this thread?

Hmmmmmmmmm

No point dishing out advice when the original poster would'nt get to see it!!!





But i have got one thing to say,the lady in question need to work on her self esteem,