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190:
[color=deeppink]well take it

Thats the truth,

I like inkerd!

Ive always had, Too bad i cant get her and she hates me for

reasons best known to her, [size=3pt](meanwhile i would be engaging omolola sometime next moth please no one should let her know)--jstkiddin[/size][/color]

you will keep on kidding till i engage her,

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=531423.msg6937125#msg6937125 date=1287040643]


When 190 answers then I'll answer[/quote]190, pls spill the beans, she's waiting for it.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=531423.msg6936887#msg6936887 date=1287037105]^^^So what are you tryin' to say huh?[/quote]so what are you not trying to understand huh?

Enough of talking the talk 'let love rule'. can we now work the talk?

Yawns

TRUSTEDGUY:
You may have done some before knowing your husband. For instance if you have dated his best friend before knowing him.

there's nothing worth not telling in this your example.

dayokanu:
^^ I have never been more insulted in my life. Are you trying to call me a failure? Arsenal is a failed club and only supported by failures and people with no self esteem.

I abhor any manifestation of failure

dayo, arsenal's chief supporter on NL.

Omolola1:
Yes

There is nothing wrong in telling my husband everything

I can and i would

That is why we were joined together as one!

great to hear.[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=529200.msg6920327#msg6920327 date=1286810751]I used to tell everything

I have found from experience that it IS NOT GOOD TELLING EVERYTHING

Some things should be left unsaid to promote, maintain and cultivate a happy home[/quote]the question will then be: why do those things that ain't worth telling?

190:
[color=deeppink]Lagoon nor far, [/color]

that one too far, make him just jump onto the road for an oncoming vehicle on top speed to crush him.

funmbi92:
do u know me not to even talk of knowing my age
age has nothing to do in a relationship wat matters most is the level of maturity

so you were told.

Sister, do yourself good by quitting that so called r/ship and focus on how to pass JAMB.

190:
[color=deeppink]
Everyone think Im doing this just for the chicks

But the plain truth is im sick and tired of these never-ceasing attacks

flying here and there around

we are human beings for crying out loud

Lets cut down our hatred for each other,

we must succeed as a team,Together we are nigerians and this is our forum!![/color]

together we are nigerians both true bred and friends of nigeria. This is our forum. NL.

All these attention seekers.

Hisses.

Lets do yim. But later i'm kind of busy now.

Omolola1:
You, make a choice! be fast before i change my mind

i don't give in to threat.

190:
[color=deeppink]U don forget say na me and u dey de same abuja

Nor let me find you come out ooh, leave my woman.,i dont joke with her!!   [/color]

don't worry, i will be nice to her.

Omolola1:
Ok then, do u want it on or off NL?

you choose, as a gentle man i allow the ladies go first.

Omolola1:
hehehehe! rotflmao! i guess we can have a chat then, lol

o that wouldn't be bad.

Omolola1:
Specialist, you are hailing him abi

i'm only encouraging him so he could leave you for me.

190:
[color=deeppink]
If given the chance i can see you anytime![/color]

190 no dey carry last. Ride on broda.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=530121.msg6924361#msg6924361 date=1286872002]
Hmmm, I get what you're saying but ya gotta admit some men take that word to heart. Even here in the US, there are some men [and women] who expect their spouses to worship the ground they walk on .[/quote]maybe common among those who felt the picked the lady out of thrash and placed her where she is today. These people are over intoxicated by power.

[quote author=cousin_avi link=topic=530121.msg6924206#msg6924206 date=1286870618]Submission is a wrong word in a marriage. I know what poster wanted to say, he just used the wrong word!!! However, a successful marriage should be based on mutual understanding, respect, love for one another i think. Asking the wife to be submissive is saying she should accept every thrash the husband says or does. That my friends, is not healthy!![/quote]the word submission wasn't used wrongly its just how you understood the simple but complex word. Submission isn't saying she should accept every thrash being thrown on her by the guy.

[quote author=Tink_sh link=topic=530121.msg6924023#msg6924023 date=1286869027]Sounds like the wife is not interested at all. He should move on. Does she have the child with her??

This submissive thing you guys talk of, if you look it up the wife is supposed to be submissive but only when the husband loves his wife as Jesus loves the church. So you guys that bleet on about submissive women, are you fullfilling your part in the equasion?? Or you just doing your thing and expect her to follow you. The man has to deserve the submission, and submission DOESNT mean door mat![/quote]great point there.

The problem here is we only have a one-sided story, we've not heard the woman's part.

MOBO444:
Specialist 900 i still respect your view a lot, but what is wrong to bow down and worship him like a king, do you know the golf legend Tiger Woods ex wife (Swedish lady) worship him like a king before they divorced.

just knowing that. Only slaves cow down to kings.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=530121.msg6923977#msg6923977 date=1286868476]
I wasn't throwing any of my ideas or beliefs at him. I just wanted to see how he'd answer. Please don't refer to it as "my western ideology". I know couple who are African [born and raised within the continent of Africa] and they don't "submit" to one another. Anyway, the question was based on curiosity.[/quote]my bad. How does 'their western ideology' 'cos you're not part of them.

How sure are you that they don't submit to each other. The submission here doesn't mean you always bow down and worship him like a king.

Mobo don show.

Inked.

Your western ideology doesn't work in africa. Nigeria is a different ball game, being submissive is part of a marriage.

dayo.
Na wetin? This your likeness for arsenal knows no bounds, you left gunners thread to romance section to publicize arsenal. Thanks anywayz.

hmn

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=529940.msg6922921#msg6922921 date=1286837760]WHAT' your pROBLEM!!!![/quote]problem?

googles:
She prolly likes unprotected sex It doesnt always have to be the case of STIs or pregnancies

someone who complained when they were having protected sex that it was fornication and all of a sudden now wants unprotected se.x.

lwkmd.

See thread wey person open na him them carry dey talk about egypt. Trouble dey o!

Omolola1:
rotflmao! am talking to 190, U wan cause fight, lol

my bad. I never knew that small things like wishing someone good night could start a fight. Lol