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| How Do Ii Quit by funmbi92(f): 3:10pm On Oct 13, 2010 |
HI nairalanders,kinda new to the house but i seriously need ur candid advice on this I've been dating this guy for a week now, but not until recently i realized that what i used to feel for this guy is no longer there. At first I felt I loved him but not any longer. But this guy is just so caring and nice that : i would not like to break his heart cos he does not deserve that. Please what should i do b4 it becomes too late |
| Re: How Do Ii Quit by ToyinATA: 3:14pm On Oct 13, 2010 |
Are u sure u are not taking him for granted, becareful lady, player are much out there.How rather advise you list first quality you want in ur man and them checklist to see if he meet up with them before saying BYE BYE |
| Re: How Do Ii Quit by martyns303(m): 3:14pm On Oct 13, 2010 |
Inked Nerd will come up with a possible solution. |
| Re: How Do Ii Quit by googles: 3:32pm On Oct 13, 2010 |
funmbi92: mind explaining your idea of the word "recently" ? you started dating a guy and in that same breathe you got tired ?  come out clean wiv him and politely tell him wassup, don't string him along and don't be childish/wicked about the break up |
| Re: How Do Ii Quit by funmbi92(f): 3:38pm On Oct 13, 2010 |
Toyin(ATA): I'm not taing him for granted but the thing is that he is 9 years older than I am and he should be thinking of marriage but i am not even thinking about that even in the next 5 years. wat should i do this guy is too nice and caring |
| Re: How Do Ii Quit by Creamish(f): 3:48pm On Oct 13, 2010 |
if u insist dat he is so nice and caring . .and u dont love him but u care bout his feelings . .id say u paint d picture clear enuff for him cos it'll hurt u both if he realises uv been takin him for a ride all thiz time . .  |
| Re: How Do Ii Quit by Nobody: 3:51pm On Oct 13, 2010 |
Funmbi, I know u. I know the guy. He is 27 years. And u are 27 - 9 years. I think it is best never to start what you cannot finish Focus on ur education first. And tell him to focus on a search for a wife Unless he is willing to wait and u are willing to have a 9 year older man as ur hubby My 2 cents |
| Re: How Do Ii Quit by jaybee3(m): 3:55pm On Oct 13, 2010 |
Why has the feelings gained a downward strength? Has he started boring you with marriage talk? If that's the case then open up to him that you are not looking to get hitched in the next 5 yrs and you still want to have fun as well as enjoying your youth. The dude will thank you later trust me. Whatever you do please don't lead him on and play with his emotions |
| Re: How Do Ii Quit by funmbi92(f): 4:01pm On Oct 13, 2010 |
Firearm: thanks 4 d advice hw do u know me or the guy |
| Re: How Do Ii Quit by funmbi92(f): 4:08pm On Oct 13, 2010 |
jay bee: hes already talking of having me as his wife but i dont just have the boldness to tell him I'm no longer interested in the relationship.its really going to break his heart and i dont want to be the cause of that bcs I cant imagine were he's going to start from. |
| Re: How Do Ii Quit by jaybee3(m): 4:10pm On Oct 13, 2010 |
So u rather be in an unhappy/unhealthy relationship than being honest to yourself  Who matters most, you or him? |
| Re: How Do Ii Quit by Nobody: 4:11pm On Oct 13, 2010 |
funmbi92: hehehehe dont bother urself with that I am Firearm I and I know my way around  funmbi92: You are still new in this love game I will suggest u tell him now. It is still early enof to hurt him |
| Re: How Do Ii Quit by 1one: 4:14pm On Oct 13, 2010 |
funmbi92: Don't worry about where he's going to start from, ,leave that to his next girlfriend, afterall you started from where his ex stopped, so don't worry you've fixed your own link of the chain, someone else would fix another one after you've gone. |
| Re: How Do Ii Quit by SAGoddess: 4:15pm On Oct 13, 2010 |
You have two options OP, be brave and tell him it is not working out for you or stay with him and cringe every time he tries to kiss you! |
| Re: How Do Ii Quit by 1one: 4:19pm On Oct 13, 2010 |
@googles You are asking her not to be childish about it, that's a daunting task 'n it?, Its like asking a cat not to meww, she's 18, she's only being normal and validating her age if she acts childish |
| Re: How Do Ii Quit by 1one: 4:23pm On Oct 13, 2010 |
I dnt knw what an 18 year old girl is doing in a relationship in the first place, what happened to skipping ropes and candy floss? |
| Re: How Do Ii Quit by funmbi92(f): 4:35pm On Oct 13, 2010 |
1one: do u know me not to even talk of knowing my age age has nothing to do in a relationship wat matters most is the level of maturity |
| Re: How Do Ii Quit by 1one: 4:45pm On Oct 13, 2010 |
Age has nothing to do with maturity, Word! But there's an exception to every rule, and you just happen to feed this exception, I didn't even take a keen look at your post, you've been dating a guy for only one week and you are already tired of him?, or is there any other part of the post that my server ate, Just a week and you are tired, I should engrave your name on a golden plague tagged matured veterans |
| Re: How Do Ii Quit by googles: 5:01pm On Oct 13, 2010 |
Firearm: its pretty simple. . . it doesnt take an Einstein or "firearm" to figure her age and partners age her username gives her birth year away already just add 9 to it you get her man friend's age  |
| Re: How Do Ii Quit by MOBO444(f): 5:05pm On Oct 13, 2010 |
^^^ This is a silly conclusion. |
| Re: How Do Ii Quit by Dsense(m): 5:07pm On Oct 13, 2010 |
lol |
| Re: How Do Ii Quit by googles: 5:14pm On Oct 13, 2010 |
MOBO444: your mother not choosing to abort you, was a silly decision person |
| Re: How Do Ii Quit by jaygetta(m): 5:23pm On Oct 13, 2010 |
Lol. I love googles.lol |
| Re: How Do Ii Quit by kokoletz(m): 5:36pm On Oct 13, 2010 |
When a sis says a guy is nice meaning d bros dey drop well well. So Sis after choping enough u wan zap God go judge. |
| Re: How Do Ii Quit by no1madman(m): 5:47pm On Oct 13, 2010 |
^^she doesn't love him enough. . . .yeparipa. |
| Re: How Do Ii Quit by kokoletz(m): 5:51pm On Oct 13, 2010 |
Yeeeeye |
| Re: How Do Ii Quit by Specialist900(m): 7:30pm On Oct 13, 2010 |
funmbi92:so you were told. Sister, do yourself good by quitting that so called r/ship and focus on how to pass JAMB. |
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