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Ocholu:
O'kay. Next please.

Ayanwukoma:
The thing that upsets me more is when we start narrating our experiences of been dealt with toxic parenting from our fathers some people will be saying, we were products of manipulations of our mom. but that's a lie... they just don't know our pains.

Here are the attributes of my father, don't know if it's redpill or not.

1) My father swear for us at any slightest provocation (he uses word like, YOU GO DIE, YOU GO USE YOUR MOUTH RUB GROUND, WITCH and so much more) imagine as a kid growing up till this day and this man still uses same languages on us his children.

2) HE'S CUNNY IN NATURE TOWARDS US HIS FAMILY.

You don't dare have an issue with a neighbor in the presence of my dad which he's aware of, because the next morning he be sitting with that same neighbor and talk ill about you in your presence ( how many times my mom has quarrelled with people because of him...but before we know it, him and them have reconciled. my mom would be the bad person in the town)

3) IS WITCH A GOOD NAME TO CALL YOUR CHILD?

This man has called us witch to the extent the whole area is looking at us as one, he has literally made us look bad in the presence of people. compare us with other people.
he has spoiled us with his bad tongue. full area gossiping telling people their papa self dey call them witch...belike them don confess before.
just because of my father toxic tongue.

4) MY FATHER HOLDS HIS BROTHERS CHILDREN IN HIGHER REGARDS THAN US.

you need to see the way he's happy whenever they come around, especially when they give him money like 5k, 3k ... prayers uphon prayers on them.
as soon as they go he starts the curses on us.. I don't know he just don't want us to succeed or not.

DO I HATE MY FATHER? I hate him with every blood in my veins yes, how can I love someone that abuses us immediately he sees us eating his food, looking at us like we are wrecking him from day one.

Any small thing, COMOTH FOR MY HOUSE (you must hear that word)

honestly speaking I myself am in my mid 20s and with what I experience to this day it's affecting me in my life, you can never see me smile.
am always angry, even when am happy.
when I talk, my words are always hard.. except when I try to be nice sometimes.

I SWEAR ON MY LIFE, I REFUSED TO BE THE MAN MY FATHER IS, EVEN IN MY NEXT LIFE TO COME.

Ocholu:
Majority of people on this forum are just trolls. Especially them so called redpillers. Sometimes I do wonder how they make a living. Because, you cannot be on Nairaland 247 trolling and bashing people if you have any meaningful thing doing.

That's by the way; I have deviced a mechanism that will properly treat anyone that trolls me from today henceforth.

I must be real with y'all;

Some random dude that trolled me the other day is currently serving a ban till 2090 I think. This will happen to anyone who chooses to be unfortunate.

FernandezPablo:
It won't be bad na..
Abi how you see am?

FernandezPablo:
If that's how you want it son...

TheGidRedpiIIer:
Could be a male that still thinks straight
Not everyone who disagrees with you is a female. How come your group acts so self righteous?

FernandezPablo:
This is exactly what I am talking about..always being rude online..

TheGidRedpiller:
Its obvious that account is being run by a female.

FernandezPablo:
I stand for what's right man.. addressing issues in that kinda degrading manner ain't right..
Why are you guys sweating yourself over women tho?

FernandezPablo:
Why mocking women huh?so if a woman eats much you gonna call her a bloody glutton?
How about you speak to her in a polite manner even though you say they are manipulative..
Are you not the head anymore why not act like the head tho?now you guys keep saying women are weaker vessels but I think you are the more weaker vessel due to this your constant bashing online..
The only persons are your gullible followers who always agree to your article without thinking..you are misleading those kids..
A real man is not always bashing and calling women names online..

Greenerie:
[Yes oo my dear.i have made that mistake.the man I was supposed to marry.he always chased me,but i never gave him greenlight.one Evening my mind told me to go to his office,my spirit disturbing me seriously.i said God it's late,I will go there tomorrow.

By the time,I went there tommorow,it was too late,he was sent out to another continent.no way for him to reach me,he didn't have any way to contact me..
I will be seeing him in my dreams always crying,missing me,I didn't think much of it.until, 5 different people,plus 2 prophets told me that the man u were supposed to settle down with you is that guy.i started regretting my actions and how blind I was.I didn't pray or hear from God.I used my human intelligence to make decision.

marriage is hard enough with the right one,not to talk of when u marry wrongly.
you see when it comes to issues of life never exclude God,seek God thats your source of existence.people make mistake in life when they leave God out of equation.tell him all you want and see Him direct your ways.listen and obey Him and have peace even in troubling times


quote author=specialmati post=108925282] when you want to settle down pray very well ooh involve God(e get why)don't be deceive by anything for your peace of mind and a happy home.i know say na ass make ffk marry this one and na money make this one marry the man now no peace family don pieces

Entprys:
Ibo ? 4get, he just build that house for her. He dont like the widow because they dont like themselves that side

labofie:
The dead meat seller need to see this

Mad Man

dyingheart:
we dated for five months. i showed him so much love and care. all he did was complain it wasn't enough, he wanted to date someone else. we're not talking anymore. i miss him like mad. i can't sleep, i can't eat, i can't do anything. it's like my heart has been broken into a thousand pieces. i can't breathe anymore. someone talk to me


****abeg, the man in question is not a Nairalander. cheating was from his part. i was very faithful to him.

steveneche:
Remember my girlfriend who slapped my mum on boxing Day? She's back with her entire family begging.

Candid opinion please, should I accept her back?

My fear is, she might do worse after marriage if she can do this to my mum in a relationship..