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the evil party,party that came to power because people were tired of the thieving party PDP,only to became the worst mistake made

for police to pay that money they will rob the man to pay him. the only legalized criminals by the federal government

Degunners:
I just need someone to scold me badly, maybe it will help me get sense.

Seriously I can't just believe at my age I still do the things I do.

Right now I am in deep hole of debts from these loan apps. Can you imagine someone taking loans from more than 10 apps? Yes that someone is me.

Presently if I should add up all the loans it will be close or more than 500k. The annoying thing is this is like 3yrs now I have been struggling with these apps.

I once was able to clear all the loans but like a dog going back to it's vomit, I still went back to them (I seriously need delivarence).

Why I'm so ashamed of myself is because I didn't take these loans mostly because I don't have a good source of income but because I don't know how to save and I am very extravagantly wasteful. I loving feeling rich, I can buy beer and flex anyone those I know and those I don't.

Thought getting married will help but for where like I got worst after that.

I seriously don't know how to come out of this mess I dragged myself into. Because these loan apps will only give you 7days loan with very high interest. I have been servicing these loans throughout last year and I don't want to continue this year.

I have already spent more than 200k this month alone on interest alone because I have to borrow again to be able to pay others.

I'm owing the following apps:
1. Fastmoney 70k
2. Imoney 50k
3. Gocash 38k
4. 40k
5. Palm credit 70k and counting this is long over due.
6. Kuda 50k
7. Next credit 21k
8. Mint loan 35k
9. 9jacash 12k
10. Add money 9k
11. Ncash 9k
12. Ducredit 70k
13. Ajeloan 15k
14. Easy Naira 12k.
15. Cashsea 26k

I'm even scared to add the total but this my current reality. Virtually all are 7days loan.

I don't know how a sane human being can get to this stage, I don't want to attribute anything to anyone or some village people. This is my owing making, and I have been living with this burden for long. I was hoping to get a job that will pay me like 500k at once but none for now.

I dont even know what next to do. I have alot of other responsibilities to cater for.

I don't even have friends or relatives I can run to. I am writing this because I deserve all the insults in the whole world. I deserve to the stoned. Though I will never take my life because of this, God forbid but I can't grow with these on my neck and it's really weighing me down.

I can't remember when last I genuinely smiled or laughed.

I'm determined to find a way to over come this problem. That's why I'm here.

I know you guys will come for my head but I'm already in this shot so I will accept any insult. But please if someone can say something to help me a little I will appreciate.

I'm not breathing fine but I'm currently harvesting what I planted.

Wish I can get a counselor or therapist who can help me because I'm scared that even if I suffer and clear these I might not learn my lesson because it has happened before.

What can I do please?

enroll to agboro work if you they lagos under 3months you go make the money,but you have to be closing late at night

just dive for ground

is there anything wrong with this country abi na people inside it just decided never to get sense .

thats good the team will bring the cup home

i told you guy say na tinubu agboro lagos branch they support him.as their chief agboro.now see his second in command

thanks to God no live was lost

up nigeria we are winning this match

you see what am talking about this is another old thief

Vistra40:
Who then is your candidate and under which platform is he contesting? That’s a better way of giving us better alternatives

i dont have candidate ooh just any younger leader from other political parties that can move the country forward.enough of all this old men, its just like the thieving party fielding atiku it wont work na he is old.we need our country working we dont need all this old men using presidency as retirement goal

Vistra40:
It’s not by boasting on social media

na awareness to nigerian people outside the agboro network.no body should win under the platform of APC this time.they didnt perform better than the thieving party PDP.so vote them out.let them present that old man he will fail na only lagos agboro they support him

tinubu na old man so he cant be voted as president,it seems like presidence is now a retirement plan to some people now.beside most people wanting tinubu to rule are agboros because his their main oga for agboro work.well he did well in that area thou if not for agboro work alot of them for turn thieves.but we need a vibrant person to help move this country forward.APC must be voted out since they couldnt out perform the thieving party (PDP)they collected power from.no one should win under the platform of APC they failed vote them out

the people supporting him here are agboros for lagos state i once confront one and he said baba they share money every week-months to them,thats why you hardly see them complain about the hike in price of commodities. tinubu the man that loved his country and gift them his friend buhari the wicked master

if they like make them be 1million no one is voting apc they will be voted out

chai nawa rip young blood

Godispeace:
ediot go to kano and kaduna and see massive supporters

;Dcompound fool no be only kano and kaduna na all over nigeria.na people wey they outside nigeria you go they yarn this rubbish give.APC tinubu supporters are agboros in lagos state

.most of the guys here supporting tinubu na agboro ooo for lagos state.them they share money every week oooh .na so we they tell people buhari na bad market they no hear,now some they even complain about tea and milk price,some they plan nation wide protest unto fuel hike level.make i start early they sound they warning ooh dont vote anything APC their next agenda na finish level oooh.no go vote another elenthus to expect me to come protest oooh.APC change (BAD),next level(worse),finish level loading no matter who them present (worst).if you vote another thief and complain here i will tear you slap.

discussion on finish level matter,una still they chop small for buhari regime,make una make mistake vote tinubu everyone will turn agboro or go hungry

Jostoman:
useless comment, no be only endure na sendure.

ok take your useless comment and go protest

Rita005:
Hi folks! I feel like sharing my predicament with you and hope to get a solution. Please bear with me cuz it's a long read. I'm a 26 years old banker (not contract staff) in one of the south south states. Recently, I met a beautiful soul and I think I'm getting so fond of him now. We connected after the close of service in church and exchanged contacts. He was kind enough to drop me off my house. This guy is doing very well for himself (lives in a nice estate and owns a good ride). A short while after our first meeting, we spoke on phone and I didn't know when I asked him why he isn't married. He told me it's a long story and would like to talk about it when we meet one-to-one. Fast forward, we met and he told me all there is about him. He's 34, got married about 2 years ago, but now separated from his wife. The reason he gave for the separation was lack of trust from his wife. According to him, his wife is so insecured to a fault. According to him, the first week he got married was when he started regretting his actions. After their marriage, his wife travelled down home to bring her remaining baggage. Before she returned, he made sure he cleaned the house thoroughly. However, when his wife came back, she headed straight to the fridge (she had made soup and stew before traveling) and the next thing was cry! According to him, he said he was confused at first. it was when he asked her what the problem was that she said he brought a woman to their matrimonial home. He said he cried so much and regretted marrying a woman with a possessed mind. According to him, all the signs were there before marriage and he ended the relationship more than 5 times but she kept begging. What she was holding on to was that there's no assurance that the guy will marry him, hence ,her fears. According to him, the woman has accused him of sleeping with his former neighbors and she insisted that they move out of that area. for peace to reign, he agreed and they got another accommodation. Again, she started accusing him of having something with his new neighbors (even the married ones). To be honest, this guy is admirable and very reserved and I'm not sure if he's doing all the things his wife accused him of. He got angry when his wife decided to report him to the church authority. According to him, this woman has no single proof of him cheating but her reprobate mind is affecting her badly. She even went ahead to share demeaning messages about him (her husband) on her whatsapp status. This guy said he has pleaded with her to stop but it's getting worse. Now, they were married for about two years without a child. He said he could manage to live with the woman for more years without a child but can't do that when his peace is been threatened. He said his wife nags a lot and it was driving him crazy. According to him, his mum was never in support of the marriage but dad was interested in it. As it stands now, he has left his wife and moved to another state where we both met.
I have been friends with him for about 3 months now and I must say that this guy is a sweet human being. He asked me out but I told him we should just be friends, owning that he's still legally married. However, my feelings for him is growing everyday and this guy knows how to get one emotionally attached to him. Even though I can perceive that he wants sex with me, he never begs or act too anxious over it. He's so calm and mature and this is making me to admire him the more.
Note: He said he has talked about divorce with his wife but she's refusing it. This is where my concerns come in.
Now, I'm scared of going into a relationship with him knowing that he's not divorced yet. To be honest, I can hardly concentrate these days because the thought of this guy has occupied my mind. Can I go ahead with him or the implications would be overwhelming? To be honest, I've not met a guy has coolheaded and admirable as this guy but I'm scared.
please I need advice on how to handle this situation.
Thanks

waooh you meet him in church means you are a christian,now let me ask some question that will help you.
1.have you prayed about it knowing that he is still legally married,2.have you ask God what His will concerning this situation,because you can meet someone that makes butterfly to grow in your stomach but the person wont be the will of God for you.3 what makes you think his going to divorce his wife for you since he is yet to do that.4.pray oooh i get why

Safyqueen:
He who technically understand the situation knows that the tribe controlling the government who cannot do without dancing to the tune of America, IMF , world bank are the one bringing forward that old man.
So age is not the problem but the fact that those self acclaimed academic sophisticated tribe who doesn't understand western neo-colonialism over African countries is the problem. If that tribe comes on board either through their younger one who is in charge of this present useless economy, they will finish everyone with taxes. Infact they will tax the free oxygen in the atmosphere.

another insight and some people will vote them to expect me to come and stage protest.well i wish the country get it right in 2023

another set of criminals to be legalized

GlitznGlamour:
Make everybody endure or what the hell are you saying? I don't think you're in your right senses with this trash you typed. That's how y'all get oppressed and wallow in bullshit when you're suppose to stand and fight.

abeg come and get shoot by buhari army.sorry if i vex you i no follow for people that voted for buhari.stand and fight like those of lekki toll gate. abeg carry your senses and go and stand with your trash for buhari army .my sense is to vote for the right person not to vote wicked people to come and protest

buhari will just send army or police to shoot anybody that stage any protest,the best na make everyone just endure and make sure not to vote in another buhari.i see some supporting another old men.any other mistake na finish level mode country go enter.

police one of the legalized criminal organization of the federal government.see face you hardly see any good face in that force .person send to go and study he will leave books and be carrying machete gun and bullet.is he not a fool whats the relation between books and gun, machete

they maybe the saving grace,to move the country forward

hedonido:
When even dead, desert-states like Gombe have airports. Even brown-roof economy cities like Akure and Ibadan have functioning airports. Lol.

So Anambra with all its uncountable millionaires, and its super wide middle class (arguably the widest of any Nigerian state) littered across Nigeria who have reason to travel to their home state from time to time... A state that can clearly sustain an airport better than many states with existing airports? So such a state would now have to explain to inferior idiots why it needs an airport? I just tire.

i just tire for most of this guys in this forum,anambra suppose get airport before now even they suppose get seaport too

michlins:
using the airports in Enugu, Asaba and Imo states is an economic decision. Anambra can use the funds to put in place do many other needed infrastructure and keep growing the state GDP. Obviously you guys are looking at it from "bragging rights" angle and not sound economy decision.

That's why many fail in business. Take advantage of opportunities presented by others and grow.

Anambra needs pipe born water system,many of the roads need repairs. I can list tons of areas the funds will be invested in and it will benefit not just the rich but every single person in Anambra

nawa now tell me which state in nigeria have all this things you listed above.beside why will you want an anambra person to go to other state to enter flight when they can afford to build airport in anambra too

michlins:
I always felt it is unnecessary. Awka to Enugu is less than an hour albeit the bad roads. So if efforts are made to fix the roads,flights will be landing in Enugu for Anambra North and central. Then Anambra South will be using Owerri airport.

Say you land in this Anambra airport, the terrible state of Anambra State roads will ensure you spend hours moving from Onitsha to Ekwulọbịa

nawa for you so why must anambra of all people visit other state to take their flight. Thanks to obiano jarri.anambra suppose get everything not only airport i for like them get seaport too if its achievable

what a people and what a family business. Kidnap, get ransom and also get women supply to you nawaaaa

its not about getting voters card its about having sense with voters card on your hand.abi no be people with voters card voted for buhari.they should educate people on the kind of people to vote with the voters card.i saw some elenthus talking bad at mohalu on the other tread give those people opportunity they will still vote for buhari.