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Travel › Re: General Austria Study/visa( Process And Requirements) by speed90: 11:08pm On Jul 25, 2024

Pls come to me aid ooo, i've been trying to get legalization appointment date on that website, the date just change for my front and it won't bring any option for me to select anything .... it's just unfortunately i keep seeing. Is there a trick to this thing kindly help me pls

Family › Re: I'm Falling Too Deep And It's Unhealthy For Me by speed90(op): 9:22am On Feb 23, 2020

LewsTherin:
Dude! Don't go down that path. If you have principles, don't bend them for anyone. Not for what people say, not for what she says.

You have time to build a foundation with her or to start affresh if she fails. You can only be responsible for what you do so do the right thing at all times.

Thank you..

Family › Re: I'm Falling Too Deep And It's Unhealthy For Me by speed90(op): 9:21am On Feb 23, 2020

RisenPhoenix:
On paper. Married couples mostly just pretend that they are happy and in love to show the outside world. Behind the scenes, there are other things going on.

Not important anyway, you will not accept or understand until you experience the disappointment yourself, so this whole thread is useless. Men are hopelessly romantic and always falsely believe that their particular 'angel' is a different type of woman; and that is why women are able to destroy most of them at will.

I totally understand, thank you for your time

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Family › Re: I'm Falling Too Deep And It's Unhealthy For Me by speed90(op): 11:29pm On Feb 22, 2020

RisenPhoenix:
You aren't having sex is the reason why you feel so attached to her. You're technically her girlfriend bestie but you crave more. This is making you reason with your smaller head instead of your main head; a symptom of sex starvation. As someone else pointed out, once you get rid of your urges by having sex, you will no longer have the destructive emotional feelings and she will no longer be able to manipulate you as I'm sure she must be doing now.

She on the other hand, is likely having her sex with or without you. Sorry to tell you this, but your parents' relationahip is the typical average type of relationship. Keep both eyes open.

So you think having sex with her will make me love her less ? Sex is not the problem here, if i want it i know where to get it.

Family › Re: I'm Falling Too Deep And It's Unhealthy For Me by speed90(op): 11:25pm On Feb 22, 2020

RisenPhoenix:
You aren't having sex is the reason why you feel so attached to her. You're technically her girlfriend bestie but you crave more. This is making you reason with your smaller head instead of your main head; a symptom of sex starvation. As someone else pointed out, once you get rid of your urges by having sex, you will no longer have the destructive emotional feelings and she will no longer be able to manipulate you as I'm sure she must be doing now.

She on the other hand, is likely having her sex with or without you. Sorry to tell you this, but your parents' relationahip is the typical average type of relationship. Keep both eyes open.

I believe there are great marriage out there thank you.

Family › Re: I'm Falling Too Deep And It's Unhealthy For Me by speed90(op): 5:27pm On Feb 20, 2020

Liliyann:
Don't let your parent relationship dictate for you, you can still have an amazing relationship despite what you might have seen around you!
Congrats on you keeping your virginity!!
Sex is over rated, irrespective of what people might say, Formication is a great sin, those that had it before marriage all wished otherwise!
It's OK to be in a relationship and not have sex, once you get intimate, the feelings starts going and you may find out you don't even like her anymore.
Trust your partner, be open to her, tell her your fears, once you start doubting and comparing her,you start analysing every of her actions and that's where problem sets in.

Thank you i appriciate your candid advice

Phones › Re: How Can I Quote Posts And Comments On Nairaland? by speed90: 11:56am On Feb 20, 2020

oluwafemi1993:
thanks

Family › Re: I'm Falling Too Deep And It's Unhealthy For Me by speed90(op): 11:51am On Feb 20, 2020

I do read your post on several occasions I'm in my mid 20's Lewstherin

Family › Re: I'm Falling Too Deep And It's Unhealthy For Me by speed90(op): 11:34am On Feb 20, 2020

TheGiftedOne:
we are both aware of the fact that we've not had a sexual history and we've decided to wait till marriage. Trusting has just being difficult for me anytime i see how someone was betrayed .

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Family › I'm Falling Too Deep And It's Unhealthy For Me by speed90(op): 11:10am On Feb 20, 2020*

Greetings everyone, My post is going to be quit lengthy kindly take you time to read through. I seriously need healthy input.

My parents relationship is not worthy of emulation though it was super smooth while i was growing up until they both cheated on each other... I get concerned about ever getting a soul mate made from heaven. No doubt they've been one of the supportive pairs in my life. Although they're still together but living as flatmate. My parent relationship has made me have a lot of trust issues i didn't know about until i got a girlfriend.

I have this relationship with a girl but lately i found myself loving her more than i can ever imagine myself doing and it's starting to make me crazy like I'm always looking out for her messages on whatsapp, Not talking with her in a day can make me feel down. It wasn't like this at first. We were friends before we started dating last year June. She's my first girlfriend. Moreso,we aren't having sex I don't know why I'm this attached to her, We are both virgins too.

The thought of her ever cheating on me makes me scared coupled with the things i see ladies do to their boyfriend... (Screwing someone els while in a relationship). I don't want to go through that pain which might shut my feelings out entirely for years the thought of losing her alone makes me weak.

I'm don't want to lose the remaining faith I have in love and family . P. S. Telling me to face my work/ go to school is totally irrelevant. thanks to everyone dropping their advice for me

Bukatyne , lewsTherin

Romance › Re: Women, How Do You Feel When You Love A Man But Can't Tell Him? by speed90: 11:11am On Feb 17, 2018

Seriously there is this female friend of mine that have been showing me all the signs in this world. I just don't feel the same way. She's so brilliant too.

The love will turn to hate in no time, Ladies just want to have their way without thinking about how you feel for them

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Phones › Re: Infinix Hot 3 (X554) Official Discussion Thread by speed90: 10:37am On Sep 17, 2016

Guys I need your help.... I got my infinix hot3 on Jumia yesterday since then I've been trying to log in my Google Account information and it's taking forever to log in. All my details are correct has anyone ever experienced this? Thanks.

Travel › Re: Thread for South Korea prospective students by speed90: 1:08pm On Jun 23, 2016

God bless you ma'am.

Travel › Re: Thread for South Korea prospective students by speed90: 5:28pm On Jun 22, 2016

Yeah you answerd it and you also did a fine job by blocking me of your whatsaap contact becsuse i came back to nairaland to ask the same question again after telling you i need to clarify, I'll keep saying this; "No one know who is who" Peace.

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Travel › Re: Thread for South Korea prospective students by speed90: 9:18pm On Jun 21, 2016

Hello guys i need your help, I talked with daehan university representative and she said i should get some of my documents notorise, Can i notarize those document in a law chamber?? I've already legalise and authenticated my result and transcripts thanks.

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: KAIST Scholarships For International Students To Study In South Korea by speed90: 11:38pm On Jun 12, 2016

Are you currently studying in Korea? i wanna talk with you about some stuff thanks.

Education › Re: Wise Words From The World's Richest Man To Students by speed90: 1:35am On Jun 11, 2016

Hello, i came across your post on here i really wanna study in korea i'v read a lot about it but i need to talk with someone in korea already because I'm inexperienced .
cc:Artorius

Travel › Re: Travelling To Canada Part 9 by speed90: 11:29am On Jan 01, 2016

Thank you, How many weeks will it take them just the range
like 2-3 weeks

Travel › Re: Travelling To Canada Part 9 by speed90: 11:02am On Jan 01, 2016

Good morning every one and happy new year to you all, Please i have a question i want to ask. I hope it's not too late to apply for a diploma program in Fanshawe College May intake .... i'm about to apply on Monday thank you all.

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