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twinskenny:
factory unlocked

Thanks boss

DrGreen19:
iPhone 11, 128gb/256gb needed urgently
FU
Sealed (brand new)
Lagos

Hello guys,what's the meaning of FU

ednut1:
make i die here for zoo?

And you've always said it, that you wan run go CA.
Congrats boss.
Easy with the mamacitas for there oooo

Ayinke93:
So you think I need you to validate my wisdom? Aboki go find a life outside nairaland and geddifok out of my mentions. Your opinions are grossly inconsequential.

Madam relax now,this is a forum where people share opinions which could be rather false at times. Youre taking the whole thing a lil bit personal. You don't need to reply a message,if it doesn't tally with your personal views, silence is really a good tool.

ednut1:
its not about money but qualifying. I need a bsc plus a diploma or masters with 3 years experience, high ielts scores and about 3.5m account balance to stand a chance of qualifying for canada pr visa

Oga ednut DN run go CA.
Baba ooo
We sha go meet soon

moupe:
This woman is just Evergreen.

Because she wore a green gown,she's evergreen??
If she had worn red gown, she'd be ever red too?

sndk1:
Just shut up. I am not your mate.

Bye-Bye.

You sha dey shout,I'm not your mate up and down...bros go sleep abeg

machiavelli95:
You are an embodiment of the Nigerian problem. You have no self-worth that is why you resort to using money to buy affection. You have no ambition to make an impact, your only purpose is to buy women of easy value. I just rounded up school, I come from a very comfortable family, plus I was on 2 scholarships, yet I never had that sick mentality of using money to attract women, still I had girls following me for a while (their attraction window was averaging 3 months), I kept one girlfriend (biggest mistake), at some point they would offer to finance my personal endeavors and I would turn it down, I will feign ignorance of sexual interest because I had a focus of what I wanted. I rather used my little money for self development, investing in God's work, honouring my parents (they don't need my money, but its a key principle to honour our parents) and helping my guys out in my little way.

My oga no vex oooo, you DN take am personal...Relax hennn,we are all learning and sharing experience, we are not arguing or competing to win here.
But here is my one cent.

You have no self-worth that is why you resort to using money to buy affection

How has that got to do with what the initial discussion . The topic is Attractive women don't love anymore. You are mentioning buying affection with money, if you don marry hennn bros,don't spend on your wife be hoping she will love you for being broke.

You are an embodiment of the Nigerian problem. You have no self-worth

How has this got to do with the main topic we are discussing, imagine and you said you won two scholarships, you can't decipher between the main topic of the thread and trash that you're talking.

I just rounded up school, I come from a very comfortable family, plus I was on 2 scholarships

Who ask you question now, you are so quick to show off fake achievements,this na evidence of low self esteem

I had girls following me for a while (their attraction window was averaging 3 months), I kept one girlfriend (biggest mistake), at some point they would offer to finance my personal endeavors and I would turn it down, I will feign ignorance of sexual interest because I had a focus of what I wanted.

This one na big lie, ,it's obvious guys like you worship gorgeous ladies. He dey lie say e dey turn down personal endeavours...see brother wey Mumu, na who u dey lie to sef....

rather used my little money for self development, investing in God's work, honouring my parents (they don't need my money, but its a key principle to honour our parents) and helping my guys out in my little way.

Bros,the money is not enough for you to spend on yourself not too talk of spending on women. You were only acting rational by spending the money on your self.
Don't lie here that you are sending money to your parents,you don't need to tell us, every responsible Nigeria man knows the right thing to do to their parents when they've started earning money.
Guys like you can't spend a dime on male friends,you will secretly spend it on a woman.

Everything you type here are all lies....no dey form one thing one thing for here,nobodys interested...


The guy went to post from his other nairaland account, just because you want to prove a point.

Ekemeze:
Beautiful and attractive ladies are still females, meaning they're still the same in reasoning.

They also fall inlove.
From experience, they mostly give their heart to a very broke but very handsome fuckboys that doesn't really care about them.

While secretly inlove with a broke ass nigga, they stil go out to hunt for rich men or even keep sugar daddies. In their puny minds, when the broke ass handsome nigga is ready for marriage, he'll marry her.

It's a funny reality,

You dey make sense bro, it happens wella

sndk1:
Just shut up. I am not your mate.

Bye-Bye.

You're not my mate,who that one help,how that one take concern me.
Mr. man,I swear you're a joker

sndk1:
I said it before that problem with low value people like you is that you have the habit of using yourselves as a standard for every other person. Well, my life does not need to pick up again because it has been up all the while.

If your life DN pick ,you wont be reasoning like this.
If you've dated pretty ladies before, you'd understand the angle I'm coming from.
Why do you think other women from other African countries love Nigerian men? Have you ever thought about it?
It's cause they have the pocket(money) and mouth to do so.
The way women love has always been the same right from the creation of man.
If a woman has many options,tell me why she won't flaunt her beauty. Even as a guy,when you have a lot of gorgeous ladies around, they won't freak you any more,cause you have what it takes to attract them.

Have you thought about the likes of WizKid, Olamide and other celebrities,why ladies ,no matter how gorgeous you are,it doesn't freak them. They've dated them and have them all around.


Even in the olden days, a man needs to prove his worth in many ways before a woman will give in, it is still happening today ,only in another dimension.

To be frank bro,you are typing like a broke ass,go out there,work and make your life better.

sndk1:
The mistake most of you do make is using your low value selves as a standard for everyone.

My guy,na you Sabi that one ooo, all I know be say if your life pick up today,all the trash you dey talk go change.
U dey enter better location,dey meet better people. You go understand why attractive girls gats do Shakara.

sndk1:
You have gold digging mindset. And the following statement is nonsense "Mr. Man,if Dangote's daughter asks you out today and another regular girl asks you out,which one will you go for?"

Not everyone's commitment (love) can be bought with money. Dangote's daughter cannot have me, whether I have money or not, just because she is a daughter to Dangote; between the two options you presented, I will surely go out with the one who tickle my fancy.

Dangote daughter no go gree for you cause you are not in a situation where you guys can meet, you don't stay in same environment, you don't know her father , or her relative.You guys are not in the same social class
Why she go gree for you?

Which your lamba fancy dem dey tickle...

Beetwaise:
Once you start making money & notice pretty ladies are coming around you unlike before, be rest assured that your money is what they came for & 'love' is totally out of the equation.

It's normal for pretty ladies to get attracted to you once you are well to do. While younger ,I don't have a good understanding of how issues like this work..Dont blame pretty women for getting attracted to rich guys only, you put your self in their shoes and you'll have a good understanding of what it feels to be pretty lady and being approached by guys who cant take care of themsleves not to talk of taking care of their girlfriends.

No woman will love you with you brokenness,don't mistake basic life needs with poverty and you expect the woman to stay when she has alot of better options.
Mr. Man,if Dangote's daughter asks you out today and another regular girl asks you out,which one will you go for?

My point is don't blame pretty ladies for being attracted to rich guys,youself go find a way and make your life better.

The way women fall in love these days is different from the previous centuries, now you need to be doing well,at least have some basic needs.

mannazgee:
I notice a particular pattern in women's approach towards romantic relationships.a woman's first love is her only ever love the rest are just to boost her ego even till marriage once a woman gets heartbroken by her first love that's all she switches to game playing she can never love genuinely again .I am 27 years old and all my dating life I have dated both beautiful and average women I noticed the average ones are the ones that fall more the hot ones are emotionless no matter what you do you can never tame them.pretty women are naturally red pill the can never love unconditionally unless they are unexposed.a woman hardly move on from heartbreak from their first love they will still hold some grudge and the next man will suffer it anyways only men love genuinely women don't.

My guy,go get money,you go know whether pretty ladies fall in love or not....not any how money but better one

Sirlins:
The best place to go for studies in the whole world is Europe Norway especially

You know how expensive schooling in Normeay is

Dthinkerman:
Available.

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Available.

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Ineedtoheal:
Hi Famlanders, Please I need your advice. I beg you all to save a sister. I have to bring this here coz I know it's where I will get wonderful contributions. Again, I am using this new account coz I have friends and customers here. I don't want to blow my cover. Please this is real and not fiction. This will be quite lengthy, please bear with me.

I met this guy in 2013 when I was in year one. It was not a steady relationship coz we barely call nor see so I didn't take him serious. And whenever we see, it was always at one friends house or another. I accused him of being married but he vehemently denied it. Later on I figured out he had accommodation issue after he lost his job. He later rented a house when he got another job with one of our prestigious federal universities here in Nigeria and that was when things became serious (kinda).

We became very serious around 2016 that is why I count it as 5 years instead of 7. But then during one of my visits, I was sleeping in the room when I overheard him talking to someone but the only thing that caught my attention was when he said "I don't even have a girlfriend". Though I didn't confront him, but I thought about it deeply.

Two nights ago, I had a dream where he was getting married to another lady. I was crying while he was still saying he loves me but can't marry me. I confronted him yesterday, he said I am pressurizing him to marry me that was after he first asked what will happen if we don't end up together. He hasn't told me where the relationship is leading to after 5 years. We have been living for the moment. Just for the moment!

Few info about the relationship
1) He will be 40 this November while I am 27.
2. He has always had numerous girlfriends that when he's with them, he doesn't pick my calls though he always apologizes and he's trying his best this year.

3. He always send pictures of other women to his friends to let them know they are the people he wish to marry but never has he sent mine. Though he claims he's not doing it again.

4. From the look of things he's still searching while he wants to have me all to himself. Maybe a second option since the others are not accepting him and I love him foolishly.

5. The relationship is 50 -50 .We spend on each other. He believes it's the woman's duty to do all the house chores but not the man's duty to take care of the woman.

6. On his Fathers burial last year, 3 of his girlfriends came (me inclusive) and we all wore the burial uniform. Together, we served his guests even when we realized we are dating same man. His neighbors were giggling and gossiping but we all decided to be matured and work together.

7. When my sister that raised me died, he didn't come for the burial. his reason was he had supervision that day in school,same person that calls his colleague to cover for him during exam supervision so he could do other things. He also didn't send me any money but he questioned me for not giving him any money for his Father's burial. Even when I paid him excess for the burial uniform. I know why I did that. Mind you, he has asked me before if he can give one of his ex 10k during her Father's burial which I agreed and he sent her the money.

8. I have rejected some suitors who were willing to marry me coz of him. Though he has never encouraged me to accept any of them. In fact he gets angry hearing that another man is coming close to me.

9. He doesn't call often, I do more of the calling though he always return my calls. He can stay for days without calling unless I call. I know I have been the one holding the relationship coz I thought he will change.

10. Sine 2017 till last year, all I did was forgive him coz I love him. He keeps bringing new / different ladies into the picture. I have gone through a lot of emotional stress. He keeps asking me to stay that he loves me but he's confused.

His good side: He's understanding, motivates me to do my best, he doesn't hit me, he is gentle.

Me on the other hand is sometimes stubborn though very faithful coz I love him to a fault. I easily get angry but forgives easily. When I'm angry I talk so much but I don't abuse him. He is simply the cause of all my anger. He always say I am very understanding, a good girl, drama free but yet he doesn't want to marry me and won't let me go too. I have never involved a third party in our relationship except my late sister who said she wish I will walk away from the relationship because I love the guy more, that it won't end well. All my friends thinks I have a perfect relationship because I don't discuss him with them.

Back to last night, I told him I won't call him again coz he said I am pressurizing him to marry me. The truth is I have seen the hand writing on the wall, not today but two years ago but I keep going back. Please I need advice on how not to go back again. The love he proclaims for me is not enough for him to marry. I have wasted enough time already. Maybe hearing the raw truth here will help.

Babe here is my piece of advice and I hope you'll take a clue and learn from it.

You are okay,nothing is wrong with you, you are only scared of loosing the time,money and commitments you've invested into the relationship. Once you're not scared or see yourself in the loosing end and if you decide to break up with him,believe you me,you'd be fine and will move on easily..
The guy is committing you to spend more time,energy and commitments,he understands this psychology better than you do.

Let's take parenting as an example.

Why do you think responsible parent love their children more than anything else in the world,they do not joke with the welfare ,health and well being of their children.It is because of the time,energy,money and commitment they've spent on their children. Once a child misbehaves,they tend to get angry easily cause they know they level of investment they input to the child...

Now look at irresponsible parents


Let's take this for example. Irresponsible parents dont care if a child dies or mix with bad gangs or becomes something else....
Why They've never invested in the child's life,they feel they have nothing to lose. Their time,investment and commitments was never spent on the child but on something else they value...

What am I trying to say in essence.
You are feeling you will be on the loosing side if you let go of this guy, and I am sure the guy won't feel the same cause he doesn't invest much time, commitments and energy as much as you do.
Try and give another person that you think you like a chance and see how fast youd forget him.
He is manipulating you cause he feels you've got no other option.

tmogba4:
Available

Bro,is it still available

effectz123:
Still available

How long do the batteries last

Rakiticbarca:
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Bimilade:
You would get it by tomorrow latest 11am.
This is my WhatsApp number +2348131377565.. we don't sell fake items.

No probs,I will contact you.

[quote author=Bimilade post=84991836][/quote]If I place an order today, how soon will I get it.Do you have a WhatsApp number I can message you on, I need two duvets and 2 bedsheets...
If you sell me fake items I will cast you on nairaland

I hope your bedsheets are not take and cheap items, how soon will I get my order and also do you accept payment on delivery

jayson87:
the guy said he designed payoneer... LWKMD

No kind them, nonsense. Designed Payoneer, like say Payoneer nah pamphlet.
Before you know now,them go bsn Nigerians from using Payoneer again

Seems schooling in Luxembourg do require IELTS.

Very few Nigerians study in Luxembourg

mustmust:
Yes I found university of Luxemburg. Everything about the course is under review now for cost and the years of study increased to two. the last cost I saw was abt 8million .

Hello bro,what's good,can we discuss.

mofedamijo:
don't mind him, i have been on upwork for a while, that amount is ridiculous, secondly how do you finish a job in how many hours to then submit proposals and get another job immediately, haba, no b the same upwork, i don't even work from nigeria, yet getting a job on upwork can be stressful, that niqqa is a liar, $2,000 job should take you about 3-10 days to finish, so ho did he manage that in a month, agencies on upwork don't really hit that amount every month.

No mind the guy, he just dey drop lamba up and down

Speak2klein:
Whatever you believe becomes your reality. If you think you can't make such amount then you will never make such amount. But don't think others can't.

See you, you your self are you making up to that amount, be lyig up and down. I work on upwork and fiverr for over 4 years now. I am a full stack Developer. Its not like i dont know whats up. $20,000 permonth is $240,000 per years, do you think that amount is easy. It is obvious youre not a freelancer, all what you said are hearsays. If you understand the system, you will know what i am saying.

You think say freelancing na beans, its all about having a top notch skill and marketing it , nothing like what you believe, its all about skillset

From my experience , those who are making a kill on freelancing will never let you know their worth or how much they make . They will never tell you their secrets