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Have come to realise that our EX should always remain in the past no matter what.
@ topic
I guess i'll tell my partner but at the same time telling my partner woulld not necessarily mean i love him.

ATTENTION AND SO MANY OTHER THINGS.

Just hate the idea of long courtship.

Long distance relationship does not work. Both parties just end up cheating and cheating and cheating on themselves. At the end the'll still claim to be in love. All this distance thing sef gives me headache. people should stop all this long distance thing.

how old is this girlfriend of yours?
i think she needs to grow up.

Ver very wrong.

Works for some.
Tried it once but it didn't last at all, would never attempt it again.

@ poster
The person u spend the rest of your life with is the one that knows u better.

@ poster
it is very very possible.

I don't think it is right oh. Why would anyone want to call their husband "DADDY".

Dating - 35%

Engaged - 65%

Married - 85%

@ POST
THE MAN AND THE WOMAN

@ post
Definitely cheating.

Maybe/Maybe not.

Really do not like the idea of my boyfriend calling me mum even though it has happened in the past. i don't really like it, wonder where all these guys got the idea from.

@ POSTER
NO

It is more than enough reason to end the relationship because he will continue to beat over and over again at any given chance. After the beating, he'll start to beg saying i didn't know what came over me but i promise it won't happen again. All this is story cos it will surely happen again.

Would feel very very very "yukky"

Megafunky7:
HEY , (squirrel20 )  You DON'T START UR OWN NOW , WETTING CONCERNS YOU AND HIS SATISFACTION? YOU FIT SATISFY ANY GUY,  WE (guys)  DON DEY DO TRAINING, TRYING OUR BEST TO WIN THAT TOURNAMENT OF SATISFYING YOU LADIES, STILL YOU NO DEY SHOW APPRECIE, XION

IN YOUR MIND NOW YOU THINK YOU'VE MADE A VALID POINT.

[quote author=Negro_Ntns link=topic=142062.msg2371158#msg2371158 date=1213407871]I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-E-N-T

she drive her own car, 

Talk about INTERESTS not RIGHTS!

In life, you negotiate your interests to get ahead, you loose here, you gain there.  Most of what they call rights in western culture are really not rights.  The freedom of expression _ the right to speak what is on your mind.    Who took that liberty away to begin with 

Sometimes I think we acquire academic knowledge to a point where the law of diminishing returns kicks in and we regress in our ability for independent thoughts and vision and must rely on the media and the soap operas to now tell us what is the best way to live and raise family.  How about exercising our innate gift of wisdom, the inner enlightenement.

In America, I don't care if you have 10 sources of income and work the next 30 years, your social economic status is not going to shoot rapidly past the middle income bracket.  I am yet to see a lawyer or doctor or engineer in America listed  in the world's 200 richest people. Creativity is what brings wealth in America.  By staying home with the kids, the wife can enrich their cultural upbringing and nurture their creativity. Day care is a dumping ground, parks are dumping grounds, schools are terror zones, the only place left for them to have security and discipline is home.  Mom's presence makes the difference.  Since she is an accountant, daddy can help get her consulting contracts. There is tax filing season that covers from January to June and she doesn't even have to leave home. Get certification as a home business practitioner, get zoning exemption for home business if she lived in a zoned district, renovate the garage and furnish it for office space, install security and phone and network lines, generate market links. In fact, because its a home business she can write it off on income tax filing. Because its a home business her office space is a realty and can be itemized as a rental space from the home owner, the car can be itemized, including the fuel as cost of running business.  They stand to gain more with her at home with the children than if both parents had to work and entrust the kids' care to a care taker.

My throat is dry, let me shut up [/quote]@ negro
I agree with some of the things u've said however i believe and am sure day cares and playgrounds are certainly not dumping ground because these are the places where children meet other kids and make friends. They even learn to read and write in day cares and by the time the start school, they would be doing very well.

@ poster
As for being a housewife, the lady should not accept it cos no one can predict what would happen in future to the husband's job.

It's clear you don't love this guy, you're only with him for the sake of your pastor(because pastor says he is the one). you better tell him u can't marry him because (he is short) instead of wasting his time.

tope2000:
I tell you
yes london

Oh, ok. .  .me dey rep. SE

Good to know i have alot of neighbours.

finguy:
clap ke. she gave me a dirty slap and was crying badly, and she was now calling more than she calls before and wanted to spend more time than she used to at the expense of her new guy just to catch my new girl, but never did they meet because no new girl o  ;Dand we kept on shagging on every meeting after the supposed break up

lmao

Eclairs:
Woo a girl? Have never done it and would never do it cz I do not think its necessary. I meet a lot of beautiful girls daily and for some unknown reason, some of them fall in love with my personality. I gs that all I need really. After being friends for a while, they feel let down when I tell them I have girlfriend but then, they admire me even more for being honest.

You sure didn't expect me to say "I love more than the love your father have for your mother" did you?

Good for you and nice to know

Kissing in public is something i've done before.
No big deal about it but people start staring as if they have never seen anyone kiss before.

t00 cUTE:
ALL THAT GLITTERS IS NOT GOLD. is it the car i want or his love and care. thats what important to me than any car.

Abi o.
Whether he has car or not, if i don't love him then it won't work at all.

Na wah oh.
I guess u are now satisfied.

debosky:
Many reasons - some cannot afford to have their wives and kids in the US, some don't want to uproot their family and have them living in a foreign country, but would rather the family have a stable base at home in Nigeria.

Another reason is, many of them have tried and been denied by immigration authorities due to reasons like insufficient finances, or some fraudulent information they may have filled in their initial visa applications. Some of them may not even have legal status in the US and so cannot invite anyone to come stay with them.

I believe you have only met a FEW men with this warped thinking, or they are saying that to cover up some other problems which they may not want to share with you.

it should also be said that some of them will not bring their wives so they can be freely promiscuous in the US, but those would be in the minority in my view.

You are very correct

oghogho4:
that is y dey r called EX. if you're no longer goin out wit d person den i see no reason y u should b wit them not 2 talk of kissing d person.no way.

You are very very correct. Wld take this into consideration.

For me it has to be

Fall in love
Get married
Have a baby/babies

Wouldn't mind

Get married
Fall in love
Have a baby/babies