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Doxie69:
From your post Op is an Olosho in the making

Nah won't call her that...she's still very young so guess its common to ladies in that age range

First off you are still very young except if you are ready for marriage at the moment and if you are the age difference is quite much if you ask me....secondly I'm sorry but you my dear can't be trusted cus if you ask me you truly never did love your bf cus if you did nothing absolutely nothing would attract you to any other person so who is to say you wouldn't meet someone else and still get attracted to that person....my advise well it seems you have made up your mind already but still...go with the other guy seeing as he is always there for you compared to your bf but it becomes even sad if your other bf has been faithful and making plans for both of you....

Has he cheated on you before or is it the first time?

For some reason i just really like this man election period or not he's just different from others

OK op well you kinda sound like one who has high taste or has set certain standards for the kind of woman you want to date... I'd say loosen up a bit maybe try to loosen those standards you have set for yourself cus i always believe there is someone out there for everyone

UncleJudax:
There are certainly more pressing issues than virginity. But then, we all have our priorities.

yea of course but hey priorities

eaglechild:
Both of you lack deductive reasoning.

I'm sorry but re-read what you just wrote and check who lacks such reasoning

eaglechild:
Thank goodness for FOI bill.

In Buhari's time we were left groping in the dark.
NEVER AGAIN
GEJ till 2019.

I'm sorry but this your comment reeks of childishness if that is all you could deduce from the post

To some extent i kinda pity the current bf's of this ladies drooling over their exes......

The girl is evil simple

not a sentence can't even call it a phrase "kk"... so irritating

Why would you regret something you did during the good times no matter how big or little?..sounds kinda childish to me especially those who go asking the girl to return such gifts

An absolute brilliant piece except when he goes on about Obasanjo who to me is very much part of our problem in this country but then again he did make some very valid points especially the part about the President squandering the good will he got in 2011 and surrounding himself with a lot of despicable characters who do more harm to the presidents image...I wish people would learn to read objectively even though i know in this age and time and in this country its almost impossible

Kenai:
Sorry, I see nothing 'inspiring' in this diatribe. Rather, the only thing I see is a very acute case of Stockholm Syndrome, where an oppressed element, either by some stroke of masochism or plain ignorance, falls in love with his oppressor.
It's not to be a thing of surprise, though, as many similar cases abound in the country. A few examples can be seen in Osun State, where the civil servants are about to mark their 4th month of hunger and no salary checks, but their governor has enough money to spray from the top of his campaign bus during his street rallies; Or Lagos state where the people are looted blind as they chant "Ole Eko oni baje o!"

Thanks, but I refuse to join that crowd of zombies and voltrons.

Nah your problem is that you have already made up your mind and absolutely nothing no matter how much sense it makes will make you change your mind

UncleJudax:
Like you did or doing? Phhllease!

Ain't no saint but can't say don't regret not being able to keep it

jomoh:
This is also a very good analysis.

The guy may not be committed to the girl in the end because he seems to still have a lot of feelings for his ex. He might end up "using" the lady. Which could eventually be an emotional rape on the lady.

You're very right. I never looked at it from this angle.

Yea so let him just chill out a little so he doesn't do something he will regret later on

I love the fact that this is in crime section very apt

jomoh:
Then all is fair and square.

Right now she's making her move. Remember ladies are not always bold with their requests but I will give it to her for her strategies. Don't take her for granted. If you have any feeling for her, reciprocate it now but if you feel you might still get back with ur ex then sit her down and let her know.

Its then up to her if she's ok with the fact that you might still get back with your girl and won't mind going ahead with the relationship.

Don't overlook her moves.

Personally I appreciate girls like that. They know what they want and they go for it.

I think that getting back with the ex part is the tricky aspect because believe me and from experience ladies move on faster than we guys after a break up the guy can have other flings but it will take him a while to fall seriously for someone else again and then there is the possibility of his best friend turning into one of those rebound chicks for him that's why he should kinda stay away from both of them for a while to fully access what his emotions/feelings are especially with regards this best friend of his

enomasly:
you are right!!! You have a point there but this hoes ain't loyal i wish my guy can just listen to me

Well ok

enomasly:
regret how? And why?

You know keeping it till marriage and all that it pays off most times

lordthree:
we broke up because we argued a lot mostly because of her not cooking or cleaning when she stays over, it has been an issue. and yes my friend is single

well that can be an issue especially if you the neat freak type but then again it depends on how long you two have been together as for your friend like i said she's just really lonely so unless you both agree to hir the sack no strings attached then i suggest you steer clear off her especially seeing as you still love your gf

He's either wondering what to do/say to get out of the relationship with you or he's wondering how lucky he is to have you or how you can be so preety and be bad in the sack?

Just as you pointed out you will surely regret it badly so don't do it and what's with putting the amount you spend on her here its wrong in my opinion

lordthree:
i really dont know, i love my girlfriend and i know we will get back together but my friend really gets me more than anyone, what if i regret not doing anything in the future.

OK first off what made you and your gf break up? because waiting for someone after a break up can get so depressing trust me been there....Its kinda normal that you still love your gf its just 3weeks but then again it depends on what broke you guys up initially...my advice would be take some time off to be with yourself away from both of them yes...that should give you an idea of what it is you really want...p.s is your best friend single? if yes it may just be a case of her being lonely/Hot she's human too you know

lordthree:
you're making sense boss but what do i do about all this, whats your opinion?

Its simple really.....What do you want?

lordthree:
she has helped me through a lot and i always ask her for advice when i have problems with my girlfriend she has been a good friend why her behavior now confuses me

Like i said she has always had a thing for you but couldn't act on it because of your ongoing relationship then but now that you free its open season she'd try to get you to see her than more than just a friend

The second you start saying stuff like "it took the special grace of God to get out of there" then in your head you have done the deed already...guess she's always had a thing for you and hearing your relationship ended was the greatest news for her.. don't think she was ever your best friend if you ask me

Truckpusher:
What's wrong about what she said?
She only said what everyone has been saying and if you care so much about this fraud called 'one Nigeria' , kindly beg Buhari to step down.

You call it a "fraud" yet you still live in it and as for someone stepping down last i checked constitutionally he has the right to vote or be voted for and as for the first lady bros check na its wrong to insult an elder talk more of the first lady of a country... she should be setting an example and not behaving or speaking like the ordinary Nigerian on the street

Truckpusher:
Your mom had all the English Lessons and ended up one insignificant man's wife .

That woman with no proper English lessons controls and will control your destiny for the next four years.Deal with it bro

Have you interviewed/ listened to her in her local dialect ?

Bros what is wrong is wrong abeg whether you support the first lady or not her utterances were just poor especially seeing as she was addressing a much older person and a MAN for that matter...pls don't let your support stop you from knowing what is right and wrong

Temmytea70:
Make use of punctuation mark....without it,your words dnt make meaning

noted

samiflexx:
lolx, u rilly do well. 9ce strategy.

my brother the kinda cars parked outside the school sef will give you an idea as to their school fees then you want to do start up pay 10k had to run o

If you have the passion trust me teaching can be so so fun especially when after hours of head scratching they finally get it oh dear its a heavenly feeling....the problem will always be the pay that's why I'm going all the way thank God I'm an educationist which gives me an added advantage...def go for my PGD then Masters and keep climbing till the highest possible height....Lecturer abi Lecturing assistants earn quite high nowadays so im def motivated especially cus its a passion of mine but as for sec school its OYO...went for an interview in an Indian owned school at Onitsha GRA and after all the forming the ladies there did and passing the exam which no be here at all they said my start up pay will be 10k i just told them I wanted to go take passport and disappeared ta God punish poverty