₦airaland Forum

GCO:
I met this guy recently and we both fell in love with each other. Now, my confusion is that I met a pastor who told me that I should tell the guy to go and see my parents if he is serious as regards to marriage. She also told me that the guy saw me and felt I was a rich lady because of my sophisticated nature, therefore he feels he would extract some money out of me and later dump me. My friends, my confusion now is that I have been seeing this guy though not so often, but he has not sounded like a gold-digger or a desperado. Okay, let me tell you guys a little about him; he lived many years abroad and did very well until issues came up according to him. His companies here in Nigeria folded because all the money he made were confiscated by his uncles. He is polished, matured and promising as I have observed. Like I said earlier, am yet to see any fowl play from him. However, all these not withstanding, I still need some pieces of advice from you guys to avoid regrettable mistakes that would cost me my future. No abusive words please. Happy weekend all!

Since its not gotten to the marriage stage yet you are advised to keep dating him since your heart is in it but also thread carefully as for your pastor,i comment my reserve

Hard to read through what with all that bomb you are throwing everywhere

temitemi1:
GEJ till 2019!!!

Always saw people call you a robot but hadn't confirmed it till today

More like who wants free STD?

Ebubejesus:
Most of the comments here are from the APCsians........My questions are; List five projects under Rochas that he started and completed (Pls dnt list the bridge he built with blocks.......Anyway uncompleted though), Apart from Elechi or maybe T.A orji, which Eastern Gov. is he better than for those calling him the best Eastern states Governor, Why did he suspend the 10,000 job programme meant for the youth that was created by the past government thereby rendering thousands of youths jobless, What did he do with all the money he was borrowing that made him reach his borrowing limit? Why the illegal sacking of 27 LGA Chairmen and councillors in Imo State?.... And many others like Imo Concorde hotel Mortgaging, Contracts scam and so on.

Whether he like it or not, He will vacate the Glass House come next election.......

#ROOMOPENFORINSULTS#
#INSULTCHUCKOBSERVERACTIVATED#

if its ohakim and his scam jobs you are referring to then I'm sorry but no that was a total fraud of epic proportions or why do you think Ohakim ran to SA for over how many years after he lost the election

[quote author=eldoradoxx post=31140609]IMO people routing for PDP's are the ungrateful people. I was in when Mr Green and Clean (Ohakim) was Governor of that State under PDP. His government was a total flop. Rochas became Governor and Owerri has become a lively city and a very beautiful one for that matter, yet Imo people don't seem to realize what they have that those of us from even oil rich state don't have despite our supposed wealth_quality leadership.Like they prefer a failure like TA Orji sOrjiAsOrjiAas Governor once he is a member of PDP. Similar behavior is what led to the defeat of Ngige by two failures like Obi and the current man. 's two and half years record could not be broken by Obi and Ngcurrent Governor, yet AnambrAnambraople refused electing Ngige because he left the killer party PDP. Like Ngige, Rochas only crime is that he isn't a member of the killer party PDP.[You sure do have a point re-ohakim cus all he did was plant flowers from okigwe to assumpta and scam thousands of youths with fake jobs after collecting 1k just like the immigration scam but to say Peter Obi was a failure kind of stretches it don't you think if nor for anything but what he did with those touts at upper iweka similar to Fashola at Oshodi.

Balkan:
[size=20pt]MALAM ROCHAS OLANIYI COCKROACHA
IS IN THE WRONG PARTY[/size]

Its actually not you per say cus it seems your case is irredeemable but its those who liked or shared your comment which you have a right to make that i shake my head for

amakenny:
Gov. Okorocha is the man about to deny himself re-election due to his avowed distaste for the LGA that gave him highest number of votes and support in 2011. Okorocha believed a few two lane roads with street light shall make the electorate in the area vote him again.
Owerri may even ask Okorocha to return to his village with his projects instead of voting him again.

See my brother leave that thing...yes there are one or two disgruntled areas/lga's in the state but bros IMO is for rochas not that he is perfect but because after Sam Mbakwe Imolites have never had it this good

My governor my governor....rochas we know even Ngor-okpala people won't vote for Emeka Ihedioha so don't know why he is wasting his time and money...owelle ga wa ni ihu

This one is strong sha

Its really sad the kind of people the president has surrounded himself with

@op you just have to decide on your own considering the kind of person he is cus you know him better than we do....I kinda have to see reason with peeps who say most men probably from experience... popsy cheated on my late mum when i was 5 but she couldn't just leave unto kids were involved already but the man do test tire just to prove himself and i don't think she ever really trusted him again yes fact..wasn't up to 2yrs mum passed he remarried funny thing though is his new wife has a daughter that looks exactly like him and calls him daddy even though this doesn't make him a bad father or man its probably the nature thing.my point is the fact that you experience a cheating partner doesn't mean everyone is like that especially men.....people should learn to stop generalising cus not all men are cheats even though a high percentage of men tend to its a disgusting habit

hapyz:
U will b d biggest fool if u quit, bc u will neva find a man dat wil not cheat on u, so my dear go ahead wit ur marriage plans, my hussy slept wit 2 girls on d eve of our marriage they call it bachelor's eve, I stil went ahead wit d marriagee, now I am enjoyinmy marriage wit d best luxury, and my hussy gives me d best of attention a woman needs, so wot am I lookin for again,so dear tik twice bfr makin a deadly mistake dat wil mak u regret, hv it at d back of ur mind dat all men cheats

I'm sorry I'm very very sorry I hope you understand since I'm apologising in advance but...your comment is wrong I don't care if you have been married for a gazillion years but the fact that you forgave your husband who used a bachelors eve to fornicate does not mean every woman should do same because your hubby and the man in question here are two totally different persons..pls as a married woman as it indicates from your post you are expected to give much better advise than what you just posted above

When that clueless old papa won't bow down and let someone else continue from the good work he has done already....tactically and with the changes he made he was exposed for the inept manager he currently is...#Wengerout

I'm sure they also danced like cray cray people while the other groom was being taken to the hospital

jhumong:
Finally, one important thing you should consider is that ladies especially those around your age bracket, like g thanks

u mean like age?

tosyne2much:
I heard that too

don't know how true that stereotype is though

Ipledge:
i short now

hehehehe bros i just heard o..use your eye check na hehehehehe

tosyne2much:
Joke apart, do ladies measure the size of our joystick by our looks ?

my brother this one you asking but yea I've had a friend tell me they thought short guys carry bigger kini

@op it happens if you ask me especially at that age but dude just be yourself keep doing what you know how to do best..heck even those older are still struggling to find the so called "love"..... she will come your way sooner or later and i promise you na you go need the space just relax

Trolls everywhere Trolls....shey you need guys from nairaland to come help you with the guy

@op no offense do you live close to an olosho house...just asking

My brother just face front jare...there is no rule that states you must be the one to call

Nairaland and lists like akara and pap

@op not every relationship is meant to work and one that is doomed from the start will always fail...all this lists don't usually reflect the real thing/situations out there

PunkyBrewster:
I'm South African lol.

Yeah, be proud, girl. Like, WTH? Coming here forming holy when they're hardly perfect themselves. Nonsense!

live and let live from the other thread on guys washing their gf's undies...moderate looking tats on not so visible parts of the body is ok though not a big fan of piercing....I agree that in this part of the world especially in Nigeria where almost everyone is a hypocrite in his or her own way can be viewed as irresponsible but it doesn't mean you judge a person you barely know based on their having tats...its just hypocrisy if you ask me and there are worse human beings(ladies) who do terrible things and have no tats

@op this takes me back....was friends with her sister but she would always use her sis phone and ID to chat with me..we ended up dating but 6 months in she became different and I ended up with a cheating partner and broke it off...so NO imo you can't you fall in love with the "idea" of the person but not with the person at least not until you physically meet with the person..aint trying it again though still scarred from the last time