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Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by flowers4me(f): 12:58pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
Yes, confront him but do it calmly so as not to end up with a row or fight. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by boofydon: 1:30pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
seseannie: ![]() ![]() My friends always tell me when they want to use my room to have sex in order to ensure no disturbance. Just follow your mind 1 Like |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by Nobody: 1:32pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
boofydon: so true. Its stuff guys would tell each other about |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by chubbypearl(f): 1:36pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
Jackeeh:Gbam!God bless you jare! 1 Like |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by Neplusultra(f): 1:41pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
Sister wot were u searching for in d dustbin at first? Confront him but let d used condom lie (sleeping dog) |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by pwerrymansion(f): 1:42pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
braine:funny enough she won't remain single 4 life, a better suitor will come sweep her off her feet. If you don't move out from that your assumed comfort zone, u might not see the better opportunity that is out there! ![]() |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by InZA: 1:52pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
seseannie: Take the used condom to the laboratory, let them take a swab from the linings of the condom, there should be enough left for DNA analysis. Tell him to provide a sample of his own sperm, "stash" it in a sterile container and take it with you to the laboratory, tell them to do a matching DNA analysis... Your marriage or introduction should be kept pending until the results are released. I have a personal principle which many may see as too rigid or even maybe to the low thinking ones, as being hypocritical and the principle is this-if I would hold myself to a stern sense of personal integrity and fidelity, I demand absolutely nothing less than that from anybody that I'm going to be spending the rest of my life with and so for me personally, I wouldn't even go through the "stress" of doing the laboratory tests I suggested, because for me "A suspected cheat is a cheat,". The fact that a girl could even remotely create grounds for me to doubt or question her fidelity to me, is enough reason for me to call it quits but since, by seeking our collective opinions here, it shows that you're more diplomatic than rigidly objective - I think you should go do that laboratory test. You should want to get married to someone you can absolutely trust, someone that you are sure is committed to you and you alone, and trust me, the actions of your boyfriend have not fed such assertions. He says it was his friend that used the condoms- lies from the Toronto University. Is this the first time his friend is using his house, why was it the period you travelled that his friend chose to come use his house, why was it the time he had to go eat that his friend came to use his house. And for all the previous comments here suggesting that guys are polygamous in nature, or 99 percent of guys cheat and all other shiity and trashy comments of similar nature - una dey craze!!!. If you have been used to having friends that synonymize the nature of randy dogs and goats, you should know that in the "animal kingdom" there are different breeds/species of animals. 6 Likes |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by braine(m): 1:54pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
pwerrymansion: Who told you she may not remain single for life?? I know people who are. And would do anything to be engaged. I don't think you understand that level yet. |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by Bwaal(m): 1:55pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
seseannie:wat did he nw say abi u never ask?? |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by pwerrymansion(f): 2:06pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
boofydon:what do u expect the boyfriend to say? It was me? Pls enough said on this topic cos the OP knows what to do |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by boofydon: 2:11pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
pwerrymansion:Omo ghana, that's why I said the OP should follow her mind. ![]() 1 Like |
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Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by chubbypearl(f): 2:14pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
sirabbey:So true,avoid future regrets 1 Like |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by hardbody: 2:15pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
[quote author=Etruth post=31094954] Utter Crap[/quotle] You get time. If you continue this way you may end up with cardiac arrest. i expressed an opinion not of mine but of someone acting and writing through me. You are responsible for what you understand from my posts. |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by pwerrymansion(f): 2:24pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
[quote author=InZA post=31105143] Take the used condom to the laboratory, let them take a swab from the linings of the condom, there should be enough left for DNA analysis. Tell him to provide a sample of his own sperm, "stash" it in a sterile container and take it with you to the laboratory, tell them to do a matching DNA analysis... Your marriage or introduction should be kept pending until the results are released. I have a personal principle which many may see as too rigid or even maybe to the low thinking ones, as being hypocritical and the principle is this-if I would hold myself to a stern sense of personal integrity and fidelity, I demand absolutely nothing less than that from anybody that I'm going to be spending the rest of my life with and so for me personally, I wouldn't even go through the "stress" of doing the laboratory tests I suggested, because for me "A suspected cheat is a cheat,". The fact that a girl could even remotely create grounds for me to doubt or question her fidelity to me, is enough reason for me to call it quits but since, by seeking our collective opinions here, it shows that you're more diplomatic than rigidly objective - I think you should go do that laboratory test. You should want to get married to someone you can absolutely trust, someone that you are sure is committed to you and you alone, and trust me, the actions of your boyfriend have not fed such assertions. He says it was his friend that used the condoms- lies from the Toronto University. Is this the first time his friend is using his house, why was it the period you travelled that his friend chose to come use his house, why was it the time he had to go eat that his friend came to use his house. And for all the previous comments here suggesting that guys are polygamous in nature, or 99 percent of guys cheat and all other shiity and trashy comments of similar nature - una dey craze!!!. If you have been used to having friends that synonymize the nature of randy dogs and goats, you should know that in the "animal kingdom" there are different breeds/species of animals. /quote] ![]() ![]() |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by maysimsimple(m): 2:26pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
seseannie: ONE WORD... Confront Him b4 He muster a courage to cook up stories for you. This as happened to me before. I went night-out on a Friday. My wife wasn't around, and i have to come home with an ashi. After 2 rounds of u know, i did hide the condom, but unfortunately for me. My wife came home early in the morning before i can say cheese. And she find the condom under the living room rug. She confronted me immediately, i have to go down on my knees to beg her. My advise, go ahead and confront Him and u can have peace of mind........ If she admit, PLSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS Kindly forgive Him and move on with ur life. But, make sure He promised you not to let it repeat itself. Thats what i did when my wife caught me,. And it will never repeat itself.......... 1 Like |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by sexymoma(f): 2:26pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
Hey sis... Thought u said you've bin dating this guy for 2yrs now ![]() Ok before now..av u ever in anyway caught him doing such thing as in cheating on you.. Fine you met used condoms in his kitchen, u asked him he told u what happened... why not accept what he told you and stylishly monitor him...i nor talk say make u dey stroll abi hire pple make dem dey monitor am ooo... u know him better so u should know.. |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by sexymoma(f): 2:29pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
InZA:Egbami ontop say person see condom for person house.. if person come see the woman wey person bleep nko.. wetin person go do |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by InZA: 2:31pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
[quote author=pwerrymansion post=31106149][/quote] ![]() ![]() If only what ![]() |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by InZA: 2:34pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
sexymoma: The person go send the woman make she go back to the man wey she follow dey knack |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by Nobody: 2:39pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
Well ...if you try to keep quiet u may become restless and never trust him. Try to bring up the issue in a more calm & relaxed mood. I'm sure if he will be sorry and ashamed if he is at fault. We all need prayers in our relationships...no one is a saint. Always remember to pray for him&urself....temptation is everywhere! |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by pwerrymansion(f): 2:42pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by kobonaire(m): 2:45pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
sucess001: So your father was cheating all the time too?? Btw, we can all read just fine. Use regular font, it is NL rule #11 |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by InZA: 2:50pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
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Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by chubbypearl(f): 2:52pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
InZA:Lol...a laboratory?haba!that is too extreme...and people are saying am too principled.I wonder what word will be used to describe you.i think you are not considering the op feelings.it will be heart breaking going through the process you have mentioned.Like someone said,her choice will determine her future.i pray she makes the right one. |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by InZA: 2:58pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
chubbypearl: I pray she does too. The guy has to really do alot to make her trust him[again]. |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by chubbypearl(f): 3:00pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
kobonaire:Harsh response...though his/her comment sucks but... 1 Like |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by chubbypearl(f): 3:13pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
InZA:The funny thing is he may not really do much...All he may do is to say some words and she will swallow it all...well,that is what love does when you don't love with your head but of course,its only love when you love with your heart... |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by stan241(m): 3:19pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
hapyz:I'm sorry I'm very very sorry I hope you understand since I'm apologising in advance but...your comment is wrong I don't care if you have been married for a gazillion years but the fact that you forgave your husband who used a bachelors eve to fornicate does not mean every woman should do same because your hubby and the man in question here are two totally different persons..pls as a married woman as it indicates from your post you are expected to give much better advise than what you just posted above 1 Like |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by Ebukaokeke5: 3:20pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
U need to be sure u quit for d ryt reasons.I'll advice u confront him and be sure u had a real reason for quitting. |
Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by InZA: 3:25pm On Feb 26, 2015 |
chubbypearl: Yeah well said...But you can not really love without loving yourself first and when you truly love yourself, you would normally and naturally demand that people treat you in a particular way...with utmost respect and regard for your feelings and emotions, after all that's the way you treat yourself, so why settle for anything less from anybody. Even if his "small words" would buy her over, I think if he truly respects her he should still go all the way by calling the friend and the girl the friend had the "stuff" with and bringing them to the OP, so they can openly admit to their "deed". Ofcourse even all that could still lies, but he just has to show her that he can and will go the extra mile to regain his trust. |
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