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Same way the men too have options to marry as many wifes as they want, if they are potent.

Samantha125:
So your brother can't even afford to rent an apartment for his wife and child?

And since you don't see 2k as a big deal, why not buy the medication and give it to her as a gift?

No need for my bro renting a place for her, since she'll soon go join him.

It's not chicken change to rent house in Lagos. Those in Lagos will understand.

2mch:
If they tell you not to come back to that house now you will be crying about how your brother is being controlled. See how you went to another persons house and now gossiping about them and questioning their parental decisions. If you feel you know best, you buy the medication and give the mother.

Keep shut about telling the husband because, the way this thing will escalate, you will not believe it yourself. Whenever someone is accommodating you, learn to mind your business and keep your opinion to yourself if you cannot do anything to help. Except the child is at physical or sexual danger.

Try and read well, understand before commenting. I have my house I stay in Delta state. I'm a millionaire bro, money is not and never will be my problem.

So, nobody is accommodating me, only went to Lagos to buy a laptop. Not even staying there up to a week. It's my mum that pays the rent, not my bro or his wife.

Samantha125:
This is the reason why I don't want any family members coming to stay in my matrimonial home, always busybodies.

You guys will just be jumping to conclusions without knowing the full story.

It's not her matrimonial home. She's staying with my mum pending when they'll join my bro in Europe this year.

Stainless11:
You can buy the medication for your niece now, not a big deal

I know it's not a big, but I don't want something that will look as if I care for her daughter more than herself.

2mch:
If they tell you not to come back to that house now you will be crying about how your brother is being controlled. See how you went to another persons house and now gossiping about them and questioning their parental decisions. If you feel you know best, you buy the medication and give the mother.

Keep shut about telling the husband because, the way this thing will escalate, you will not believe it yourself. Whenever someone is accommodating you, learn to mind your business and keep your opinion to yourself if you cannot do anything to help. Except the child is at physical or sexual danger.

It's not her house, it's my mum that rented the house, so it's my mums house. They are just staying with her pending this year by Gods grace when they will join my brother abroad.

Kobojunkie:
Your brother's child is sick, and he is missing from the picture. Why? Why can't your brother buy his own child the medication that you feel she needs and then give it to her? 🥱🥱🥱

He's in Europe. Not in Nigeria. He always sends her money. I don't know what this woman uses the money to do.

Hello guys!!!
I'm based in Delta, while my Mum, my elder Brothers wife and her baby stays with my mum in Lagos. My elder brother is Based in Europe.

I came to Lagos on Tuesday to buy something, so I used the opportunity to stay with my mum.
My brothers wife works as a teacher, and she does other side hustles. My niece have not been feeling too well since yesterday, though it's not serious. I think it's minor fever and stress. She's 8 years old.

I observe that instead of this woman, that's my brothers wife, to buy drugs for my niece, she went and bought things and prepared agbo for her baby.

Small fever that 1k or 2k drugs will stop, she went and prepared agbo. This woman likes money too much, she hardly spends money on herself, and she has money o. My niece drank the agbo last night and this morning. Now this evening , my beautiful niece is complaining that the agbo is very bitter. But she managed to drink it.

My own worry now is why will you be economizing at the detriment of your own baby.

I don't want to confront her and talk to her this night, because she'll hate me.

I don't know why igbo people like money too much.

Most people commenting about BTC dying, are new to crypto trading. While the smart ones are gradually buying the dip and keeping BTC. The jjc in crypto are saying what they know nothing about.

Forex is like gambling. Instead of learning forex, use that same energy to learn crypto.

If you don't have something you use your phone for. Just register an account at sproutgigs dot com, they don't pay much, but if u r fast in watching videos, and doing some minor task like, liking post on Facebook, Instagram, etc, just social media tasks, u'll get paid. Though the pay is not really much sha, but in a month, if u r good, u can earn up to 70k or much more than in naira. That's for those of you that don't know what to do with your phones.

ChybuzzDD:
''...account by now should be about 11k to 14k usdt balance''

You mean, this amount from the initial 80usdt you started with??

Yap.

emperor4love:
future trade or wat

I don't trade futures, futures is like gambling to me, and I hate gambling.

Bearfruit:
how much loss...

I hardly loss, cos I do mainly crypto arbitrage. When I'm not doing arbitrage, I trade support and resistance.

My key backbone is PATIENCE. I don't enter a trade until I'm 80 percent sure it'll favor me. And I make sure I don't risk more than I intend to.

I started crypto trading last year may with 80usdt, made about 2k usdt somewhere around September. Lost about 1k usdt around November last year when I tried using a new style to trade crypto.

Now, my account is back to about 3k usdt. I didn't add all the money I've withdrawn since I started crypto trading, cos if I add them, then my account by now should be about 11k to 14k usdt balance .

I use my phone to do all of my crypto trading, and this year alone, my phone have given me more than 2 million naira.

Hello house!!!
I have something that have been on my mind for a while now concerning a church I used to attend.

I observe that when I newly started that church about 5 years ago ( though I didn't worship with them for more than 5 Sundays since my first worship at the church because of their constant demand for alter calls and sowing seed).

The pastor used to stay in a rented room and parlor self contain. One Sunday the pastor just came up with the idea that the church need to build a new building beside the main church building for children.

Almost every Sunday this pastor will make alter call for people to donate money for the children building. Then on occasions, during vigils or special occasions, he'll start making alter calls for 50k, 30k, 20k down to 1k for special prayers and blessings.

I recently went to see someone around the area where the church is. What I now observe is, the building that was meant for children building.

It's a storey building, only the top floor is completed. The top floor that have been completed have been occupied by the pastor and his family. The children building is yet to be completed, but the up floor is already completed by the members, so the pastor and his family moved into the house.

Now, if the pastor knew all along that it's his own personal residential project he's embarking on, why tell the church it's for the children.
You have used the sweat of your members to build yourself a house, while many of them still leave in face me I face you.
I just feel it's somehow, and many people place too much value on these pastors which I don't think is good.

Only broke guys will have time to start beating about the bush with women.
When you know it's sex you want, simply tell her before she come to your place.
Tell her it's sex you want, and how much you are willing to give her. If she agrees, fine, if not, there are thousands of women outside looking for such opportunity.

A man with money, is a man with the option of varieties.

housefly Vs mosquito

Hello guys!!!
Between these two annoying animals, which one do you hate the sound they make close to your ear most

I smell something fishy. Dead men tell no tale. It's well.

How many programming languages can you code with
Can you create an app for Android or PC??
How many computer packages can you confidently say you can use as a pro
What do you know about blockchains or the current technologies in the world now??
What do you know about networking and configurations
Can you set up a LAN network??
Can you configure a router or switch
Can you assign IP addresses on your own
What do you know about firewalls??
Can you do ethical hacking??
There are many questions to ask, but I'll stop there.
Those are the things you should be worrying yourself with, not your first class.
If you make first class your priority, you'll work for people till you grow beards.
BUILD YOURSELF.

I see most men that hammers in virginity issues as men that don't have focus in life.
What's so special about being a virgin that as a man you'll spend your time thinking about.
Does not being a virgin stops a woman from having children
Does being a virgin automatically mean a girl will be a good wife
Pls, men should make their priority to be about making money, not fantasizing about marrying a virgin.
Me for one can't marry a virgin. Thanks.

I see most men that hammers on virginity issues as men that don't have focus on life.
What's so special about being a virgin that as a man you'll spend your time thinking about.
Does not being a virgin stops a woman from having children
Does being a virgin automatically mean a girl will be a good wife
Pls, men should make their priority to be about making money, not fantasizing about marrying a virgin.
Me for one can't marry a virgin. Thanks.

I subbed my Airtel line with 60k for 320gig for 4 months, now I can't comfortably use my data, always misbehaving, making me lose some vital transactions I need to make.

Pls guys, is there any other better alternatives other than all these useless lines that are in my area, lines like Airtel, mtn and glo are the useless ones I'm talking about.

I'm in Delta.

Hello guys!!
Pls, I'll like to know. Can you guys marry a girl with tattoo on her breast??

Still doesn't stop her from showing her true colors when she enters the home fully.

This is very commendable. Hope to see more positive news like this.

The baggage is just too much.

The Best Time to Study: Finding Your Peak Performance Window

Success in studying isn’t just about how long you study—it’s also about when you study. Everyone has different rhythms and preferences, but understanding the science behind our natural energy patterns and identifying your personal peak time can help you make the most of your study sessions. So, when is the best time to study? Let’s break it down.

1. Morning: A Fresh Start

For many people, the morning is a powerful time to study. After a full night's sleep, the brain is typically well-rested, alert, and ready to absorb new information.

Benefits of morning studying:

Higher energy levels and focus

Better retention of factual information

Quiet environment with fewer distractions

Good for subjects requiring logic and concentration (like math or science)


Best for: Early risers, people with a clear daily routine, and tasks that need strong mental clarity.

2. Afternoon: A Productive Middle Ground

Afternoons can also be a great time to study—especially after lunch and a short break. By this time, your brain has warmed up and you're fully awake.

Benefits of afternoon studying:

Increased alertness compared to early morning

Good time for group study or discussion-based learning

Better for applying knowledge or doing assignments


Best for: Balanced learners and those who prefer studying in daylight with steady energy.

3. Evening/Night: Deep Focus for Night Owls

Some people find that their concentration peaks later in the day. The night can offer a peaceful, uninterrupted block of time, ideal for creative or reflective work.

Benefits of night studying:

Fewer distractions and interruptions

Ideal for deep reading or writing tasks

Often a calm and relaxed atmosphere


Best for: Night owls, creative thinkers, and those who thrive in quiet environments.

4. Listen to Your Body and Brain

There’s no universal “best” time to study—it depends on your chronotype, or your natural sleep-wake cycle. Some people are most productive in the morning, while others peak at night. To find your best study time:

Track your energy levels throughout the day

Notice when you feel most focused and alert

Experiment with different times and reflect on the results


5. Tips for Maximizing Your Study Time

Stick to a routine: Your brain thrives on consistency.

Avoid distractions: Find a quiet, comfortable place to study.

Take breaks: Use techniques like Pomodoro (25-min study + 5-min break).

Sleep well: No study schedule can make up for poor rest.

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Why NYSC Has Lost Its Value

The National Youth Service Corps (NYSC), once a symbol of national unity and patriotism in Nigeria, has gradually lost its value in the eyes of many Nigerians. Established in 1973, the scheme aimed to foster integration among Nigeria’s diverse ethnic groups and provide graduates with practical experience. However, several issues have contributed to its decline in relevance.

First, the increasing insecurity across the country has made NYSC postings risky. Corps members are often sent to volatile regions where they face threats of violence, kidnapping, or even death. This has made many young Nigerians view the scheme as a dangerous obligation rather than an opportunity.

Second, the quality of placements has deteriorated. Many corps members are posted to institutions or offices where their skills are underutilized, leaving them idle or forced to do menial tasks unrelated to their field of study. The lack of meaningful work experience diminishes the value the program was supposed to provide.

Additionally, the original goal of national unity seems outdated in today’s climate of ethnic and political division. The enthusiasm that once accompanied cross-cultural postings has been replaced by reluctance and fear, eroding the spirit of integration the scheme was meant to foster.

In a rapidly changing economy where digital skills and entrepreneurship are key, NYSC has failed to evolve. Without reform, the scheme risks becoming a mere formality—one that consumes time and resources but offers little return.

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Fulani have killed several people in the past, maybe it's karma that paid them a visit. But jungle justice is bad though.

NYSC IS A SYSTEM PAST ITS PRIME


The National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) was established in 1973 to foster national unity and integration. At the time, Nigeria was emerging from a civil war, and the program aimed to bridge ethnic and regional divides by posting fresh graduates to different parts of the country. However, times have changed, and what was once a noble initiative now feels outdated and ineffective.

Here’s why the NYSC should be scrapped:

1. Insecurity: A Risk Not Worth Taking

The biggest concern today is the safety of corps members. Reports of kidnappings, killings, and violent attacks on NYSC members have become common. Many are sent to states where insecurity is rampant, putting their lives at serious risk. If the government cannot guarantee their safety, why force them to serve in danger zones?

2. Unemployment: NYSC Delays the Inevitable

With over 33% youth unemployment, the NYSC does little to improve graduates' job prospects. Instead of immediately entering the workforce or pursuing entrepreneurship, graduates spend a full year earning a meager allowance (allawee) that barely covers living expenses. This delays their ability to start careers or further their education.

3. Poor Living Conditions and Exploitation

Many corps members are posted to rural areas where basic amenities are lacking—no electricity, no potable water, and terrible healthcare facilities. Some private organizations exploit NYSC members as cheap labor, assigning them full-time responsibilities with little or no compensation beyond their government stipend.

4. Financial Burden on the Government

The NYSC consumes billions of naira annually in stipends, training, and administration costs. Given Nigeria’s struggling economy, should we keep funding a scheme that adds little value? These funds could be redirected to entrepreneurial grants, skill acquisition programs, or direct youth employment initiatives.

5. National Unity? A Myth at Best

While NYSC was meant to promote unity, many corps members simply redeploy to their home states or nearby regions. Those who remain in their assigned states often form ethnic or regional cliques, defeating the purpose of integration.

A Better Alternative?

Instead of NYSC, the government should focus on:
✅ Compulsory vocational/entrepreneurial training for graduates
✅ Job placement and internship programs to connect youth with real employment
✅ A national service program based on volunteering, not forced participation

Final Thoughts

NYSC has outlived its usefulness. Insecurity, unemployment, and economic challenges make it more of a burden than a benefit. If the goal is to empower Nigerian youth, let’s invest in skills, jobs, and opportunities.

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