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naptu2:
There was a reggae music boom in Nigeria in the 1980s and 1990s. It was used as one of the vehicles in the fight against military rule in Nigeria and apartheid in South Africa. These are some of the biggest Nigerian reggae songs of the 1980s and 1990s. You can add more.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l3gCYqVWYBM

Tutu82:
Is she in London already?.If yes am happy to discuss with her not a third party.Thank you.

Tutu82:
I know am asking 7years too late but if you still have the domestic help agency in catford number and/or address am interested.My sister has two kids 7/3 and are desperate.Iv got to work so can’t help as much weekdays.

pharuk:
Guessing it worked for you?
We are in need of a nanny and we are somewhere in Essex.
Issue is that this visa is just for 6 months, we need someone for a minimum of 1 year.

doing this every 6 months is really putting me off

Tutu82:
This thread is a few years old but am interested as am after some help.
Hi,

I live in London and recently welcomed a set of Triplets.I intend to stay at home for two years to tend to the babies but would need some help i.e a live in Nanny to join me and cook,clean and care for the babies with me.

I would provide accomodation,feeding,Sundays off and £600 (£1-750 that’s 450,000 monthly if you would rather be paid in Naira).

I have also considered bringing a nanny/househelp from Nigeria to look after my baby and learn the ropes but Domestic visas is a pain and young girls come here to disappear.I don’t want to have any issues so not facilitating visas.

Please contact me if you live in London or looking for this sort of Job role.If anyone knows any agency details am open to the information too.Not bothered about religion but would prefer an African as would like babies to learn culture and manners.Must be Female and above 21years of age.

Thank you.

Gogomannie:
Hi,

I am a London based Nigerian and recently had a baby. With day care being so expensive in London i've found that most of my salary would go on paying nursery fees for my child. In other words, i might as well stay at home and look after the baby myself. My husband works but it would be nice to have some income coming in from my end. As a result, i have considered bringing a nanny/househelp from Nigeria to look after my baby whilst I go back to work, (as a cheaper and more convenient option- Obviously, i plan to give the help a good life here and occasional trips to Nija to see her family!).

Has anyone on here done this? I've occasionally seen Nigerians settling with house helps here calling them cousins, or one relative or another. What are the tricks of the game? any advice would be really helpful. Obviously, i know of the risks i.e running away, social services e.t.c but are there success stories? how would they move from visit visa to permanent residency? I'd be most grateful for your views.

Thanks

Reinamaria:
Why do some men stop giving their wives attention after they marry them?
One foolish one once typed "Do politicians still campaign after winning elections?"
That foolish comment got over 2k likes as at when I saw it.

Dear men (husbands), you need to do better.
Women (your wives) love attention and you owe them that attention.
You need to give them as much attention as they need, so that no other man would matter to them.
Not everything is achieved with force and order.
You all need to do better.

SGANIVA:
Please I need an advise ,I want dissolve my four months old marriage .

If you follow my post on nairaland you will see where I posted about looking for a wife some months ago ,yes someone later introduced me to this girl who's from anambra state dunukofia local government . I guess she's beautiful and possess some of the qualities I wanted from my own view , the person that introduced me to this lady already told her family all about me and my business . so no need of wasting time , we went to her place for the traditional rite with my people after three weeks of knowing her
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Everything was successful after I have spent 800k on traditional rite , there elders insist I must do traditional marriage for the community (igba nkwu ) which my people argue but to no Vail ,well the later release my wife to me .
To God be the glory my wife became pregnant the second month ,there family started mounting pleasure on me again for the igba nkwu (traditional marriage ) and wedding , well this time my business was having a major shake up because is December already, we need to settle out with partners including financial institutions

folake4u:
Up Chelsea. Perfect birthday gift!!!

Shalommy:
By hugging a transformer.

Shalommy:
Chaii.. That mohbad guy still dey learn work for where pboys dey.

babybabyl:
I finally registered in River Ranch and I have come back to say it's real oo.... Go ahead to register if you need invitation code hit � me up...

I will gladly give you...

Odewaleadesoye:
Just wanna give few people small change for tomorrow's breakfast or Lunch.

Kindly quote this message and tell what breakfast you can buy from the small change and I will credit you.

Odewaleadesoye:
Just wanna give few people small change for tomorrow's breakfast or Lunch.

Kindly quote this message and tell what breakfast you can buy from the small change and I will credit you.

GAZZUZZ:
Selling all 3 as one only . Price is giveaway.

GAZZUZZ:


All 3 ₦50k

Dare14:
Send me your details to contact you

Connected1:
If I were you.

I am so done, the economy is harsh and I don't need stress.

On a second thought, if you can go through the stress, then run an investigative analysis using her church members as the apparatus, bribe your way in and they would let the cat out of the bag, only then can you satisfy your doubts.

But on a third thought, Let her go, because I am 100% sure she can't leave that church because of you, so.... What are we saying....

tomtomastom4:
I created this thread in response to the post on front page about ladies that date men who earn less than 100k. Below is the link.

https://www.nairaland.com/7292274/ladies-relationship-men-earns-100k

Of a truth, its not easy to manage such amount, but when one is already in such situation, you just have to manage and improvise.
Now like the OP of the above thread requested, here is the break down of how we make our expenses.

To start with, I was earning about 130k previously before we got married by March this year, but I changed job and the pay of the new job is 95k. STarted the new job around Feb this year, even though there was a loan I was paying off.. Need I add that my wife was working in a firm where shes paid 45K, but two months after our married, she quit the job due to pregnancy stress. Am sure ladies will understand.

This is our break down.
Monthly salary 95k
I remove 40k first from the salary and transfer it to 3 different acct.
The first acct receives 20k. This acct is not touchable except on extreme emergency. Its our main savings acct.
The second acct gets 10k and its for our rent, also non touchable. Rent is 150k per year. Before u say my rent is high compared to my salary, I like my privacy very well. and the cost of rent isnt friendly in my state.
The third acct also gets 10k. This one is for semi savings. This acct is touchable when cash at hand have been exhausted before the next month salary.

From the remaining 50k,
I send 10k to my family acct. I and my brothers do contribute 10k+ every month and its been used to run expenses WRT our parents and last born.
I gv my wife 10k for her monthly up keep. Its small. But its the sacrifice we all have to make for the good of the family.
I hold 10k myself for logistics and transport. I must confess, is not enough. But One have to strive. My wrk place isnt far. SO transport is N100 to and fro, thats approximately 3k per month. The remaining money i use it for other logistics. 4k out of this money goes for gas wch last for abt 2 weeks. And when we want to refill and there is no other money left, we fall back to the 3rd acct.
The remaining 20k is strictly for food ( On this food issue is where I "duff my hart" cos shes really managing things well and trying.
Sometimes, I really feel for her, cos this her pregnancy makes her to crave for things that is not on our food menu, but then when the money is not there, she just surpress the cravings. At times I feel bad.

The remaining 5k, for now is used to pay back a tailor who sewed multiple pregnancy gowns for my wife.

Its good to add that any small money I make like 1k or 2k on side hustle, I directly buy mudu of rice, beans or flour for swallow.

Its not easy at all. But there are families with kids leaving below that.

My wife is abt 5mnths pregnant, we plan to divert the 20k savings to buying baby things in preparation for child birth.


The truth is that the economic situation in this country is bad and so cost of leaving is very high. But then one have to survive.
But then in Nigeria now, how many percentage of the population earn above 100k. In fact how many jobs out there pays such as amount.

The only advice I have for ladies is that if you are not working and you parent family is the type need financial help from your husband after marriage, or you are the type of lady that is high class and wont settle for less or manage with your man. Plz kindly wait and take your time to look for a man that is RICH or financially capable of taken care of you and maybe your family. Please dont hide under the cover of you want to marry quick and then accept a struggling man only to start putting pressure on his head. Plz wait and marry a rich man.

Most responsible men wont really appreciate it if you are always demanding for things you knw fully well that he can not afford.


It is also good to note that no condition is permanent, things will definitely get better. A better job might come or my wife might get a job after her maternity which will increase our income.

The bottom line is, as a couple, but of you will have to work things out to improve your finances.

NINIOLA1194:
hello everyone,I want to you this medium to tell you that I always have 20,000+ fingerlings,post fingerlings,jumbo Evey 15 days in my farm at atan sango ogun state.kindly call for your standard Fingerlings at a reasonable price .....kindly call or whatapp my number......08100824218

Note .....if you do buy fish in large quantities kindly DM I will like to do business with you..

I also sell to small scale Farmer.

Thanks

Penuelseun:
, You will need a lot more than 250k, a 2.5kva inverter is your best bet, with 4 200ah lead acid batteries or a 200ah 24v lifepo4 battery, you will need at least 6pcs of 400w solar panels with a 60a mppt charge controller. You can go for a DC pump[if you have not gotten one yet] as that will reduce cost significantly as you will only be buying the pump and solar panels, mind you it will only work in the presence of sunlight