₦airaland Forum

IconicR:
What matters to me most is his reaction towards me after cheating, is he truly remorseful and want to retrace his steps? Is he behaving like it's not a big deal afterall he's a man and he's entitled to cheat? Is he still in communication with the unfortunate woman he cheated with? Does he have any form of emotions towards her? Does he discuss me and our private affairs with her? Has she known alot about me and my family through him because of his disrespect and diarrhea mouth? Is he sharing attention between us? And I'll also want to know what he sees in the woman that God has not naturally blessed me with.
The answers I'll get will determine my next line of action and once I'm done I'll be done for good.

nah vex u dey vex ooooo

Alejo2000:
What do you suggest...

farming (Agriculture never fade nor die)

mancoconut:
My journey in Nigeria ends! I'll be leaving the country by August 9 to Canada guys. All the suffering and wahala don end for me o! My stint on Nairaland finally comes to an end.

All the best to you all

pls take me along

beautyhd:
If you are good in English language, help out.

the ball is placed underneath the table

successmatters:
Imagine if olamide is from

He would have been arrested as soon as possible
Handcuffed and paraded in courts
Beaten, locked up without access to his lawyers
Fined
Stripped of any of his previous titles
Prevented from playing music in Nigeria
Told to leave Lagos and return to his village

Tribalism will kill Nigeria

that pic no be naija ooo

budaatum:
No police would arrest your father for saving your brother and for fixing your family home. They'd in fact see you as a bad and irresponsible child who yourself should be arrested, and you'd forever have a bad name in the community for having your father arrested.

You seem angry that your "father was a petty trader who hardly can provide adequate for the family", but you don't sound pleased that your father was not an armed robber who stole to provide you with lots. And that just shows the poverty of your mind, which you should consider rectifying pretty soon.

Well spoken sir
If that boy get sense him go reason your words.
Thanks
I learnt from your words also

Namdeenero:
If I were you I’d turn that anger into thanksgiving. The money wasn’t squandered but used to save your own brothers life plus shelter your parents. Say a very emotional prayer and ask God to multiply that money a thousand folds then have faith and keep working hard. Then talk to your father calmly, tell him you’re not mad at him

you have the spirit of God in your sir.
Well spoken

LegallyBlunt:
Good day everyone. For a couple of weeks now, there has been issues where I worship.

Mostly between the Pastor and his assistant (presently former assistant). They had a falling out, which escalated to a point where the assistant stopped his duties.

Now, I managed to ask questions about the issue and the Pastor gave his version. I also got to know about the assistant's version.

However, here's the issue - they're not in speaking terms! Isn't that malice? Isn't that dangerous, and a deviation from what Christians ought to do? Are they not in danger of hell and manipulation from the devil and agents of sin?

What's even more painful is that the church just continues like there's no issue on ground. It's sad, really.

Doyin

Nigeria

That's hybrid catfish
Its age would be 2 -5 years

Not only in Nigeria

tttmar:
Nairaland has taught me knowledge in all aspect of life. It makes me to know what is going on around the world. It gives me joy which makes me not to go into depression.

I see you stay in ikorodu.
Can we meet

Kingsley123456:
I will go straight to the point.....
I've not dated a faithful lady since I started dating and I've dated up to 6 different ladies aside from Shop and clean mouth).

My girlfriend which I thought I will at least manage to settle down with was cooking for me 2days ago and I took her phone went straight to WhatsApp and telegram to see chats. One was wooing her and she's responding normally, no iota of restrain in the chats and another was inviting her over and she said, sure, she will come.

I dropped the phone immediately , I was still thinking of where to start with her when I received a call from work and I had to leave, I message her while I was at work and asked her while she's doing all these to me, as usual she claimed they are platonic friends and nothing more.

I blocked her immediately she mention there is nothing wrong in visiting Platonic friends in open places and even at home....

This is isn't the type of woman i want.

That wasn't her first time but she always accuse me of not wanting her to have good male friends.

I'm tired of things like these, I will be 35 by September.

Initially I thought I'm getting older and I should settle down, but, will I ever meet a Woman of my choice?? Someone I can at least trust?? someone who won't be going round visiting Platonic friends, ano wan loseguard, I need a woman in my life but I think I'm giving up......

I don't want to die young...
Lastly Nairalanders

Do I have to look for another relationship again or
Take her back and give her last chance?? Or, concentrate on money making for another 5yr? And forget about getting married,
Pls advice.

bro I know of someone whom you would like but first I really interview you make you no hurt the innocent lady...she is a working class lady and about to graduate (bsc)

stancod:
It’s a good advice, if you both are serious about kids. STD and Fertility test is a must. Even mental check up since it’s long distance relationship. Your father knows how girls are moving these days and wants you to be cautious. Youngsters both male and female are sexually reckless. Listen to your father. If she also wants what you want, it’s not a big deal. You can also send your results to her to reassure her.

Best advice...and spiritual check up also

beekind:
I am a 38 year old Nigerian American citizen dating a 26 year old Nigeria girl.
I grew up in Nigeria but travelled out to the USA when I was 25 years old, I am a citizen now and doing really well for myself.
I met a beautiful and godly Nigerian girl on facebook and we have been dating for some months now we are now thinking of marriage, she is in Nigeria while I am in the USA.

Some weeks ago my dad asked me to do some tests and send to him, (He is a medical doctor), I did them, turns out to be fertility tests and all was perfect.
I just told him about my fiance and my plans to get married in some months time and he said she has to do fertility test before he can agree to the marriage.

This was very shocking for me as he insisted that it is his position, I haven't told my fiance cos I dont know how to and my fiance is scheduled to pay my parents a visit for the first time in Port Harcourt in 2 weeks time.
My fiance is from Delta but lives in Portharcout as my parents while we are from Port harcourt.

My dad has said if I cannot tell her that he will, what do you guys think ?

Honest advise please and admin kindly push to front page for wider advise.

Thanks.

It’s a good advice, if you both are serious about kids. STD and Fertility test is a must. Even mental check up since it’s long distance relationship. Your father knows how girls are moving these days and wants you to be cautious. Youngsters both male and female are sexually reckless. Listen to your father. If she also wants what you want, it’s not a big deal. You can also send your results to her to reassure her.

Lekan239:
Are there no good managers out there again. Why do Chelsea bohely kept given oloriburuku people jobs.

Imagine this one just putting players into the pitch with no tactics the funniest thing is him removing Enzo for Kovacic.

Why am I the only one seeing kovacic as useless in Chelsea

no be only you ooooo
That Kovacic as him dey old him sense dey loss more

Bakrabas:
Which part of Ikorodu?

And how do you sell...we can chat on WhatsApp my number is on my profile

Ok

Bakrabas:
Where do you base if I want to buy fingerlings

ikorodu, Lagos State

That guy look like my defender
KK

Ehinjuola:
Hello NLders.....

I have this issue I'm dealing with which seems to be taking ages now.

There are these stubborn black spots in my face which refuse to go after using different antibacterial creams yet the spots are still much visible, will have to wait till dark before I go out.

Help! , its really killing me slowly as well as demoralized me. Even my confidence is no more there as I typed this.

In between I'm oily skin person.

oga go do syphilis test

Ceejay2:
I have used ORL Giant 60 ceiling fan N10,000

Pls am still waiting for your number

Ceejay2:
I have used ORL Giant 60 ceiling fan N10,000

Pls whatapp number so u can send me pix

missbae:
Sold

Thanks

Ceejay2:
I have used and in good working condition ORL 26inch industrial standing N35,000

that's too big for me
I need Ceiling or 16" standing fan.
Thanks

Pls who get ceiling or standing fan to sell...
I need it

missbae:
Sofa...70k.....sold
Drop light.....20k
Chandelier.....40k
Drop light...20k
2Big fancy light...25k both
Window blind...10k each
Curtains....50k
Sound system....100k
55" hisense curve smart tv....250k
Tv console...40k
Tv console...22k
Tv console..22k
Artwork....20k each
2.5 inverter Ac....300k
1.5 Ac....75k
1.5 Ac....75k
1.5 Lg inverter v Ac.....120k
4by6 bed& mattress...55k
6by6 spring mattress...50k
6by6 mattress....50k
Heat extractor...50k


Lekki
08027041312
Delivery available

Pls what about the fan

The painful part is that Seun Osewa no go acknowledge ur post. He is not different from our Nigeria government.

Nice one