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However, after dozens and dozens of dates and hundreds of right swipes that have amounted to nothing, I’ve been able to put a label on just about every single one.

I’ve boiled them down to six main categories:

1. The Ex
W hen one relationship ends, it’s so easy to look back at an ex and question why that relationship didn’t work out either.
Call it delusion or curiosity, but it always seems like a logical first step when you’re single.
So, if you’re both single, why not give it another whirl?
It’s comfortable. It’s fun.
It’s your opportunity to double-check he’s really not the one who got away.
When my high school sweetheart found out that my recent ex and I had ended things, he came back into my life the same way he left it: like a tornado, leaving a path of destruction in his wake.
Without getting into details for his sake (and his girlfriend’s, whoops), the verdict was we broke up for a reason.
That’s always a validating feeling.
In the words of my inner spirit animal, Taylor Swift, we are never, ever getting back together. Like, ever.
But hey, like I said, it can’t hurt to double check.

2. The Non-Committal Charmer
He’ll tell you you’re exclusive, but he won’t ever make you his girlfriend.
He’ll monopolize your free time to ensure you don’t spend time with anyone else, but he won’t commit.
You’ll never meet his friends or family, so don’t even try.
He is in complete control of the relationship because you let him be.
His charm, wit and personality compel you to stay.
His goal is to perpetually keep your relationship in a hostage situation.
You want to see other people, but you don’t want to put what you have at risk because it’s comfortable and fun.
You’re convinced that at some point, he’ll come to his senses.
He won’t.
So, you’re going to want to quit while you’re ahead. Don’t waste any time.....Continue Reading @

http://www.gisttrace.com/2016/10/for-ladies-6-guys-youll-end-up-dating.html?m=1

What do you need to become that guy that women want to speak with, spend time with, date, and fall in love with?

This list of seven things is the best starter-pack you need to become a lot more attractive to ladies than you already are:

1. Never appear unkempt: I don’t know if it has ever happened to you, but you know, sometimes, you decide to just put on that over-faded old jeans and that slightly dirty sneaker, and that’s when you run into your crush. Ouch!
Lesson : Never appear unkempt, Never!

2. Be a smooth talker: Whether they like to admit it or not, women have always, they are presently at it, and will forever be a sucker for a smooth guy.

Want to become ultra-attractive, drop those silly clichés and become smooth in your speech.

3. Be a man of your words: Say what you mean and mean what you say, it’s that simple...Continue Reading @

http://www.gisttrace.com/2016/10/7-ways-to-become-more-attractive-to.html

It’s a well-known fact that men cheat with side chics and have Mistresses because of s*x. However, there are other factors that make them stick to these women. If your partner is unfaithful, it’s not your fault but these tips can help strengthen a marriage, decreasing the chances of infidelity.

#1. Time: It’s common among married women to worry too much about household management, children, housework, organizing strict schedules and diagramming every minute of the day. It’s easy to always be aiming for the picture-perfect family. But these behaviours become damaging to the family and especially to husbands when these routines take priority. Spend quality time with your husband. Don’t put your children ahead of your spouse, and leave your parents out of your relationship. Don’t choose laundry over a good talk, and don’t decide to scrub the kitchen when you could go on a walk together.

#2. Excitement: When we get caught up in daily tasks, we become boring (and even bored). Any woman, regardless of marital status, should have her own life: reading, studying, writing, learning new skills and taking care of herself. Be your own person. Your husband will value your joy, intelligence, hard work, beauty and good humour. When you are interested in yourself, you will become irresistible. People who know how to be themselves are the most interesting.

#3. Romantic interest: Many wives believe it’s a husband’s obligation to love them. It’s sad to meet women who believe love is a light that never goes out. What a mistake! To be in love.....Continue Reading @

http://www.gisttrace.com/2016/10/5-reasons-men-have-side-chics-and.html

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"I was cruising around with my girlfriend, Sidney, in my topless Jeep one sunny day when she put her feet on the dashboard so that her skirt flipped up, barely revealing her sexy white, lace G-string panties," says Dan Bides, a 27-year-old pharmacist in New York City. "I drove right off the road and we started making out. She was better than a fantasy."

Why the boy ploy? "I was so attracted to him, I wanted him to really want me," says Sidney, a 26-year-old office manager. She chose the best way to seduce: eye-popping pre-intimacy. "Men are far more visual than women. Sexy teasing works wonders on them," advises Susan Crain Bakos, author of Sexational Secrets (Saint Martin's, 1996). If you're writing with a pen, for instance, stop to suggestively put it in your mouth every so often. Or when you're eating spaghetti, roll a short strand into your mouth with your tongue. "Draw out your actions to build anticipation," she adds.

"For example, when she comes home from work, her blouse will be unbuttoned so it's easy for me to peek down her shirt and notice she isn't wearing a bra," he says. "It took me awhile to realize that she didn't go to work like that. She's just teasing me. And it works — we have incredibly hot sex."

The best sex of Jamie Heartmore's life was with a no-holds-barred bed devil he had just met. "We were lifeguards and shared a two-person bench. After talking about sex for two hours, we were both worked up," says the 30-year-old architect from Seattle. "Suddenly, she sat on my lap, slipped the crotch of.....Continue Reading @

http://www.gisttrace.com/2016/09/must-read-give-him-best-sex-of-his-life.html

You’ve never had a problem getting w’εt before but now your privates feel like the Sahara, don’t panic you’re not going through early menopause. Fact is, there are many reasons why younger women experience vag!nal dryness, and the problem is a lot more common than you’d think.

Still, it’s not something you want to blow off. It’s important for your hoo-ha to be moist, and not just because lubrication makes s*x feel more plεasμrable. Vag!nal wetness keeps tissues healthy and even serves as a line of defense against infections and STDs, says Alyssa Dweck, an ob-gyn in Westchester, New York, and co-author of V Is for v**ina. Use a water-based vag!nal lubricant in the meantime as you suss out what’s leaving you dry.

1. Your Body Craves More Forεplay. The typical rom-com s*x scene goes from locking lips to full-on intεrcoursε in about 30 seconds. In the real world, we call b.s. most women need at least a little more direct stimμlation before they’re ready enough for pεnεtration, says Dweck.

2. You’re Stressed Out. Stress takes the blame for a lot of health issues, and you can add vag!nal dryness to the list. If it doesn’t temporarily kill your lib!do outright, feeling anxious or pressured can make it harder to get turned on. Once the stress lifts, your juices should start flowing....Continue Reading @

http://www.gisttrace.com/2016/09/ladies-5-reasons-your-vagna-is-going-dry.html

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Hopefully, knowing what you can expect will help you mentally prepare yourself for all the dating riff-raff you’ll be sorting through.

#1. The Assh*le. This one is pretty basic. The assh*le is the guy who has zero consideration for your time, texts you after midnight on the reg and is clearly not intent on establishing any sort of relationship.
He doesn’t care about you, your feelings or what you have to offer. He only cares about getting it in and getting on to the next one.

#2. The Carpet. After you date three to four assh*les in a row, you start to think, “Maybe it’s just that I’m making the wrong choices in men.” As a result, you overcompensate and get yourself a nice guy.
But not just any nice guy, a carpet, a guy who will dote on your every whim and do anything you say. The problem is, that’s not attractive.
After a few months, you’ll start yearning for your old, assh*le vices. Having a backbone, even if he’s controlling or rude about it, is better than having no backbone at all.

#3. The Pretty Dumb One. When he writes the same way most people text, Houston, we have a problem. Every girl has dated a guy who is so pretty, but so dumb. He’s pretty; he’s dumb; he’s pretty dumb.
And that’s about all he can follow, so have fun with this one and move on....Continue Reading @

http://www.gisttrace.com/2016/09/10-kinds-of-mr-wrongs-you-date-before.html

So let’s see how the top 2 myths have been making Christian dating complicated:

Myth #1: Your desires are sinful
Many of the Christian singles I meet are struggling with extreme loneliness and depression but they won’t admit it because they’ve been told they don’t need a man.

They feel guilty just thinking about a relationship and their doubts about their worthiness for love cause them to create relationship failures!

Maybe we’ve come to believe the inaccurate stats on Black women and marriage and feel like there aren’t enough men to go around so we want to prepare women for a life of singleness.

The problem is Black women were born to be loved, just like everyone else.
We need tenderness, affection, healthy s*xual lives, support, attention and more. These desires are NOT sinful. They are natural.

As Reverend Marcia Dyson said....Continue Reading @

http://www.gisttrace.com/2016/09/jesus-is-not-your-man-2-myths-that-keep.html

Nollywood actress, Opeyemi Aiyeola who left the movie scenes to concentrate on her family six years back revealed that her family is everything and choosing to focus on her family was the best decision ever as her second son turned five years old.

Read below:

“People ask me all the time,’ Ope why did u sacrifice ur career for family?,why did u leave at a time u were hotter than hot?, U could be up there by now, U could be getting most hot deals n endorsements, ur career would have blown supa huge!.
I look at them and always think n say to myself, ‘ignorance’ and ‘petty’. Now I am glad n proud to ans those questions. This is one of the reasons why. Abandoning my career to have lovely, handsome, glorious, blessed, intelligent, world changer boys is why. If given the grace and opportunity I will do same over and over again. My pride, my prince, my joy, my future, my wealth, my endorsement, my primary career, words can’t express how honoured and grateful to God I am for the grace to be ur caretaker. As u turn 5 today I celebrate u, I appreciate u, I honour God in ur life. David Oluwasemilore keep soaring on eagles wings and keep making ur creator, dad n mum proud. Happy birthday my 2nd prince, assistance boss mi, davidodo mi, long life and prosperity”

Source: http://gisttrace.com

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it. So, what’s the secret to being a truly sεxy woman who captivates the whole room? The secret is tapping into and drawing out your innate authentic feminine self. This isn’t something you can buy or wear or get in a pill. It involves self-confidence, self-esteem and feminine flare.

Real attraction comes from implementing this three things:

#1. Let your feminine energy radiate: This is the opposite of acting tough, playing hard to get, and having emotional walls up. It’s not about over-accommodating or making sure everyone else is happy at your own expense. It’s about striking a balance between your masculine and feminine energy. You must connect inward to radiate your feminine energy.

When you are lit up and glowing this way, you become a chooser (rather than a victim) and you set up your life on your terms. You no longer leave it in the hands of someone else, such as: fate, destiny, or some guy you hope will change to become ‘the right man’ for you. You power your life with your own radiance and THIS is super sexy to the man you’re intentionally eyeing from across the room.

#2. Kindly but firmly honour your boundaries: This is the ultimate act of being powerful and soft. Honouring your boundaries begins by saying “yes” to what you want and “no” to what you don’t want. By honouring your boundaries, you stay true to yourself and you don’t compromise your goals and values, especially when you meet a really hot guy where there is obvious chemistry between you. Just because he’s attractive .......Continue Reading @

http://www.gisttrace.com/2016/09/3-simple-ways-to-be-sxist-woman-in-room.html

Too many partners before marriage could increase the chances of divorce while having only one or two partners before marriage could result in a stable marriage. A new study claims
Though these words cannot be generalized, the probability of this becoming true is very high. The reasons are obvious.

When a person dates a couple of times before marriage, he or she may understand what one wants and this may lead to a better decision when it comes to marriage. This could be the reason why such people may settle down with someone perfect and end up living with that partner for a long tim....Continue Reading @

http://www.gisttrace.com/2016/09/how-affairs-before-marriage-affect-life.html

We all go through heartbreaks at some point of time. Coming out of it can make you a totally different person, a more stronger person indeed. Both men and women dump each other when the relationship does not work out. This does not make one single person bad, as the relationship goes kaput because of both the people.

Analyzing and understanding what ends a relationship is important as well. This helps to avoid unwanted tensions and trouble in your love garden.

Learn about the things that actually make your relationship dry and cause you to breakup with your partner.

In this article, we are here to share the list of things that actually end a relationship. These are the things that can be visualized as the tip of a hidden volcanic eruption, which when erupts surely wreaks havoc in your love life.

Initially, these things seem to be petty to start a fight or an argument on; However, if we tend to ignore these things, this is when we make grave mistakes of letting it grow.
To be able to handle the relationship better, we must nip the problem in its bud stage, as prolonging it will just not do any good to anyone

So, find out more about these things that can actually end a relationship.

#1. When There Are Trust Issues: Trust is something that takes time to build and doing something foolish will only make you dumb. A little damage done to your good image can make you look like a bad person for quite long. Trust issues can only make the relationship weak.

#2. Being A Control Freak : This is such a turn off for anyone who’s ever been in a relationship. Nobody likes to be tamed and controlled. So, if either of you is demanding and commanding a little extra, then one needs to know that this will only kill the relationship......Continue Reading @

http://www.gisttrace.com/2016/09/hot-things-that-actually-end.html

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