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Sapasenator:
What about you?

Can you forgive the husband if roles were reversed?

I can o... Men do not even need to be in such situation to cheat. That where the variety crap comes into play.

You know women forgives cheating way more than men.

PerfectStranger:
Only men fvck without emotions. What if the dicck was too good? Even tho she doesn't go back but she'll always think about it in her mind.
She should sale her papa land for my treatment instead of hoeing for funds.

It's clearly stated in the write up that if the only way she could source fund is sleeping with someone.

Go, cutie. The sky isn't your end, but your beginning.🎊

illicit:
I don't know

Things are not always this simple

Meaning if it happens, you will forgive, right?

PerfectStranger:
Una don start again

Is prostitution the only way she can source for funds?

She's not into prostitution. If she did it out of her own will giving that's the only option left to source fund for you the husband's treatment.

Can you forgive your wife for sleeping with someone just to source money for the treatment of your ailment?

I came across an interview where a man was asked, and I was shocked by his response.

I don't think I've ever experienced it but I still don't want to be quick to say I do not believe in it.

Taste ko, tasty fried chicken ni

DonroxyII:
I can't guess ti .. Abeg make una no curse again

Facts? I will keep saying. Let him keep cursing his future generations. Na to ignore his existence sure pass.

DonroxyII:
Gisos.... Epe yi po ... Eyin Omo Yoruba ... !

He can't be blamed for the ruins that has befell his sísters due to their past and present olosho activities. I understand his frustration and that's why he's trying so hard to influence decent ladies to be like them. And instead of him to seek on behalf of them and his miserable life God's mercy, he's busy here cursing his entire generations to come thinking he's cursing me who was only quoting what God said and is pleased with.

DonroxyII:
Ai Walahi, Omo Ilorin Ni O

Yeah

Partially Kwara state.😂

Joy2dworldxyz:
Good morning
Happy Sunday

Good morning. Same to you

Joy2dworldxyz:
Yes o, good norms and principles have turned to bad and awkward in the eyes of the people of this generation. But it wasn't like that in our past generations.

Sorry thought you were asleep by now!!

It's well. And we wonder why this generation has become this bad. The reasons are not far fetched at all.

Joy2dworldxyz:
You see, yet people making it look as though it's a very bad offense. Like me, when I will get married, I just pray I get a good wife whether we test o or not....

It's not like they are not aware. Na wetin them wan chop no gree them do the right thing. May God grant us the best of spouses

MrIcredible:
Lol
You're frustrated and defeated
Na you no be virgin and na you e dey pain
Virginity is not important for men, so deal with that.
Every culture alive place important to women's decency and Chasity. Even God chose Mary to birth Jesus for being a virgin and other reasons. Why didn't God choose a whoré?

😂

I know you will tell my words to your sisters and be more protective of them. Tell them to seek God's forgiveness. He's all forgiving.

MrIcredible:
Lol
Oloriburuku ọmọ irankiran
Frustrated agitated olosho, like mother like daughter
Always agitated when topics about morals, decency and virginity comes up because you're already wasted
Dey play say your parents are proud of you
No father alive is happy raising a whoré, a girl that has been used and passed around by different guys
I'm very sure that if you can turn back the hands of time, you will.

😂 E pain am o.

Alhamdulilah for the kind of woman I'm. It one of the favors of my lord I will never deny. I won't self appraise my self.


Wo, mio no prove ara mi fun ju. Ara lo nta e. Oti to koro. Ti wo ba ti bi Mo obirin niki won ma gbe ara won kale fun gbogbo werey bi tie.

Women, stay decent. It pays!

Double0h7:
Nobody gives a fvck what you support. A woman has rights over her body. If she don’t want to do with him and she wants to do with someone else it’s her right! Are men exposed for their evil against women? Pickmes like you will suffer in the end. Don’t mention me again.

😂
I'm stubborn o ... So, I will mention u.

Given that women have right to give their bodies to who so ever they deem fit, why lie about their celibacy status to an innocent man?

Why not stay uncommitted and give your body as much men as you can, for all we care?

nwachinemel:
Omo my ex-fiancee I dated for 8 months and already printed traditional marriage card said No premarital sex. Five days to trad, we slept together in bed for the first time and I noticed a tumor in her pelvic region. She denied having fibroid when I inquired about it as this made me insist on scan which we didn't do during compatibility tests.

It turns out she had fibroid and she lied she never knew she had it at 33. I refused to be confused by her pitiable sight as I have experience by an elder sister who had undergone the surgery; there are signs before it forms a tumor.

I sha told her to take care of the fibroid so we can continue with wedding plan and she begged me not to tell her people about the fibroid. Am like U no get moni for operation and u no want make people help you, instead you want me to use money for wedding do operation because of LOVE. This one na cuny love

UPDATE:
I just wedded in April and my younger wife is pregnant. I don't regret abandoning the previous arrangement despite loosing financially.

She was deceitful. You did what you felt was best. She got rewarded for being deceitful. No matter what, honesty pay, wahalai.

I still stand on the same thing when it comes to revealing your health issues. A partner who will stay will stay and you both can seek solutions together. One who will not stay even after the marriage ones he finds out. Some people can't stand lies.

Double0h7:
What is your argument exactly? Can you force a woman to sleep with you? If not then what are you bleating about? Whether she has low or high count, she decides who she has sex with! It’s not by your statement! 😂 men thinking they have power over women’s bodies is a joke! She can sleep with whoever she chooses and deny when she chooses. What is your argument?

“She can’t do this and that “ but you are chatting shi and you know it.

I don't support deceitful women, who deceive their partners about being celibate and have sex with other men. Every women who does that will be exposed and get what they deserve. Amin!

MrIcredible:
Lol
Oloriburuku ọmọ ofo
Frustrated soul
We don't raise WHÓRES in my family. If you can't keep your dignity as a girl in my house, you'll become an orphan.
What's your BODYCOUNT now?
Are you proud of yourself?

Super proud of myself. My parents are. My entire family and whoever had encounter with me is.

I'm not any of your sisters who has brought nothing but total disgrace to your family.

Hoe-lo-sho families them. Because your sisters open up for every díck and harry, you wanna turn others into becoming like them. Eni ti tie ti baje to NWA eni kunra.

Women!, the cookie should be for your future partners only. They are the only deserving one. If you made mistakes before, it's not too late to turn back and seek God's forgiveness. He's All forgiving.

Stay decent. It pays!

MrIcredible:
Lol
Defeated frustrated loser
In your next life, learn to have dignity, learn to keep your legs closed

😂Eleribu, I'm not one of your LovePeddler of sisters. If only you know me personally, even you won't be able to help calling me decent.

I will keep saying this for those women who love themselves to hear.

Wait. And only give sex only if you want. A word is enough for the wise

MrIcredible:
See hypocrite
Ladies don't fall or men don't fall for girls like you?

How dare you make such request when you're not a virgin?
The new nonsense you people say is "I have low BODYCOUNT"
Really?
What's the meaning of that?
Who is doing the counting?
WHO IS EVER GOING TO TRUST YOU?
If you're not a virgin, then you're a whoré, and sensible high value men don't respect WHÓRES.
If you want respect and you want a man to agree to such request of no sex before marriage, RESPECT YOURSELF FIRST! BE A VIRGIN.

😂

Women, do not fall. These he goats are so protective of their non virgin sisters offline when they sense a looming prey. They know what they are doing. Wise up

Joy2dworldxyz:
My brother no dulling o...
But as a Christian there should be no sex b4 marriage but not when you and the wife to be know that u see not on that line of belief

I'm a lady and a Muslim. Islam is totally against it as well.

essentialone:
That is why most childish adult girls are still unmarried till date.

Only a stupid guy agrees to that arrangement.

All I know is, God detests it. There's never regret in avoiding what Almighty Allah detests, no matter if they are yet to marry or not. At the appropriate time they will marry to the right one. The bones of their bones and fleshes of their fleshes.


Ladies, do not fall for premarital sex, whether you're still a virgin or not. If you've desisted from it and sought God's forgiveness, He's a forgiving God and he will bless you with your own man. Don't be cowed by these talks.

A man who will marry you will marry you whether you engage in it or not. The one who will not, will sleep with you and dump you when he's tired of u. Women are always at the receiving end. The level at which women are been bashed daily on this platform and other's should be enough to wise us up. These men do not give a damn. It's what they made you do they will insult you with. And if at all you wanna give into sex before marriage, let it be because you want it, and not because one he goat is threatening to leave the relationship if you do not. Trust me, he will dump you in the end, and it will pain you the most, coz u gave him what you never wanted to give.


Also, women, stop asking men whom you're not married to money for upkeeps. They are not your father.

MrIcredible:
Lol
IF SHE'S NOT A VIRGIN, SHE DOESN'T HAVE A RIGHT TO MAKE THAT REQUEST.
EVERY GUY ON EARTH WHO AGRESS TO THAT ARRANGEMENT WITH A NON-VIRGIN OLOSHO WITH UNKNOWN BODYCOUNT WILL FOREVER REGRET IT.
TO HELL WITH HER AND HER OLOSHO TOTO.

Ladies, don't fall for this.

Joy2dworldxyz:
Me I will agree but on one condition,

No spending on you b4 marriage!!

💯

purples25:
She's insane because she doesn't want to continue fornicating and she wants to be in a dignified relationship. She should continue let her body count reach 100. She doesn't deserve change because non virgin girls are not human beings.

I forgot you are less concerned because she's not your family member.

Honestly, most NL's think they are the wisests.

Gurls, God Himself detests premarital sex. If you choose not to engage or to stop engaging in it, you will be pleasing God and there's never regret in pleasing God.

Angelfrost:
If she says she no wan fornicate with you, then it's her decision...!

Respect it, Respect her, or move on to your sexual spec.

No need for needless speculations about whether or not she is giving the cookie to another.

Una just like to dey stress una mental health unnecessarily.

Sex has no nutritional value... No woman owes a man she's not married to sex.

Same way I believe no man owes any woman he isn't married to financial commitments.

Exactly! I'm a lady, and I fully support that last point you made.

tiswell:
if this noise isn't coming from a virgin,then it's an empty noise.

Oga, she has made a valid point.

MuMuOnBail:
Na wa ooo



Even my ancestors (Both living and dead) Know that I will and can never ever wait for sex still marriage even in my next life.


Me and beloved Queen (My Wife), Had sex uncountable times before we finally got married.
Till date I celebrate like a Hot goat, whenever am visiting her.

Because I can't just stop to have a taste of her again, again and again.


Weather sex before marriage or after marriage.
Just marry the woman you can't get tired of F*cking, even if you have other side chicks like me.

Even if she also has other side cócks. 👏🏾

3ice9ce:
There was a girl doing this to her fiance and she was collecting intense bulleting from my neighbour that year.

Telling your neighbour no sex before marriage but them dey drink Alomo bitters to nack you for outside.

I pray she's caught.

If you're a lady with this belief, kindly hold on to it. Don't be taken in by NL's men rànts.

Just come to think of it, they bash women with high body counts every single day and still call men who has chosen to respect their fiancés' decisions to remain celibate until marriage simps. That's how you recognize narcissíst, deludéd and double standards' men.

Whether you're a virgin or not, stand firm on your decision. If you're no more a virgin who has lost your virginity in the past, but realized you did wrong and have sought God's forgiveness, do not go back to your old ways again. Any man who comes your way and couldn't wait, does not truly care, and is most likely after what you've got down there. That's the bitter fact! NL's men will counter this definitely, but do I give a hoot? NO!

If you find a lucky man who's willing to wait, kindly not deceive that man by having your ways outside.