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jaszplus12:
I have seen this happen. Somebody close to me tried to woo the lady and after much rejection proposed marriage she agreed, they had the trado, she took in he gave her pills unknown to her which made her lose the baby and then he told her why he married her, then took off!
Guess what?? He had a wife and two kids then o!
He narrated the story to me HIMSELF!!
I quietly subtly put a gap between us since then ....

I pity his innocent children. May evil parents not birth us.

Out of youthful exuberance, we do certain things that wouldn't only haunt us, but our innocent children.

If good parents has birthed you, pls be grateful to God

Peterlawyer:
Hmmm it may not be a fake story.i remembered during my Nysc one girl chop almost all the male corpers posted in there school and she was always forming very hard to get when i came new all the male corpers narrated the story to me ,i followed up the girl she took me to her church introduce me to her church members and pastors. To a point i have to promised her marriage. A week to her passing out after i get her i was not given her attention again immediately she left after Nysc i stopped calling her she called me one day and asked me so I have gotten what i want . I just answered her yes. The other male corpers were very surprised

No worry. Na seed you sow. You go reap am. And don't even think this is an emotional blackmail.

LockDown69:
lesson to all those Yanga babes.

Lesson?

U blame loose women for being loose and still call this a lesson?

Stevenbright:
If the women start saying NO, there will be no cheating.

It's not only about saying no alone. It's about the men initiating it as well and all the blame is being apportioned to women. Make una fear God when judging.

I wonder if these women usually visit your guest house to have nice time with spirits and not the opposite gender. Everytime "fear women"

Lol.... You go dey all right.

Every man? Lol.... Men sha

OriOko88:

MuMu woman, until he infects u with HIV or hepatitis B and used all ur savings for treatment before ur eye go clear

where's that codetemplar guy to help me diss her with Faze's kolomemtal track

What of broke men who still cheat?

babzlim:
am not trying to encourage promiscuity but trying to let you know that the moment a women cheats the marriage or relationship is over or there won't be peace in that house but a man can be with three women and still loves his wife unconditionally, take care of her perform is duties as a husband.

but with woman that's why you see that his husband can't touch her again or his not good enough in bed again or his Odogwu is now suddenly smaller in her eye.

I'm talking about promiscuous men desiring virgin women before marriage. They do not deserve even decent non virgins not to talk of virgins. So they should come down from their high horses.

Una no wan marry una type. Shey na innocent men go marry the ones they've used. You guys should marry yourselves and let the chaste men one marry chaste women abeg. Yes! They are still chaste men.

These set of men should stop trying to reap where they didn't sow. That's evil!

babzlim:
I really don't understand why ladies are so in a hurry to wipe out our culture and tradition.

every lady wants to do what a man does, they want to compete with a man always in a hurry to defend any mad and questionable character immediately you question them they sudden becomes and switch to feminist.

our culture and traditions is almost wiped out because of some few simp.

Don't be an hypocrite. No lady is trying to compete with men when it comes to chastity. Men are so full of themselves to think they can sleep with loads of ladies and still get a brand new lady to marry. Who will marry the ones they slept with? Is it still not men.

God is not bias. Same punishment for a promiscuous lady is the same punishment a philandering man would get. Na society turn nonsense into something of pride and that is why u guys take pride in sleep with loads of women you're not married to

jetwonder:

In Nigeria we have bunch of boreholes!

Same for the other gender. They want to reap where they didn't sow. They want virgins, yet, if promiscuity were human, that will be most of them. They forgot that God isn't an hypocrite God.

If you no marry who you slept with, you go marry who someone else has slept with. Gbaam.

immortalcrown:
The same reason it is difficult to find a man with similar qualities.

It takes a man with those qualities to find a matching woman. Birds of the same feathers go together.

But people try to reap where they did not sow. The post probably came from a man who cannot boast of half of the listed qualities.

The fact that you spoke a fact despite being a man, God's blessings will never leave your side. Amin.

If you deserve such woman, I pray God grant you. Otherwise, I pray u get your type.

Are jamb results out?

Pls, who knows this ODG Africa company. I've been invited for an interview. I can't really find enough info online.

Go,girl. Go break barriers 🎉

Mecka:
do you work on weekends

Yes. I still went to work today. Woke up late around 5:06 am and returned around almost 7pm. I didn't go yesterday though. Yesterday was my off. I always have offs on either Saturdays or Sundays. If it falls on Saturday this week, subsequent week's off will be on Sunday

Meerahbel:
No, I mean the stress you go through on a daily basis from home to office, can you place a cost as in a figure e.g N30,000 or N50,000

2k daily.

Pojomojo:
Finish NYSC before thinking of getting another job then you will understand that, "a bird in hand is worth more than two in the bush".

Not when a job is draining you and it's not that you're gaining anything relevant from it.

yewit37486:
Are you learning and developing skills in your current job? If yes, I would advice you persevere. There are different seasons in life, including the time to bear difficulties for the sake of the greater good in terms of future prospects.

I'm not. In fact, I don't see how relevant it's to my dreams or career. Being here can kill one's potential. I've decided already. And by God's grace, I will be making my intention known by next week.

abobote:
You are doing NYSC but could not understand that simple English?

Yes. I do not understand that simple English.

Meerahbel:
The stress you go through daily, can you place a cost on it?

Do you mean the salary I'm being paid monthly?

Honestly, it not that stressful but very time demanding. Waking up as early as 4-4:30 am and closing by almost 7pm daily. It's one day off in a week. No observation of public holidays

It may not even be this lady's intention to downgrade him. But we have different perception of things Sha.

Meerahbel:
You think 🤔 you wouldn't get another job. You would. You cannot quantify the stress! Your cannot place a value on the stress! The ball is in your court.

I don't get your last three sentences

Omo.....

drsibz66:
Well glad u explained yourself better. At least there is a big difference in the messages you just passed out in both write up. Especially where you said women aren't created to work.
I take back my comments on "oloshoism"...

I didn't text the initial comment you responded to though.

drsibz66:
This is the entitlement mentality we talking about. Who told you women were created not to work? What does it then mean when God created women to help man.
And you also said if a woman should work , it should be channelled towards taking care of her self. Sorry you sound very selfish and have this olosho mentality.

Yinmu. Truth is bitter. This isn't me saying I wouldn't work or wouldn't support my spouse. I'm not a lazy person.

But truth will always be truth. Even God Himself made it known. But una no go gree. Na the most bitter truth for modern man be that. Una wan claim head and still wan do 50/50 responsibility with woman.

Una no know say once responsibility is been divided, the role of being an head will also be divided. For example, two of us be friends and we gather money by car, e don mean say you no fit do anything with the car without my consent na. Even if I contributed the smaller part of the money used in purchasing the car, I will still have a say to an extent.

In this life, we cannot eat our cake and have.

NB: I'm not encouraging women not to support their husbands. By the grace of God I will support my husband and that wouldn't in any way reduce his honor in my presence. However, him having the idea that it's my duty could be annoying. It's not wife's duty to do that but we understand the economy.

If a woman is insisting that the husband supports her with chores una go talk say na enslavement or feminism.

Spouses should be support to one another. At the same time, let's be conscious of our roles..

Arizoner:
Get out and fúck you. I used to like your marry a virgin comment but now I've come to realize you are an animal and need mental rehabilitation

Only insecure women will judge him for wanting a virgin. It's his preference, and he's entitled to it. Me not meeting his standard doesn't me I should question his preference. We'll have our tastes.

However, coming here to say women should not disclose their ages when asked on a first date is out of it. Soon, he will start suggesting to women not to 'breath' on their first dates to avoid being turn offs to their dates.

Eleribu mashafani.

[quote author=jeromestarks post=129506491]Why would you start with " shut up."? Am I your mate?[/quote

Fiscus105:
Ur head no correct, I pity lady that would end up in hand this type of a myopic and selfish teenager.

Because she tells you re age and you are not comfortable with it,.....all men the universe must follow ur footsteps.


If she tells lie you would lament ,now she tells truth you are weeping.

My years of being a member of this forum, I've never seen someone as narcissistic as OP. I've observed him over the years. Although I hardly comment.

I can categorically say that no woman ( not even a whóre) deserves to spend their life with this kind of being. He's so deluded.

jeromestarks:
The age just shock me ooo.
I felt she must have sucked many diicks, rode many pennies etc.

Everyone is not your sisters and aunties you know?