₦airaland Forum

Chucks13:
Pls is it only apc senators that received the money?

Read and think before talking.

On this matter no obidient should make any pim because their senators received such bounty and what have they done with it?

Speak with your mouth + brain

Raregem9000:
And one is still finding it difficult to do common potholes in his constituency that people has been begging him for but he can share rice and eggs during the last salah. You need to see how people are thanking this particular person I'm talking about on radio. One senator from another constituency wanted to help in this place I'm talking about but they stopped him. They said it's not his constituency, and that he wanted to do it because he's eyeing the governorship seat.

no hope for the country aswear

Hoelujohn:
A project that What was done for 200m three years ago will take like 800m or 1 billion to complete now. Tinubu just like throwing high numbers around even if it doesn't have value.

get lost. The 200m projects where are they?

omonnakoda:
Some of the women called First Lady or Mummy GO today are worse

Abeg keep shut, who wan worse pass this lady in the topic? have you checked up her vids?

😂

Reflect7:
If they give you common LGA chairmanship, nobody will see you on Nairaland again, and you will turn big man overnight with the peoples’ money.

You are all loud and radical until you see budget billions staring you in the face.

you are diverting, this thread is about the minister, when his own comes we can discuss that, for now what is your comment on the minister?

olayinka63:
Only the haters will not recognise your efforts Prof. You have prepared enough based on the full text of your press release I read. Keep doing good and May Allah forgive your shortcomings.

smh

pansophist:
The only time when it is better you choose your wife yourself is when you have an objective data about your wife-to-be. The point of arranged marriage in its very basis is objective data.

By objective data, I mean knowing a woman in and out to a reasonable and satisfactory extent.

`Everything you know about her should not be only what she told you, but something that can be confirmed by those that you trust, who happens to also know her very well.

If she told you that she was abused as a kid, then someone that you trust, that also knows her should be able to confirm that. Women have a unique skills of painting themselves as victims so they can hide all the nonsense they have done.

Your average girl that knows you take virginity serious for example will mostly lie that she was raped, when in reality, she is the chairleader.

Women are judged with their past. What arranged marriage does is that it selects women whom the society are convinced that they preserved their value.

Since women are born with their value, you cant afford to marry a woman that have destroyed hers with all manners of things she engages in. If she is a virgin, the better.

Marriage is serious business. It is not something you enter becuase there is ''connection'', she is your spec, she can speak english and she is educated. All these things are secondary.

There are hardcore boundaries that a woman you should marry must not cross, and thats why objective data about her past matters. If you cant get it, your trusted family should help you.

Becuase when marital issues occurs, specs and all those artificial nonsense will dissappear. As a man, you should be able to beat your chest and declare that no man has had your wife at her best, setting the stage of what she will judge you it.

Your masculinity should never tolerate that, and thats why you need a thorough background check, and also why arranged marriage is necessary. If you intend to marry a virgin, then arranged marriage is the best method to get one.

Lots of men that have problems in their marriages didn't really know the women they married. For example, lots of men dont know that their wive's sexual videos being forked by different men are in her ex's phone and possibly online.

A statistic I was reading few weeks back shows that most cases of paternity fraud are done with men the women knew before she met her husband.

So her past will always be a dagger pointing at the man. What arrange marriage does is to drastically reduce the chances of marrying a wrong woman simply because you dont know her.

I am still scratching the surface while most societies in human history does arranged marriage, but I will stop here.

Yea those are the perks of arrangee, it's same in the job world, being referred to by someone internal or a network is many many times better than hiring strangers. And company first search within before going outside, a referral from a trusted network has much weight than random person.

Another thing like you said is if you know what you want you can still go out there and fish them out but then you stand against thousand unknown variable, one only get experienced over time but then marriage is once and sometimes maybe twice at most.

But one thing above everything is any route one pick, be ready to be responsible atleast that would mean you will shine your eyes

pansophist:
That was clearly a humour, but normally, your preek suppose stand.

The point I was trying to pass is that any woman that is arranged for you may not be a product of your fantasy, but she will most likely be good to you.

Most young people are not suitable to choose partners themselves. Young people usually choose partners base on wrong things such as spec, attractions, and lack the experience your parents or uncle have with marriage and how to make it work.

I am not saying all arrange marriages works, all I am saying is that if you compare different method of finding a wife, arranged marriage so far is the best, and the historical date are there to prove it.

Mind you, arrange marriage is not the same thing s forced marriage. With arrange marriage, you can always say no, and ask for more girls to be matched with you.

Arrangee marriage has some difficulty in it o, especially when along the line you now figured out things aren't as they seem and something people doing the recommendation are doing it at more interest of one person over the other, for example a mutual friend could be more loyal to the girl than to you. so that one sef dey.

it's better to choose yourself and see shege, knowing fully well it was only your fault

vincenteger:
Jamb, supported
Nysc, not supported

what is the importance of NYSC in this era?

ComeToJesus:
This really touched me. Nigerians, please forgive him. He's a good man.

No wonder you got the leaders you deserved. Nonsense

Preator:
First time such an issue is coming up since he took over the mantle of leadership.

To err is human...

una go just dey ment anyhow, to err with what?
people future?
Una never serious for this country

louqas:
Its still better than having to take money from your pocket every time you want to access care.

if you understand the word amortization maybe it is not all that good after all

bro4u:
Tinubu really did well by retiring some old cargoes off politics.

and he is also an old cargo. ✊ knock yourself out

Quelme:
Truer words have never been said.

A country bastardized from 1960 till date can not be fixed overnight.

Bastardized by who

ambale:
U think you made sense abi?? 🤣🤣

What breeds cultism?? No be hooliganism

Has Nigeria as a nation find a way to stop hooliganism and you wan come stop cultism

Keep playing

let’s not lie to ourselves. The day government don’t need cultist any more for ballot box stun and oppression and violence. From that day they will cease to exist

BafanaBafana:
And congo is still among the worst places in the world.
Cultism is not the problem of Nigeria. Corruption is.
China has a death sentence on corruption, everyone is doing well. Have you heard of gangs or cults in China?

Very bold of you go put them in separate basket. Mtchew

santaclaws:
Legal entities kee you there. All of you supporting criminal organizations and cults in Nigeria are either members or their affiliates.

Eiye, Aye Axemen (NBM), Buccaneers, Pyrates, Maphites, Vikings, all of you are the poisons of the society and the youth in general.

I pray you all get apprehended and jailed! You lot have done more harm to society than any other group of people in Nigeria.

Amen

43Ronin:
Dis one na demolition of moda temple oo, men go don MMT by now . See as ju dey pursue bam men chai! Aye, eiye, viki & maf cup don full for Benin.dem don shed many blood and I suspect say okpebole going soon declare them terrorist organizations.

it is insulting to rate them as an organization the way this post just put it

icankel:
I totally agree with you even though my cousin married from a night club about 13yrs ago yet no sign of pregnancy

he should better pack his bags

pansophist:
The best way to get a wife is through referral (AKA arranged marriage).

Let someone you know, that you trust, and have your best interest at heart help you search for a wife. If you choose a wife yourself, you are more likely to choose base on wrong reasons.

A woman that you find attractive can easily pass as a good wife. Especially when she knows you want a wife, and she may act as a camouflage of a good wife-to-be.

With referral, there is something called ''third-party accountability''.The referral has a sense of accountability to the outcome of your union, and it is in his best interest for the the relationship to work.

Also, referrers can see things objectively, they know you, and your potential wife, and can vouch for the suitability of both parties. A referrers will not look for a wife through social media for you.

It most likely will be a girl they have known for long, and everyone knows who she is. So you will have no fear if you are marrying a repentant public property. Referral by design will filter the rubbishes out.

The area that you might have to compromise on is on attraction, because a referred wife might not make your preek stand

But in the end, we will all settle. It is up to you if you want a beautiful marriage, or a warzone because you married a lady with a big behind.

If my prick will not stand why would she be referred mtchew. You made good point though

uchkochi:
https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1M2CnrXY9W/

Very nonsense post. You didn’t then tell men where to go look for. But very confident where they shouldn’t mtchewwww

Soldier just dey die like chicken. Where is the respect for our gallant men?

See what Nigeria has reduced to. All because of Nepotism. They are our brothers

Let’s forgive them. Mtchew

UpaIweka:
I hope same rule applies to INNOSON.

Nigerians are allowed to speak for n against it as thag is not patriotism abi this your rule is only applicable to Dabgote because he is not Igbo.

Read what you wrote is it sensible Get lost

dawnomike:
As annoying as this is, he needed not to have resorted to this as the bank can sue him.
He should just have sued the stupid bankd and give them a good publicity through FIJ news.

You seem to make a good point but maybe you can do some reality check too especially in the country you live in.
Very easy to sit on your couch and type like a wanna be lawyer. Go to court with Banks in Nigeria and let’s see how it goes. Or ask people who had gone that route and come back and tell the success rate.
You should go out and touch grass sometime

yarimo:
Busy body

una go just wake up dey type nonsense. Cherry picking thread to pass stupid agenda

yarimo:
This is very commendable from dangote, meanwhile the bitter ones will soon invade this thread with unpatriotic comment

Dangote is a private entity. Speaking for or against it isn’t patriotism in the practical sense.

Doyin2:
See how christians are supporting indecent dressing?Whereas we know how women dressed during the time of “jesus”.Even Mary ,mother of “Jesus” wore hijab.

Modern christianity/pentecostalism,na big scam!

One idiot was even claiming to have spent 8yrs in Ilorin as if there is any society that is 100% free of exceptional and immoral behaviour.

Rather than face the issue of indecent dressing,they would rather look for justification of bad behaviour.

Rubbish!

what is indecent about that dressing?

dkidd:
Omor una blind abi na different pictures I dey see up there? cos that girl no even basic. She's not even fine talk more pretty. Na wah

Abeg wash your eye. She is fine

OKOATA:
Cocaine is made from plant ☘️. Though cocaine might be bad due to its side effects but it's still God's/Nature creation so let people who wants to use it do.

Many deadly poisons today are made from plant. I hope you’re aware? Even animal wey dey chop plant no dey chop any kind plant

MrRight007:
Useless of all uselessness. You can't even work with this visa so what's the point. Now you try and play games by taking up employment. They will not only fine your boss but you will be deported never to come back!

it’s to maintain good travel history it can be used as pr to other countries. Not for regular people sha. It’s majorly for business class seeking international pastures