thorpido:
That you told him you lost money and he didn't even sympathize with you shows he cares just about his own happiness.
Talk to your feet o.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Better drop him like a hotplate. Surprisingly, he'll take that attitude into marriage and expect you to ask him for everything down to the nitty grittys. You'll even have to coerce him to pay the children's school fees and other miscellaneous things. Give yourself wisdom and leave.hehehe. that's a big Truth.

realtalk19:
Your husband is cold blooded narcissist, manipulator, pretender, egoistic, troublesome and immatured man.

I once knew someone with his kind of attitude and believe me no matter how calm,quiet and peaceful you try to be,it fuels his attitude more and will keep frustrating you till you break and loose your self worth,then you fall into depression and then you start looking for a way of escape but what keeps holding you back is how to start a fresh with 4 kids to take care of and no funds. It's not going to be easy at all especially with four kids except you are financially loaded.

You are the only one that can put a stop to all these. U may need to take a break and change environment so you can recover your sanity.

It is well with you.

There are still good,responsible,loving, caring and God fearing men out there . It only takes God's grace and Devine favor to end up with them. Most of them are also in the hands of a crazy, cold hearted woman who don't know the value of what they have and take them for granted.

May God help us all.

Davida33:

You are still not making sense, in the old days women don't work but their major responsibility is to care for the family while the man provide for the family but will all Know that has changed now as women now work and can provide for the family.

When you are married, you become one with you wife and this mean whatever you owned become your wife own and vice versa. If your wife don't have that understanding, there will be issues in the marriage because she will think she is doing you a favor by providing for the family but it's a shared responsibility.

Nwodosis:
It is obvious you are not the talking type but the writing type, we have read your version, how do we get your husband's version? There is no smoke without fire!

Pussickpunk:


He'll belittle your sense of reasoning cos it's oozes stupidity...of course you don't wanna be with a person who's on a higher plane