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CareerTo Quit Or Not? by stephanay(op): 3:37pm On Apr 18, 2008
Im nursing the idea of changing jobs. these are my reasons

1. ive been at my present place of work for a year now, i need to test d waters

2. my salary is an average of 50k, which isnt too good considering the fact dat financial commitments rise each day

3. i dont really find fufilment in what i do, i want a job where i can put my writing skills to test and develop myself.

4. No room for growth

However, im holding bk on making d decison becos:

1. i dont av a better offer YET

2. i av a personal relationshp wt my colleagues and it wuld be hard to leave

3. if being a manager here is considered as growth then maybe that's anoda reason i shdnt leave

where can i work to polish my creative skills?
and do i leave ds job as an admin personnel/personal assistant?


does anyone know of any ad agencies recruiting?
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LiteratureRe: I Just Published A Novel by stephanay(m): 6:47pm On Apr 09, 2008
d summary of ur story doesnt make much sense

it doesnt make me look foward to reading ur novel

sorry sad
RomanceRe: Was He Right? by stephanay(m): 8:31am On Mar 11, 2008
rather childish

when i broke up wt my ex, he went about it in a similar way,

he called me a LovePeddler (even though i know i aint one) he called me a pauper, all sorts of names u can imagine

he even said i had HIV, now i can't help but laff at him because i know i aint all dose things, i gave him much credit but he messed up, guess we all av various ways of dealing wt hurt and anger  undecided
RomanceHow Do I Live Without Him? by stephanay(op): 8:16am On Mar 11, 2008
I love my boyfriend and we intend to keep this relationshp for as long as we can. but i noticed that each time we have a sorta misunderstanding, i get nervous and assume ive lost him all togeda.
i think i love him tooooo much, cos if we dont talk in a day, im usually disorganised, my question therefore is,

How do i shield myself from getting hurt?

what if one day he just decides to leave me?
i know ds sounds petty but i dont wanna be caught unawares, how can u learn to live without someone u love so much?
he loves me too, im sure of that and i appreciate the fact that he culd be very practical, while im usually emotional about things, however, this also gets to me and makes me feel like he doesnt care,

i need to be practical too, but how?
PhonesRe: Upload Camera Phone Snaps Here! by stephanay(m): 2:12pm On Jan 18, 2008
what camera did u use?
LiteratureRe: Do You Want To Meet Prof. Wole Soyinka? by stephanay(m): 9:45am On Jan 17, 2008
omogenaija:
I don't want to meet him , because i don't who he is.
ignoramus angry
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Download The Gmat 2007 Now by stephanay(m): 1:52pm On Dec 10, 2007
pls send the Gmat 007 to this addy too

jazzyjasmine7002000@yahoo.com

thanks
FashionRe: Rate This Model by stephanay(m): 12:11pm On Oct 10, 2007
lmao

erm well i guess d poster wants true assessment given d polls

anyway, here's my view on your "model"

bad photography: it makes her look ugly wc isnt tru, she fine small , lol

bad outfit: try matching the bikini colors ans u'll get amazing results; jewellry choice is also poor

bad background: try using d natural place like d beach but leave d wall paper out, it looks ridiculous!

horrible make up: haba, havent u heard of concealers, foundation, lip gloss, stuff that look as natural as possible; try do sthg about the hair too, she looks like what d cat dragged in!

m out of here

lol
FashionRe: Skimpy Dressers: Confidently Shy, Stupid, Or What? by stephanay(m): 12:01pm On Oct 10, 2007
lmao

chai

i feel sorry for some ladies o!

but i kind of agree with u sha, if ure going to flaunt it, be my guest, if not, keep it hidden! grin
RomanceRe: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by stephanay(m): 6:15pm On Sep 21, 2007
thanks for the spell check brov

y am i not surprised at ur easy familiarity with the word grin
TravelRe: International Passport by stephanay(op): 4:59pm On Sep 21, 2007
oops!

lipsrsealed
RomanceRe: An Open Letter To Nigerian Girls And Ladies by stephanay(m): 4:37pm On Sep 21, 2007
in as much as i appraciate the attention this "letter" seems to be getting, i beg to differ in my opinion.

i think the letter is too chavinistic and it does not speak well of Nigerian ladies.

wen did nigerian girls become the only ones in the whole world to possess these traits u claim?

mr orikinla, ive read many of your works and i must say that ure a good writer but this, coming from you is a big surprise considering the elements of sex in many of ur works.

u often portray urself as a man with many women and that (if i am allowed to be feministic to the core) is in itself apalling.

if you need nigerian girsl to sit up, you also need to fasten ur belt.

my conclusion remains that this article should nto be considered as an intellectual piece in any way! its too priggish and i wonder what the fascination is!

kindly note that you do not always have to sign off with the number of books youve written, if ure that good, believe me, everyone will know.

thanks
TravelInternational Passport by stephanay(op): 12:24pm On Sep 10, 2007
hello pple!

please id like to find out what the cost of an international passport is

and what are d steps to take in order to acquire one in nigeria
CareerRe: What Do You Really Love to Do? by stephanay(m): 11:09am On Sep 10, 2007
I LOVE PHTOGRAPHY

and i also love to read, write poems and stuff

but what id really love to do is,




travel d world

see d most beautiful countries

walk on a beach barefooted

feel d wind in my face

and still see the world through my camera lens!

one day, i'll abandon this 9-5 job and just go around d world

maybe i'll fall in love

maybe i'll dance in france again

this time , it will be for real!
RomanceI Think I'm Addicted! by stephanay(op): 5:58pm On Sep 03, 2007
to ice creame tongue

how about u?
RomanceCan you date a guy who has no car? by stephanay(op): 1:37pm On Sep 03, 2007
i met this guy through a pal of mine and we've been sending e-mails and phoning each other between france and seychelles.

however, my guy and i finally want to meet and he decides to take a vacation to seychelles.

but now, he's been around my area for over a week but he wont see me because he doesnt have a car.

he says he's trying to get mobile before coming around.

i really don't mind because the tot of seeing him just overshadows that of a car.

but he seems bent on not seeing me without a car.

y is this a big deal. i love walking grin

but seriously though, i like him a lot but i don't like d fact that he's not being real wt me.
RomanceRe: Dating A Cultist? by stephanay(m): 8:05pm On Jul 31, 2007
is it me or does anyone take note of d fact that the poster is a male?

@ post

anyway. id advise u to leave d group and if u cant, try not to be involved in taking anyone's life.

y? d memories will haunt u for life! (that is if ure not dead b4 u graduate)

i av a friend who graduated 6 yrs ago and he was an ogbonge cultist but today, he's rich and successful but he's got no peace, his past keeps haunting him like crazy and even though the grace of God is there, he cant seem o forget. its sad but remebr that whatever u do today will always be on record, so think before u act!
RomanceRe: Short Men, How Far? by stephanay(op): 2:22pm On Jul 31, 2007
denex:
Opposites attract. A lot of tall women don't like tall guys either and a lot of short girls like tall guys.

So one way, or another, the equation balances itself.
im a tall lady and i dont think i want to bend over to kiss my husband or give up my sexy heels cos i have to look short beside him on our way to church, besides how do u hug a short guy if ure taller dn him?

it just doesnt match. everyone shld look out for their sizes and quit trying to prove a point.

if ure a short fella, pick on a short mama

if ure a tall fella, ure lucky

if ure a tall lady, pick on someone ur own size

if ure a short lady, ure lucky too , but wait,


dont marry a short guy!!!!!!!!!!
RomanceShort Men, How Far? by stephanay(op): 12:59pm On Jul 31, 2007
hey what's d deal with short guys anyway?

are they all trying to prove some point by dating taller women?

i wuldnt date a short guy sha grin

wuld u?

FashionRe: Former Mbgn 2005 Omowunmi Akinifesi - Star Quality?! by stephanay(m): 3:47pm On Jul 20, 2007
wow wow wow

she's got what it takes and more!

she's finer than agbani ten times over!

she's a star o! and she's very nice and modest about it

i simply love the pictures! kiss
Jokes EtcRe: I Beg Una Take A Look At This by stephanay(m): 8:11am On Jul 13, 2007
idol?

west african idol of uk idol or usa idol? which one be idol?

are we talking about the same man here?

same George the Bush man

George of the jungle?[/b]which do u mean? cos [b]he's still a dumb ass fool!

grin
RomanceRe: 99 Facts About Guys! Believe It Or Not: by stephanay(m): 6:14pm On Jul 12, 2007
* hisses *
RomanceRe: He Never Calls Me by stephanay(op): 6:13pm On Jul 12, 2007
thnks

it just breaks my heart that i feel so attached to him yet he doesnt even make any effot.

wen we're togeda, he treats me like a queen and is very attentive but i feel he has a commitment issues or maybe im wrong.

time will tell, ive promised myself i wont call him and i wont even chat with him no matter how tempting it may be!
sad
RomanceRe: The Perfect Guy by stephanay(m): 6:09pm On Jul 12, 2007
@ topic

no guy is perfect! they mostly come in dumb packaging
RomanceRe: 99 Facts About Guys! Believe It Or Not: by stephanay(m): 6:05pm On Jul 12, 2007
sweetie u forgot to add d 100th fact

guys are blind,


they dont know wen they av the rite thing till it passes them by
RomanceRe: """"""love Test! Totally Try It! by stephanay(m): 6:00pm On Jul 12, 2007
lol grin
RomanceRe: He Never Calls Me by stephanay(op): 5:57pm On Jul 12, 2007
i definately will

but im kinda torn btw my feelings for him and d shabby way he's treating me.

we were just chatting a few mins ago and he just up and left saying we'd chat again tomorrow

what if there was no internet? wuld we ever get to talk? im so pissed off cos i get d feeling he thinks i'll always be here and im just being tru to him but i dont think i can take ds anymore angry

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