So, my cousin, who I'm tight with, was dating this girl for about 6 months then travelled to San Francisco for about 2 months in December. I went to his area during Christmas break and then some of my friends around there said the girl's been sluting around ever since he left. I wasn't exactly sure about it, so I confronted her about it. At first, she totally denied it but later confessed and made me promise not to tell him becuz she wanted to tell him herself. I was cool with that and I let it pass.

But I guess she never did and because when my cousin came back and called me to know how things were generally, I noticed he didn't know about it yet so, I had to bite my tongue and make our conversations short so I don't spill the beans. Then, sometime this March, a friend of mine told me he broke up with her and gave me exact details of how it happened. He took her to a karaoke bar with a couple friends and placed her in the front seat. She was happy about it becuz she didn't know what was going on. The he went up to sing and guess what? The song he chose and sang was Eamon's "Don't want you back". . .the uncensored version. When he was done, he threw the mic at her and left while she sat there and cried till someone else offered her a ride.

Now my question is, was he right in breaking up with her in public view the way he did?

in all honesty, it wasn't right. yes, the girl might have deserved the song but not in public view. i guess he was too angry and he let his anger get the better of him.

Just sad.

OUCH!

i knda understand why he'd want to break up with her that way,
as for wether it was right?,,,,,,,,,,, who are we to say really?
its a a question of individual situation and personal choice,
can anyone really say what exactly led him to do it that way?

Sometimes we have to use a short range missile to kill an ant

I really feel so bad for that girl , i just can't even imagine what she was going through that moment


[center]EAMON LYRICS

Bleep It (I Don't Want You Back)


Whoa oh oh
Ooh hooh
No No No

[Verse 1:]
See, I dont know why I liked you so much
I gave you all, of my trust
I told you, I loved you, now thats all down the drain
Ya put me through pain, I wanna let u know how I feel

[Chorus:]
Bleep what I said it dont mean shit now
Bleep the presents might as well throw em out
Bleep all those kisses, they didn't mean jack
Bleep you, you hoe, I dont want you back

Bleep what I said it dont mean shit now
Bleep the presents might as well throw em out
Bleep all those kisses they didn't mean jack
Bleep you, you hoe, I dont want you back

[Verse 2:]
You thought, you could
Keep this shit from me, yeah
Ya burnt bitch, I heard the story
Ya played me, ya even gave him head
Now ya askin for me back
Ya just another act, look elsewhere
Cuz ya done with me

Bleep what I said it dont mean shit now
Bleep the presents might as well throw em out
Bleep all those kisses they didn't mean jack
Bleep you, you hoe, I dont want you back

Bleep what I said it dont mean shit now
Bleep the presents might as well throw em out
Bleep all those kisses they didn't mean jack
Bleep you, you hoe, I dont want you back

Oh oh
Uh huh yeah
Oh oh
Uh huh yeah
Oh oh
Uh huh yeah
Oh oh
Uh huh yeah

Ya questioned, did I care
You could ask anyone, I even said
Ya were my great one
Now its, over, but I do admit I'm sad.
It hurts real bad, I cant sweat that, cuz I loved a hoe

Bleep what I said it dont mean shit now
Bleep the presents might as well throw em out
Bleep all those kisses they didn't mean jack
Bleep you, you hoe, I dont want you back

Oh oh
Uh huh yeah
Oh oh
Uh huh yeah
Oh oh
Uh huh yeah
Oh oh
Uh huh yeah[/center]


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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DTIkmcqxQIo[/flash]

The guy was pushed, broken and alienated by her promiscuity and snapped.

Sometimes our cure is greater than the disease. Either way we can be happy we are rid of the disease.

Lol. . . . . . . . . . . . . Good for her. . .
Very Very Good. . . . .

talk about being served cold

Sounds childish, but I don't pity her. She deserved it!!!!

rather childish

when i broke up wt my ex, he went about it in a similar way,

he called me a LovePeddler (even though i know i aint one) he called me a pauper, all sorts of names u can imagine

he even said i had HIV, now i can't help but laff at him because i know i aint all dose things, i gave him much credit but he messed up, guess we all av various ways of dealing wt hurt and anger 

The ladies will come with sentimental and emotionally guided comments now.
The point is she chose to mess up in her own best way.
The guy too chose his way .
So?
Tit 4 tat tat

so immature on the guy's part totally wrong to do that, after all he won't be the first person to be cheated on

This is childish, so so childish. There are ways u walk away that the girl will always always do anything to have u back. U'll have respect & the lady will keep saying 'u are the good guy she lost'.

I can't even date a guy like that, does he think it will be a plus to his ego if he told me that's how he layed off his 'ex, dang, i'll pick my slippers & run. Cos i wonder what he'll do to me if i hug my brother. Anger management na whahala, people like that can kill sef. O. J Simpson.

That will depend on what you called public, I guess you first heard from the public that she was sleeping around, as the saying goes, the last to hear about one's whisper is oneself. The only problem is that she might think that you spill the bean. Anyway, you should be happy for your cousin for not taking the relationship to another level.

two can play the game !

two can play the game !

Right on!. . . .

Childish ko. . . . Adultish ni . . .

ha ha ha ha ha.v funny. and right to do so, cus she's wat she is ,a "H".

Well Tell her to go sing ''irreplaceable by beyounce as well to settle the scores. . . .
[center]
Irreplaceable By Beyounce
To the left
To the left

To the left
To the left

Mmmm to the left, to the left
Everything you own in the box to the left
In the closet, that's my stuff
Yes, if I bought it, baby, please don't touch (don't touch)

And keep talking that mess, thats fine
Could you walk and talk, at the same time?
And it's my name thats on that jag
So go move your bags, let me call you a cab

Standing in the front yard, telling me
How I'm such a fool, talking 'bout
How I'll never ever find a man like you
You got me twisted

You must not know 'bout me
You must not know 'bout me
I could have another you in a minute
Matter fact, he'll be here in a minute (baby)

You must not know 'bout me
You must not know 'bout me
I can have another you by tomorrow
So don't you ever for a second get to thinkin'
You're irreplaceable?

So go ahead and get gone
Call up that chick, and see if shes home
Oops I bet you thought, that I didn't know
What did you think
I was putting you out for?
Because you was untrue
Rolling her around in the car that I bought you
Baby, drop them keys
Hurry up, before your taxi leaves

Standing in the front yard, telling me
How I'm such a fool, talking 'bout
How I'll never ever find a man like you
You got me twisted

You must not know 'bout me
You must not know 'bout me
I could have another you in a minute
Matter fact, he'll be here in a minute (baby)

You must not know 'bout me
You must not know 'bout me
I can have another you by tomorrow
So don't you ever for a second get to thinkin'
You're irreplaceable (irreplaceable)?

So since I'm not your everything (irreplaceable)
How about I'll be nothing (nothing)? Nothing at all to you (nothing, nothing)
Baby I won't shed a tear for you (I won't shed a tear for you)
I won't lose a wink of sleep (a wink of sleep)
'Cause the truth of the matter is (truth is)
Replacing you is so easy

To the left, to the left.
To the left, to the left.
Mmmmm
To the left, to the left.
Everything you own in the box to the left

To the left, to the left.
Don't you ever for a second get to thinking
You're irreplaceable?

You must not know 'bout me
You must not know 'bout me
I can have another you in a minute
Matter fact, he'll be here in a minute (baby)

You must not know 'bout me
You must not know 'bout me
I can have another you by tomorrow
So don't you ever for a second get to thinkin'?
You must not know 'bout me (baby)
You must not know 'bout me
I could have another you in a minute
Matter fact, he'll be here in a minute

You can pack all your bags we're finished (you must not know 'bout me)
'Cause you made your bed now lay in it (you must not know 'bout me)
I could have another you by tomorrow
Don't you ever for a second get to thinkin'
You're irreplaceable?
[/center]


its only right!

@Sly

am dying to sing dat song to someone very soon. LOL I think that was one of her best songs. ( there are only a few of them )

@topic

Yes; it was childish but I guess that was the best way he knew to finish da whole thing.

At least the girl should be happy with herself . . . . . . she hurt a man so much that he bothered to learn the lyrics enough to perform it to her at a Karaoke.

This is a classic case of tit for tat. . . . . . . she disgraced him in public he did it back. The world is still in balance.

That sounds so mean and childish,maybe i dont really feel the guy's pains though.

At least the girl should be happy with herself . . . . . . she hurt a man so much that he bothered to learn the lyrics enough to perform it to her at a Karaoke.

.I hope you have learnt ur own lyrics
Who said the world is balanced anyway?na lie oo

NJ. . . . .

@Sly
am dying to sing that song to someone very soon. LOL Grin I think that was one of her best songs. ( there are only a few of them )

Yeah right!!!
There is nothing stopping u purrtey laydie. . . do ur thing and l.emme know how it goes. . .

tommyex:

That sounds so mean and childish,maybe i don't really feel the guy's pains though.

.I hope you have learnt your own lyrics
Who said the world is balanced anyway?na lie oo

I have learnt a lot of lyrics darling. All for different kinds of occasions. Most especially when I can't seem to get da right words out because of too much anger

In this situation . . . . the guy's world is balanced. so is the girls'

®~^Sly^~®:

NJ. . . . .Yeah right!!!
There is nothing stopping u purrtey laydie. . . do your thing and l.emme know how it goes. . .

which one is purrtey laydie. . . . this verbal write-ups confuse me sometimes

which one is purrtey laydie. . . . this verbal write-ups confuse me sometimes

Olodo ni e. . . . . . . by the way. . .its been a while. . . where have u been?
Chasing cats on the street on london?

NaJa HaJe:

@Sly

am dying to sing that song to someone very soon. LOL I think that was one of her best songs. ( there are only a few of them )

@topic

Yes; it was childish but I guess that was the best way he knew to finish da whole thing.

At least the girl should be happy with herself . . . . . . she hurt a man so much that he bothered to learn the lyrics enough to perform it to her at a Karaoke.

This is a classic case of tit for tat. . . . . . . she disgraced him in public he did it back. The world is still in balance.

hope u have made ur moni coz b did oh

I have learnt a lot of lyrics darling. All for different kinds of occasions. Most especially when I can't seem to get da right words out because of too much anger

In this situation . . . . the guy's world is balanced. so is the girls'

ok,i get the balncing of their world's equations now.

Dont 4get 2 get d right words for too much joy too

I could feel the pain of the guy
He is pained, but then he went too far with his reactions, there is more matured way of handling the situation rather than to disgrace her publicly, i personally would either walk away without a word, because silence can be golden sometimes, till she probably come asking why

But guess its a pay back time he felt, following suit of Psquare
Do me i do u syndrome, can only say pele to both of them

®~^Sly^~®:

Olodo ni e. . . . . . . by the way. . .its been a while. . . where have u been?
Chasing cats on the street on london?

oju eja lo ma je ti ti ti ti ti ti ti shiooooooooooooo!!!!!!! chasing cats ke? ma friend watch ya mouth oooooooo

@henry007

not to worry about money. there are many ways of making that.

@tommyex

my tears will help me sing 'too much joy'

There are much better ways to deal with a situation like that.

All this he should not have this and that.

Ladies have in the times past given out worse rejections for guys that what this guy did to her. She went out cheating against him, and he paid her back in a better note, what better way should he have handled it?

It rocked his boat to do what he did, the ladies here are only empathizing with her simply because she is a woman. She caused what she got.

For me, I would have done it in a much more better but bitter way.

@ Original Poster, your cousin is an immature asshole.