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chatinent:
This is the 21st century. I am more concerned about unbelting, and attacking my ogbono soup with dried catfish, shrimps, faint snails, panla fish, goat meat, and afo anu.

Time for other things no dey

You no plan to marry or stay with woman for house?

OP, nice write-up. Interestingly, it's not just women, and it's not just people in a form of relationships.

Human beings generally try certain things to see what your buuhsheet threshold is, and if they see you take a very large amount of crap, then they'll always give you a trailer load of crap.

Be firm and strict about how you want to be treated. Respect for me, is non-negotiable.

Congratulations and May God bless your new pursuit with glad tidings and success.

After ten years, is it possible to get some benefits if you do voluntary retirement instead of straight resignation?

yemmit90:
Go and sit down my friend, women are the same everywhere, besides, there is nothing like classy girl, is either she is broke or has her own money, illiterate or educated . The one you called classy/rich may not be asking money all the time but her only stylish demand could surpass the ones you have spent over 100 times for broke girls. If she is the one spending on you, just know she has one mugu somewhere who is spending heavily on her codedly.

It's not my fault that you've been unlucky with women. You have now embraced scarcity mentality. Heal bro. Heal.

Emeskhalifa:
Most of una wey dey talk this thing never date high class babe na why una dey talk this thing.

High class babe don't bill frequently but their bill is heavy (telling you this from experience) their billings start from hundreds and above, not all the time like these hungry ones but they bill once in a while too.

The advantage of dating them, is they can come through for you during your financial difficulties if you sef dey come through for then unlike the low, local ones who even if you spend including your blood for them, they will never help you. Their mindset and mentality is terrible.

Read your last paragraph. Are we not saying the same thing? Reciprocity - @bolded

aestake:
If 70 to 80% is bad eggs, baba what're ur chances?

Your chances are with the 20 - 30%.

Go and do background check on your wife past. Be like the decoration person know things. 😝

meobizy:
Why doesn’t she block me? It makes no sense. If I’m not important to her, why not be honest about it?

So you're expecting her to give you the self-respect that you ought to give yourself?

Why don't you block her? Do you believe that you don't deserve better?

Tenrack:
your post reeks of insensitivity. Do you know how many bad eggs are there in society? Lmao. Even the one you're currently dating, give it time. Don't blow your trumpet yet. Everything isn't black and white.

I'm so sorry bro. It's so sad that you've only been able to attract bad eggs. But you know what they say. Like terms attract.

Sonnobax15:

How can you cut somebody that doesn't even have anything to do with you in the first place OFF?

It's very obvious that she doesn't rate you at all.

I don't give out accolades anyhow. But you Sir, what's your address? You deserve 4 containers of accolades for this statement.

OP you're dating yourself.

Originalsly:
After using some for the above purposes.... keep the rest to plant. They ... with the help of our government ... are coming to control our crops by controlling the seeds. Don't be surprised to see the FG giving out seeds and seedlings for "seedless watermelons". After harvesting... where will you get seeds to plant the next crop? ... wouldn't you have to depend on the seed supplier? Then who would be in control of your crops? GMO seeds do not terminate... GMO plants will contaminate natural plants and make them infertile. Keep your watermelon seeds... stay clear of free watermelon seeds or seedlings shared out by the FG.

So, this conspiracy theory is specially for watermelon? Abi na all foods

Oh no no. Girls actually know the kind of guys they "bill" senselessly. For one, if you have hungry girls in your CL, then the problem is you - you need to find girls wey get class - just that girls with class they make some guys fear.

That's why many of them dey date rubbish, and generalize that all girls are bad.

Find a girl that can stimulate, engage and even initiate brain-wracking conversations.

It's okay to ask a person why they're not fine. If you care for someone you'd want to know.

Unless you're her husband or father, you don't have the responsibility of giving her a solution - unless you want to.

When adults refuse to have brain and respect themselves. If Davido insults him now, the man will say he was disrespected.

What is the sense in asking a baby to go and chook mouth in the affairs of his Uncle. Childish behavior if you ask me.

Pretending that the APC is virtuous. If the man truly is harbouring criminals, why not send the EFCC to do their work.

There are more amicable ways to settle difference. Doors slamming, and other analogies for violence in the house is not healthy.

When two mature people are together, they communicate, in calm voice. Not one person shouting over the other

I hope this is not you complaining sha. Because it you're using style to complain, then it means you go put hand for lifestyle wey pass you.

But if you're showing off, nice one. Y'all go to Coldstone every weekend ba?

Ance4Liverpool:
May The name of the Lord be praised, but Her church members should be careful with her for now oooo bcs aboki never forget his kettle even if he travels to london

How Aboki wan take carry him kettle pass airport go London?

A Nigerian pollution - politician I mean - should step down?

The president leaving such a cankerworm in his cabinet says alot about the president - he should be sacked, and then an independent panel setup to investigate.

But these guys have zero moral standing.

Well, the particular God he felt told him to go and act like a mhad man at the Shrine, should also help him pay the 200+ million in damages.

Your talents and skills will make way for you.
In whatever you do, do it with so much excellence, that you can't be ignored.

And this right here is a testament. Man's mind was in the game. He played for his heart, played for his country and for the love of the game.

And when Ycee said Olodo Uprising, this was exactly what he was talking about. People just being intentionally stewpeid because of payout.

stulp14:
salaam alaikum waramotullah, please I need your assistance, I'm in a situation, please I need your help, please assist me with anything you can. jazakhumllahu akhiran. my account numba is 703 072 1680 opay, thanks, jazakhumllahu akhiran

Sharp Guy 😅 OP share to this guy. Don't refuse to share o. Practice what you preach.

RealityKings1:
Looks very big compared to the bottle of water.
You bought it 400 naira?

😂😂😂 Are you playing Sir?
Yam and #400 cannot ever be in the same paragraph in today's Nigeria.

Many men and women today have set the back of relationships so low, that the most awful attitude, that's less worse than terrible is seen as a virtue.

Everyone is talking about Olodo uprising, but we forgot that we once let Agbero (Thug) Uprising as well as Aseeewo Uprising - and yet we still complain about moral decadence in our society.

Many men will date anything on skirt, not for their virtues or potential as a life partner, but just because of sex.

Many women will date the bottom of the barrel, just because they want someone to fund a lifestyle they can't afford by themselves.

So here's the question - if your son/daughter tell you that someone like your boyfriend or girlfriend is their ROLE MODEL, will you approve?

If the answer is HELL NOO, then why are you dating them?

Mussolini77:
Nope downsizing in terms of apartment, relocated to a room and parlor from a 3bed and now suggest a selfcon since I won’t be around mostly…..she will make the comparison not in a way to spite me but whenever she talks about something new her friend family got it makes me feel sad because it was something we have had.

The problem now is she wants us to downsize and move to a costlier side of the city and this will involve selling my properties again to fund the move and this is really getting me depressed.

I wish you all the best Sir

Following.
To read and learn.

Let's have it, let's have it

I usually don't talk down on the attitude of other people's wife on matters like this.

But the excerpt below is just beyond awful

...especially whenever she visit her friends and talks about what they have which most of the time are what we had but sold off

So when you say downsize, you mean downsize on your asset/networth so you can afford to move to a place with higher cost of living?

So, she's constantly comparing the life you guys have/are building with what she sees outside? - God forbid senselessness.

Is she a trophy wife? Because it appears that you're doing so much to please her without taking the hard decision of living according to your means! You're depressed now, soon you'll slip into Hypertension. And God help you, you don't have complications, you won't be around anymore..... Guess what? She'll move on.

What's her personal contribution to this constant downsizing, even up to you quitting your job to stay at home?

"Married woman" is not a personality trait, nor is it a measure of skill.

Go for the one that your personality and skillset allows you to do.

Imagine an antisocial person starting up a buy and sell business for non-essential/luxury items.

Imagine someone with no skill trying to hold down a job or climb up the corporate ladder.

If this is a true story, the employer can be made to pay you. Even if the employment process was informal, when we are not in slave era, how can you be working and your salary is being paid out to a third party.

Was the guy a child when this employment was secured?

Secondly, how do you continue after one year when you didn't get paid? The employer didn't mention who was being paid?

Werey wan make laziness a constitutional right.

My own question.

Is it her money?
If yes, God bless her philanthropy.
If it's government money, remove her name from the donation.

Mynd44:
And when they refuse to pay what happens?

Like I said, if they were useful.

Especially Africa Union. There are things like sanctions, suspension from the union, halt of trade, penalizing their external businesses in other African countries.

But then again the union are nothing more than Osusu committee with only toothless Chihuahua power.

MTNnews:
The South African govt does not owe you anything.. the South African citizen made it clear they do not want illegal migrant in their country, it is not the SA government that chased illegal migrant.

A govt can not disobey it citizen else it be ousted.

Some of una go just open mouth waa dey talk rubbish with correct English, and think it'll automatically make sense.

So illegal immigrants were able to secure a property, set-up a business, stock the business, procure assets?