Celebrities › Re: Dorathy Bachor Wows In Traditional Outfit (Pictures) by Stevengerd(m): 1:57pm On Nov 14, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by Stevengerd(m): 12:22pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
Bodyodour: seriously,why have I not even considered this before  You fit no reason am |
Romance › Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by Stevengerd(m): 11:04am On Nov 12, 2020 |
Bodyodour: I don't knw why my guys always yab me just because I dance a with my girlfriend,is any thing wrong with that?They said I should MANUP and stop behaving like a kid. A day will come when she will use that against me .
Please my people is anything wrong with that because I don't see anything strange or wrong in what I am doing . No mind those guys o. Who knows if dem deh toast the babe for your back wey you no know. |
Romance › Re: See Wetin Dey Hungry Me [Picture] by Stevengerd(m): 7:22pm On Nov 11, 2020 |
Peace of mind And good health |
Romance › Re: Is My Girlfriend Trying To Defraud Me?.... Matured Minds Please Help! by Stevengerd(m): 10:20pm On Sep 21, 2020 |
TheAviator2000: I have a situation going on in my life right now with the woman that I love and i need your perspective in this situation.
To give you some background, my girlfriend and i have been together for almost 5 years in a mostly long distance relationship as i left the country after the first year of meeting her. When I finally found my feet abroad, I started sending her about 40k every month as upkeep money even without her asking. I have been consistently sending her this upkeep for about a year now and have never asked nor received anything in return.
Few weeks ago, my girlfriend mentioned that she needed a shop to expand has fast growing business as working from home is no longer convenient and she is beginning to loose customers as a result of that. I was really happy to hear that and promised to give her my support.
She eventually found a store that cost about N300k per annum and indicated that she had saved about 240k and needed about 150k from me to cover the remaining rent fees, agency fees, admin fees and minor renovations. I pledged to send her the money this week and as a man of my words, i intend to send it.
However, somethings did not sit right in with me and I inquired to know how she was able to save 240k as she had never ever mentioned having that type of money saved up. Before i sent her monthly upkeep money (40k), i always inquired to know how she was doing financially and there has never been a time where she mentioned she was saving money or have 240k saved up somewhere. As a matter of fact, she has never indicated to have more than 10k at any point in time
To end my doubts, i asked her send me a screenshot of her bank statement showing the savings and this made her really upset to the point of going into a rant about "lack of trust" in the relationship. Mind you, i have never asked her to send her back statement before and have never been the type to distrust the things she said as she has never really given me any reason to. I have always been supportive and the one time I actually needed some "assurance" to quell my doubts, she wasn't able to provide it. At this point, I feel there is some level of deceit on her part to get some money from me.
I also asked her to send me picture of the store and she said she didn't take any picture when she went to check it ...
Last week, i told her to apply for a passport and wanted to send her like 80k to do that as my goal was to facilitate her eventual relocation to join me but on Saturday, she told me that she prefers the money goes into getting her store set up and she can always apply the passport with the money she makes from her store... hmmmm
To be honest, i am really upset and slightly depressed because I come across people back home trying to "job" me for cash but never thought it would come from my inner circle.
At this point, i have mentally moved on and after i send that 150k, i will block her everywhere and move on with my life. ... That is honestly how i feel right now Life no balance o. Where me I deh find Laptop to perfect my Music production skill. |
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Education › Re: Tertiary, Primary & Secondary Schools To Reopen In Lagos From September 14 & 21 by Stevengerd(m): 6:23pm On Aug 29, 2020 |
Sanwoolu na idiot o. Shey Unilag wey students deh reach 500 inside lecture hall or Yabatech wey no too get classes. |
Business › Re: What Business Can I Do With 20k? by Stevengerd(m): 5:23pm On Aug 29, 2020 |
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Properties › Re: Urgent : Monthly/Quaterly/Six months Rent Options on Lagos mainland by Stevengerd(m): 9:15am On Aug 29, 2020 |
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Properties › Re: Urgent : Monthly/Quaterly/Six months Rent Options on Lagos mainland by Stevengerd(m): 2:39am On Aug 29, 2020 |
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Business › Re: What Business Can I Do With 20k? by Stevengerd(m): 11:44am On Aug 28, 2020 |
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Business › Re: What Business Can I Do With 20k? by Stevengerd(m): 11:40am On Aug 28, 2020 |
Brachaa: Its around yaba area.
Ok. Good.
Thanks for this idea. That's good. If you need further assistant on that Message me privately |
Business › Re: What Business Can I Do With 20k? by Stevengerd(m): 11:01am On Aug 28, 2020 |
Brachaa: Ok. Cool.
Thanks. Will give it a go cos there are newly erected structures in my area yet to be occupied. Been eyeing those properties to Start looking for tenants for them.
The only downside is I'm scared as a lady cos there are some wild guys in that area that have their eyes on those properties as well and are always forming area boss. I hope they won't start putting eyes on me.
I like my jeje life o. Whc area is that? What you do is simple, when the apartment is ready. Just get the original agent or caretaker's number. If possible the land lord. Take to them that one of your client needs an apartment there, deh will tell you the total package for the apartment. Once deal is sealed you get your cut. |
Business › Re: What Business Can I Do With 20k? by Stevengerd(m): 10:46am On Aug 28, 2020 |
MikeMicheal: First method: Getting buyers for people who wants to sell their houses/land, and then getting a cut from the sales. This is one of the free ways to make money from real estate without investing.
You see those people on nairaland posting houses and lands for sale? some are not the owner, they simply get buyers for the owners and get paid.
Second method. This one is sweeter..... Following with keen interest |
Business › Re: What Business Can I Do With 20k? by Stevengerd(m): 10:45am On Aug 28, 2020 |
Brachaa: I guess its also same as getting people to rent a property too..
Thanks. Sure. You stand as the Principal agent. So wen the client rent an apartment, you are given your own cut |
Business › Re: What Business Can I Do With 20k? by Stevengerd(m): 10:43am On Aug 28, 2020 |
majestique: You can start dropshipping and you don't need capital for that. If you're interested send me a dm. Sent |
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Properties › Re: Need A Self Contain In Lagos Mainland. by Stevengerd(m): 7:00am On Jul 28, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: Nairalander Buys Roylse Royce Like Hushpuppi PHOTOS by Stevengerd(m): 10:37pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
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Properties › Re: Self Contained (single Rooms) For Rent At Orogun Area, Orogun, Ibadan, Oyo by Stevengerd(m): 6:30pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
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Properties › Re: Need A Self Contain In Lagos Mainland. by Stevengerd(m): 4:37pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
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Properties › Re: I Am In Need Of A 1room Self Contained by Stevengerd(m): 7:17am On Jul 17, 2020 |
PeaceMinded: Please nairalanders let me know if there is a good 1room self contained preferably around Alapere or Gbagada area. My budget is 200k. Got one around Gbagada tho |
Properties › Re: Need A Self Contain In Lagos Mainland. by Stevengerd(m): 4:51am On Jul 17, 2020 |
lebete3000: Hello guys, I need a self contained apartment in mainland Lagos.
Requirments:
1. Security- topmost on the list. 2. Accessibility to most parts of Lagos. 3. Others like regular power supply, water in the house, etc. 4. And ofcourse affordable. How serious are you? How urgent do you need it. Cause I fond out a lot of you ain't serious at all |
Romance › Re: . by Stevengerd(m): 11:49am On Jul 16, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: . by Stevengerd(m): 11:42am On Jul 16, 2020 |
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Properties › Re: I Needed A Mini Flat Around Haruna,jumofak Ikorodu by Stevengerd(m): 9:57am On Jul 16, 2020 |
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Properties › Re: Any SELF-CON for rent in Lagos? by Stevengerd(m): 3:59pm On Jul 12, 2020 |
Judah95: Can anyone share information on house for rent in Jakande Estate, Isolo? I need a Mini-flat or self-contain at an affordable rate.
I'm Ready to pack and pay. Shey you ready to Pay me for the stress of looking for sure agent for you |
Romance › Re: . by Stevengerd(m): 2:58pm On Jul 12, 2020 |
Olawrites: Wow..dreams do come true
OKAFOR's law working...
Now I know
We first had an attempt in the last 3 years..but she no reason me enta promise land
Another big man collected her..me no worry sha
she cumm disappeared
I just locked up, not until we just mistakenly saw and boom..was offered on a plater of bottle water 
my broad abeg believe because he get why oo
naso I chop dat thing wey be like meat 
And na wetin most old men dey queue for I collect for free Congrat o. Oya wash am for boys. |
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