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Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by Bodyodour: 11:03am On Nov 12, 2020 |
I don't knw why my guys always yab me just because I dance alot with my girlfriend,is any thing wrong with that?They said I should MANUP and stop behaving like a kid. A day will come when she will use that against me . Please my people is anything wrong with that because I don't see anything strange or wrong in what I am doing . 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by Stevengerd(m): 11:04am On Nov 12, 2020 |
Bodyodour:No mind those guys o. Who knows if dem deh toast the babe for your back wey you no know. 8 Likes |
Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by YoonSung59: 11:06am On Nov 12, 2020 |
no it doesnt 2 Likes |
Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by Bodyodour: 11:19am On Nov 12, 2020 |
Stevengerd:seriously,why have I not even considered this before |
Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by LikeAking: 11:20am On Nov 12, 2020 |
Thats a big mistake must men make. We have been influenced by the Hollywood drama. Guy, never play with your babe . Or, when you play with her, do it maturely and also do it one in a while. Avoid talking too much with her too, because it will soon lead to insults and disrespect. Be wise. 30 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by Nobody: 11:28am On Nov 12, 2020 |
LikeAking:Yes, you are right... But he shouldn't cry or tag all women LovePeddler when the "playful guy" playfully sway his girlfriend away. Sometimes I wonder why you all take very inconsequential things too seriously while handling important things with levity! The only time a typical Nigerian Man think of showing his manliness is when a woman is involved. If you all handle your country the way you handle your relationship with so much control and over seriousness, Nigeria won't be where it is now. Relationship that is supposed to be enjoyed, you want to turn to WAR zone. Sorry oooo Seth Rollins the fighter! Rada rada! 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by Bodyodour: 11:29am On Nov 12, 2020 |
LikeAking:lol. You called it Hollywood drama but its not, maybe its because of my love for dancing. |
Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by Godada(m): 11:35am On Nov 12, 2020 |
There isn't a hard and fix rule concerning relating how you behave with ladies. Ladies are basically different individuals, so what works for a might not work for b. As per the Op question, it's okay to play with your girl. Your guys are just jealous. 3 Likes |
Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by LikeAking: 11:37am On Nov 12, 2020 |
Palema007: Any woman can go to what ever man she likes, real men dont give a dam. If she dumps me, I dump her. My GF and Wify can go, I dont give a Bleep about them. Relationship that is supposed to be enjoyed, you want to turn to WAR zone. True, but when you are nice to naija woman, they leverage on that and Bleep the man up. Ladies prefer men who will treat them like shit. They cling to such bad men. Just giving the ladies what they want. 9 Likes |
Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by Nobody: 11:38am On Nov 12, 2020 |
Bodyodour:Sir, every relationship is unique, every relationship has it drive force, if being playful with your woman is what keeps your relationship going please don't make the mistake of taking it away. You are not in the relationship alone, who knows your dance moves together may be the key ingredient of intimacy for your girlfriend, take away that and you create questions of "what and why". Personally, I can't deal with an over serious Man or one who thinks "playing"with me, makes him less of a Man. As long as your lady hasn't shown any sign of disrespect (which may be borne out of anything but "being playful) I see no reason to be uptight. Country don over serious, you self wan add your own seriousness. Lol! Who does that? Your relationship should be a safe heaven to relax abeg! Not another power tussle zone! 11 Likes |
Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by Bodyodour: 11:54am On Nov 12, 2020 |
Palema007:thank you very much for this. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by Nobody: 12:02pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
LikeAking:This is a very fvcked up mentality! It is obvious you have been burnt severally and you have decided to raise a faux defense to avoid a repetition of a bitter experience. But here is a secret, you state of mind right now places you on the vulnerability of reoccurrance of your bitter experience than ever before. You didn't learn the right lessons. First of all, there is no such thing as "REAL Man"! It is just a clause of approval of relative perception of who or what a Man "should" be. There has never been and will never be a collectively approved definition or characters of a "Real Man" because your definition of what a real man should be will be different from mine, and mine from another. Stop caging yourself with someone else expectations of you. No such thing as Real Man! But Real "my own perspective of who a Man should be! Secondly if anyone dumps you, you only get the chance to dump them IF they come back! Whoever initiates a breakup does the dumping! Let's not be carried away by ego to believe in illusions. Thirdly, leverage or not who ever will treat you right will, and whoever will treat you wrong will! The one who will respect you will while the one who will do otherwise will. As long as you a attracted to a person you become vulnerable to hurt. That's the logic! Act like a macho from now till kingdom come, the moment you feel, you are vulnerable to hurt. Lol Ladies love bad Men? You mean the 21st Century Naija ladies or the 16th, 17th or probably 19th century. If your assertion is true, why do Men complain that Naija ladies love Money, Do bad boys spend on Ladies? 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by fati2001(m): 12:08pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
they are jealous. 2 Likes |
Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by Liposure: 12:11pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
Anything to spice up your relationship is welcome. Nigerian girls i know will never date an uptight boring guy. This is why some of them go out with bad boys leaving the good guys stranded and bewildered 2 Likes |
Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by Stevengerd(m): 12:22pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
Bodyodour:You fit no reason am |
Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by Macqueeny(f): 1:05pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
There is nothing wrong with what u r doing, dt just a spiceup to ur relationship, it bonds u more and makes u best of friends.... And people will surely talk wen ur relationship is better Dan deirs, so just continue wat u r doing so far ur partner ain't complaining......... Wahala for who jealous ur relationship 4 Likes |
Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by bobokeshington: 1:11pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
Bodyodour: NOTHING IS WRONG WITH THAT BUT.... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by Petyprincess(f): 1:12pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
Palema007:The bolded summarized it all!! That's why i pity any man that brings his relationship worries here because most advices are from relationship destroyers! When it comes to women matter dem go write 100 epistle to study women they are teaching their followers to avoid nd i d be wondering is this making sense? 4 Likes |
Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by Nobody: 1:15pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
mumu question |
Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by Nobody: 1:20pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
Petyprincess:Nairaland isn't a place to seek relationship advice, especially romance section. It is filled with too many frustrated people who can't see joy in anything. As for the redpillers, lol... Those ones never get their bearings 1 Like |
Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by David1017(m): 1:22pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
My guyyy.... Enjoy your Girlfriend.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by OMOJOHN001: 1:23pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
You have no offense dancing with your Gf, let those friends of yours shut the fuxzzk up and mind their business. Its those friends of yours that will be posting Nonsense romantic videos of two Oyinbo lovers, Bf and Gf dancing to Tatiana moise song on their WhatsApp status. Your friends are feeling insecure because they are afraid that you and your babe might Go worldwide or blow through that. Be wise and why should my friend talk about my relationship when I didn't invite or ask him to. I take no shit. But again learn to avoid your babe once in a while as well bro. its will makes her to miss you and seek for you. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by Petyprincess(f): 1:28pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
Palema007: 4 Likes
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Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by Bodyodour: 2:53pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
Macqueeny:lol. Big wahala o |
Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by Bodyodour: 2:56pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
Petyprincess:I have noticed that here. This nonsense alpha and red piller stuffs nearly scatter my relationship before. If you are not strong headed, the so called alphas will give all guys the impression that no girl is worth. 3 Likes |
Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by fecosequence(m): 3:00pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
It's bad if you do that all the time. |
Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by BigJoe19: 3:00pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
Very stupid question 1 Like |
Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by Bodyodour: 3:05pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
fecosequence:okay |
Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by baralatie(m): 3:17pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
Palema007:funny! if Nigerian men handle their country they way they handle there women! haaaaa 1 Like |
Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by baralatie(m): 3:18pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
fecosequence:so the player who carries another woman from her relationship was busy frowning face abi 2 Likes |
Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by baralatie(m): 3:19pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
BigJoe19:it does not make it less than a question? 1 Like |
Re: Does Playing With My Girlfriend Make Me Less Of A Man ? by BigJoe19: 3:24pm On Nov 12, 2020 |
baralatie:Ok. |
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