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hello do u mean mutual friendship, I woudn't mind that but know that am based in lagos nigeria

the reason cabe gotten from the responses of people. from what people have posted the only reason why the dating stuff has not been possible with many is their mindset, the insincerity associated with the internet stuff, the fear of falling into wrong hands that is for the women, and some other fear i might not know. but NL can bring forth good thing from it. so fear not and try out someone in here and if it does not work so be it, and life goes on

you heard all you need to from fellow NL while you strive to keep yourself the best way to do it is to be busy with thing that will help you keep you dignity. the ppeople to move with, places you go and be concern with thing on the positive end rather than the pull by those things that would make you compromise your standard

you can't tell anyone who to love or not love because whatever that happens at the end will be blamed on you. tell her to be sure of what she is doing and count the cost that mayt arise from either party as a result of her action. what matters is that she finds peace in her marriage and whoever that is able to give her that should be the one.

don't be so carried away with what you call love in you post. from you respons to some post you don't seem to need help. Many woman are in pain today because they sturbonly married someone they felt they were in love with even when other people suggested otherwise. I strongly believe that it isa self destructive for a woman to let her family be against her because she wants to marry certain lover boy.

you aksed for help and when the help came you say no you can't accept it. just free thge boy and stabilise your future by waiting a man the would have some things in common with you.

Ujujoan I think as someone said before, it depends on how both of you know yourselves, which include how the relationship was when the going was good, what led to the break and how it was manage until the day of the gift presentation. no body can tell you whether it is good to receive the gift or not. because no one can really understand the interplay between the two in the relationship and after the break up. when you assess the situation with the indices above then you can take you decision based on how you feel, that whether you have peace doing it or not

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Feb 10 sharing same birthday with mide2 this is really interesting

my email is stogis@yahoo.com

yes you can find true love because Nairaland is no different from the real world around you, which is populated by humans in these cartigories genuine, fake and pretenders. But your education should be your priority for now, you still have year ahead of you.

there is actually a problem of understanding here because one need to know if you really meant what you said and what do you mean by I like you. was it just see her reaction. And why like and not love, is the word like like carefully selected to guide yourself from real commitment of being seen as having told some you love her and does that mean that you are really in love with her. all these and meaning more need to be resolve or you are just trying to play on her "willfull "closeness to you

just felt I should drop an email address maybe some of the really nice people might want it to contact me as NL seem like a public fair

stogis@yahoo.com

wonderful Question. The truth is that virginity is a virtue for any woman who is. the talk about complicated sex about mature virgins when they get married is a formulated to convince ignorant virgin into having sex. come to think of it every woman had been a virgin at one time or the other and they lost it at one point too. so if any decide to lost hers at mature age no bad abouit it and let people stop all these lies about complications.
Having said that, i have notice that most virgin get carried away by such virtue that they forget to learn good character as common to woman who make good wife. this is what am yet to understand why. it is only few virgins that you find with good manners. this i don't know why.

Hello Ben and Ujujoan how are you doing nice meeting you am really trying to catch up with thing in here so happy to meet you guys, we will get to know each other as time goes on. be great and wonderful

love means the willingness backed by action to make others good without a condition or expected reward. however this action can only grow when it is appreciated. you can check on-line dictionary for common meanings and definitions

madam you are right to desire what you want to do but that does not make it right. The truth is that affection like seed grows, so it is highly impossible for you to be hooked up to a male friend and not go into romance and eventual sex, which would be adultery. I do understand what you are going through. it is unfortunate that sometimes good men get tired down with bad woman and, or good woman get tired down with bad mmen. there are many of your type today who got out of the problem by trusting in God and keeping fate with their good works. please you don't need all these men asking for a chance in your life. i beg you listen to many who have told you how bad the action you are taking is. i know for sure that there is a God who still hears prayers.

wonderful! this is really cool. am from edo state. so what's going to happen with our identification? just for the purpose of it or what,

am new here but would love to meet real people who are interestin and are given to making impact ion people's life with their ideas. In fact people interested in friendship as the basis for a good relationship.