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FiftyFifty:
Igbos are fools rather. Lol

Seun mynd44 Dominique nlfpmod
Rule 2

The first thing you blurted out this early morning on waking from sleep is obidients...na waa oo.

Marriage for women

GeeM:
the younger the better sir minus minors

Correct comrade

1Sharon:
That is exactly what the article stated 🙄

If I didn't post that article, would you have come out to say this?


Fibroids are unheard of in white women!

It's related to race more than age

What article are you talking about I didn't click any of your links.

Again you're very wrong to say white women don't suffer from fibroids...you even say its u heard of

Lastly I didn't say age is an isolated cause of fibroids. Read again slower

pryme:
Wait, contraceptives causes fibroids?

Read again. Slower

DonroxyII:
But this has always been in the past and the Incidence of Fibroid was less compared to Now ... what we knew off Was Genotype issues Mistakenly Referred as "Abiku"(Reincarnated Still birth) .....

What Causes the Surge in Present Dispensations Among Younger Generations especially from Mid-20s Women are Susceptible to Myomas !

I would dispute that.

Women previously married very early, that exposed them to early pregnancies which give them the protection from fibroids that the pregnancy hormone progesterone offers

1Sharon:
Mr MBBS, fibroid have nothing to do with age but everything to do with race!

You'll hardly see white women with the condition.

It is linked to hair relaxers!

When you can get 10 percent of 17 to 21 with fibroids come and let's talk

And with respect to your point about hair relaxers, yes it is suspected to contribute but you need to know how.

Some hair products contain endocrine disruptors which interfere with the body's Hormones, which then possibly lead to fibroids.


That's exactly what delayed marriage, plus sexually transmitted human papilloma virus plus hormonal prevention of pregnancy with postinor etc can cause.

You allow estrogen to continue unabated , whereas pregnancy could have offered you nine months of progesterone protection.

stanvesco:
Don't put your lifetime career in jeopardy just to have two likes!


Or atleast don't drag MBBS into it!


You could have just stated your points and not try to brag with the Hippocratic certificate. That being said,I will expect you to do better next time or do a better research and re-edit your post.


Thank you

What a small small minded human you are. You really think MBBS is something to brag about, shame.

Now face the topic and stop disgracing whoever paid for your defective education.

jamesversion:
How is the scan possible. I will like to scan my gf before marriage

Walk into any scan and diagnostic centre around you and ask for a scan, or better still consult your doctor

wisdomkid:
That means everyone around you didn't bring you peace. Awful crowd you must be going through. Yes, you can bring peace to yourself, but you should expect people around you to do same too.

From your statement, you certainly are not a peaceful person, if you believed everyone else can't bring you peace

No wahala. Whatever makes you happy

ItisWell22:
🤔



Just as I’ve seen a 23 year old with fibroids.

That’s why most conditions in medicine, number one cause is almost always UNKNOWN (Idiopathic).

And to the Op, I hope and pray none of your sisters or daughters exceed 24years, unmarried.

A consultant obstetrician while teaching in class asked “why would anyone marry a lady above 30years of age?”
Guess what! His daughter turned 31 this year, after her traditional marriage got cancelled few days away, due to genotype incompatibility last year.

I hope not. But ladies are rejecting marriage nowadays for hook up lifestyle, and stupidly excessive education for their gender.

linearity:
I think your figure of 6 out 10 ladies over 26 having fibroid in Africa is very conservative, essentially if they have not given birth at that age.

Statistics put that number at 8 out of 10 Africa ladies, the good news is there are now effective treatments and even non surgical means of getting rid of fibroid even in Nigeria, the disadvantage is, they are expensive therefore beyond the reach of many families.

https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0283201#:~:text=Background,of%20all%20races%20and%20ages.

Probably because I focused on 26nyears and above. Higher age would have worse statistics

Kobicove:
To be honest I think age actually plays a part in it but I have witnessed a situation where a 38year old lady got married and had 2 children in 2 quick pregnancies without any complications whatsoever

Very possible and happens . Probability is the issue here

wisdomkid:
Tomorrow, don't come here and be shouting women are wicked oh, except you have money. How can you say you marry ONLY for reproductive purposes? Hope you meet a woman with the same mindset.

Me, I want to marry for love, peace and companionship abeg. We think wokeness is the key...

Actually it is you who is expecting peace from human beings that be disappointed.
What they owe me is children. Nothing else.

ProphetM0hammad:
I don't think there is any literature yet that has categorically stated the exact cause of uterine myometrium.

What you stated here is just an opinion, there are several other opinions too.
But i believe the age factor is just as important as lifestyle
Just like some people believe advanced maternal age( 33 years and older) is one of the key factors for multiple gestation i.e conceiving twins, triplets etc

Sure it's an opinion, but the available evidence weighs heavily In my favour....unopposed estrogen action by postinor preventing pregnancy, exposure to human papilloma virus from sex, age to give both enough time to produce the myomata.

Go and drink some water man

blacksam01:
my cousin who worksat a bank used Facebook to find husband..turns out thr guy is old glory success career, where he bought a car and manages to keep it going, lives in two bedroom flat shared with someone and the persin is usually not around ehen sh visits....the guy pulled his last strength to marry her traditionally

they sha married and she discovered he is dead broke..as a christian lady, sh continue..now they are with 3children, but the guy is still broke..after supporting him with over 4milluin after marriagr...

If this is the worst story available, I still go with Facebook.

By the way, she should have done her background checks well.

For me , na to meet lady first, I don't need her money, I'm good. Just not a hoe

taylor88:

Na so

It is quite hard now.

Quite honestly.

But let's just make a list....
1. Facebook
2. Your place of work.
3. Recommended by friends or family
4. Chance meeting on street, eatery, shopping mall etc.
5. Maybe church....


I just can't think of anything else that will not yield premium rubbish

For me Facebook is still no 1.

Cos you can at least go through posts, do a little study before trying to chat up and meet.


Na wife we dey find no be hook up.


Add if you have any place better

IyaebeTheGreat:
I just thank God for my life, na small small online fights be my own, spoil no follow. I don't even know what postinor looks like.

Wow! Really impressed. Are you above 24?

talk2hb1:
Wahala! Wahala!! Wahala!!!

Toh

IpobAntidote:
The place should be turned into a park anyway. Very dirty environment.

Jealousy is bad for your health

swagguElite:
I do both younger ladies and older women. There is no better. One set too reckless - too selfish, the other set too marriage conscious or already has a kid. How do you determine the one with fibroid issue by lookin' at their faces? This has nothin' to do with age brother.

Believe me or ask your doctor. Age is everything...Well almost everything

seniorgozman:
I am even scared of marriage, I might end up paying someone to allow me pregnant her while she goes her way

Shyt is happening nowadays. Sadly

Kooldon:
Truth. I can't agree less cos the rate of fibroid surgeries among unmarried young woman around us is alarming compared to decades ago.

Thanks . It's unfortunate.

seniorgozman:
To me it depends on the girl's lifestyle. Someone I wanted to marry was just 24 and has no womb. When I discovered, I quietly backed out. At that time a man was dragging her with me and went ahead to marry her. My friends were surprised that I didn't resist. I told everyone that the marriage won't last. In less than 6 months the man divorced her after discovering

Chai

worldclass68:
Well, that's the truth sha.....I have seen some having difficulties conceiving while younger ones just dey get belle anyhow.......

Precisely the point

Hopemanfx:
just wait u will soon see the evening newspapers here attacking you as if u are their creator..

My helmet ⛑️ dey my head

But where is IyaebeTheGreat, pocahontas,