jo77:



O.K. Let me educate you. Many Nigerians travel to Europe or America seeking greener pastures. On getting to the target country, the easiest way to get papers is to get married to a citizen of the country whether they love such citizen or not.
So yes your previous husband married you PRIMARILY for papers and when you could not help him with the target papers he had no choice other than to divorce you move on.

Most probably when you started showing signs of not helping him to get papers, he started to secretly date the new woman and when all seem set, he opted out of marriage with you and married the new woman.


It appears to me that you seem to have a thing for Nigerians. I see you asking for phone numbers here.It appears you are trying to start another relationship with a Nigerian from here.
I want you to know that 99.999999% of anyone you contact here who decides to start a relationship with you will be doing so for the PRIMARY purpose of getting papers to live in your country, so, if you don't help him in getting the papers the same thing that happened with your ex-husband will likely happen again. Again even if you get your new husband the desired papers he can still divorce you and move on. So either way, there is no certainty you will keep the husband even if you get him papers unless you are rich, beautiful, young or of good character.

So my counsel to you is this: stop trying to get peoples phone number here. Open a new account and start using it to interact with people here. Avoid saying you are white or live in Europe as much as possible. In fact it is preferable that you don't say you ate white or live in Europe at all. Starting with interacting with people here you can end up making friends and meeting people who are genuinely attracted to you and want to date you because they like you and are interested in you. If you are able to start a relationship that leads to marriage with someone here who has genuine love or attraction for you, such a one is unlikely to leave you after you help him to get papers. Please note that most Nigerians do not value women who go after them in other to start a relationship. So as you interact and relate with people with your new username allow the men to be the one to initiate relationship with you.

So right now, break off from anyone you may have contacted via PM or phone call and start afresh with your new account and your new user name.

I wish you all the best.

garyaustin:
You did not update his papers which you probably promised to do and he simply took it as an act of wickedness for you not to do the needful and let him fend for you two. 2 He is probably a proud Igbo man that would love to work and provide for you his love instead of the other way ( you being the bread winner) The last straw is aborting his Baby!!!!!!! My two cents tho

Masterppower:


Because you're a white witch

PrinceCharmings:
isn't it obvious? You are no longer useful to him anymore. I'm curious, what country are you from?

OTayobami:


Lolzz everybody is white on nairaland lolzzz
Anyways the line means he started dating another(the one he's with now) probably during his stay with you or before he met you and fronting means the whole fuss about disturbing you to get his papers done

OTayobami:


You let me have yours

internationalman:
In other words your husband just married her side chick while he was married to you

OTayobami:


Are you not a Nigerian? abi iru wahala wo leleyi

OTayobami:


Are you not a Nigerian? abi iru wahala wo leleyi

donbachi:
Wicked woman...u aborted ur child with him and he aborted ur marriage with him.and you are complaining...he married her late..he should have married her on her head then throw u away...who cares if he had married a woman 50yrs older than him...witch.

OTayobami:


Lol na sharp guy, that was why he was fronting for you now, him don get another strong line probably during his stay with you, that's every lazy Nigerian guy's wish so just forget and move on, he is to be blamed tho,

JasonScoolari:
Do you have any problem with that?

JasonScoolari:
Be a "StrongSoul" and move on.

famouscargo4u:


I know this may hurt you but you have to just let it go.

richidinho:
get a visa and come down here, you will be amazed the kind of good men you will meet here

Nigerians are great and caring men but the ones you meet out there are the frustrated ones from very poor homes

lilwetdick:


sorry i am not a nigga and i have no pity for women like her.

Na me send am to move in with an illegal.

tyup:


Ma'm it's just quite unfortunate you happen to be a victim of the few bad & irresponsible Nigerians in diaspora but i'll just advice you move on & dont fight it

Just stay happy and strong you deserve to be happy just dont accept him back when he comes begging it might be very dangerous for you

OR

You can report to the nearest security outpost if he's still illegal so he can be deported as quick as possible

just pick ur choice to do. besides what's ur Nationality?

tyup:






You guys are all stupid and very senseless......if you cant just console the heartbroken woman why not just read and ignore

2mrw you guys would be here ranting & blaming the government of whatsoever What a bunch of egregiously debauched feeble-
minded derelicts pussies

#Spits

donbachi:
Madam 4give and move on...he was only a snake in a green grass with a green passport looking for a greener pasture.

bogdaddy:
Are you an American lady?

lilwetdick:
So this one has move on since all these days.

molybdenum0012:



Hello strongsoul, have been offline for a while died to my busy schedule. Send me whatAssap message here: 09032369185

molybdenum0012:
Strongsoul, I understand your pain. The truth is many Nigerians here are facing serious economic problem here and desperate to get out of the country at any cost.

Your ex only needed someone that would give him a green card and you did not come through for him that is why he left you. He might even have a family back here in Lagos. Give me ur nunber


I suggest you try single Nigerian guys, you may be fortunate.

If you don't mind pm, let be friends first.

molybdenum0012:
Strongsoul, I understand your pain. The truth is many Nigerians here are facing serious economic problem here and desperate to get out of the country at any cost.

Your ex only needed someone that would give him a green card and you did not come through for him that is why he left you. He might even have a family back here in Lagos. Hi write me ur number


I suggest you try single Nigerian guys, you may be fortunate.

If you don't mind pm, let be friends first.

bigpicture001:


I am.nobody of secial interest ..if you go ack to you pevious thread b4 this..you wil see my warnings...I know how Nigerians bhve more than any other person

bigpicture001:

I REMEMBER TELLING YOU THEN..HE WAS FAKE

molybdenum0012:
Strongsoul, I understand your pain. The truth is many Nigerians here are facing serious economic problem here and desperate to get out of the country at any cost.

Your ex only needed someone that would give him a green card and you did not come through for him that is why he left you. He might even have a family back here in Lagos.what is your number?


I suggest you try single Nigerian guys, you may be fortunate.

If you don't mind pm, let be friends first.

rex444:
chances are that he loved d first and if only she helped a bit ....if it's you then you could have just helped a bit and see what's next ...

molybdenum0012:
Strongsoul, I understand your pain. The truth is many Nigerians here are facing serious economic problem here and desperate to get out of the country at any cost.

Your ex only needed someone that would give him a green card and you did not come through for him that is why he left you. He might even have a family back here in Lagos. Pm me


I suggest you try single Nigerian guys, you may be fortunate.

If you don't mind pm, let be friends first.