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Romance / Re: My Husband Divorced Me And Married Other After 4 Months From Our Divorce by Strongsoul: 8:03am On Jun 03, 2019
jo77:



O.K. Let me educate you. Many Nigerians travel to Europe or America seeking greener pastures. On getting to the target country, the easiest way to get papers is to get married to a citizen of the country whether they love such citizen or not.
So yes your previous husband married you PRIMARILY for papers and when you could not help him with the target papers he had no choice other than to divorce you move on.

Most probably when you started showing signs of not helping him to get papers, he started to secretly date the new woman and when all seem set, he opted out of marriage with you and married the new woman.


It appears to me that you seem to have a thing for Nigerians. I see you asking for phone numbers here.It appears you are trying to start another relationship with a Nigerian from here.
I want you to know that 99.999999% of anyone you contact here who decides to start a relationship with you will be doing so for the PRIMARY purpose of getting papers to live in your country, so, if you don't help him in getting the papers the same thing that happened with your ex-husband will likely happen again. Again even if you get your new husband the desired papers he can still divorce you and move on. So either way, there is no certainty you will keep the husband even if you get him papers unless you are rich, beautiful, young or of good character.

So my counsel to you is this: stop trying to get peoples phone number here. Open a new account and start using it to interact with people here. Avoid saying you are white or live in Europe as much as possible. In fact it is preferable that you don't say you ate white or live in Europe at all. Starting with interacting with people here you can end up making friends and meeting people who are genuinely attracted to you and want to date you because they like you and are interested in you. If you are able to start a relationship that leads to marriage with someone here who has genuine love or attraction for you, such a one is unlikely to leave you after you help him to get papers. Please note that most Nigerians do not value women who go after them in other to start a relationship. So as you interact and relate with people with your new username allow the men to be the one to initiate relationship with you.

So right now, break off from anyone you may have contacted via PM or phone call and start afresh with your new account and your new user name.

I wish you all the best.
thank u for ur kind reply bt i must disagree with u i dont ask contacts for to find huband here ok.infact i dont need any man for now because i need to heal.Write me ur number so we discis and NOT for any relationship bt abkut my ex husbnad there is more details i want to tel u
Romance / Re: My Husband Divorced Me And Married Other After 4 Months From Our Divorce by Strongsoul: 7:03pm On Jun 02, 2019
garyaustin:
You did not update his papers which you probably promised to do and he simply took it as an act of wickedness for you not to do the needful and let him fend for you two. 2 He is probably a proud Igbo man that would love to work and provide for you his love instead of the other way ( you being the bread winner) The last straw is aborting his Baby!!!!!!! My two cents tho
can i get ur contact?
Romance / Re: My Husband Divorced Me And Married Other After 4 Months From Our Divorce by Strongsoul: 2:50pm On Jun 02, 2019
Masterppower:


Because you're a white witch
lol why?
Romance / Re: My Husband Divorced Me And Married Other After 4 Months From Our Divorce by Strongsoul: 2:41pm On Jun 02, 2019
PrinceCharmings:
isn't it obvious? You are no longer useful to him anymore. I'm curious, what country are you from?
this means he never loved me
Romance / Re: My Husband Divorced Me And Married Other After 4 Months From Our Divorce by Strongsoul: 12:05pm On Jun 02, 2019
OTayobami:


Lolzz everybody is white on nairaland lolzzz
Anyways the line means he started dating another(the one he's with now) probably during his stay with you or before he met you and fronting means the whole fuss about disturbing you to get his papers done
your number pls
Romance / Re: My Husband Divorced Me And Married Other After 4 Months From Our Divorce by Strongsoul: 12:04pm On Jun 02, 2019
OTayobami:


You let me have yours
write me in inbox
Romance / Re: My Husband Divorced Me And Married Other After 4 Months From Our Divorce by Strongsoul: 12:00pm On Jun 02, 2019
internationalman:
In other words your husband just married her side chick while he was married to you
can i get ur contact?
Romance / Re: My Husband Divorced Me And Married Other After 4 Months From Our Divorce by Strongsoul: 11:59am On Jun 02, 2019
OTayobami:


Are you not a Nigerian? cheesy abi iru wahala wo leleyi
give me ur number
Romance / Re: My Husband Divorced Me And Married Other After 4 Months From Our Divorce by Strongsoul: 11:57am On Jun 02, 2019
OTayobami:


Are you not a Nigerian? cheesy abi iru wahala wo leleyi
i am white not nigerian
Romance / Re: My Husband Divorced Me And Married Other After 4 Months From Our Divorce by Strongsoul: 11:55am On Jun 02, 2019
donbachi:
Wicked woman...u aborted ur child with him and he aborted ur marriage with him.and you are complaining...he married her late..he should have married her on her head then throw u away...who cares if he had married a woman 50yrs older than him...witch.
looool me witch??
Romance / Re: My Husband Divorced Me And Married Other After 4 Months From Our Divorce by Strongsoul: 11:51am On Jun 02, 2019
OTayobami:


Lol na sharp guy, that was why he was fronting for you now, him don get another strong line probably during his stay with you, that's every lazy Nigerian guy's wish grin cheesy so just forget and move on, he is to be blamed tho,
what do u mean strong line? And fronting for me?
Romance / Re: My Husband Divorced Me And Married Other After 4 Months From Our Divorce by Strongsoul: 11:47am On Jun 02, 2019
JasonScoolari:
Do you have any problem with that?
it seems like all was planed since..
Romance / Re: My Husband Divorced Me And Married Other After 4 Months From Our Divorce by Strongsoul: 11:44am On Jun 02, 2019
JasonScoolari:
Be a "StrongSoul" and move on.
why did he mary that woman so fast?
Romance / My Husband Divorced Me And Married Other After 4 Months From Our Divorce by Strongsoul: 11:41am On Jun 02, 2019
Helo all.I been with my Nigerian ex husband for 3 years in my country in Europe.He was here ilegaly he didnt work.I wqs providing for everything.He never apreciated anything i did for him.He wil tel me.i did nothing for him coz i didnt buy him car or apartment.Also he was always pushing me to fix his documents which i couldnt do.Not that i didnt want.At the end i got pregnant and he was treating me that if i dont fix his documents he wil leave me and child and go back.to Nigeria.After that treating i removed his child.He was very angry and then he divorced me went back to Nigeria and married woman that is 30 years older then him.She came from US to mary him...And also he blocked me.Is there anything i did wrong or should I blame him?And how could he mary that.woman so fast?
Romance / My Ex Husband Left Me For Much Older Woman For Documents by Strongsoul: 1:24pm On May 19, 2019
Hello everyone.I been with my ex husbamd for 2 years in mariage.I am white he is Nigerian.I never felt that he realy loves me.I did all for him i payed bils rent food.He was in my country Ilegaly.He was always selfish n only thinking about himself bt if i have any problem he wont be there for me.He was expecting me to fix his documents but i couldnt.At end i removed his child and after that he left me because he thought i can delivery baby in Germany and get him documents but i couldnt.He left to his country now and is waiting for woman from US that is 30 years older then him to come mary him.He stil chats me up n tels me he loves me.He told me he is with that woman coz of interes bt that i should move on..Pls people what should i do and what should i think of him?
Romance / Re: My Ex Husband Left Me For Rich And Old Woman by Strongsoul: 7:53am On May 12, 2019
famouscargo4u:


I know this may hurt you but you have to just let it go.
give me ur number pls
Romance / Re: My Ex Husband Left Me For Rich And Old Woman by Strongsoul: 6:11pm On May 11, 2019
richidinho:
get a visa and come down here, you will be amazed the kind of good men you will meet here

Nigerians are great and caring men but the ones you meet out there are the frustrated ones from very poor homes
can i get ur number?
Romance / Re: My Ex Husband Left Me For Rich And Old Woman by Strongsoul: 5:43pm On May 11, 2019
lilwetdick:


sorry i am not a nigga and i have no pity for women like her.

Na me send am to move in with an illegal.
hahaaahhahab
Romance / Re: My Ex Husband Left Me For Rich And Old Woman by Strongsoul: 5:17pm On May 11, 2019
tyup:


Ma'm it's just quite unfortunate you happen to be a victim of the few bad & irresponsible Nigerians in diaspora but i'll just advice you move on & dont fight it

Just stay happy and strong you deserve to be happy just dont accept him back when he comes begging it might be very dangerous for you

OR

You can report to the nearest security outpost if he's still illegal so he can be deported as quick as possible

just pick ur choice to do. besides what's ur Nationality?
i need ur number
Romance / Re: My Ex Husband Left Me For Rich And Old Woman by Strongsoul: 5:05pm On May 11, 2019
tyup:






You guys are all stupid and very senseless......if you cant just console the heartbroken woman why not just read and ignore

2mrw you guys would be here ranting & blaming the government of whatsoever What a bunch of egregiously debauched feeble-
minded derelicts pussies

#Spits angry
so what is ur advice for me?
Romance / Re: My Ex Husband Left Me For Rich And Old Woman by Strongsoul: 4:51pm On May 11, 2019
donbachi:
Madam 4give and move on...he was only a snake in a green grass with a green passport looking for a greener pasture.
so who is guilty?
Romance / Re: My Ex Husband Left Me For Rich And Old Woman by Strongsoul: 4:51pm On May 11, 2019
bogdaddy:
Are you an American lady?
no
Romance / Re: My Ex Husband Left Me For Rich And Old Woman by Strongsoul: 4:41pm On May 11, 2019
lilwetdick:
So this one has move on since all these days.

who
Romance / My Ex Husband Left Me For Rich And Old Woman by Strongsoul: 4:28pm On May 11, 2019
Helo everyone.I been with my ex husband for 3 years.He is 33 years old.He was living in my country.He is Nigerian i am white.He was ilegaly here.I was d one to provide for food rent and all...He was always ungrateful and always talking how i should fix his documents..I promised him that i can but at end i couldnt.My family didnt suport him coz they always thought he is using me.At the end when he realised he cant move forward with me he divorced me and left me to 58 years old woman with green card and money.He told me to my face i have nothing to offer him...What should i think now and how should i feel?Who is to be blamed?
Romance / Re: My Ex Husband Finaly Admited To me he is dating 30 years older Woman by Strongsoul: 2:36pm On May 09, 2019
molybdenum0012:



Hello strongsoul, have been offline for a while died to my busy schedule. Send me whatAssap message here: 09032369185
wrire me your number with Nigerian caling code together
Romance / Re: My Ex Husband Finaly Admited To me he is dating 30 years older Woman by Strongsoul: 9:13pm On May 01, 2019
molybdenum0012:
Strongsoul, I understand your pain. The truth is many Nigerians here are facing serious economic problem here and desperate to get out of the country at any cost.

Your ex only needed someone that would give him a green card and you did not come through for him that is why he left you. He might even have a family back here in Lagos. Give me ur nunber


I suggest you try single Nigerian guys, you may be fortunate.

If you don't mind pm, let be friends first.
Romance / Re: My Ex Husband Finaly Admited To me he is dating 30 years older Woman by Strongsoul: 9:12pm On May 01, 2019
molybdenum0012:
Strongsoul, I understand your pain. The truth is many Nigerians here are facing serious economic problem here and desperate to get out of the country at any cost.

Your ex only needed someone that would give him a green card and you did not come through for him that is why he left you. He might even have a family back here in Lagos. Hi write me ur number


I suggest you try single Nigerian guys, you may be fortunate.

If you don't mind pm, let be friends first.
Romance / Re: My Ex Husband Finaly Admited To me he is dating 30 years older Woman by Strongsoul: 11:23am On May 01, 2019
bigpicture001:


I am.nobody of secial interest ..if you go ack to you pevious thread b4 this..you wil see my warnings...I know how Nigerians bhve more than any other person
so tel me in details
Romance / Re: My Ex Husband Finaly Admited To me he is dating 30 years older Woman by Strongsoul: 2:30pm On Apr 30, 2019
bigpicture001:

I REMEMBER TELLING YOU THEN..HE WAS FAKE
when and who are you?
Romance / Re: My Ex Husband Finaly Admited To me he is dating 30 years older Woman by Strongsoul: 2:29pm On Apr 30, 2019
molybdenum0012:
Strongsoul, I understand your pain. The truth is many Nigerians here are facing serious economic problem here and desperate to get out of the country at any cost.

Your ex only needed someone that would give him a green card and you did not come through for him that is why he left you. He might even have a family back here in Lagos.what is your number?


I suggest you try single Nigerian guys, you may be fortunate.

If you don't mind pm, let be friends first.
Romance / Re: My Ex Husband Finaly Admited To me he is dating 30 years older Woman by Strongsoul: 6:28am On Apr 25, 2019
rex444:
chances are that he loved d first and if only she helped a bit ....if it's you then you could have just helped a bit and see what's next ...
i dont understand?
Romance / Re: My Ex Husband Finaly Admited To me he is dating 30 years older Woman by Strongsoul: 9:48pm On Apr 24, 2019
molybdenum0012:
Strongsoul, I understand your pain. The truth is many Nigerians here are facing serious economic problem here and desperate to get out of the country at any cost.

Your ex only needed someone that would give him a green card and you did not come through for him that is why he left you. He might even have a family back here in Lagos. Pm me


I suggest you try single Nigerian guys, you may be fortunate.

If you don't mind pm, let be friends first.

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