Romance › Re: If You Don’t Bleep Her On First Visit? by Strugglingman: 10:53am On Dec 23, 2021 |
Johndagr8t: but your mum come and even came again!!! fuu  |
Family › Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Strugglingman: 10:51am On Dec 23, 2021 |
Bros no need to tussle ..the baby isnt yours Buh ..whot if its yours  ? And so... |
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Investment › Re: Thread For Christmas Gifts by Strugglingman: 10:43am On Dec 23, 2021 |
Haakeem: I don't have the liver to drop my acct number....before i would be tagged as online almagiris again. Drop na ..u might be surprised |
Investment › Re: Thread For Christmas Gifts by Strugglingman: 10:41am On Dec 23, 2021 |
Utanisco: nairaland is a family of great people we have people here who are able and who arent. since january till now God has been so faithful to all the nairalanders here irrespective of the bad situation in the economy of the state
christmas is a period of celebration please if you re able you can as well stretch hands to help the unable
you need thier prayers as well
thier account number is important to you there is nothing that is small
a little can save somebody in this christmas
God bless you all
please do well to drop your account number
3150608539 firstbank daniel michael Bambiala |
Family › Re: 3 Questions To Ask Your Partner by Strugglingman: 10:39am On Dec 23, 2021 |
Cousin9999: 1. Can you tell from my behavior that you’re important to me?
When relationships run on autopilot, everyone feels taken for granted, if not invisible or unheard. That’s mostly because the brain stops consciously processing familiarity. It tunes out familiar sounds, in a kind of white noise effect. (“You never listen to me!”) We notice change, and the change we’re most likely to notice is negative. We’re more likely to focus on—and recall—partners leaving crumbs on the counter than the fact that they add meaning and purpose to our lives.
Unless we intentionally show our partners that they’re important to us, normal brain functioning will suggest the opposite. So the likely answer to this question is "no,” which opens a dialogue on how partners can better show each other how important they are.
2. Do you feel that I support and respect you when we disagree?
One surprising finding when happy couples are compared to unhappy couples is that the former sometimes have more arguments and disagreements than the latter. It’s not that arguing makes us happy, it’s that the arguments of happy partners are mostly respectful and seldom devaluing. They attempt to persuade, rather than to coerce through withdrawal of affection or worse. They can express disagreements because, as is rarely the case in unhappy couples, it’s safe to disagree.
So the likely answer to this question is “no,” which opens up a dialogue on how partners can maintain value and respect for one another when they disagree. The secret lies in arguing to learn, rather than arguing to win.
In arguing to win, partners regard each other as opponents and undermine or attack each other’s perspective. In arguing to learn, they regard each other as partners, are genuinely interested in each other’s thoughts. They add information to—but don’t try to undermine—each other’s perspective.
3. Do you think our kids know that we use discipline not to punish them but to help them be successful in the future?
Parenting disputes are inevitable; partners have different families of origin, historical experiences, and usually different temperaments. Typically, one parent is more rule-oriented, focused on behavior and achievements of the children, while the other is more nurturing, focused on the emotional and physical needs of the children. Children need both parenting styles, but parents often become more extreme in reaction to each other. They overcompensate for what they see as a partner's “coddling” or “regimenting,” with children caught in the middle.
So the likely answer to this question is “no,” which opens up a dialogue on how to guide behavior and set limits for children in ways that show respect and caring, with a focus on future correction rather than on past mistakes.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/anger-in-the-age-entitlement/202112/3-questions-ask-your-partner unnecessary |
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Politics › Re: Dcp Abba Kyari Looking Fresh As He Visit Mom In Maiduguri(photos) by Strugglingman: 10:38am On Dec 23, 2021 |
NwaAmaikpe:

Something is not right.
Is it that the tailor misappropriated Abba Kyari's material and sewed an undersized garment for him,
Or that
Abba Kyari wrongly delivered his own native to a different customer and ended up wearing the customer's smaller own.
From Abba's saga, I have come to understand that running escrow services entails the utmost attention to details otherwise it will mess you up big time. i guess thats how he likes his clothes |
Politics › Re: Dcp Abba Kyari Looking Fresh As He Visit Mom In Maiduguri(photos) by Strugglingman: 10:37am On Dec 23, 2021 |
Joysticks: He is still receiving salaries despite he is on suspension.Or he is spending his loot. whot loot ? |
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Chelsea Fan Thread: Club World Cup Champions 2025-2029 by Strugglingman: 10:29am On Dec 23, 2021 |
Ebukacute: Who cares, even as poor ass Norwich is ,they do have their own player of the year. I mean If you gather 11 olodos in a class, *one olodo must take first* .. No? na so |
TV/Movies › Re: Power TV Series Fan Thread: STARZ by Strugglingman: 7:27pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Gr8lex: Did you watch where Tariq was talking about Jabari only using black characters in his novel meaning the drug dealer he was writing about is black. And how in Gods name does this exonerate braydon weston   ? |
TV/Movies › Re: Power TV Series Fan Thread: STARZ by Strugglingman: 4:04pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Frankiss44: Ghost won't even be stupid to give away so much.. Teriq is just a corner boy, a baby in the game..
Ghost would have tried to pay him off, or use Tommy to do the dirty job� This is not a comparison between tariq and ghost , tariq is still a baby in the biz and has a whole lot to learn Lets say we go by ur ideology ... You think tariq has enough money to pay of the professor?? Whot makes u so sure the professor would even had accepted money I feel tariq did whot was best at that point .... And mind u this would never have blown up on him if brayden wasnt as stupid as he is ... And lest i forget ....why wasnt the weston boy taken for interrogation? Why was only tariq taken ?? Sheyb they both occupied that apartment ?? Why is only tariq the suspect ?? |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Chelsea Fan Thread: Club World Cup Champions 2025-2029 by Strugglingman: 3:55pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Pulisic as a false 9 is a no no
He performs better on the wings |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Chelsea Fan Thread: Club World Cup Champions 2025-2029 by Strugglingman: 3:52pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
You guys complain too much
Even TT is confuse...players dnt onow whot formation dey are playing ...neither do i |
TV/Movies › Re: Power TV Series Fan Thread: STARZ by Strugglingman: 1:58pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
jumper524: Terrick was never gonna go away freely. His dad only killed people who are bad and needed to die. Terrick shot an innocent prof dead. The professor knew too much, he was only right for him to be eliminated Im sure ghost would have done same |
TV/Movies › Re: Power TV Series Fan Thread: STARZ by Strugglingman: 1:56pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
GentlemanAyo: That is how it is for most series. I would say Power series are faster to return because some series wait till the end of January to return and they go on break as fast as early December. Whots the essence for the break   |
TV/Movies › Re: Power TV Series Fan Thread: STARZ by Strugglingman: 1:55pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
iamoyindamola: Good please do Their show their rules Yea ..true Buh i never asked for ur opinion nigga |
TV/Movies › Re: Power TV Series Fan Thread: STARZ by Strugglingman: 1:53pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
veekid: That letter shoulda been read in ghost's voice. So sweet my thoughts exactly |
TV/Movies › Re: Power TV Series Fan Thread: STARZ by Strugglingman: 1:52pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
mj245: I love the way the professor played Lauren  that bitch has wool for brains |
TV/Movies › Re: What Series Are You Watching Now? Part 2 by Strugglingman: 1:49pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
mj245: " I know this where you'll end up lil nigga , where you belong" james st patrick is a foool ... Chai  |
TV/Movies › Re: Power TV Series Fan Thread: STARZ by Strugglingman: 8:08am On Dec 19, 2021 |
Payporte: there will be no new episode next week. There are going on their mid season break. Episode 6 is next year jan9 but why  They are fond of doing this , i dnt like it at all This is the reason i love netflix ,no unnecessary drama ...they release everything once Amma boycott all others soon ..and stick with jst netflix |
TV/Movies › Re: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by Strugglingman: 6:56am On Dec 17, 2021 |
durubennie: Spiderman no way home 8.5/10 Tom Hollands spiderman so indecisive and quite a talkative. Green goblin nearly killed Tobey Maguire after Tobey held peter from stabbing the goblin to death. But it had a sad ending though, since doctor strange couldn't reverse the error spell he casted, he had to cast a new one and everyone in the world has forgotten who peter parker is including mj. Now mj's new boyfriend is Ned. Nice movie though. this kind comrade na wa for u oh |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Manchester United Fan Thread:''20 Times EPL Champion by Strugglingman: 1:06pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Expert17: Neymar is always injured around February.
Advantage United  angel di maria will be available ....di maria is more deadly than neymar trust me |
TV/Movies › Re: Power TV Series Fan Thread: STARZ by Strugglingman: 7:42am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Ibunkun1: .
How do you think Zeke should have responded to the journalist's question about Ramirez? In all I don't blame Zeke on that interview though, you can't be smarter than your training. Tariq is like this because he has been trained to lie all his life  well i felt he made his biggest mistake by telling the interviewer that he doesnt know who Ramirez was ... |
TV/Movies › Re: Power TV Series Fan Thread: STARZ by Strugglingman: 7:38am On Dec 13, 2021 |
olabolaji: Makes a lot of sense right now, been thinking why a mother would love her nephew more than her own kids  yea...im even guessing kane aint her son |
TV/Movies › Re: Power TV Series Fan Thread: STARZ by Strugglingman: 7:37am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Subomi007: Zeke is soft. The dude is too soft for any issues that's happening to him. "this is some fvcked up shit "  |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Chelsea Fan Thread: Club World Cup Champions 2025-2029 by Strugglingman: 4:33pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
amodu: It is well.
How I wish our present crops of attackers are reliable as Drogba.
The trio of Joshua King, Ismaila Sarr and Emmanuel Dennis have scored 17 goals for Watford in the league this season.
I am actually perturbed at our attackers impotence. bro in summary ...we dnt have an attack |
Sports › Re: "The Super Eagles Thread: The Road To AFCON 2027, 2028 And 2030 World Cup by Strugglingman: 4:24pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
Englandboy: I saw that also dai don bribe that coach to bench awoniyi, so that he will not score why do Nigerians have this kind of mentality  |
TV/Movies › Re: Power TV Series Fan Thread: STARZ by Strugglingman: 12:55pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
veekid: Brayden is dumber than I thought
Cane is even more dumb zeke ,another dummie also |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Chelsea Fan Thread: Club World Cup Champions 2025-2029 by Strugglingman: 3:31pm On Dec 11, 2021 |
iamoyindamola: You see that var, it will soon cause serious fight but it wasnt VAR that awarded the penalty sir |
Health › Re: Doctor in the House: Free Medical Advice Available by Strugglingman: 11:15am On Dec 06, 2021 |
Davicl: Doctors in the house pls is it even possible to cure ulcer, have been taking all sorts of stuff now for over 3yrs yet no improvement, pls i really need help. well sir, theres no terminal cure for ulcer ...atleast none that ive seen If u take ur medications regularly and adhere to the DONTs ,ur chances of having an attack will reduce |